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Swinging - What Made You Get Into It?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What made You Get Into Swinging? How did you and your partner agree into having sex with other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What made You Get Into Swinging? How did you and your partner agree into having sex with other people? "

My partner at the time (now my husband) suggested it, as he had done some in the past, although I was so naive at the time, I didn't realise! He said he would love to see me being fucked by another guy, and it led on from there! First time was an engagement present from me to him! But I found out I really enjoyed the excitement! We only meet guys though, which is great for us both!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sounds good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a naturist sauna,our eyes were certainly opened that night and we have been having fun from the on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What made You Get Into Swinging? How did you and your partner agree into having sex with other people? "

With me it was because the missus is a crap shag, so, despiration really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was nowt on telly!

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

a couple we have known for years told us they were into it, me and nick spoke about it for about 2 years then we just got curious to see what it was all about then the rest is history as they say !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got very lucky when I had to stop for a break in Windsor Great Park. Had been reading about dogging but never dreamed I would get involved. It was twilight and a car started flashing its indicators then the light went on inside and I saw a lovely couple naked and at it. Out of no where a couple of guys gathered round and watched so I thought - why not! In the end I got a wonderful blow job as well and made two wonderful friends who I still play with some 8 years later (not doing dogging much now).

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Hubby likes karaoke and we though it was a singers night

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By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I met a woman who admitted to being as much of a flirt and a tart as i was!. We started a open relationship and started going to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17 and went to a normal sauna (no sex saunas then) I was bi sexual and had been fa a while

I got taken home by a bi guy to his wife and that was that

Introduced to his mates etc

Had swinging relationships since but gave It all up fa a few years when I met my second wife (yes she knew all about me)

We had a beautiful daughter but after that she went completely off sex (and still is to this day)

We still get on like a house on fire and it's brill

I'm with Wendy (fmuma) now and life is good

I however have moved completely to the social side of swinging as I have wanted to do for a few years now but I will never leave the scene as I have no vanilla friends and wouldn't have a clue what ta do wi em lol

Happy swingin all hope ya enjoy as much as I have

Craig xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby came home and said i have something to show you on line. when i saw what he was on about i freaked out. obviously i have changed my mind now and love the scene. we have met some lovely guys.

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

My husband had an affair when our son was 3 and we seperated with a view to divorce. Years later we get back together as swingers!! We're still togther and now I'm a swinger with him showing a great interest from behind the scenes! It works for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to go to quiet pubs and be very naughty. I used to wear full skirted dresses and he would put his hand up and slides his fingers inside. It was hard to try and look normal whilst wishing desperately I could bounce up and and down on his hand.

I said, after one particularly lovely but frustrating session that I wished he could just take me over the table in front of everyone. He said the only way we could do that was in a swingers club. I said, ooo id love to go to one of them, I bet people are having sex with everyone in there.

A few days later he showed me the Chameleons site, I agreed to go, we went, acting like rabbits caught in headlights but we absolutely loved it. And we havent looked back since

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

a girlfriend said a girl their office went to a club and asked could we go brilliant

amazing to see so much open attitudes about sex especially when we did a full swap paul

and this was in my thirties

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What made You Get Into Swinging? How did you and your partner agree into having sex with other people? "

We both fancied the same bloke....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started of in swinger clubs before I even found fabs. Loved them would rather play at a club than have a one night stand simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

simples high sex drive needs satisfying what better way than swinging

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I was much younger me and a mate share a flat, then girlfriends, then one night stands. Went to a few clubs.

Stopped when I meet my wife and a kids came along. A twenty year or so quiet period.

Then it started again until fairly recently, when bored one night I happen on a swinging site got chatting to a couple and the rest in history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started of in swinger clubs before I even found fabs. Loved them would rather play at a club than have a one night stand simples."

I'm the same Shaz, I prefer more people around and my favourite times with couples have been at samm parties where there are more than just 4 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its how we met

We both love it

we would not have it any other way

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Same for us really .
"What made You Get Into Swinging? How did you and your partner agree into having sex with other people?

My partner at the time (now my husband) suggested it, as he had done some in the past, although I was so naive at the time, I didn't realise! He said he would love to see me being fucked by another guy, and it led on from there! First time was an engagement present from me to him! But I found out I really enjoyed the excitement! We only meet guys though, which is great for us both! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto.

Definately saved having "the talk" lol


"Its how we met

We both love it

we would not have it any other way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was frog-marched down to my local swingers club in a half-nelson

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By *illyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I (male) when I was younger got my friend to have sex with my then girlfriend,

I was so turned on by it,

Love the thought and sight of my wife legs up being fucked by another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My then wife discovered Buddism and went to live in a Buddist Center so I needed a hobby too LOL.

But seriously I was a little lacking in confidence (well who wouldn't be if their wife left to become a nun!!!) and had been out of the dating game for years but still had (have) a high sex drive I then saw an advert in the local newspaper for a swingers club so went along and have never looked back really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first swinging experience came from mitch's birthday wish list we ended up at chams lol

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Ours was a d*unken night with a friend of mine (female) ..had a threesome and found we wanted more so started swinging and took it from there.

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By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"simples high sex drive needs satisfying what better way than swinging "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a fantasy of both of ours so want to make it a reality i think as we are only looking for a woman it's a bit more difficult than if we were looking for couples. We did consider couples but neither of us were really happy with it so will carry on searching!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Bored at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Auties and familys into it . I new about all this from a young age x

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We were both discussing our fantasies, hers was role play and his was sex swinging with strangers on holiday.

She got very ineterested in the idea, so we discussed it, and ended up at Chams

The rest is history LOL

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

Always like to think I was born this way. Had so many thoughts from an early age but never met anyone who felt the same.

Rhett rocked my world as he is just the same as me but had lived the dream

Oh so many wasted years but loving the catching up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started to look for NSA fun 2 years ago, as I decided I did not wish to live the life of a nun.

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

I'm with Pearl on this one....except it was 3 years ago.....

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

for me it was 8 years ago when i came across swingers site on the net

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