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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Have confidence in yourself and avoid BBW nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

There is nothing wrong with you at all.

You are sexy and beautiful.......given half a chance I definitely would....repeatedly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww you always get my attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a quick look through you profile you would definitely get my attention in a club.

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By *ocky-boyMan
over a year ago

Durness

Well I think you're stunning op, if you don't get attention it might be because some guys think they have no chance with such beauty. I personally would give you all the attention you need xx

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By *nked and InterestingMan
over a year ago

Koh lanta


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Really? Personally think you're incredibly hot! Each to their own I suppose

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By *on1123Man
over a year ago

derby

i have no preference, as i look at the personality before the waist size but each to your own i guess. it doesnt mater what you look like or what anybody else thinks as long as you are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Curvy women get attention for loads of reasons and just as many people like slimmer girls. Maybe try another club with a slimmer clientele? Liberty Elite for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look lovely and i wouldn't let anyone who passed you by bother you.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type. "

Just because you aren't slim doesn't make you fat. I would class myself as curvy and I'm certainly not fat.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I've gone to clubs it's always a mix of people

Some young some old

Some slim some large

Op. All shapes and sizes suffer from confidence issues at some time

Put your best heels on and your favourite lipstick and embrace what you have x

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By *on1123Man
over a year ago

derby


"Whenever I've gone to clubs it's always a mix of people

Some young some old

Some slim some large

Op. All shapes and sizes suffer from confidence issues at some time

Put your best heels on and your favourite lipstick and embrace what you have x "
# that

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Nothing wrong with slim and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I've gone to clubs it's always a mix of people

Some young some old

Some slim some large

Op. All shapes and sizes suffer from confidence issues at some time

Put your best heels on and your favourite lipstick and embrace what you have x "

I would agree what said above but slim people are very sexy people that what i think so enjoy it.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

I just thought guys said that because there are more of them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awww you always get my attention! "

That's because you know how crazy I am lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type. "

Absolute nonsense.

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By *on1123Man
over a year ago

derby


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

Absolute nonsense."

says the guy with no pictures on his profile i wonder why? i agree absolute nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww you always get my attention!

That's because you know how crazy I am lol "

Haha this is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type. "

how rude to say that about fat women on here from a guy who thinks he all that on here

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Thin or fat, if you spark my imagination, make me laugh & have good tea making skills... I'm yours lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

how rude to say that about fat women on here from a guy who thinks he all that on here "

Why is it rude to say that fat women, don't do anything for him?

People like, what they like.

I'd rather someone is honest about their preferences, then I'd know not to contact them.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

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By *ohnjohn_111Man
over a year ago

kent


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Definitely no need to get depressed, you look hot as hell to me.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely love skinny/slim women. You are perfection...

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By *juk72Man
over a year ago

Reading

i'd happily play with you for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what clubs you are going too but maybe look at somehere like Le Boudoir, VA, OP4F, Ab Fabs have a variety of people attend. Or try party hosted nights i.e. Killing Kittens.

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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Thin or fat, if you spark my imagination, make me laugh & have good tea making skills... I'm yours lol"

I make mean a mean Yorkshire pud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

What we can see you are geougeous so you shouldn't have trouble looks wise. Maybe it's lack of confidence in the way you carry yourself. Clubs can be daunting wondering weather a cple you like would be interested in you both and how to approach them without making a fool of yourselves.

We have noticed that bbw lady's seem to ooze confidence and just go for it. When others us included spend most of the nite trying to get the courage to ask others for fun and often end up watching others move in on our chosen prey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know which I would choose given the chance op gets my vote Stick

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By *arrogateboy300Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Nothing wrong with skinny or curvy... People losing site it's personality that counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

I love all shapes and sizes and am really more interested in their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you assumed that it's all down to weight ?

Perhaps people think you don't want them to approach you ? Maybe try approaching them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Slim girls get the majority of positive attention in the real world....where it seems (in my experience) that it's not so acceptable for blokes to like a bigger girl. I meet young guys and yes have a lot of attention on here, but take me out in the street and I'm invisible.

I find it hard to believe you don't get approached in a club, the only reason I'd think you wouldn't is that they're probably too busy fighting in the corner to get the opportunity to play with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

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By *randMrsGrey51Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

You are absolutly stunning and I dont think the issue would be you at all hunni..

As a larger lady myself..I do sometimes feel intimidated by the slimmer ladies but thats just my own insecurities but it would never stop us having fun..

Just keep doing what you are doing and be yourself as no one is perfect and im sure a lot of us ladies always feel its us if someone does not want to play..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet an ultra skinny girl from Preston and she was really sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

how rude to say that about fat women on here from a guy who thinks he all that on here

Why is it rude to say that fat women, don't do anything for him?

People like, what they like.

I'd rather someone is honest about their preferences, then I'd know not to contact them."

Thank you Bendaros! Some people don't exhibit a great deal of sense

It's rude to say that I prefer dark chocolate to milk chocolate, for example

Weird, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

how rude to say that about fat women on here from a guy who thinks he all that on here

Why is it rude to say that fat women, don't do anything for him?

People like, what they like.

I'd rather someone is honest about their preferences, then I'd know not to contact them.

Thank you Bendaros! Some people don't exhibit a great deal of sense

It's rude to say that I prefer dark chocolate to milk chocolate, for example

Weird, isn't it? "

I found the other comment you made about looking for men like you and not flabby dad bod types more rude.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Curvy is a shape rather than a size, you can be both Slim and curvy... and you most definitely do have curves.

