FabSwingers.com forum: Bi men...

By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm curious really... been looking for a bi guy to meet with my swinging buddy... I've found a couple but there have been so many who have come back to me with comments such as 'I could be bi if you were on offer' or 'if there's DP with you on the table I'd let him fuck me'

I'm looking for genuinely bi guys who want to play with both my friend and me. It's meant to be fun and I want us all to enjoy it. I hadn't expected to have to use myself as a bargaining tool in order to see some MM action!

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

There are some genuine bi guys but if they are nice, fit and bi they can be very busy

lol

I love genuine bi guys for 3sum fun so it all mutual hands, mouths etc - I suppose a bit like why guys like bi girl 3sum.

But I have the same trouble, I get messages saying, I could be bi or I don't care who sucks me off or I'll just close my eyes for that part !

I'll let you know when I find any and you send them your way after I've road tested them for you

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sneaking feeling that the majority of men are bi or could be

We are all born of both man and woman and carry both genes etc

I feel acceptance is the real issue and social restrictions

Its a well documented fact that the Romans and many civilizations before them it wasn't even an issue and male sex was totally the norm

Queen Victoria basically fucked this country up sexually

Her son was homosexual and she couldn't handle it

So she made it illegal (and until the sixties it was actually punishable by death)

When the law was being made one of her courtiers actually said well mam what about sex between women?

She said well that's not possible is it? so the law never made sex between women illegal (strange how that's never been socially unacceptable lol)

(If ya find this hard ta believe check it out)

Social stigma about homosexuality and bi sexuality is rife but better than it was

So there must be many men scared of admitting their sexuality

This is MY personal point of view and may well NOT be the case

But it makes me wonder by the amount of times i have heard this kinda thing that the thread describes happening xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from "straight male profiles" on here, wanting to meet. They don't want to put "Bi" on their profile, so it does not spoil their chances with couples and women.

But I always feel it is because they are having no luck with women and couples, so any port in a storm.

With you offering up front to meet a bi man, you would think they would be coming out of the woodwork to meet you.

A genuine bi guy would be spoiled for choice meeting you, not somebody thinking, if I play with his cock, I will get to have full sex with her.

My benchmark for being bi, if you can kiss and caress another man you are bi.

Not just having the bottle to be able to masturbate anothe man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My benchmark for being bi, if you can kiss and caress another man you are bi.

Now i feel differently lol

Having actually had bi feelings and being fully bi from a young age i find kissing another man difficult

(I have done it but it depends on my mood)

Im actually fully bi in all respects but however cannot find a fully dressed male attractive (Save two exceptions)

However there are also some women i wouldn't want to kiss and some women i don't find attractive when dressed also

Difficult life ain't it ? lol xx

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

I think there are a lot of genuine bi guys on here but it is finding them that is tricky. I had a number of guys contact me for a mmf threesome, sounded great but they wanted me to supply the femlae part. I couldn't understand contacting a single bi guy with a request like that.

I have been bi since my teens but don't really like kissing guys, I always try it. I find guys are just to forceful with their tongues lol.

If a straight (profile)guy contacts me for bi fun I always say no thanks unless they are wanting to give it a try and even then I am a little unsure.

To the OP. If your ever down south on Hols, could be cool to meet up for a drink with a bi admirer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My benchmark for being bi, if you can kiss and caress another man you are bi.

Now i feel differently lol

Having actually had bi feelings and being fully bi from a young age i find kissing another man difficult

(I have done it but it depends on my mood)

Im actually fully bi in all respects but however cannot find a fully dressed male attractive (Save two exceptions)

However there are also some women i wouldn't want to kiss and some women i don't find attractive when dressed also

Difficult life ain't it ? lol xx

Maybe you are not fully bi? I am the same as you, if another male is around and sex is on the menu ok, but I have kissed only a few men and that was during sex. But I never go around looking at dressed men, thinking he looks a bit of ok.

If a man can look at fully dressed women and fancy them and could be sexual with them from kissing to full sex.But could also do the same with men ,then in my mind he would be fully bi.

I think a 100% bi-sexual male is probally a rare creature. Because he basically has to be "gay" and "hetro" to fully like both men and women sexually.

Most men have a fantasy about watching two women have sex and would expect full sex, kissing etc. Women must get really disappointed when two men have sex together and all they do is masturbate each other, get that over and get onto the true agenda of screwing the woman.

