FabSwingers.com forum: Jelousy in clubs..?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

Hm I may not get this being single but I thought the whole point of clubs is to have a choice. If one couple doesn't float your boat, move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

Hm I may not get this being single but I thought the whole point of clubs is to have a choice. If one couple doesn't float your boat, move on."

We have moved on but no longer go to clubs at the moment as we find these swingers clubs all shag 'there own partners' every weekend and not swing!

found this to be for 2 months now!

We spoke to may cpls who have said there not what they used to be yrs ago there more for folks having a few drinks and just a social but then you get the drifters 'who have to shag by a certain time' or they feel they haven't had a good nite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen loads of couples fall out in clubs for verious reasons, be it one had played more than the other and that had caused probems, saw one guy having a go at his mrs because she was talking to a guy while he was at the loo

had a couple of women have a go at me because their fellas had made a move on me, like im supposed to know their 'rules' or sit and inverview every guy who touches me

Jelousy goes on a lot in clubs, im sure anyone who attends clubs regular must have seen it in on form or another

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

Hm I may not get this being single but I thought the whole point of clubs is to have a choice. If one couple doesn't float your boat, move on.

We have moved on but no longer go to clubs at the moment as we find these swingers clubs all shag 'there own partners' every weekend and not swing!

found this to be for 2 months now!

You've probably got a point, but I hardly ever play with couples in a club as they tend to want to play with other couples.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

Sadly it happens all the time,luckily i go to a club with a good bunch of regulars who try to talk to the women in this situation.Nothing works like an intervention of geordie women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i walk in a club, heads turn and they say "fuck!, theres that wee hunky paddy"...I dont mind the attention really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww paddy how can we resist lol xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I prefer Friday nights open to singles more choice and variety I find Saturdays very clicky. I like to go and play and have a good night. Not sit around chatting all night if I want to do that I go to the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"aww paddy how can we resist lol xxxxxxxx"

lol well just let me be d*unk...i wanna remember ur resistance lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been to a club once and I found a couple of the ladies there almost hostile until I explained that it was my first time at a club and I had really just come to see what the craic was. It turned out that both couples had just started swinging and I got the distinct impression that the ladies were much less keen than their partners. Clinging to their arms as if I was about to rip their menfolk from their grasp and shag then senseless there and then!

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By *umgetus69Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

seen a guy punch and brake other guys nose in a club... will not say which club ........plus as some other people have said we found the clubs very clicky ..so perfer to meet in a pub or hotel now and 9 times out of 10 works just fine... or maybe it,s just us

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

we have seen a few couples argue, not enough communication in my opinion. We saw one couple argue cos the woman was really enjoying herself ! crazy eh ? thought that was the whole point !

With us, we know that if neither of us is comfy then we tell each other and if i want to play with some guys then it is me that chooses who i want and the same the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy and swinging just do not mix nor does alcohol and swinging I have seen in clubs where the wife is so d*unk she can barely stand up not good. And when alcohol is involved this is when the arguments tend to start.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

We once went to a party and J got a bit too tipsy! I took her outside for a walk till she was ok. I would not allow any play if I thought she was not in control.

Got to admit It makes me smile when I see a jealous row in a club!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. What happened to talking about things lol. We chat, and if both of us like the couple or single we're all cool

Jealosy can be rife in any environment. Makes it easier that we met swinging so we both knew the score... Saves any stress and worry as long as you both are on the same page!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealousy and swinging just do not mix nor does alcohol and swinging I have seen in clubs where the wife is so d*unk she can barely stand up not good. And when alcohol is involved this is when the arguments tend to start."

do u have her number?? just askin...

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

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"The man controlls the woman"??? cant believe ive just read that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does happen. Ended up swapping with a couple where he kept trying to dirrct not only her, but also both of us. Time for a sharp exit... Lol

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

"The man controlls the woman"??? cant believe ive just read that!!!"

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We don't do jelous and love to play in clubs

Though quite offten were left playing by ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agr

"The man controlls the woman"??? cant believe ive just read that!!!"

Well I dont do it because I have too... I do it because I enjoy it but I will always look to Master before carrying on... Its just how we are...

I would play with anyone I was asked too.. but would also enjoy it too.

Jealousy is not all bad either..

only the distructive type. I get jealous when I know Master has kissed and fucked someone.. and I can not wait to reclaim my man..

Master is the same.. I will often look at him as I tease and kiss a play partner, knowing it is pulling at his jealous side..and knowing that once we are alone I will get a very good time..

Cali

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Couldnt agree more, we go regulaly to a swingers club and the only time we see ppl argue etc, is when too much alcahol is involved. As to the ops comment, we play at clubs with others, but then if it only ends up a social evening thats a great night too. Dont like pubs they boar the shit out of me as i like music and like to dance. Made great great friends at our club and as you get to know them more, the fun gets better.