Cal x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types. "

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Get yourself to some clubs up north you both wouldent have any issues here

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "
well you not the only slim girl for sure

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements. "

She definatly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat women don't do anything for me. I'm all into slim athletic. So much Sexier , stronger, flexible, lighter...

Look for guys like me, don't search for flabby dad bod type.

how rude to say that about fat women on here from a guy who thinks he all that on here

Why is it rude to say that fat women, don't do anything for him?

People like, what they like.

I'd rather someone is honest about their preferences, then I'd know not to contact them.

Thank you Bendaros! Some people don't exhibit a great deal of sense

It's rude to say that I prefer dark chocolate to milk chocolate, for example

Weird, isn't it? "

Heads up though. If fat women do nothing for you, probably best not to contact us.

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By *adyLucknGamblersCouple
over a year ago

Harwich / Colchester


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there, We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Oh hun; having meet you - you have nothing to be worried about; you are stunning, confident and you radiate sex appeal from both Fa & Ms.

I certainly wish i was slimmer xx mwah Lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I don't go for a waistline. Could be athletic or plus sized if you stimulate my mind you've got me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't loose heart and remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is beautiful

H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I don't go for a waistline. Could be athletic or plus sized if you stimulate my mind you've got me. "

This

OP you are beautiful.. Have more confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

For me it is not about a specific type (slim/curves/blonde/brunette/redhead/long hair/bald/etc) but about the individual. The sexiest thing I find in a women is confidence and attitude.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'd give anything for a body like yours. Don't loose confidence. Perhaps try a different club if the atmosphere isn't right for you

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Don't be daft, you are gorgeous. That would be like be thinking I shouldn't go to a club because I don't have a nice inch cock!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

I just thought guys said that because there are more of them?"
you would be correct lol.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I adore slim women most of all,

I posted on hear saying that there should be slim nights in clubs just like they have bbw night I got so many hate posts from mostly bbws,

But it's each to there own what they like,

I love a slim woman with a small bottom best of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to get dragged into the whole fat thin thing but what I will say is that I would approach a good looking woman (as the op is) at a club but a lot of men wouldn't. It all comes down to confidence. Lots of men hedge around the best looking women as they lack that confidence. These guys can be gym chiselled with massive cocks... but just aren't confident. Heck, they can even be guys who claim to be "alpha". I've found over the years that guys who look alpha and act alpha can often be little insecure kids underneath.

If the op is patient she'll eventually meet more confident guys

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Slim girls and curvy equally sexy to me your still women and lovely with it don't let it get to you look fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim ladies, Curby ladies...what's the biggest turn on is confidence, good character and humour x

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

My wife is slim and from what I can see has a similar figure to yours. She is always very popular in clubs. As suggested, you might be going on the wrong nights or wrong clubs. By the way, I personally find slim ladies far more attractive.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

I have noticed when I'm out with a friend drinking around town that she get more attention than me, she is smaller in hight and thinner than me but she carries her conference very well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with you at all I'd Deffo be looking and wanting to play .

Maybe u haven't noticed the ones checking u out as u are too busy watching the curvy ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel you OP...

In clubs and on fab I feel good...

But real life and beaches ECT, I feel shy about my size...

No boobs and a sticky body, I only have ass ...

I go gym just to put muscle on and eat loads Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I only have ass ...

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And a very peachy one at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha thanks but still needs work! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha thanks but still needs work! x"

And a massage...

I offered you previously.

Massage does miracle for one's metabolism . It melts fat on overweight and stimulates toned muscles growth on slimmer people.

Try me, you won't regret it

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "
Maybe it has nothing to do with you being slim?Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun Maybe it has nothing to do with you being slim?Just a thought."

Of course not. She is ugly as sin!

Just joking OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim is sexy. Sexy curves are sexy. Curvy as a polite term for overweight, not so much. Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is sexy. Sexy curves are sexy. Curvy as a polite term for overweight, not so much. Each to their own..."

Curvy isn't necessarily overweight here. I see curvy as being next step after slim.

So it start with slim, then it can be either curvy or athletic depending if the person is sporty or not.

Afterwards are large, fabulous...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why have you assumed that it's all down to weight ?

Perhaps people think you don't want them to approach you ? Maybe try approaching them ?"

We talk to everyone we meet and go to the club weekly

We end up in friend zone hubby has plenty of interest but will not play without me although I have said go play if you find someone,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girlfriend wise I tend to go for girls sizes 6-8

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Each to their own.....I am a slim girl fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have you assumed that it's all down to weight ?

Perhaps people think you don't want them to approach you ? Maybe try approaching them ?

We talk to everyone we meet and go to the club weekly

We end up in friend zone hubby has plenty of interest but will not play without me although I have said go play if you find someone, "

Well, don't go to male gey nights then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements. "

I don't need to fish for complements but was wondering why as a slim girl we don't get approached Iv spoken to 8 men/couples all have said they wouldn't play because I'm not there type I'm too slim, the number of slim girls at the club are practically 0 I have met 3 in the 4 months we have been going only 2 are regulars none of them play with anyone ether

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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago

City

They have probably never been with a girl that isnt over weight.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Thin or fat, if you spark my imagination, make me laugh & have good tea making skills... I'm yours lol

I make mean a mean Yorkshire pud "

Bugger, how did I miss this. How about a toad in the hole?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I am really suprised by the thread but I think a little repackaging and rebranding might do the trick, change of hair style , maybe rock a white tshirt only , wearing some boots , big earings , no knickers and make sure the t shirt is sitting on the bum and the pussy is in view, loud makeup ,definitely I am sure the quality big cocks will roll in and you will feel better because I think you are perfect.

