FabSwingers.com forum: IGNORANCE

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all help me out here I'm new to all this but really want to get into swinging scene but it seems to me that new comers ain't all that welcome I mean there are a lot of great looking women on this site but unless your known the ain't interested is this not a site so people can enjoy them selfs ? I sent a few msgs and the courteous thing would be to reply and say no thanks or something to that affect anyways anyone who could give me some hints and tips on the dos and donts I would grately appreciate it happy swinging to one and all except me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you check out the FAQ you will see this site does not view a no reply as rude, just as a simple no, there are many threads on here explaining why.

This site is fun and you will find if you want to become involved in the social side clubs and parties are the way forward.

Positive posting and joining in the forums and chat are a good way to go.

Have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know many single guys that would love to be in your position that have actually had a meet..

Its not about getting known, its about being what others are looking for.. Many dont meet single guys.. so it wouldnt matter how well known you are.

Dos ..

*read profiles

* remember if approaching a couple that there are two people to speak with

* Be polite

* Dont expect anything.

* Be yourself.

Donts

* Dont send just cock photos in messages

* Dont send a message because your first message was read 10mins before and someone hasnt answered..

Oh there are loads of things but my donts maybe someone elses dos..

Remember that everyone on here has the right to say no, and treat everyone with the respect you expect..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a good start. get urself seen and let those interested contact u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try coming in to the chat rooms and getting to know some people.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Hi and welcome. As a single guy expect nothing and you won't be disappointed. Lol. Make sure your profile is a true reflection of you, carefully read and mail people as individuals and just relax and enjoy the site otherwise frustration will get the better of you. Attending reasonably local events is also a good idea. Good luck and remember this is meant to be fun.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol dont listen to many ppl telling u about cock shots...just dont have too many on ur profile and even better have some shagging pics!

not gonna advise on the messaging front as theres no guarantee even the funniest wittiest messages get responses etc etc

suppose its final to say dont be arsey, word eventually gets around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try coming in to the chat rooms and getting to know some people.

xx"

as long as i can wank at ya wet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try coming in to the chat rooms and getting to know some people.

as long as i can wank at ya wet...."

Fap fap fap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am starting to see a pattern with these posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try coming in to the chat rooms and getting to know some people.

as long as i can wank at ya wet....

Fap fap fap"

fabsquidgefapsquidge

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i say to everyone 3 things...time, patience, common sense....

for example... is 2 weeks really enough time? is 2 weeks enough to show you have shown some patience???

it can take months and months and months for people to get their first meets.... you have been varified.. you have gotten a lot further at this stage than a lot of people.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys join up with the misguided information that women on here are gagging for sex with any guy that messages them. Others read profiles and assume that if they meet the criteria then they automatically get to meet and play, some think if you are friends that this guarantees sex and some think if you wink them that also means you are agreeing to sex.

It means nothing. You may get a meet you may not. Swinging is not an quick n easy way to get laid. You have to be proactive and advertise yourself the best way you can. Even then there's no guarantee. If you have a good personality, have a sense of humour, get involved in forum discussions, attend socials, then this is being proactive. Never worry about the no replies, its a no if you don't get a reply, no point in stressing about it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i've said it before,swinging is not about quantity but quality,women,and most couples on here are after great sex,not just sex.

This means they are often far more picky than the ppl u might pick up in a bar.

Swinging is not about the quick fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tip would be to ditch the sense of entitlement. No one owes you a reply and it's not ignorant if people don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've said it before,swinging is not about quantity but quality,women,and most couples on here are after great sex,not just sex.

This means they are often far more picky than the ppl u might pick up in a bar.

Swinging is not about the quick fuck."

what about those women like me that crave quantity of Quality..

and I like a quick fuck..

but I am picky.. even for that..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say make sure you have a good profile, good pictures, including nude but dont over do it, and heres the hard bit dont msg any1 unless there looking for a single guy, you'll find some that will from time to time like us, but dont be put off or offended if you get no reply, you might not be there type or they might just get so many msgs to reply to them all.

And just be friendly

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