But deffinatly alcahol and swinging dont go together and we avoid these type of ppl now, as had too many shit nights with couples who drink too much before swinging

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have seen the odd bit of jealousy at clubs, guess its going to happen really.

you see someone you ant to play with but they are playing with someone else.

or you are there with your partner and they are into it more than you etc

for me, cant be doing with faffing and jealousy, we are all there for fun, the minute you start getting jealous or trying to control things too much the fun goes out the window!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess thats the upside of being single you have noone to worry about but yourself

Makes life much easier in this scene

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By *reasured heARTSCouple
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

swings and roundabouts...only once in 30+ years came across blatent jealousy of that type ...more than once came across people who were jealous of our outfits and were bitchy because they couldn't be bothered of dressing sexy with there shell suits or fleeces up to their chins. As for not pulling it happens from time to time but usually thats up to you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

I have seen jealosy in clubs... but it only tends to be in those couples that haven't discussed their limits before they get to the club....

also just out of interest re "What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman." why would you only want to talk to one half of a couple anyway.... as a single I would expect to speak to both people, so why would it be different for a couple....just curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" swings and roundabouts...only once in 30+ years came across blatent jealousy of that type ...more than once came across people who were jealous of our outfits and were bitchy because they couldn't be bothered of dressing sexy with there shell suits or fleeces up to their chins. As for not pulling it happens from time to time but usually thats up to you "

There are swingers cubs that ket peoplei in in hellsuits or fleeces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

You get it in all walks o life so its to be expected in clubs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are swingers cubs that ket peoplei in in hellsuits or fleeces?

Be quite hot for them wouldnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't just get it in clubs, we've also seen it at house parties. It's often from women too, they have one drink too many and then develop a chip on their shoulder.

They turn up with their husband and usually another couple and rather than playing, end up getting d*unk and making jealousy fueled snide comments about other people until their husbands make an excuse/apology and take them home.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

There are swingers cubs that ket peoplei in in hellsuits or fleeces?

YES!...there are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't just get it in clubs, we've also seen it at house parties. It's often from women too, they have one drink too many and then develop a chip on their shoulder.

XXXX"

and private meets

i remember years ago when i was with the ex we met a couple off another site and invited them back to our, during play they left the room and had a massive bust up in the bathroom, took me ages to get them out, when they did come out they just walked past us, got dressed and left, enver said a word, no explination, nothing

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"You don't just get it in clubs, we've also seen it at house parties. It's often from women too, they have one drink too many and then develop a chip on their shoulder.

XXXX

and private meets

that just has to be the nightmare you hope never happens doesn't it... OMG

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Jealousy, occurs on The Scene, both at clubs, and behind doors at home.

Basically if you do Jealousy, you shouldn't really do The Scene.

Normally the way to avoid this apart from having a robust and mature disposition towards The Scene in the first place, is to discuss your rules and limits, and make sure its adhered to, and you both feel everything is equal for you, generally the problems occur when someone steps outside of this, sometimes in the heat of the moment, sometimes because another party tries to break those rules for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes it go on all the time .... but i dont care as i am there for a good time and not going to let them get at me .. if i come across it i smile and think its there hang-ups on myn ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great points on here and appreciated.

Our first meet with an experienced couple was ruined by their jealousy and his sudden attempt at wanting to meet him on our own.

I (male) thankfully kept it together and swerved it not to ruin my ladies night.

It ruined it for me but i didn,t address it till we left for fear of it stopping our interest after one meet !!

Great thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree or disagree!

Do any of you think that Jelousy goes on in these clubs?

What i mean is that perhaps some cpls want to approach i.e the lady but the man controls the woman.

Or find that your the only cpl who hasn't talked to other's?

Well didn't anticipate on this many comments?

when we go to clubs on saturday nights been a cpls night only,we do talk to alot of cpl but who have now become friends which is great dont get me wrong.

But what i still cant understand is that there are many cpl's in clubs on a saturday night sitting at the bar waiting for you to approach them.

Why shoulkd we keep chasing and doing all the work..we've never expreinced another cpl just out the blue to approach us and have a nice chat its always friends..or just a quick nod of the head when u either passing one another lol!

Has anyone else experienced this or are we just odd balls?

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"I've seen loads of couples fall out in clubs for verious reasons, be it one had played more than the other and that had caused probems, saw one guy having a go at his mrs because she was talking to a guy while he was at the loo

had a couple of women have a go at me because their fellas had made a move on me, like im supposed to know their 'rules' or sit and inverview every guy who touches me

Jelousy goes on a lot in clubs, im sure anyone

who attends clubs regular must have seen it in

on form or another

lol NN you don't half get yourself in trouble if it's not chatting up married men it's taking FB's to clubs and not declaring it!

I think you should give it up as a bad job before you get in to more trouble! lol

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