Every product needs repacking at some point to keep the customers coming , so do we, I do it all the time to stay fresh, I might just rock a diamond earing and wear boots to keep the ladies flooding in .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I adore slim women most of all,

I posted on hear saying that there should be slim nights in clubs just like they have bbw night I got so many hate posts from mostly bbws,

But it's each to there own what they like,

I love a slim woman with a small bottom best of all. "

Nobody would turn up,

Seems to be a battle between bbws vs slim

BBw get all the fun let's face it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Got love for slim girls too can pick them up & do some crazy acrobatic kamasutra positions

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements. "

If this is a joke then I apologise however if it's not then isn't that a bit mean?

Slimmer women can also battle with confidence issues about their body, if you read the small boobs thread there were plenty of women stating they used to hate having small boobs but are starting to like them. Combine that with the 'curvey women are REAL women' that I often read on here and in daily life and it can really knock your self esteem.

That being said OP maybe try different clubs, I have felt I didn't fit the bill in sum but did in others x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've been all sizes in my lifetime from a slim size 8 to a large 32, I'm now around an 18 and the most happy with myself than I've ever been. Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in a person and it isn't measured by a dress size or comes with a specific body type, so as cheesy as it sounds, simply learn to love you and others will too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love women of all sizes, I love the fact you are into bdsm more! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer females a size 10/12 who are curvy like.myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore slim women most of all,

I posted on hear saying that there should be slim nights in clubs just like they have bbw night I got so many hate posts from mostly bbws,

But it's each to there own what they like,

I love a slim woman with a small bottom best of all.

Nobody would turn up,

Seems to be a battle between bbws vs slim

BBw get all the fun let's face it "

Really? My larger-framed friends in the real world would definitely disagree with that last comment!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

If this is a joke then I apologise however if it's not then isn't that a bit mean?

Slimmer women can also battle with confidence issues about their body, if you read the small boobs thread there were plenty of women stating they used to hate having small boobs but are starting to like them. Combine that with the 'curvey women are REAL women' that I often read on here and in daily life and it can really knock your self esteem.

That being said OP maybe try different clubs, I have felt I didn't fit the bill in sum but did in others x"

Being a 50 year old man and having been swinging for 20 years I think I have some idea as to what sort of female body men prefer.

I would say size 8 to 12 is the optimum size with C cup boobs or above. If you are slimmer or bigger than that then you are likely to get less male attention (though in fab world given the relevant paucity of women you will still have to beat off men with a shitty stick).

Given the op falls fairly within that elite group I have to agree this is a fishing thread.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

If this is a joke then I apologise however if it's not then isn't that a bit mean?

Slimmer women can also battle with confidence issues about their body, if you read the small boobs thread there were plenty of women stating they used to hate having small boobs but are starting to like them. Combine that with the 'curvey women are REAL women' that I often read on here and in daily life and it can really knock your self esteem.

That being said OP maybe try different clubs, I have felt I didn't fit the bill in sum but did in others x

Being a 50 year old man and having been swinging for 20 years I think I have some idea as to what sort of female body men prefer.

I would say size 8 to 12 is the optimum size with C cup boobs or above. If you are slimmer or bigger than that then you are likely to get less male attention (though in fab world given the relevant paucity of women you will still have to beat off men with a shitty stick).

Given the op falls fairly within that elite group I have to agree this is a fishing thread. "

That's interesting, do you feel qualified to presume it's a fishing thread if you aren't that woman with that body? Obviously we have no idea whether it is or not but actually being a woman with a slightly similar body shape who has been swinging for 10 years I believed it wasn't from my experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of men love slim girls! Slim, curvy or any other shape, all are beautiful and admired by someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

I don't need to fish for complements but was wondering why as a slim girl we don't get approached Iv spoken to 8 men/couples all have said they wouldn't play because I'm not there type I'm too slim, the number of slim girls at the club are practically 0 I have met 3 in the 4 months we have been going only 2 are regulars none of them play with anyone ether "

This is why lots of people go to other clubs! If the club doesn't have suitable people, try another or are you still running the fetish night at Jaydees?

A few weeks back you posted that no one wanted to play with you both because hubby is Asian, maybe you are seeing barriers to playing when they don't exist, or is it a fishing post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

If this is a joke then I apologise however if it's not then isn't that a bit mean?

Slimmer women can also battle with confidence issues about their body, if you read the small boobs thread there were plenty of women stating they used to hate having small boobs but are starting to like them. Combine that with the 'curvey women are REAL women' that I often read on here and in daily life and it can really knock your self esteem.

That being said OP maybe try different clubs, I have felt I didn't fit the bill in sum but did in others x

Being a 50 year old man and having been swinging for 20 years I think I have some idea as to what sort of female body men prefer.

I would say size 8 to 12 is the optimum size with C cup boobs or above. If you are slimmer or bigger than that then you are likely to get less male attention (though in fab world given the relevant paucity of women you will still have to beat off men with a shitty stick).