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

There are very few guys who I see in the street that I think look "hot". Although there are enough about to keep me happy.

For me fully bi is able tohave sex with another man either in a group or just one to one.

I have had a threesome with two guys and had a lot of fun (stopped just short of anal as his cock was massive and I was a little worried lol)

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Interesting responses thanks! I'm looking for a fully bi guy (although I do agree that there probably aren't many 100% bisexual guys) cause I want to watch him being fucked by my friend. I'd love there to be kissing... that would rock!

I think maybe I'm unlikely to find it though. The thought of watching the boy/boy kissing is properly horny for me. A girl cam dream right?

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

Keep looking, you will find someone on here.

Like I said shame your up in Scotland otherwise I would love to help you and your friend out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never gave myself a label i just have sex with whoever i am sexually atracted to.I will probably call myself a chameleon. i dont kiss, suck or fancy a dick up my ass i only give.After all i will be having sex with person not a label

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Never gave myself a label i just have sex with whoever i am sexually atracted to.I will probably call myself a chameleon. i dont kiss, suck or fancy a dick up my ass i only give.After all i will be having sex with person not a label

Erm... I don't really need a label but thanks for your input. Always helpful to hear from everyone.

I guess when you are looking to have a specific experience it's hard to do that without knowing what level of bi people are. It's not meant to offend anyone, it's meant to be horny and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm curious really... been looking for a bi guy to meet with my swinging buddy... I've found a couple but there have been so many who have come back to me with comments such as 'I could be bi if you were on offer' or 'if there's DP with you on the table I'd let him fuck me'

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

Unfortunately so. Might have better luck on a rather well known website. I get v.frustrated with it all - we only meet bi single guys but get tonnes of emails from straight guys. My favourite was "i suppose i could let him suck me". Lol cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... I don't really need a label but thanks for your input. Always helpful to hear from everyone.

I guess when you are looking to have a specific experience it's hard to do that without knowing what level of bi people are. It's not meant to offend anyone, it's meant to be horny and fun. "

You need a sub or a bottom then. Maybs put that on your meet requests or profile. Might put a few of the morons off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On holishoog maybe , or maybi

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Being a long time since anal bi play here, but giving oral or handjobs is a lot more common.

That said in swinging prefer mixed playtime, but not in the sense of 'I sucked him so I want to fuck you' but more like, I've got his cum in my mouth, do you want to snowball. Or rimming him as he fucks his lady, blowing the other guy while he goes down on the lady.

Fantasy would be to be a floor show with another guy for a group of women. Alas don't have the chippendale body to get those sort of invites.

In terms of who I contact, usually couples with bi male at least, and generally the look of a cock is what means I'll email or not.

Do contact the odd straight couple for play, but make it clear I am perfectly capable of no bi play. Its like anal, love it, but if others aren't into it, then fine.

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

"Do contact the odd straight couple for play, but make it clear I am perfectly capable of no bi play. Its like anal, love it, but if others aren't into it, then fine."

Same here, I love bi play and love being greedy. However I am perfectly capable of just focusing attention on the lady.

That being said I never contact couples or single ladies if they don't want bi guys. If the bi thing is a turn off for them, then it would be no fun for either of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it would be just rude not to play with both the guy and the girl if i was in a 3sum with a couple,

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"Same here, I love bi play and love being greedy. However I am perfectly capable of just focusing attention on the lady.

That being said I never contact couples or single ladies if they don't want bi guys. If the bi thing is a turn off for them, then it would be no fun for either of us.

Full agreement, always read profile for any bi not wanted type messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages from "straight male profiles" on here, wanting to meet. They don't want to put "Bi" on their profile, so it does not spoil their chances with couples and women.

But I always feel it is because they are having no luck with women and couples, so any port in a storm. "

Freestyle

We get the same here, all the time.

We just block now when a guy uses that line and it says straight on his profile.

This is a swinging website, If you can't put what you really want sexually out of it. Then whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said I never contact couples or single ladies if they don't want bi guys. If the bi thing is a turn off for them, then it would be no fun for either of us.

What about the straight guys (but I'm really Bi in a message)?

Do you think they tell the above couples or single ladies that they play Bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well yr spot on if yr bi yr bi, why lie, just be honest least that way i bet you will get less meets but the meets you do get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DirtyGirl.

