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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it such a turn on for some people? And im not offended by it, just dont really get it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any complaints of the women when i whisper in their ear in public what i'm gonna do to them when we're alone.

I think most like it tbh in my experience.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I've never had any complaints of the women when i whisper in their ear in public what i'm gonna do to them when we're alone.

I think most like it tbh in my experience. "

It depends on the type of Dirty talk OP. What syle of dirty talk are you on about the aformentioned or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had any complaints of the women when i whisper in their ear in public what i'm gonna do to them when we're alone.

I think most like it tbh in my experience. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love it! And luckily so does the Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. When it's done well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great part of the build up seductive sexy whispers by both is great

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

There's been a few ladies Ive spoke To in the past and a couple of current lones who love me describing what I'd do to them and how. Some seem to like very dirty and some just naughty but the results the same. Apparently I'm good at it and it has the desired effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be at the right time. Timing is everything...

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It has to be at the right time. Timing is everything..."

Definitely, only works when there in the right mood

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By *arried n hornryMan
over a year ago

kent

We love a dirty message send us loads please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had any complaints of the women when i whisper in their ear in public what i'm gonna do to them when we're alone.

I think most like it tbh in my experience. "

This is perfect, makes the woman feel sexy as fuck as well as wanting more

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We love talking dirty to each other, sometimes can't help it just comes natural even when it's just a normal message something dirty always gets thrown in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a liability at it, just end up making myself laugh and giggle, or get carried away and say something unbelievably rude which doesn't go down well.

I'll stick to quietly and confidently getting on with my job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love talking dirty to each other, sometimes can't help it just comes natural even when it's just a normal message something dirty always gets thrown in "

Best when it comes naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it such a turn on for some people? And im not offended by it, just dont really get it..."

It's the anticipation suppose abit like reading a book but it's more directed at you the reader ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had any complaints of the women when i whisper in their ear in public what i'm gonna do to them when we're alone.

I think most like it tbh in my experience. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that It is the concept of changing behaviour. In civvy street it would be fround upon to ask the person behind you to finger fuck your whore wifes ass. But when you are already on one it is a little turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it such a turn on for some people? And im not offended by it, just dont really get it..."

I'm more of an actions speak louder than words kinda girl. I'm not good with talking dirty on text or messaging just doesn't really float my boat x

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Why is it such a turn on for some people? And im not offended by it, just dont really get it...

I'm more of an actions speak louder than words kinda girl. I'm not good with talking dirty on text or messaging just doesn't really float my boat x"

Same here, I just like to get down to business, and just go with the flow x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends on the situation OP and using it at the right time.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Why is it such a turn on for some people? And im not offended by it, just dont really get it..."

For some people words can be a big turn on. Some people are very visual. They can read or hear the words and picture it happening.

Dirty talk can be a good build up to a meet. Getting the other person to describe what they would do them. For other poeple it would be a turn off as they don't want to know in advance what the other person is going to do to them.

Personally I find dirty talk, erotic stories, erotic emails etc a big turn on. I love it when a woman gets turned on by my words and imagination.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"We love a dirty message send us loads please"

I would do but you are not looking for single males lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a fab friend about this. Talking dirty to someone I've never met just bores me. All that "I'm going to do this and you're going to do that" make me do an eye roll. But if I've met them and I know it'll be good, then it becomes different.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I was chatting to a fab friend about this. Talking dirty to someone I've never met just bores me. All that "I'm going to do this and you're going to do that" make me do an eye roll. But if I've met them and I know it'll be good, then it becomes different. "

Nothing worse than cyber sex from an unknown man, some single men on here think it's what women want on initial contact!

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I like it as it really brings out my sub side. The whole thing of being used and pleasuring a man... I love it. I find dirty talk mentally stimulating

Weirdly though it doesn't really work for me in messages, it has to be in real life. I also can't do it back as I just get nervous and fear that I'll say something stupid, so my throat dries up and I just can't get the words out of my mouth

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"We love talking dirty to each other, sometimes can't help it just comes natural even when it's just a normal message something dirty always gets thrown in

Best when it comes naturally "

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London


"I was chatting to a fab friend about this. Talking dirty to someone I've never met just bores me. All that "I'm going to do this and you're going to do that" make me do an eye roll. But if I've met them and I know it'll be good, then it becomes different. "

I totally agree with this! I remember a while ago, I was seeing this girl and we were sexting during work hours. I was so turned on, I thought my cock was going to explode in my pants :P

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By *inecrestMan
over a year ago

West Yorks

I love talking dirty and have been told I'm good at it. But yes, the mood has to be right.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm rubbish at it I just end up laughing but love it when a guy is good at it. I met one who was very talkative all the way through, telling me what I was doing that he liked and what he was going to do next. BRB, I'm gonna message him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like it when it's done well..

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By *aughtyboy79Man
over a year ago

North East

Quite good at writing it in story form however saying out load just seems a little contrived and awkward for me, like I am trying to emulate a porn star or something. Don't get me wrong I will do it when asked but still feel a little silly!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Quite good at writing it in story form however saying out load just seems a little contrived and awkward for me, like I am trying to emulate a porn star or something. Don't get me wrong I will do it when asked but still feel a little silly! "

I write it down for my other half after I've met someone, I can get more detail in doing it that way and he loves it

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By *aughtyboy79Man
over a year ago

North East


"Quite good at writing it in story form however saying out load just seems a little contrived and awkward for me, like I am trying to emulate a porn star or something. Don't get me wrong I will do it when asked but still feel a little silly!

I write it down for my other half after I've met someone, I can get more detail in doing it that way and he loves it"

I can't blame him, the more detail the better and can set tone and the atmosphere when writing it. I would love to read some of you have it to hand lol?! X

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

If you don't get it then its a waste of time explaining it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Primarily it allows you to better read what the other party is wanting so when physically in the moment you have at least an inkling as to where to begin. Secondly it creates a fantasy which can increase some people's level of stimulation when it becomes a reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the messages. Looks like im not the only one that finds its a bit awkward but if your good at it and its the right moment it can be a huge turn on. Maybe I shouldnt be doing it at the check out at Sainsburys.....x

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