Given the op falls fairly within that elite group I have to agree this is a fishing thread. "

Those statistics are your ideals surely ???

Or do you get to choose "optimum"

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements.

If this is a joke then I apologise however if it's not then isn't that a bit mean?

Slimmer women can also battle with confidence issues about their body, if you read the small boobs thread there were plenty of women stating they used to hate having small boobs but are starting to like them. Combine that with the 'curvey women are REAL women' that I often read on here and in daily life and it can really knock your self esteem.

That being said OP maybe try different clubs, I have felt I didn't fit the bill in sum but did in others x

Being a 50 year old man and having been swinging for 20 years I think I have some idea as to what sort of female body men prefer.

I would say size 8 to 12 is the optimum size with C cup boobs or above. If you are slimmer or bigger than that then you are likely to get less male attention (though in fab world given the relevant paucity of women you will still have to beat off men with a shitty stick).

Given the op falls fairly within that elite group I have to agree this is a fishing thread.

Those statistics are your ideals surely ???

Or do you get to choose "optimum" "

As I say it's from observation of many years in the swinging and normal world about what sort of women men go for.

If you want less personal evidence look at the pics that get fabbed on a site where eighty per cent plus users are men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore slim women most of all,

I posted on hear saying that there should be slim nights in clubs just like they have bbw night I got so many hate posts from mostly bbws,

But it's each to there own what they like,

I love a slim woman with a small bottom best of all.

Nobody would turn up,

Seems to be a battle between bbws vs slim

BBw get all the fun let's face it "

This is really strange! Unless men see them as more slutty and easy than slim women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you went to Chams in the Midlands you'd have no problem. We'd play with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that a lot of men would love to play with a slim woman in a club.

Maybe it's your attitude more than your size that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you kidding, you are stunning!!!

Every man loves something different and I would love to have my hands in your amazing figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey guys we saw you in the club on our visit to jaydees when you was on the cross we did enjoy the show and would love loved to have had a chat at see where we ended up. Sometimes you can get carried away with the whipping and although we like it i think many was unsure how to approach if that makes scene. Also sometimes people think as your a sexy couple they don't stand a chance so maybe don't bother trying. If we go on sat it would be nice to have a chat with you guys if nothing els.

Damm sexy btw lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys we saw you in the club on our visit to jaydees when you was on the cross we did enjoy the show and would love loved to have had a chat at see where we ended up. Sometimes you can get carried away with the whipping and although we like it i think many was unsure how to approach if that makes scene. Also sometimes people think as your a sexy couple they don't stand a chance so maybe don't bother trying. If we go on sat it would be nice to have a chat with you guys if nothing els.

Damm sexy btw lol "

This was my immediate thought. There are alot who look at a profile or see you in a club/social and will think they wouldn't give me a second glance.

I do this often with many on here... they get alot if attention and seem to have loads after them so sually pass them by as wouldnt be interested in me. Ive had some do it with me to. What I'm trying to say I guess it best to approach them show your interest...they can only say no thank you.

Secondly. ..I don't know you so can't say this is in anyway true but maybe it'show you come across too.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Surprised OP. I think it's safe to say, that here on Fab and in the real world, people are attracted to every body type.

Don't change, don't loose your confidence. There's millions of people that love and appreciate your body type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

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By *ack Seat LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Woking

Wow... gorgeous!!! You have nothing to worry about!! Shame your not looking for tv as I'd be at the front of the queue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a slim built woman, especially one with smaller boobs

Curves can be fun, but give me a slim girl to play with any day of the week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!"

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate "

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Trust me very few men really would take curves over a slimmer lady despite what many say.

Ive even had a group of guys who had spent a while telling me how slim isnt for them... only to actually bugger off when a slim lady offered play.

Perhaps it comes down to a confidence thing.

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"You're joking right!? OP, there are plenty of men who prefer slimmer body types.

No she's just on a fishing trip: for complements. "

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By *r KippleMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Hey, there are a few good men left out here that appreciate slim, sexy ladies, all is not lost!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Confidence issues...dear god

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Trust me very few men really would take curves over a slimmer lady despite what many say.

Ive even had a group of guys who had spent a while telling me how slim isnt for them... only to actually bugger off when a slim lady offered play.

Perhaps it comes down to a confidence thing. "

I agree

and maybe guys don't try with you cos they see you as out of there league

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Confidence issues...dear god"

OK having now read your profile I see this post as a "look at me" post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Trust me very few men really would take curves over a slimmer lady despite what many say.

Ive even had a group of guys who had spent a while telling me how slim isnt for them... only to actually bugger off when a slim lady offered play.

Perhaps it comes down to a confidence thing.

I agree

and maybe guys don't try with you cos they see you as out of there league "

And me.too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!"

So she should be inundated with offers to play in clubs then surely?

As for the rich and famous men, I'm sure their bank balance has got nothing to do with the women being attracted to those men

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Confidence issues...dear god

OK having now read your profile I see this post as a "look at me" post"

But all these threads are!!!

I once opened a thread about appreciation for Italians...and was totally ignored for the record...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!"

Nice

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By *ainaldoMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

You look super pretty to me so you'd definitely grab my attention!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

You look super pretty to me so you'd definitely grab my attention!"

Average I would say

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Sometimes I don't understand what people mean by curvy, I like my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender frame, figure 8 ,people might say that is curvy .