A little tip

When we browse we search for men who are looking to meet ..Men or TV/TS.

They are usually bi or gay

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

Here!

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

There are a few of us around

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By *oung Bham GuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

100% bi here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

I'm not telling!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Derby calling here

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By *lave4umidsMan
over a year ago

midlands

Very bi here too

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

See! There are plenty of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi curious here just not had chance to try

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By *5DaveMan
over a year ago

loch lomond

Bi here and have been for years, love fun with couples as you can relax and not have to watch who or what you touch

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By *elovekinkCouple
over a year ago

Thanet, Kent

We're a couple with straight female and bi male. As far as meets go, Ana prefers to watch Will playing with a bi or gay guy while she watches, but finding a guy who's up for this and then carrying through to the meet is a bit like finding gold dust!

Just need to find guys who get turned on by the cock play, guy on guy thing with female present, rather than wanting Ana to get physically involved...that's not what we hope to get out of this. Just looking for experimental bi guys who get off on being watched with another bisexual guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging website, If you can't put what you really want sexually out of it. Then whats the point"

Something I've never understood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging website, If you can't put what you really want sexually out of it. Then whats the point

Something I've never understood! "

couldnt agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read the other comments, I've come straight to post so apologise if this has been covered.

Your friend is a bi guy and you want another bi guy to join you, so you are messaging other men asking this, is that correct?

If that is, you are using yourself as an incentive to get other guys to fuck each other. Do you think its right to choose who other people have sex with. Its no wonder they will say, well if you are on offer then yeah ill fuck him because its your profile your messaging from, its your pictures they are looking at,

Are you abusing your single lady status to draw guys in when they will be expected to have sex with another guy as well as you.

The right situation would be for the two guys to start messaging each other to see if they form a rapport too because there are three people involved in this and each have equal rights to message and see photos of who they will b e having sex with. This may be what the case is and so all well and good. If all of you have messaged and seen photos of each other and all are happy to have sex with all then enjoy.

But as a single woman if you are messaging and saying I have a bi friend that will be joining us, is that ok, but you are the only one doing the messaging, building up the rapport and showing your pics then I think its wrong as you are essentially expecting a guy to have sex with any random guy that you have chosen.

Its still early and I'm half asleep, apologies if I've got the wrong end of stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

South liverpool calling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting responses thanks! I'm looking for a fully bi guy (although I do agree that there probably aren't many 100% bisexual guys) cause I want to watch him being fucked by my friend. I'd love there to be kissing... that would rock!

I think maybe I'm unlikely to find it though. The thought of watching the boy/boy kissing is properly horny for me. A girl cam dream right?

This post really highlights what I'm referring to. You want to watch two guys fucking, so why are you the one messaging. You are using yourself as a bargaining tool because your profile is what they will be looking at, when essentially the sex will be between two men with you an onlooker. surely the men have to fancy each other to be able to play, but just looking at the resonses from guys on here, as it is your avatar they are looking at on the thread, and that's what they are attracted to, they are agreeing to sex with another guy, so of course you are the bargaining tool. They haven't ev en seen pics of the other guy.

Maybe your bi friend would be better off finding his own guy and in his initial message say I have a female friend that wants to watch, do you have any objection to that, this will ensure that you are not misleadingly the main focus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post and say exactly what you want.

A bi man to have full sex with your man including kissing etc, and you will only be watching.

Don't forget the camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

ive had this in the past with a bi male friend i used to meet other bi guys with

my fave was a guy who contated me on a couples profile i had with said male friend that i used for the purpose of contacting single bi guys when we was looking

anyway this guy mailed me saying he was bi and interested in meeting for a drink and see how it went, he seemed very nice so i sent him a message asking if he was free one saturday for a meet, he replied to say he was and we arranged a time and place to meet

Sat in some pub having a drink we was chatting about past meets etc, as you do and i asked him if he had ever met any single guys or just played with couples and he said, oh just couples ive never played with a man before

so i questioned this as he had clearly said he was bi in the first message he sent and he said, oh well ive had my cock sucked by a guy in a club but not sure i could suck a cock but im curious to try, but if when it comes to it i feel im not ready to go thro can i still play with you

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"Just post and say exactly what you want.

