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Ever bottled a meet or shunned someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

because they were really hot? and made you feel abit insecure or not goodlooking enough in return?

hear alot about not ticking the boxes on the physical front but there can be a flip side aswell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, ive had some shit hot men message me but ive not been interested cause i didnt like there message or profile or they where out of my age range. Looks play a small importance to me. If they where top of my list id be shagging adonis himself seven nights a week

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

oh and i make the assumption that if someone has looked at my pictures and messages me regarding a meet they most be attracted to me. Pretty stupid to message someone your not attracted to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh and i make the assumption that if someone has looked at my pictures and messages me regarding a meet they most be attracted to me. Pretty stupid to message someone your not attracted to"

yeh but even if they were interested it could still bring out the insecurity in you after you`ve done the same and checked them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish we had bottled one of our meets, it was with a couple of guys, one great, no worries, attraction was there, the other was so immature and inexperienced, it felt like we needed to teach him what to do! LOL! And they left after less time that it took me to get ready! I felt really shit after it, so now, we ALWAYS have social meets first

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"oh and i make the assumption that if someone has looked at my pictures and messages me regarding a meet they most be attracted to me. Pretty stupid to message someone your not attracted to

yeh but even if they were interested it could still bring out the insecurity in you after you`ve done the same and checked them out"

But that would only be if your an insecure person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish we had bottled one of our meets, it was with a couple of guys, one great, no worries, attraction was there, the other was so immature and inexperienced, it felt like we needed to teach him what to do! LOL! And they left after less time that it took me to get ready! I felt really shit after it, so now, we ALWAYS have social meets first "

maybe his mate was a virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh and i make the assumption that if someone has looked at my pictures and messages me regarding a meet they most be attracted to me. Pretty stupid to message someone your not attracted to

yeh but even if they were interested it could still bring out the insecurity in you after you`ve done the same and checked them out

But that would only be if your an insecure person"

duuh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, ive had some shit hot men message me but ive not been interested cause i didnt like there message or profile or they where out of my age range. Looks play a small importance to me. If they where top of my list id be shagging adonis himself seven nights a week"

Likewise! I don't see anyone out of my league where looks are concerned, and I too have turned down some very good looking men as they've been too young, out of my area etc.

This is fantasy: and my fantasy man is quite specific. If not I'd be shagging Adonis every night too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with good looking people is all part of the fun isn't it?

I've never turned anyone down because they were too attractive, but I have asked them why they wanted top shag a big ugly fucker like me

Have to say though that I've never had a negative response, which always makes me feel good.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"because they were really hot? and made you feel abit insecure or not goodlooking enough in return?

hear alot about not ticking the boxes on the physical front but there can be a flip side aswell "

LOL chance would be a fine thing. I do wonder if there are gods and goddesses out there who have agreed to meet someone, then decided they weren't quite up to scratch and didn't turn up. That would explain a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they were really hot? and made you feel abit insecure or not goodlooking enough in return?

hear alot about not ticking the boxes on the physical front but there can be a flip side aswell "

Yes.. I have had a few couples contact me and I have thought omg they are stunning.. why do they want to meet me.. and there for said "sorry not for me thanks".

Master hates that I question why...

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were to score attactiveness out of ten, I give myself a six, and work on the theory that I can go up or down a couple of points when scoring others, but rarely do I feel comfortable with those I consider more than an 8 or less than a four....

And some call me shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish we had bottled one of our meets, it was with a couple of guys, one great, no worries, attraction was there, the other was so immature and inexperienced, it felt like we needed to teach him what to do! LOL! And they left after less time that it took me to get ready! I felt really shit after it, so now, we ALWAYS have social meets first

maybe his mate was a virgin "

Maybe so, but he certainly wasn't for long! PMSL xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have looked at messages and photos they send me and think WOW yet i cant agree to meet as i think they will be disapointed with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing nicer in my book than meeting someone who looks fab in my wardrobe mirrors...im out of no ones league......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have looked at messages and photos they send me and think WOW yet i cant agree to meet as i think they will be disapointed with me "

most of us have felt that way at some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have met some fantastic looking people who i thought wouldn't look at me twice, let alone turn up !

there is 1 lad who, as soon as i open the door and see that cheeky face, has me pre-cumming

he has been round maybe 12/15 times over the last 18 months, so i must be doin summat right

i don't have the ego to regard myself as attractive to all, but i am attractive to some and that is enough

the fact that some of them are smoking hot, is merely a bonus !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a gorgeous guy at Chams the other week, model perfect, absolutely beautiful he was. I did have the initial thought that he would be out of my league and even when I sidled up to him in the jacuzzi and asked him if he wanted to play, I expected the rejection. He didnt and said, oh wow yeah love to. I forced myself not to turn around and look behind me, I couldnt believe he'd say yes to an old biddy like me. He really wouldnt have gone lonely in that club.

But I have to say that apart from the physical, sexually he wasnt as talented as my OH. But it gave an old lady like me a bit of an ego boost, even if he was lowering his standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they were really hot? and made you feel abit insecure or not goodlooking enough in return?

hear alot about not ticking the boxes on the physical front but there can be a flip side aswell "

no because i always see people im meeting on cam before hand and if they made me feel like that i wouldnt meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a gorgeous guy at Chams the other week, model perfect, absolutely beautiful he was. I did have the initial thought that he would be out of my league and even when I sidled up to him in the jacuzzi and asked him if he wanted to play, I expected the rejection. He didnt and said, oh wow yeah love to. I forced myself not to turn around and look behind me, I couldnt believe he'd say yes to an old biddy like me. He really wouldnt have gone lonely in that club.

But I have to say that apart from the physical, sexually he wasnt as talented as my OH. But it gave an old lady like me a bit of an ego boost, even if he was lowering his standards. "

dont knock urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I ever bottled a meet? No.

Meets sometimes don't go all that well but violence is always unjustified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember meeting one guy off here who was a really good looing guy and i remember thinking, theres no way hes going to like me

Anyway we went for a drink

He spent all night talking about himself, how much he can bench press, all the young girls he pulls at the clubs etc I was bored to fook and was ready to drown myself in my pint after half a hour, couldnt wait to get out the place, he messaged me the next day and told me i was the only women every to have turned him down

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