This is one advice I will give the ladies, if you are slim and in the club, it will be better to stand on your own so the guys can notice you, don't stand with the the curvy ladies, if you stand with the figure 8 ladies, they will overshadow you, am not too sure what curvy means anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "
I wouldn't mind meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I don't understand what people mean by curvy, I like my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender frame, figure 8 ,people might say that is curvy .

This is one advice I will give the ladies, if you are slim and in the club, it will be better to stand on your own so the guys can notice you, don't stand with the the curvy ladies, if you stand with the figure 8 ladies, they will overshadow you, am not too sure what curvy means anyways."

So if she's with fat girls people won't be able to see her because....????

Shadows too big?

Hiding her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the know your post shows everyone doubts themselves at tine. It is the human condition.

We always look to the side and see what others are doing. We never look back and see how far we have come.

Every bottle has a top, every tin has a lid. You will find people who are looking exactly for you.

Regardless of body shapes and size one thing we can probably agree on is that if you give off a good vibe and make people feel good about themselves then you really will win in life.

I think you look very hot.

Nom Nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate "

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's a shame this has turned into a bbw vs slim women debate. The OP in fact did not mention BBW, overweight, or obese women (some of the terms used on this thread) in her post, she said curvy women. Everyone has interpreted that to mean fat basically. Why can't we just be adults and agree everyone likes different things without getting sly digs in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting back to the OP

We get lots of plays at clubs, nowadays we go infrequently to different venues, don't get involved in the dramas, personal lives of others we are not there to socialise and drink we can do that in a local pub! We go to a club for play, maybe rather than blaming the lack of play on the slim issue (which I am) or indeed other issues you've bought up previously, it's time to just step back and think because it's either:-

You

Or the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to there own I love a slim girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here "

As can be seen by this thread for example, whenever a woman on here moans about not getting any attention there are always men who say they'd love to meet them.

I really don't think the size of the woman is important, if it means them getting their dick wet, they'll fawn all over the woman regardless of whether she's fat or thin.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

You're judging men with a very low opinion.

I'm not saying you're necessarily wrong in many cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is sexy. Sexy curves are sexy. Curvy as a polite term for overweight, not so much. Each to their own...

Curvy isn't necessarily overweight here. I see curvy as being next step after slim.

So it start with slim, then it can be either curvy or athletic depending if the person is sporty or not.

Afterwards are large, fabulous... "

I know. Curvy seems to be the most widely interpreted body description for ladies on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here

As can be seen by this thread for example, whenever a woman on here moans about not getting any attention there are always men who say they'd love to meet them.

I really don't think the size of the woman is important, if it means them getting their dick wet, they'll fawn all over the woman regardless of whether she's fat or thin.

"

Nope. The first attraction is physical. I don't hold with any port in a storm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here

As can be seen by this thread for example, whenever a woman on here moans about not getting any attention there are always men who say they'd love to meet them.

I really don't think the size of the woman is important, if it means them getting their dick wet, they'll fawn all over the woman regardless of whether she's fat or thin.

Nope. The first attraction is physical. I don't hold with any port in a storm..."

The majority of threads would say you're in the minority then. How many men say a woman is gorgeous without seeing their face. Just because someone has a slim body does not mean they're going to have an attractive face,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

You look gorgeous nothing wrong with you I wish that I had your figure.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Sometimes I don't understand what people mean by curvy, I like my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender frame, figure 8 ,people might say that is curvy .

This is one advice I will give the ladies, if you are slim and in the club, it will be better to stand on your own so the guys can notice you, don't stand with the the curvy ladies, if you stand with the figure 8 ladies, they will overshadow you, am not too sure what curvy means anyways.

So if she's with fat girls people won't be able to see her because....????

Shadows too big?

Hiding her?"

To be honest I don't really know for certain how women grade these things, I just hear a lot words being thrown around like , thick, curvy , slim ,skinny etc without the ladies really explaining how they have categorized these things, one thing for sure is these categories never came from us guys, it is solely at the doorstep of the ladies.

I love my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender figure , I consider these ladies slim, other ladies might say they are curvy, ladies you all need to explain these things and where you are getting them from.

My male friends with small cocks always run after the tiny ladies with no ass and boobs but I understand that is because during sex if they went for my big ass ladies and she turned around for doggy, their cocks will not enter the pussy properly and fall out, that is all that is and that is why they avoid the big ass ladies.

Furthermore, when they are fucking they stay very close to the ladies and don't pull out so their cocks stay in place,because it is small, I have a big cock so I bang my ladies, pulling out and inserting at every stroke. Now if all the small cock guys are avoiding my big ass ladies, the ladies think they are not attractive, it is not true, it is the guys with the issue not you ladies.

I have a big cock so a big ass is no problem to me.

Ladies please apply critical thinking at all times and don't work off emotions, act like a woman but always think like a man , be observant and analyse people's behaviours and stop feeling bad about yourselves.

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By *inifeggMan
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "
nothing wrong with a slim girl. You look gorgeous to me

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"Sometimes I don't understand what people mean by curvy, I like my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender frame, figure 8 ,people might say that is curvy .

This is one advice I will give the ladies, if you are slim and in the club, it will be better to stand on your own so the guys can notice you, don't stand with the the curvy ladies, if you stand with the figure 8 ladies, they will overshadow you, am not too sure what curvy means anyways.

