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Cannot Accommodate Cannot Travel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors. "

I find that less incomprehensible than the first two paragraphs of your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local pubs, Local outdoor and/or local hotel meets.

Self-explanatory really xx

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

They're married, skint and don't have a car.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats me!.. I won't travel or accommodate! My choice! I won't have guys at my home, ever! I have children!... I won't travel miles for sex, as there loads of guys I can meet local. Some guys make a night of it and book themselves into a hotel. Not everyone is a quickie type of guy after a rush a run meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're married, skint and don't have a car."

Or perhaps have poorly long term seriously ill children and need to stay in local vicinity incase of emergency phone calls.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

Mrs can not drive, so we put can't travel, can't accommodate we have kids x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats me!.. I won't travel or accommodate! My choice! I won't have guys at my home, ever! I have children!... I won't travel miles for sex, as there loads of guys I can meet local. Some guys make a night of it and book themselves into a hotel. Not everyone is a quickie type of guy after a rush a run meet!

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very well put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sensible explanations! My interpretation of 'travel' was just the opposite of accommodate; i.e. that you'd meet outside of your home, but it looks like many interpret that as going to another city. Maybe fab needs an option for 'Hotels only', 'Outdoor only', Your place only etc.

Silly me, so that's why so many 100's of miles away are contacting me, doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup that's my situation Hun,kids come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accomadate,Can't travel but have swingers club in interests so must be able to travel a certain distance

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Its how you interpret it...

Can't travel - local people only, only willing to go a distance of maybe 5 miles.

Can't accommodate - Don't expect a sleepover, I like my space and have a life outside of fab.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors. "

Basically

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" "

Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


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Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home? "

Define stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them. Sometimes boxes with 2 options don't allow people to explain?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?

Define stranger. "

I assume people know what I meant by stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors. "

Or hotels...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have cannot accommodate on mine.

I can, but only at times my children aren't here, and I'd never have a complete stranger in my home, a social meet first then maybe I'd invite them.

I just put 'cannot' as figured anything else could be explained if I was intrested in meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors.

Or hotels... "

Or don't want to meet.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"

Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?

Define stranger.

I assume people know what I meant by stranger."

Sort of. It's different for different people.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?

Define stranger.

I assume people know what I meant by stranger.

Sort of. It's different for different people. "

Very true and each to their own but people seem to expect to be accommodated. It's up to the individual's circumstances and views on it.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"

Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?

Define stranger.

I assume people know what I meant by stranger.

Sort of. It's different for different people.

Very true and each to their own but people seem to expect to be accommodated. It's up to the individual's circumstances and views on it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're married, skint and don't have a car.

Or perhaps have poorly long term seriously ill children and need to stay in local vicinity incase of emergency phone calls.

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I have to stay in my area because of my daughter with severe learning difficulties, she's not ill but I have to be available in case she is hurt or unwell and I need to fetch her home. I also don't host as I don't want to XXX

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors. "

Oh so by traveling they mean not local?. I was a bit unsure about that on a profile I saw recently too

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll not travel more than 10 miles and that's me being generous lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have cannot accommodate on mine.

I can, but only at times my children aren't here, and I'd never have a complete stranger in my home, a social meet first then maybe I'd invite them.

I just put 'cannot' as figured anything else could be explained if I was intrested in meeting someone "

This for us too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensible explanations! My interpretation of 'travel' was just the opposite of accommodate; i.e. that you'd meet outside of your home, but it looks like many interpret that as going to another city. Maybe fab needs an option for 'Hotels only', 'Outdoor only', Your place only etc.

Silly me, so that's why so many 100's of miles away are contacting me, doh "

I agree, more options are required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I *won't* accommodate - no way I'm letting anyone off here even know the town I live in.

I *won't* travel - because I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to stay local as i have to wear a tag until November

my curfew is 7pm until 7am

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Only a month since the last one of these threads.

For some it is a type of filter, some will see it and leave them alone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If they put this but don't qualify it, they are doing themselves no favours

They potentially won't show up in searches relevant to what they really do, if others look for their type of scenario.

Imo, if you leave your home for a meet, you are travelling - on foot, bicycle, train whatever.

If house bound but can't accom, then this description suits those who want to meet.

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