FabSwingers.com forum: Droopy with condom

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, first off I'm all for safe sex. Both sides should be protected. Of course not talking about your own partner here....

Anyway, issue I have is that when I put a condom on,I loose sensation and then...... Well he flops! even when the lady is really very pretty.

Any suggestions? I.e. Brand suggestion of condoms perhaps?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always use skyns. Never durex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd sooner go bareback or without

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's probably psychological.

Because it has happened before you expect it t happen again.

See if you can get some freebies from your local clinic and practice at home until you are comfortable with them.

Skyns are certainly good and thin.

Nita

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

Pretty much 25 years bareback doesn't prepare you for condoms and lately I have had the same issues. Make sure you have a good fit as too tight can be a killer. Try a couple of different brands - if you are a big man then there is always on line firms that provide more comfortable ones ( try Theyfit)

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Another vote for skyns.

Also echo what the poster above said about it probably being psychological.

I got used to unprotected sex when I was married, but although it felt odd using condoms again, I soon got used to it. You can't keep a good man...er...down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely also vote for Skyns. They make a big size too which is just right and I find they are the most comfortable I have ever worn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fellatio before putting it on and get the lady to put it in with her mouth... It's a very unsexy, clinical procedure otherwise I find and it breaks the mood/sexual flow otherwise... Also try different kinds of condoms to see what works best for you, there's some great brands and types out there nowadays.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Have fellatio before putting it on and get the lady to put it in with her mouth... It's a very unsexy, clinical procedure otherwise I find and it breaks the mood/sexual flow otherwise... Also try different kinds of condoms to see what works best for you, there's some great brands and types out there nowadays."

It is unsexy and kinda ridiculous as a process, but then, so is sex when you think about it. I think a lot of people are influenced by film (and possibly porn) to think that sex has to be super serious. It usually isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to take anything too seriously these days, it really helps me have fun in all areas of life lol...tho I can look very seriously focussed during sex sometimes... I guess maybe a bit like a marathon runner lol. Great sex, food, good friends, baths, comfortable beds, cotton sheets and great natural vistas are all things I'll always seriously find infinite pleasure in

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By *eadyforachangeWoman
over a year ago

Second star to the right, and straight on till morning.

Firstly you are not alone. Advocate Skyns brand as never had a guy complain when I've turned up with them they come in different sizes and don't smell manky like Durex do. Also practice does make perfect so crack out a few. Some guys like to put them on themselves but I like to do it as part of play and this never fails. Don't panic over it as really does make things worse. Oh could try a cockring combination too. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What pisses me off is there have been huge advancements in condom technology over the years, and I keep hearing about new wonder types that totally imitate skin being developed but they never seem to hit the high street?!.

There's a couple of websites meant to be providing the latest technology condoms but they're still not selling them yet?!... Crossed fingers that within a couple of years they will.

Alternatively I have recently discovered that Neem oil is a scientifically proven option for birth control amongst a trustworthy relationship... Like for example married couples or those who get tested regularly together... It's been proven to kill sperm within minutes and if men ingest it or neem oil tablets their sperm becomes sterile... Once the man stops ingesting it his fertility comes back. Look into it online, there's been a lot of proven scientific studies into neem oil's validity as birth control and it's used in India on a mainstream basis for that very usage.

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Skyns all the way since i tried them yrs ago. Never go back to durex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of Skyns which may help but the problem is likely in your head rather than physical so our advice is persevere. A cock ring might help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems your going to have to have hand relationship at least you dont stand your self up pmsl

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

The problem I have is when I'm hard I'm ready to Have sex, putting a condom on can take time and spoil the mood. And my cock could flop again

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By *fternoondelightsCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

Try a cock ring with one on.

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

Just noting thread.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

A similar thread a while back, sorted me out.

Larger size, brand changed to Skyns, problem sorted...

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Another skyns fan here too but have you considered Femidoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood this complaint, as it's never happened to me. Definitely psychological. As long as you're still being stimulated (by hand, mouth or pussy, or even visually), you should be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Skins (with an'i', different brand) in extra large with some friends. Much better fit than Durex, condom packet MUCH easier to open (Durex are impossible to open) and they smell of vanilla! It's like having sex with cookies. Available from Amazon (other websites are available).

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By *ikerjohn123Man
over a year ago

Whickham

Happened many times to me so feel your pain. However a lot of it is psychological. Adding some lube on the inside of the condom helps make a 'wet' and therefore more realistic sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, first off I'm all for safe sex. Both sides should be protected. Of course not talking about your own partner here....

Anyway, issue I have is that when I put a condom on,I loose sensation and then...... Well he flops! even when the lady is really very pretty.

Any suggestions? I.e. Brand suggestion of condoms perhaps?

You can try a cock ring they make you bigger in girth you get harder last a bit longer and when you do cum you explode.

All a bonus but also for your problem they do keep you hard when the mind wanders of the job in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, first off I'm all for safe sex. Both sides should be protected. Of course not talking about your own partner here....

Anyway, issue I have is that when I put a condom on,I loose sensation and then...... Well he flops! even when the lady is really very pretty.

Any suggestions? I.e. Brand suggestion of condoms perhaps?

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crisp packet and a shoe lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened many times to me so feel your pain. However a lot of it is psychological. Adding some lube on the inside of the condom helps make a 'wet' and therefore more realistic sensation"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i seen on ebay of all places

a sensation condom to give a more realistic feel when fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/3x-Touche-Extra-Sensation-Studs-Shape-Condom-Secura-Kondome-Sexy-Erotic-Condoms-/251534054647?hash=item3a909914f7:g:xHQAAOxyZzlTd8gT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget all previous answers mate, if you want tailor made condoms, go for theyfit.com, you actually measure your own cock and pick a size specific to you.

I had the same issues until I found these bad boys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for help everyone, question about cock ring...

I'm guessing you put it on before getting hard, does your cock stay hard even after cumming? And if so how do you get the ring off? I'm

Not planning trip to A&E to explain that one to a nurse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely also vote for Skyns. They make a big size too which is just right and I find they are the most comfortable I have ever worn."

They also call large "king size" which does wonders for your ego

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll try the skyns condom and see how I fair. Noted that using the clubs supplied Tesco range was probably not helping and also durex do smell and are hard to open.

Once agin thanks guys

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for help everyone, question about cock ring...

I'm guessing you put it on before getting hard, does your cock stay hard even after cumming? And if so how do you get the ring off? I'm

Not planning trip to A&E to explain that one to a nurse!!!

There are two types some are double rings one around the balls and the other around Base of cock. You have to put it on before erection. I'm not keen on this type for that reason you asked how do you remove them if you don't go soft.

The other type is just one ring at the Base of the cock. You may have to try different sizes to begin with. If it's too loose it simply doesn't work. If too tight they get very uncomfortable after 20/30 mins so size is important.

I now have the right one works well can leave it on for an hour and slips of after I have cum

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