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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys & girls.

Just wanted to see what response I got from asking this question.

Before ppl start shouting " Personal Preference" I understand that, however it still makes me wonder why.

On quite a few, men & womens profiles, they don't show any verifications!!

I understand not everyone shows all their veri's, I myself tend to chop and change now and then.

But why, if you are verified would people choose not to show any?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Discretion."

Discretion, in what way?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not needing everyone to know who you play with discretion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no-ones business who I have been with, the verification system isnt important to me but some people have choosen to verify me without asking.

Do verifications matter that much to you OP?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

some peple dont want who theyve met to be public knowledge ,keep their private life exactly that ,private ! can cause jealously and alot of "why did you meet them and not me ?" .also stops people mailing others using "your " name as a type of reference to get talking to you to get a meet .

but main reason is just as yo say purely the inderviduals choice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list"

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its no-ones business who I have been with, the verification system isnt important to me but some people have choosen to verify me without asking.

Do verifications matter that much to you OP?"

Not at all, I've met some and we decided not to veri, no reason just didn't see a need.

But would you think they may be faking a veri?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?"

So what do you think people are hiding?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some peple dont want who theyve met to be public knowledge ,keep their private life exactly that ,private ! can cause jealously and alot of "why did you meet them and not me ?" .also stops people mailing others using "your " name as a type of reference to get talking to you to get a meet .

but main reason is just as yo say purely the inderviduals choice x"

Excellent response thank you, I never thought of that. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?

So what do you think people are hiding?"

It kinda makes me think that they might be fake profiles, as it just seems strange to me. That with all the timewaster on here, people would want to show they are genuine.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 11/08/11 15:39:00]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?

So what do you think people are hiding?"

I haven't added couples to this list as I don't meet them, but first thing I would think was " is it a male just pic collecting" if I did.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?

So what do you think people are hiding?

It kinda makes me think that they might be fake profiles, as it just seems strange to me. That with all the timewaster on here, people would want to show they are genuine."

I think your logic is flawed to be honest. Even people who show their verifications could have fake ones.

People have ways of letting people know they are genuine without the need to use veri's, a lot of people don't use them as a sole way to prove someone is genuine.

Best thing to do then is avoid the people who hide their veri's

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

only one persons judgement you can relie on and that is your own .

i have my own ways of sussing out ppl and other people will have theirs .so just find what suits you and what you are comfortable with ,be it a phone call,cam chat ect ect for you to be happy that person/cpl is what they say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so u dont see the hundreds of people theyve shagged - oh the shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it would be privacy. I don't think it's anyone's business how wet I get or how good I am at blow jobs! Each to their own, certainly doesn't mean people are fake

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

I dont see a problem with someones personal preference to reveal or keep private. It's none of anyone's business who plays with who, and if that what they want..good for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont see a problem with someones personal preference to reveal or keep private. It's none of anyone's business who plays with who, and if that what they want..good for them!"
totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the fact that I am verified makes me genuine not the content of the verifications? If i was going to have a fake verification it would be a positive one not a negative one and if I had a negative one I'd delete it surely?

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Some display them some dont, its your rules, stick with them, dont be bullied. We choose to show them and thats our choice. XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i show mine but just cos i am new - been here before, but new this time round lol. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still struggling to understand why people feel the need to question other people's preferences.

If I happen upon a profile I don't like, as my man Jay-Z says "on to the next one", absolutely don't see the need to disect, analyse and start threads...but that's just me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still struggling to understand why people feel the need to question other people's preferences.

If I happen upon a profile I don't like, as my man Jay-Z says "on to the next one", absolutely don't see the need to disect, analyse and start threads...but that's just me!"

Totally agree... Like the OP said before people start going on about choice thats what it boils down to... Choice...

Some people choose to show their veri's some dont and they do because they can and the site allows people to show them or hide them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same reason you have decided not to show your friends list

Not quite the same, I mean, just because I don't show that, wouldn't make people think I was hiding something would it?"

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Some may think that way.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I'm still struggling to understand why people feel the need to question other people's preferences.

If I happen upon a profile I don't like, as my man Jay-Z says "on to the next one", absolutely don't see the need to disect, analyse and start threads...but that's just me!

Totally agree... Like the OP said before people start going on about choice thats what it boils down to... Choice...

Some people choose to show their veri's some dont and they do because they can and the site allows people to show them or hide them xx"

And I think that if some of you had your way, this forum would be very boring! Can't ask about profile choice, can't ask a question asked before... If you don't like the thread, move on! Simple aint it?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'm still struggling to understand why people feel the need to question other people's preferences.

If I happen upon a profile I don't like, as my man Jay-Z says "on to the next one", absolutely don't see the need to disect, analyse and start threads...but that's just me!"

your mans jay-z !! you lucky lucky lady sassY . you do realise they will be ppl demanding you get a cpls profile now pmsl ! x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Because we choose not too...nosey beggar

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I hide my friends list and verifications. This in no way makes me, my profile or my verifications fake. I prefer to keep my meets and friends private and on the one occasion I did decide to display my verifications out of devilment I got so many negative comments I hid them all again so now maintain my original stance.

I have however chosen to show some friends my verifications by logging in and letting them read them from my profile, I have nothing to hide afterall and no one to answer too.

Must admit I do have one verification I would never show anyway...far to graphic, not me at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we choose not too...nosey beggar "

Hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hiding them all out of choice and find yourselves enjoying a mutual interest and eager to reassure who you are in contact with that you do genuinely meet others, theres nothing to stop you adding in a message, "i will ping up a few verifications from recent meets to show you i meet"then click them back off again.

Shows your genuine and just making the gesture endorses fact you are making the effort.

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