So if she's with fat girls people won't be able to see her because....????

Shadows too big?

Hiding her?

To be honest I don't really know for certain how women grade these things, I just hear a lot words being thrown around like , thick, curvy , slim ,skinny etc without the ladies really explaining how they have categorized these things, one thing for sure is these categories never came from us guys, it is solely at the doorstep of the ladies.

I love my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender figure , I consider these ladies slim, other ladies might say they are curvy, ladies you all need to explain these things and where you are getting them from.

My male friends with small cocks always run after the tiny ladies with no ass and boobs but I understand that is because during sex if they went for my big ass ladies and she turned around for doggy, their cocks will not enter the pussy properly and fall out, that is all that is and that is why they avoid the big ass ladies.

Furthermore, when they are fucking they stay very close to the ladies and don't pull out so their cocks stay in place,because it is small, I have a big cock so I bang my ladies, pulling out and inserting at every stroke. Now if all the small cock guys are avoiding my big ass ladies, the ladies think they are not attractive, it is not true, it is the guys with the issue not you ladies.

I have a big cock so a big ass is no problem to me.

Ladies please apply critical thinking at all times and don't work off emotions, act like a woman but always think like a man , be observant and analyse people's behaviours and stop feeling bad about yourselves."

Ah there we go then OP all you need to do is look for the guys with small cocks because they will want you!

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

U have a fantastic figure. I would love some fun with you.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

There is someone for everyone, which is what makes life so interesting.

However, the perception in the UK is that larger is the norm.

Going to continent (France specifically) , there is a noticeable difference in what the norm is. Different cultures, different normal I guess.

We prefer slimmer physiques ourselves, and often comment that clubs often run bbw nights, but not the alternative sbw (slim beautiful women)... Maybe there is an idea there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m size 16 but I want to get back to a size 12. I find it very annoying that if I mention I am on a diet to a man, they then say you are okay and that they want me to keep the curves. I don't care if I don't get any meets when I get slim, I,m not happy having rolls of fat. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "
Slim is best you are a very lucky girl, look fantastic and have a great body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I don't understand what people mean by curvy, I like my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender frame, figure 8 ,people might say that is curvy .

This is one advice I will give the ladies, if you are slim and in the club, it will be better to stand on your own so the guys can notice you, don't stand with the the curvy ladies, if you stand with the figure 8 ladies, they will overshadow you, am not too sure what curvy means anyways.

So if she's with fat girls people won't be able to see her because....????

Shadows too big?

Hiding her?

To be honest I don't really know for certain how women grade these things, I just hear a lot words being thrown around like , thick, curvy , slim ,skinny etc without the ladies really explaining how they have categorized these things, one thing for sure is these categories never came from us guys, it is solely at the doorstep of the ladies.

I love my ladies with a big ass and big boobs on a slender figure , I consider these ladies slim, other ladies might say they are curvy, ladies you all need to explain these things and where you are getting them from.

My male friends with small cocks always run after the tiny ladies with no ass and boobs but I understand that is because during sex if they went for my big ass ladies and she turned around for doggy, their cocks will not enter the pussy properly and fall out, that is all that is and that is why they avoid the big ass ladies.

Furthermore, when they are fucking they stay very close to the ladies and don't pull out so their cocks stay in place,because it is small, I have a big cock so I bang my ladies, pulling out and inserting at every stroke. Now if all the small cock guys are avoiding my big ass ladies, the ladies think they are not attractive, it is not true, it is the guys with the issue not you ladies.

I have a big cock so a big ass is no problem to me.

Ladies please apply critical thinking at all times and don't work off emotions, act like a woman but always think like a man , be observant and analyse people's behaviours and stop feeling bad about yourselves.

Ah there we go then OP all you need to do is look for the guys with small cocks because they will want you! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you live so far away... is all I'm saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame you live so far away... is all I'm saying. "

Sheffield is far from Cambridge?

Go live in the States for awhile. People drive this distance just to do their shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

We love slimmer ladies. We would quite happily let you join in with us at a club! Good luck and happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

I've seen you at the club and the guys do look at you. Your a beauty and you have all the right moves on the pole.

As a larger girl I find I don't get any attention in the club.

I think guys are just to picky.

The single guys if you see OP in the club talk to her as she is such a sweetheart.

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m size 16 but I want to get back to a size 12. I find it very annoying that if I mention I am on a diet to a man, they then say you are okay and that they want me to keep the curves. I don't care if I don't get any meets when I get slim, I,m not happy having rolls of fat. XXX"

I'm exactly the same. I'm a size 18. I've been bigger but I would love to be a size 14.

A lot of guys message "I love curvy,bbw's" but in the club no guys come near.

Can't win either way. ??

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I,m size 16 but I want to get back to a size 12. I find it very annoying that if I mention I am on a diet to a man, they then say you are okay and that they want me to keep the curves. I don't care if I don't get any meets when I get slim, I,m not happy having rolls of fat. XXX

I'm exactly the same. I'm a size 18. I've been bigger but I would love to be a size 14.

A lot of guys message "I love curvy,bbw's" but in the club no guys come near.

Can't win either way. ??"

The harsh truth is that where a slim woman is on offer the vast majority of men will prefer her to a non slim woman. However if no slim woman is on offer but a non slim woman is most men will try to get it off with her. They will tell her they prefer non slim women in order to maximize their chance of a fuck.