A bi man to have full sex with your man including kissing etc, and you will only be watching.

Don't forget the camera

So long as he is clean shaven then don't mind the kissing, not a stuble fan here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why dont we all just say what we are and happy to do.

Im sure theres plenty for everyones preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious here, but looking to expand upon that in the right scenario...not as easy as it sounds

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

''This is a swinging website, If you can't put what you really want sexually out of it. Then whats the point"

When you look at the dire content - or lack of it - on many profiles, it's shocking, and not surprising that bi interests are left off. So many straight men have one liners, and think that's enough.

Sexuality is a complex aspect of personality - it's not just 3 types of people, gay, bi and straight, all people within each group being the same. There are some bisexuals who will have sexual interest but not, for example, romantic interests in both sexes, and most don't have equal levels of interest. The other main point is that some guys like getting fucked in the ass: this doesn't make a guy gay, as he can get this done with a strap on from a female and be 100% straight, but in the bi group there are guys who would fuck, others who'd get fucked, some who'd do both and some who'd not do this at all.

So needing some bi guys to have sex for you, and then with you is potentially complex, and becomes tougher if you have exacting requirements over what they'll do.

Sexuality is a weird thing, and there's evidence to suggest that it does appear to change over time, which is surprising, as you'd think straight = straight and gay = gay always etc. Psychologists now are recognising that this is not the case, from their research.

Remove the societal inhibitions and people are more relaxed, and more likely to start to recognise what may otherwise be self-inhibited.

Paradoxically, homophobic men were very likely to be erotically stimulated when seeing gay imagery, as borne out by other scientific studies. Our culture has much to answer for, when people are so messed up!

I'm guessing that posting under meets and events, stating the specific sex that they guys have to have together might be a good move. Whilst this could also be in your profile, if an event is explicit in its outline of what's happening, it could deter the straight lads who're happy to be wanked, as long as they get pussy etc. Just a thought.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm very bi and also very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some genuine bi guys but if they are nice, fit and bi they can be very busy

lol

I love genuine bi guys for 3sum fun so it all mutual hands, mouths etc - I suppose a bit like why guys like bi girl 3sum.

But I have the same trouble, I get messages saying, I could be bi or I don't care who sucks me off or I'll just close my eyes for that part !

I'll let you know when I find any and you send them your way after I've road tested them for you

lol"

Where can I apply for this road test...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny

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By *XXJAYMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

Here's a genuine one

Where are all the genuine bi cpls ?

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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago

Keighley

I'm a bi man, though I don't do anal with guys. I'm happy to kiss, caress, wank, suck cock and I've even done watersports with a guy (took him a while to get his pee going with a hardon though!)

I get loads of messages from 'straight' guys who either want me to suck them or wank them, but they often back out. I think their ardour is up as they wank at the fantasy then once they've cum, they lose interest in a meet.

I've only ever had one meet with a couple and it was very fulfilling but too short!

Having a woman and a man to play with in one room is joy: pussy, tits, snogging, cocksucking wanking, fucking - what's not to enjoy!?

I do find it hard to find genuine couples who will meet bi men though, as I think a lot of men are bi but don't admit this to their women. Almost all my regular meets are with men sucking cock without their wives knowing. Women, be warned, there's a lot more bi men out there than you might imagine.

Anyway, if any couple wants to contact me, I'll be more than happy to come and suck, lick and fuck you into ecstasy.

Ah well, I can hope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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So needing some bi guys to have sex for you, and then with you is potentially complex, and becomes tougher if you have exacting requirements over what they'll do.

All very informative Sophie, but some people do know what they want! And if it's not there we are more than happy to play together.

A lot of people are on here for different things

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think maybe I'm unlikely to find it though. The thought of watching the boy/boy kissing is properly horny for me. A girl cam dream right?

Sorry... I forgot about this thread... interesting responses. Apologies for posting in my single girl profile, not meant to be intentionally misleading.

Just to be absolutely clear... I use this profile to post stuff on the forums and to arrange meets for myself... I have a couples profile that we use when we (yes that's both of us) are looking for someone to join us.

Nice assumption though... good work! I don't believe in deceiving people by dangling some sort of carrot or 'abusing' my single female profile to entice people to meet me and quite frankly, I don't appreciate the wrong end of your stick.

