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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read about afew couples onhere gettin married so it must happen.

i feel like some are onhere looking for love in the first place which could be a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

ME TOO.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep. Both of us were single. Although i didnt consider myself a swinger. And we moved in together and bought a kitten

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

yes

and were very happy we did

and know of at least 3 other couples who have too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thinks that lovely!

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

the very first girl I took to a swingers club met a fella there and is now married to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then

ME TOO....."

+ me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep. Both of us were single. Although i didnt consider myself a swinger. And we moved in together and bought a kitten

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

I fell in love with a swinger, but never swung with her. I accidentally came across her profile one day while trying to find her email address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Think they should release it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my other half first week of joining another swinging site four years ago. Only after he had a cancer scare last year I realised what I felt about him.

He never met anyone else, I did, but not any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep. Both of us were single. Although i didnt consider myself a swinger. And we moved in together and bought a kitten

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Haha - I'm not going to lie, we have our ups and down like everyone else but it's pretty delightful

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have never fallen in love with anyone i have met thro swinging but i did meet a guy a few times that i felt i was getting to close to so i stopped meeting him

It was one of those situations where you just dont know what to do for the best, at the end of the day this is a sex site and i do not feel i have the rights to confess my feelings to someone who i met for no strings sex so i decided the right thing to do was just tell him i didnt want to meet him any more

but thats the only one, i dont make a habbit of falling for guys its just sometimes you meet someone and it just feels different and right....even tho its not

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nither of us were looking and didn't even want too fall in love

But we met on a meet and that was that

Engaged now too xx

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By *istress CherWoman
over a year ago

lancashire and loving it.

Yes met him on here, 8 months ago and still together....

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By *istress CherWoman
over a year ago

lancashire and loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last week i fell out with a guy i met here and have been meeting regular for several months, we've become very close and really good friends, then it hits me - ive totally fallen for him and dont know what to do, have had a very difficult emotional week and left me wondering if im really a swinger.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess you got two options there - tell him - or forget him.. you may find yourself pleasantly surprised. Ian & I met through fab, neither of us were particularly looking for a relationship but, more than a year on, we can't imagine life without each other.

Oh, and we enjoy the occasional meet too! just adds to the fun of our journey together..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"last week i fell out with a guy i met here and have been meeting regular for several months, we've become very close and really good friends, then it hits me - ive totally fallen for him and dont know what to do, have had a very difficult emotional week and left me wondering if im really a swinger.........

At the end of the day we are only human, you cant turn your emotions off just like that

Im quite a cold person to be honest, i hardly fall for anyone even before swinging i always kept everyone at arms lenth, thats just how i am

but every now and again someone touches you like others cant, its how you deal with it that matters

Its upto you and only you can decide if you want to tell him and see if he feels the same

that does not make you not a swinger, it makes you human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i found myself falling for a guy so stopped seeing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be truthful to yourself good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once and NEVER again,

many moons ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then

Me too!

And me!!

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

In Lust with yes, in love with? no. XxX MT

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Yes...totally out of the blue. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, never mind falling in love. We were together for three months before we even acknowledged that we were actually in a relationship lol.

What did we do......live happily ever after we hope. We've just passed the one year mark.....and all is well. Having loads of fun together and still happily swinging, mostly as a couple.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met him in an adult cinema he came to a couple of my gangbangs we emailed each other all the while and then we fell head over heels in love and are living happily ever after

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

We think it's lovely that singles can find love. But we were speaking as a married couple.

Hence lust yes, but love no.

XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I once had the starting of feelings for someone, so stopped seeing him.

But when I think back I think it was just pure lust, the sex was so good it clouded everything.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

married him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 6 years ago i met someone in Chams.. and we really go on with each other.. and it took its natural course.... moved in together... even looked at getting married.. but luckly i gout out before it was too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I know why the fit intelligent hot guy half my age who was polite, could accomodate and was hung like a donkey didn't want to meet me again. He was falling in lurve with me!! Nothing to do with the fact I kept stalking him lol ms *tongue firmly in cheek*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi yes we did and its the best thing ever to happen someone you love and has the advantage that we both like to swing.

we move into together next month

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

I sang the fine young cannibals version

Personally I hav'nt fallen in love

Fallen in lust a few times though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes also. It does happen

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"Now I know why the fit intelligent hot guy half my age who was polite, could accomodate and was hung like a donkey didn't want to meet me again. He was falling in lurve with me!! Nothing to do with the fact I kept stalking him lol ms *tongue firmly in cheek*"

He He He

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

Yes & yes :0).

Can hear the Buzzcocks as I type this.

We met as singles for a "social" meet & spent the next 6 hours gazing at each other & chatting non stop. When we decided to play as a couple, it was wonderful. We knew everything about each other & totally understand it's for fun & no other reason. Some couples play golf, we see couples similar to ourselves for pure hedonism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the best feeling in the world i was just a cold bitch maybe cos i hadnt found the right one

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Nither of us were looking and didn't even want too fall in love

But we met on a meet and that was that

Engaged now too xx

+1 so did we too m8, pretty wonderful stuff ain't it! :D

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Both of us were single. Although i didnt consider myself a swinger. And we moved in together and bought a kitten

Aaaaaaaaawww meow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i have, she's stunning the sex is great but she she want meet me on her own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanx - can't get the song out of my head now! The only thing that worries me about swinging is one of us getting to attached to someone we shouldn't. Has this happened to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

ha ha yes I did and thought that I would be the only one!