As someone above said most men will say anything if it increases their chance of getting their dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m size 16 but I want to get back to a size 12. I find it very annoying that if I mention I am on a diet to a man, they then say you are okay and that they want me to keep the curves. I don't care if I don't get any meets when I get slim, I,m not happy having rolls of fat. XXX

I'm exactly the same. I'm a size 18. I've been bigger but I would love to be a size 14.

A lot of guys message "I love curvy,bbw's" but in the club no guys come near.

Can't win either way. ??

The harsh truth is that where a slim woman is on offer the vast majority of men will prefer her to a non slim woman. However if no slim woman is on offer but a non slim woman is most men will try to get it off with her. They will tell her they prefer non slim women in order to maximize their chance of a fuck.

As someone above said most men will say anything if it increases their chance of getting their dick wet. "

Sadly this is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit. "

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ..."

Thats what we are led to believe, reading some of the guys profiles .. it always appears that they are looking for a confident woman, big or small, tall or short. Hmmm

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ..."

Confidence is likely to make a person more attractive, irrespective of their size, just as smiling does. But the evidence remains, there is a strong preference in most men for smaller sizes.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that "

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive. "

I agree with this, I just wish that there wasn't this idea on here that men who say they like larger women are only saying it because they're desperate. Some obviously are but that doesn't mean ALL are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ...

Thats what we are led to believe, reading some of the guys profiles .. it always appears that they are looking for a confident woman, big or small, tall or short. Hmmm"

Confidence in a woman is futile if there's no real substance. A slim good looking woman will look shy and appealing sitting in the corner, while a not so good looking one may have all the confidence in the world but she may look brazen and stupid with acting out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ...

Thats what we are led to believe, reading some of the guys profiles .. it always appears that they are looking for a confident woman, big or small, tall or short. Hmmm

Confidence in a woman is futile if there's no real substance. A slim good looking woman will look shy and appealing sitting in the corner, while a not so good looking one may have all the confidence in the world but she may look brazen and stupid with acting out. "

So women shouldn't have confidence unless they are 'good looking '

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I was gutted the other day after getting a 'not interested' message from a new guy because I'm not curvy enough!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive.

I agree with this, I just wish that there wasn't this idea on here that men who say they like larger women are only saying it because they're desperate. Some obviously are but that doesn't mean ALL are."

In evolutionary psychology there are such things as 'adaptive preferences' which basically means that the men will look at what other men find attractive and then develop attraction to the opposite. The lower competition increases the chance of their genes reproducing and hence why the trait survives. This is sub-conscious and the men are not lying and their attraction is genuine. Not all men who fancy larger women are expressing an adaptive prefernce either, some just do.

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

I much prefer slim women. Curvy is great too. But not really attracted to fat women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Statistically most men prefer slim women to larger ones so either you are meeting a very unrepresentative sample or meeting a lot of men who are talking shit.

...don't they prefer confident women whatever their size? ...

Thats what we are led to believe, reading some of the guys profiles .. it always appears that they are looking for a confident woman, big or small, tall or short. Hmmm

Confidence in a woman is futile if there's no real substance. A slim good looking woman will look shy and appealing sitting in the corner, while a not so good looking one may have all the confidence in the world but she may look brazen and stupid with acting out.

In my opinion you're full of shite! !! "

Speaking from personal experience, no doubt, eh? Is this how you feel when you are full of shit? Are you full of that substance most of the time or only when you decide to attack other members' personal views?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Keep it civil please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Slim girls for me every time!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun

Slim girls for me every time!"

I thought that until i saw pornstar 'london keyes' and then i realised some women can pull it off

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

Come 'ere.

Love the waiflike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here "

You seem very eager to make sure everyone knows that men who prefer larger women are desperate. Maybe learn how to spell it though, it comes across better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive. "

I think most women are more than aware that the majority of guys prefer slim women. I'm not sure that's ever been questioned.

I think I can speak on behalf of many of us larger ladies when I say that what we do take issue with is when people equate desperation to liking a larger body size. It's utter bollocks. I'm sick of reading it, to be totally honest.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive.

I think most women are more than aware that the majority of guys prefer slim women. I'm not sure that's ever been questioned.

I think I can speak on behalf of many of us larger ladies when I say that what we do take issue with is when people equate desperation to liking a larger body size. It's utter bollocks. I'm sick of reading it, to be totally honest. "

As i said in my post about 'adaptive preferences', there are certainly men who prefer larger women.

I think 'desperation' is the wrong term. Let's just say that for arguements sake 15% of men in the uk prefer larger women and 85% prefer slimmer (all other things being equal). Then you come on this site and maybe 70% of men are claiming to prefer larger women. So when someone accuses men of being 'desperate' i think they are really calling bullshit on ~55% of men who are claiming an unrepresentative preference. As i say, it's the wrong term but it is alluding to a real disparity. Possibly. It could be true that a very high percentage of the 15% of men who prefer larger women are on fab, i guess we need Sydney University to do a study on it.

Here's a link to someone claiming men secretly prefer larger women: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/660691

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

The evidence says otherwise sadly. When men are in a position to have a choice of women, they almost never choose the obese ones.

Conversely, desparate men will stack the odds in their favour as much as they can by going for the least desirable women. So they aren't competing with more desirable men.

