FabSwingers.com forum: Making contact

By *iguy47 OP Man
over a year ago

Larne

I know everyone has their preferences but I get very frustrated at the low level of replies to messages, and low level of first messages from others. Any suggestions, opinions, assistance gratefully appreciated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Put some pictures up, very few people will respond to a profile with none and even fewer will send a first message.

Otherwise attend organised socials or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile we never reply to guys without pics, and going to clubs and meeting people even if you don't play with them is great advice as your swinging circle gets bigger

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By *iguy47 OP Man
over a year ago

Larne

Thanks for advice

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Have pictures up and read the profile.

Some just don't reply it happens to us all.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP, put yourself in the position of a woman for a moment....

You get 50 messages. Some are from cock pic avatar guys, some are from default avatar guys, some are from guys who definitely did NOT read your profile, one is from a grumpy looking man and one is from a smiling, friendly looking chap.

Which ones would you reply to???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was I the grumpy one again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know everyone has their preferences but I get very frustrated at the low level of replies to messages, and low level of first messages from others. Any suggestions, opinions, assistance gratefully appreciated."

Just read your profile. Are you serious? You don't send pictures til after a meet? That's your right, but why do you think a women might pursue a man when she hasn't a clue what he looks like. It's easier surely to pursue a man with pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, put yourself in the position of a woman for a moment....

Which ones would you reply to???

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erm . The cock pic one ? Did I win ?

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