I'm looking for bi guys to play with alone because I like the potential it allows for future play. I don't think that's deceptive, I don't think that's abusing my profile in any shape or form. We all have preferences and I don't think there's anything wrong with meeting people who have the potential to turn into future naughties with both of us. I'm entirely honest in both my single profile and in our couples profile about who I am and what I'm/we're looking for. No lies, no deception and no need for accusations and assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I will answer your response.

At the time you posted this topic, it came from a single woman profile.

I haven't researched you at all and have no insider knowledge of you. Therefore I was unaware that you had a couples profile.

I think you are completely right in the fact that if you messaged from a couples profile, which included information on the two of you, then that is absolutely no problem.

I think its misleading when singles or couples ask others to play and the intention is that there are more or less people involved than the profile states. I would never message guys from my one and only couples profile asking if they want to meet alone.

I apologise for the assumptions made but if you didn't elaborate the fact you have various profiles, then how would I have come to any other conclusion. I go on the profile that is stated and in this case it was your single profile. I didn't look at it or read it in full as I'm on a forum and not looking to meet - so should I have read it b efore commenting?

I am many things but never a mind reader

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man can look at fully dressed women and fancy them and could be sexual with them from kissing to full sex.But could also do the same with men ,then in my mind he would be fully bi.

I think a 100% bi-sexual male is probally a rare creature. Because he basically has to be "gay" and "hetro" to fully like both men and women sexually.

I do look at guys and think, "Hmmm, he's a good looking lad! I'd like some of that!", and I look at women exactly the same way.

For me, the only difference is that I could never have a full blown relationship with another man (I'm married anyway so this is hypothetical and from a single man's perspective), purely for the reason that my family would find it unnacceptable, especially if I'd left a woman to have a relationship with another man. Plus I have children that I simply wouldn't want to have to force them to deal with the questions about their Daddy that they would inevitably feel.

I am definately 100% bi though. I love cock just as much as I love pussy. Either orally or otherwise.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Well I will answer your response.

At the time you posted this topic, it came from a single woman profile.

I haven't researched you at all and have no insider knowledge of you. Therefore I was unaware that you had a couples profile.

I think you are completely right in the fact that if you messaged from a couples profile, which included information on the two of you, then that is absolutely no problem.

I am many things but never a mind reader

I didn't realise that asking a question on a swinging site would lead to personal research before an answer could be provided! I didn't ask the question to have my profile picked apart or my reasons for wanting a bi guy to be of such huge relevance if I'm totally honest... I asked the question because I was curious about the response to the ad I placed, clearly stating what I wanted and why! Nice to know how it was interpreted though, I'll bear that in mind in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread, lots of interesting comment. Personally I have found that it has become easier for me to meet bi couples for bi3sums as I have got older

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By *i staffsguyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I really think all guys are bi to a certain degree, its down to a guys sexual needs which is a sexual act to blow his load wether its with a woman , man, his hand or with whatever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But that was my point - I didnt pick your profile apart, because I didnt look at your profile. I havent researched you at all. Maybe your single profile does state that you have others elsewhere. I dont know that, because I havent read it.

To my mind I looked at the avatar on the top of the thread. It is of a single woman. I assumed you were a single woman. I did not assume that you had other identities and profiles with other people. I take posts at face value, so with a female single woman posting, and then stating that she was approaching men with a view for them to have sex with other men whilst she looked on, I found that a little misleading. I assumed, and it seems wrongly, that the single woman profile was your only profile.

Because I only have one profile, I do forget that others have multiple ones in relation to what they are looking for.

But on your first post it was all - I am looking..... I want....... even in this post now its all, the respone to the ad I posted stating what I want and why. There was no mention of the two of you approaching men together in the first post.

It was relevant in the fact that you seemed to be surprised that you were being used as a bargaining tool, and I answered that of course you would be, because a guy would see a single woman mailing him and automatically assume that she was part of the package. But of course you were mailing from a couples profile which changes things somewhat. But that wasnt evident at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if the male is not confident enough to clearly have bi listed as his sexual orientation on his profile that should be your indicator xxx

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By *urton-bi-coupleCouple
over a year ago

burton

im bi and proud!!!!!!! si

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By *urton-bi-coupleCouple
over a year ago

burton

and no not just bi oral..... whats the point in sucking a cock and not doing anything else?!?!?!?1

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By *eoneMan
over a year ago

Huntington

"I get messages from "straight male profiles" on here, wanting to meet. They don't want to put "Bi" on their profile, so it does not spoil their chances with couples and women.