It works both ways by the way, not just singling out women here

As can be seen by this thread for example, whenever a woman on here moans about not getting any attention there are always men who say they'd love to meet them.

I really don't think the size of the woman is important, if it means them getting their dick wet, they'll fawn all over the woman regardless of whether she's fat or thin.

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Bang. Where's that box of nails I put down somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was gutted the other day after getting a 'not interested' message from a new guy because I'm not curvy enough!! "

Hahaha I've had the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brokenbrilliance, desperation goes both ways. It's possible that many larger women are desperate, hence they are on fab for sex.

(I know I'll be gilotined for this comment )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim is preferred by most men. Don't worry!

Don't be fooled by desparate men pretending to idolise BBW's just to get laid

Look at just about every rich/famous/succeessful guy. All the WAGs are slim!

While I agree that a lot of men prefer slim women I'm not sure there's any need to insinuate that men only go with bbws as they are desperate

Is not a question of desperation as such. Most men have a very wide margin of women they will have sex with. However, if offered the choice between a non overweight and an overweight woman most men would choose the former. That's not to say men don't fancy the overweight women, just that they fancy the non overweight women more.

It follows that on a site like this where there are vastly more men than women that, realistically, thst a lot of men won't get to have sex with their first preference re body shape. Hence the attention BBWs get here.

Obviously, men will not tell women they want to have sex with they prefer slim women that other things being equal they prefer another body shape. As we all know when men want a fuck they will say anything.

If overweight women are offended that men they have sex with fancy slim women more, this may be the wrong site for them. I think you have be realistic about the reality of attraction. I am fifty with very little hair. I am quite well aware that most women will find a bloke aged thirty with hair more attractive and I am zen about that

Exactly, i am below average height. The majority of women prefer taller men. I am zen about that. I still get good quality pussy from the sample available to me.

I just don't get why certain larger women try to delude themselves that the majority of men prefer larger when all the evidence is contrary. Doesn't mean they don't get laid or that nobody finds them attractive.

I think most women are more than aware that the majority of guys prefer slim women. I'm not sure that's ever been questioned.

I think I can speak on behalf of many of us larger ladies when I say that what we do take issue with is when people equate desperation to liking a larger body size. It's utter bollocks. I'm sick of reading it, to be totally honest.

As i said in my post about 'adaptive preferences', there are certainly men who prefer larger women.

I think 'desperation' is the wrong term. Let's just say that for arguements sake 15% of men in the uk prefer larger women and 85% prefer slimmer (all other things being equal). Then you come on this site and maybe 70% of men are claiming to prefer larger women. So when someone accuses men of being 'desperate' i think they are really calling bullshit on ~55% of men who are claiming an unrepresentative preference. As i say, it's the wrong term but it is alluding to a real disparity. Possibly. It could be true that a very high percentage of the 15% of men who prefer larger women are on fab, i guess we need Sydney University to do a study on it.

Here's a link to someone claiming men secretly prefer larger women: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/660691"

You love a statistic, don't you!

I'm under no illusion that men prefer slimmer women. I think the difference is on a site like this is that people are more open to things that they wouldn't necessarily look for out in the vanilla world. Do some lower their so-called standards on here? Probably. This is also the same for conventionally unattractive women.

You didn't use desperate but many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brokenbrilliance, desperation goes both ways. It's possible that many larger women are desperate, hence they are on fab for sex.

(I know I'll be gilotined for this comment ) "

I think everyone on this site, whether short, tall, large or slim are here because they want sex. It refers to us all. Desperate, some might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your boobs are amazing x

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

OP you look amazing, if the other people in the club can't see that then they're fools! However that said it might be because you look so hot that that is the reason why they don't play with you, they may feel they don't have a chance with you both! Dont get down about it, you look fab!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I was gutted the other day after getting a 'not interested' message from a new guy because I'm not curvy enough!! "

I've had two guys leave a meet because they thought from my pics that I was bigger than I actually look in person and they only like large ladies, as hard as it is for some to believe, some people do have a sincere attraction to larger ladies

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over a year ago


"I was gutted the other day after getting a 'not interested' message from a new guy because I'm not curvy enough!!

I've had two guys leave a meet because they thought from my pics that I was bigger than I actually look in person and they only like large ladies, as hard as it is for some to believe, some people do have a sincere attraction to larger ladies"

There is the proof right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding been a slim girl myself a bit depressing, the number of guys that I hear prefer curvy girls, loosing my confidence in the club we go too because I seem to be the only slim girl there,

We always seem to end up doing our own thing while the curves get all the fun "

You seem perfectly dangerously curved to me

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Please ladies I really need to be educated on this subject matter and I will appreciate it if a lady with a good understanding of the subject matter explains it, can the ladies break down slim , curvy, skinny , thick etc into dress sizes? I am confused, I like my women slim but I want some flesh on them so I feel I am fucking a woman, I aslo want big boobs and big ass

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think that's enough now. I'm closing this thread. If you can't all agree then you can't be in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please ladies I really need to be educated on this subject matter and I will appreciate it if a lady with a good understanding of the subject matter explains it, can the ladies break down slim , curvy, skinny , thick etc into dress sizes? I am confused, I like my women slim but I want some flesh on them so I feel I am fucking a woman, I aslo want big boobs and big ass"

Dress size won't help you as a six foot woman in a size 14 is very different to a five foot woman in the same size

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