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I have in my late,late teens I hung around with lads really and one friend we were fuck buddies but I fell in deep and he didn't it was so hard for me but I new it would never be the same..

ah well it all worked well in the end (not with him)

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

Met through another site, started to fall, panicked (me) and ran, got back together through this site and now living together for a year this weekend. Think if he reads this he'll get the message as hes not so good on subtle hints, I do find sledge hammers work really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet back in feb and just moved in with ad,he's my soul mate .we both want looking but fell in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met through another site, started to fall, panicked (me) and ran, got back together through this site and now living together for a year this weekend. Think if he reads this he'll get the message as hes not so good on subtle hints, I do find sledge hammers work really well

Good luck with the sledge hammer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here this time last year. There was always a spark from day 1 but we thought that we'd swing together for a few months and that it wouuld run it's course. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, infact we were actively avoiding them. A few months on we still weren't a couple but we were talking pretty much everyday and had a chat that the idea of a relationship was crazy (age gap and geographical gap) but both of us admitted that we were intrigued as to where we could go and agreed to just keep on as we were. Then I (2Wheels) went to Thailand trekking, while I was away we both missed each other and have been a couple since I got back.

Still haven't found a convincing story for how we met though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then"

and me!!!

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Larry and I met at a social organised via another site. Spent the first night together, had a few ups and downs and eventually we got our act together, got married and now have a little boy together.

Neither of us were looking for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surley everyone should be open to the possibility of falling in love or they artificially cut off a part of who they really are and who they could become?

I agree this site may not be the best place to search for love, but caring deeply for someone is not something to be supressed surely?

Maybe we need to define what we mean by Love in case we are using the same word for different meanings?

For me, love means I care deeply for a woman. Life is very complex and so maybe a question needs to be asked whether someone can be in love with several people at the same time?

Great question !!! (;-)

Ray x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I imagine most of us of a certain age thought of the Buzzcocks song. What I find interesting is the amount of people who have walked away from others when they found themselves getting more attracted to people than just swinging would involve. I certainly wouldn't recomend the swinging scene to people who are looking for a relationship, it's not what it's about. However I would have thought it's a bonus if you do meet someone who shares your sexual attitudes, presumably they are in the minority in society?

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By *abeanBandit2012Couple
over a year ago

A town in South Island

we did too, both swung as singles, we met and just clicked instantly, we both feel that everything happens for a reason. we're now in our 2nd year together and have lived together for near enough the same time too. totallt bessoted with each other. still....... the only tricky part we find is telling people how we met when asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im getting emotionally attached to one of my meets. i dont want a relationship so having to try not to get to involved.

i dont want to stop meeting him as we get on so well and the sex is fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't looking for it either.

Met a guy from swinging. Fell in love and moved in with him. He put the restrictions on our everyday relationship and swinging and couldn't keep to them himself.

Moved out and moved on. Happy as a swingle now

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started swinging together not long after we had first met, so suppose that counts! Swinging brought us even closer together rather than the opposite and we married a couple of years later. Still in love and still swinging after nearly 10 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love no but lust yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep and married 4 years later xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep Marrin her next year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep Marrin her next year xx

shes marrying you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Have Swung With? If so, What Did You Do?

Yep Marrin her next year xx

shes marrying you mean

Ya knows her well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, was in love before we started swinging and still are all these years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but sadly it didn't work out. He was one of the loveliest men I've ever met and I hope that wherever he is, he's found his happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes have fallen for this one i was guy number 15 in a carpark and fell in love with a 29 year old 2 years later and lots of amazing sex later she asked me to move in all was going well till her boyfriend turned up a week later who strangeley enough she had forgot to tell him it was over wasent nice so decided to leave strangley enough was advised to stop by other regular friends i was swinging with wish i had listened to them although still have to admit think i do still hold a torch for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes whan I was single guy, her names Louise, were now engaged and we swing together. She was a single bi female at the time

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Well anyone who knows me and Jackie knows how much in love we are. We met at Chams and hit it off straight away. Nether of us wanted a relationship and we both tried to fool ourselves and ignore it. But the time came when we both admitted what so many others had seen, IT WAS LOVE!

Not looked back since and now we live together and still enjoy the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lust them and love them for it ...... thats my love .

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By *ostboy1Man
over a year ago

leeds

my regular fb was getting too attached so had to blow her out

...... still humming buzzcocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - be careful who you fall in love with - it's a dangerous game to play!

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

I met a man here years ago who is in a relationship already and fell for him instantly. Made sure that I don't see him again for sex but remained 'friends'. Have now come to terms that 'it' will never happen but it did take quite a while to get him out from under my skin. Moral of that one is not to meet married men...lol. Have several friends who have found each other here or on similar sites - at the end of the day we are all human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did become slightly infatuated with a much younger man once, he was very likeable, but i soon forgot about him after meeting a few other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did anyone else sing that back in the buzzcocks tune?

no? just me then

ME TOO.....

+ me!

and me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we first met when she was single and i was and still am married, we didnt mean to but we have fallen in love deeply and we are stuck with each other in a triangle!! gonna explode the triangle one day unfortunately

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