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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weed out the fakes/time wasters?

Being a single male, one does not want to appear abrupt or too 'forward' with women so how should this be approached...

I'm saying this as I've noticed that some of the aforementioned people now have photo verifications, and even meet verifications, although usually not displayed.

Any tips to avoid such cretins?

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General rule of thumb, if what's being offered seems too good to be true...it's probably bullshit, or an hairy arsed dude who wants to make your arsehole look like a badly packed kebab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"General rule of thumb, if what's being offered seems too good to be true...it's probably bullshit, or an hairy arsed dude who wants to make your arsehole look like a badly packed kebab. "

Lol.

There are plenty of genuine people on here, but unfortunately many losers as well!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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A few tips

If they've joined in the last few hours and received veri already - avoid

No pics - avoid

Will fill in later - avoid

Have you got kik? - avoid

Profile over a year old, 'new to this' - avoid

Hi - avoid

Sorry, don't do club meets - usually avoid

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"General rule of thumb, if what's being offered seems too good to be true...it's probably bullshit, or an hairy arsed dude who wants to make your arsehole look like a badly packed kebab. "

The badly packed kebab comment has resulted in me being too scared to meet anyone from here again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unverified over a yr - no pics or friends - not neccesarily a fake but not a player eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a couple of messages I suggest we have a chat on the phone, that always seems to scare off the fakes/time-wasters!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"A few tips

If they've joined in the last few hours and received veri already - avoid

No pics - avoid

Will fill in later - avoid

Have you got kik? - avoid

Profile over a year old, 'new to this' - avoid

Hi - avoid

Sorry, don't do club meets - usually avoid"

agree with all these except the last one lol we tried a club meet and vowed "never again" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few tips

If they've joined in the last few hours and received veri already - avoid

No pics - avoid

Will fill in later - avoid

Have you got kik? - avoid

Profile over a year old, 'new to this' - avoid

Hi - avoid

Sorry, don't do club meets - usually avoid"

I like to communicate via Kik and I don't do clubs.....I,m not a fake or time waster though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a couple of messages I suggest we have a chat on the phone, that always seems to scare off the fakes/time-wasters!"

That'd scare me off too, would assume you were after phone sex

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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We know clubs aren't for everyone so that last comment was more for our list.

We can't host, and we prefer club meets to going to a private house, means if they aren't who they say they are, all's not lost as hopefully there's other options.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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"A few tips

If they've joined in the last few hours and received veri already - avoid

No pics - avoid

Will fill in later - avoid

Have you got kik? - avoid

Profile over a year old, 'new to this' - avoid

Hi - avoid

Sorry, don't do club meets - usually avoid

I like to communicate via Kik and I don't do clubs.....I,m not a fake or time waster though.."

We try to communicate via the site, we don't like to spend months messaging before we meet, and using a club as a meeting place makes a much better forum than a messenger app anyway.

We've found in the past that as soon as you leave the site and use kik etc then it descends into endless chat or trying to chat, requests for pics and attempts at dirty talk.

We're swingers, not a sex chat line, and we get nothing out of messaging. We want to meet and have found that it tends to be fantasists and no shows that try to take you off site.

We message each other maybe once a day, guys on kik expect a full meaningful and sexual relationship through a messaging app.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just experience and gut feeling. I usually chat for ages before I ever meet anyone. Months sometimes.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Usually people think that members who don't accommodate are fakes but they arent and have their own reasons not to...

It's just about sifting through OP, you can also learn lots from the Forums, I certainly have.

There are some very lovely genuine people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually people think that members who don't accommodate are fakes but they arent and have their own reasons not to...

It's just about sifting through OP, you can also learn lots from the Forums, I certainly have.

There are some very lovely genuine people on here "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These tips work! Just outed a time waster in around 5 mins or so.

Thanks

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Those who are eager to get into sex chat, are usually men getting their kicks.

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