But I always feel it is because they are having no luck with women and couples, so any port in a storm.

With you offering up front to meet a bi man, you would think they would be coming out of the woodwork to meet you.

A genuine bi guy would be spoiled for choice meeting you, not somebody thinking, if I play with his cock, I will get to have full sex with her.

My benchmark for being bi, if you can kiss and caress another man you are bi.

Not just having the bottle to be able to masturbate anothe man."

My sentiments exactly

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

And for some reason people seem to think because I'm who I am I only want guys.

I might be bi-sensual, but I don't find guys attractive at all. I don't notice them in the street, in a shop, or at a function.

Society seems to have indoctrinated some prono-film concept that all T people are interested in men only.

And then I read complaints from women saying where are the lesbian T people ...

*waves*

Guys generally aren't all that bi really, they just want a hole and after 'women' followed by 'psychosocial woman' they'll take next best!

A bi guy who is sensual, and knows how to foreplay for hours - is on my menu.

13 minutes from car park to drive off is just not interesting.

And women who bait me thinking that I'll just hop on their men ... god maybe when I'm really turned on, but sheesh!

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By *heImperialsCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Moan first...As it has been said before we have had several meet requests from lone guys where they would allow me to suck them off as long as sex with B is on the books. Dream on!

Praise...B loves to see me with another guy as much as I enjoy seeing her with one. The pleasure is when everyone has a handful, mouthful or something else full of someone else! We have been lucky to find bi guys that enjoy us and we have enjoyed them. They are out there you just need to be open about what everyone wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is with the label Bi guys get, couples assume if contacted by one they want to have sex with the guy too so the stop sign comes up, I'm fully bi but I have been fortunate to meet couples where the guy is straight and didn't mind me playing with his partner, as long as you're honest from the start I think you'd have a far better chance of meeting some really nice people, having your profile as straight but contacting couples who are looking for bi males or even contacting other bi or gay males just shows you're out for what you can get, if you can't get one hole try another. I think this is an argument that will never go away, seems acceptable for bi females to join couples but bi guys, no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fully bi and have had some great meets with other bi couples and had some great times, may it continue. I have to admit when i first joined this site i was fully striaght but was intrigued with the idea of bi fun. I did meet couples looking to primarily play with the female but after my first two meets i found that it was just as much fun playing with the male aswell. Saying that i never lied on my profile and was completley honest in my communication to all the people i was meeting. I can never understand why people would say 'id suck cock if i can fuck your lass'. In that instance they must be soo desperate that they would do something they dont like just to have fun with the female half. Unreal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are looking for bi-men too.

We love the oral side of it

It often seems to us that men say they are bi/curious only to get a meet.

This is why we only meet guys who have bi/curious on their profile. Why not being honest in what you want???

I also dont understand why straight people dont meet bi when they say they are ok with playing straight???

Each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is an issue with bi male pretenders, I attended a couple of bi nights at a club and the issue of bi guys who were there purely to get to play with a female was clear there as well!

I appreciate that some couples may contain one member that is bi and one that is straight, but singles attending a bi night, surely they should be bi? or at least curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is an issue with bi male pretenders, I attended a couple of bi nights at a club and the issue of bi guys who were there purely to get to play with a female was clear there as well!

I appreciate that some couples may contain one member that is bi and one that is straight, but singles attending a bi night, surely they should be bi? or at least curious

Why would you go to a bi-night as a straight single guy? surely its a waste of time lol

timewasters wasting their own time lol AND THEN COMPLAINING!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is an issue with bi male pretenders, I attended a couple of bi nights at a club and the issue of bi guys who were there purely to get to play with a female was clear there as well!

I appreciate that some couples may contain one member that is bi and one that is straight, but singles attending a bi night, surely they should be bi? or at least curious

Why would you go to a bi-night as a straight single guy? surely its a waste of time lol

timewasters wasting their own time lol AND THEN COMPLAINING!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is an issue with bi male pretenders, I attended a couple of bi nights at a club and the issue of bi guys who were there purely to get to play with a female was clear there as well!

