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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people express an interest and then stop talking to you?

And No you have not asked them to meet that day. You havnt said anything suggestive. You have asked about what they are interested in. You treat them like a person.

Do what the he'll do you people want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll depend on your interactions if someone says things that don't sit well with us we stop

But other times it can just be that you get busy with real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It'll depend on your interactions if someone says things that don't sit well with us we stop

But other times it can just be that you get busy with real life"
real life I understand but then the just delete you no reason. And no I am not graphic. I like talking to ptople to get an idea of likes dislikes.om I understand if you change your mind. But why just blank me? Just say you changed your mind And why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I do not go outside a person's interest on their profile either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll depend on your interactions if someone says things that don't sit well with us we stop

But other times it can just be that you get busy with real lifereal life I understand but then the just delete you no reason. And no I am not graphic. I like talking to ptople to get an idea of likes dislikes.om I understand if you change your mind. But why just blank me? Just say you changed your mind And why?"

Some people's likes and dislikes can mean they're not for you but you'd hope they say something though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My point I won't demand to meet right away. I stay on topic ask about the people i am chatting to. I do try to engage with who I chat to nor am I pushy. So why the sudden stop in communication? Grrr so frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the more you open up to a person the less appealing they become. They may not be all that glitters like when the initial chat started... Just like in the real world, some people you are drawn too but the chemistry isn't there.

Don't sweat it, you ain't always gonna be someone's cuppa tea! Just forget and move on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat is how you decide whether to meet someone or not, so obviously they have decided they don't want to meet you. This could be for loads of reasons. Distance, don't fancy you, too many other offers, not enough free time, they don't often meet ect..ect.

Unfortunately it can be easier to block and defeat as some people don't like rejection and question it or can be abusive.

So just move on to next profile OP XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose '' Fickle '' is the word you are looking for

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It'll depend on your interactions if someone says things that don't sit well with us we stop

But other times it can just be that you get busy with real lifereal life I understand but then the just delete you no reason. And no I am not graphic. I like talking to ptople to get an idea of likes dislikes.om I understand if you change your mind. But why just blank me? Just say you changed your mind And why?"

There's always a reason. It could be anything from its a guy pretending to be a woman, it's a woman chatting and her partner vetoes a meet to you wrote something that put them off. Some find it easier to just block than face queries as to why they've lost interest. Sorry I've changed my mind isn't often accepted without a request to know why and the real reason often offends.

We've only had one guy who was completely accepting without asking for reasons when we told him we'd had a change of heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we have lots of messages coming in a blank profile pic gets lost in the chaff if you don't want to put a pic of yourself up put something else even a tree would be more identifiable

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It could be that the more you chat,they decide you wouldnt click etc.When i had my single profile ,sometimes I stopped conversation if i found we werent gelling or i didn't feel i would get on so well face to face.

Miss

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