I appreciate that some couples may contain one member that is bi and one that is straight, but singles attending a bi night, surely they should be bi? or at least curious

Why would you go to a bi-night as a straight single guy? surely its a waste of time lol

timewasters wasting their own time lol AND THEN COMPLAINING!!!

I don't go as a straight male as i am bi, what i was saying is guys pretend and say they are bi and attend these nights on the chance of playing with the females.

And yes they are to an extent wasting their own time and money but sadly some do it! And that then ruins thinks or at least makes it harder for those seeking a genuine bi guy to find then

So i am making an observation not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't like to label and think everyone has a spectrum, might find only certain men attraction or certain parts attractive or be able to full blown fancy them

i don;t think it matters, prob rare to have a bi man who likes guys just as much as women or vice versa, usually have a preference or find women more attractive than men. Most will have the rare occasion when they find another man attractive.

Hopefully you will find a bi man wanting to do everything you are desiring

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

OP are you saying that some guys lie about being bi so that they can meet a bi couple with the intention of only wanting to play with you? If you meet them, what does he tell your partner 'Oh sorry mate, you're not actually my type!'

I've had some meets with couples who have both been genuinely bi. Don't lose heart, they are out there. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must change my spex - I thought the thread title was BiNmen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must change my spex - I thought the thread title was BiNmen

So you thought it said BiNmen? I know some folk go for uniforms but Bin Men isn't a common one! Everyone has their kinks though! Lol

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

oh so many stright guys message me to have fun i ask why when yer profile reads stright

cos i wont get to meet women n couples if i put bi !

how wrong can you get !!

and not being honest is really low !

ive seen profiles on here that read no bi guys please and when i read there verifiactions i think mmmmmmmmm if only you knew just how many ive read who are bi and i can prove it !!

so guys be honest and ud be surproiised just how many women and couple s do like bi guys !!

so all you peeps who put no bi guys you really cant be sure the guy is not bi believe me i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a gen bi male i have had mmf mm you name it and im comfortable enough to tell any1 that im bi all my friends know and all the ppl i work with know got some ribbing when i told them but now they ok with it and i get more respect cause im open and honest about it HOWEVER on here putting bi on your profile can be the kiss of death lots of single women wont touch bi men shame and the vast majority of cpl want cpls bi fems or straight w/e males so being bi has a price but its my sexuality so there an honest bi male there are a few and im one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read all posts as on phone...

We are a genuine bi couple. We have had loads of men claiming to be 'bi' looking to join us... But after asking them the following:

Do you give or receive?

Do you like sucking cock?

... We find they become less 'bi' the more we chat...

We are starting (rather unfairly) to dismiss straight single guys out o hand as they usually only want me... And have no interest in J... We don't like that practice of being 'used'...

I love seeing two men together - a real turn on... And I love seeing J enjoy himself...

It's all about us all having fun... We arent pushy and have no prob if a guy doesn't feel that easy playing BUT want them to be open and honest - and not make us feel uncomfortable...

J usually suggests to bi curious men with no MM experience to try it first and then get back to us...

But genuine bi men are quite hard to come by (pardon the pun)

It's even harder trying to find another genuine bi couple!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself to be fully Bi capable, Love women, enjoy men.

But there are some things I would do with a woman, but not with a man.

Of course many profiles on here specifically say no bi men. I think (me any road) can play straight or bi, that's how I enjoy sex.

As always, people must chat about their expectations when meeting to play...

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By *ale4sexMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I'm an orally bi male, who enjoys MFM threesome fun. Happy to play straight too, but sex is mutal fun as for me. All three parties playing together, sucking licking etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

Lol we know exactly where your coming from, we have the same problem straight profile but messeges saying but i'm bi, within 3 messages it's don't know if i could go all the way but will your wife let me? same old same old ! My other half would love to see me with a guy, atm we just seem to be finding the pretenders..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that really how it is now? Will straight men really pretend to be bi just to get a meet? Where are all the genuinely bi men who want to meet other genuinely bi people?

Must be even harder to find a male interested in some good MM action when you have single males blocked

lol

I do know where you are coming from but without wanting to have the wrath of people on here, have you considered the bi males perspective as being bi we do enjoy boy guys and gals and may sometimes not just want the MM action, no matter how suckable the guys cock is! Hehe.

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