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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what it is but lately I can't come through sex. I'm hard horny and well up for it but just can't seem to hit that o can literally fuck for ages in all positions and still can't get it anyone else had this yet when I maturbate can come in minutes any ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB has the same problem, it started a year or so ago. I looked it up and I think it's in the mind. As you can come through masturbation it's not a blockage, he is the same lasts for ages in sex but can come watching porn alone in 5 mins. XXX

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

IM the same lately and as awesum as it sounds it actually gets quite frustrating. Plus my partner worries if it's her that's not turning me on enough! Madness.

Let me know too if there's an answer. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Luckily my FBs loving it she's never had so many o's so that's 1 less think to worry about its more me it's bothering its not that big of a deal as it's not like I can't cum but nothing beats exploding deep in her if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luckily my FBs loving it she's never had so many o's so that's 1 less think to worry about its more me it's bothering its not that big of a deal as it's not like I can't cum but nothing beats exploding deep in her if you know what I mean "

I sometimes get this, I find that I’m most sensitive during the initial period of play. I don’t repeat so always make sure I don’t go off too soon.

As play is extended I find that it actually gets harder and harder to cum.

Often I find that I just can’t cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably only cum from sex like 5 times in my life. Never from a blowjob and maybe once with a handy. Just not very sesitive. But I also get very anxious, so most of the time I'm not really in the moment or even enjoying it. Still make sure they have a good time though, all that matters really

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Iv been like this about a year now, iv been told it was because I had desensitised myself thru masterbation as I was in a sexless relationship for years

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Luckily my FBs loving it she's never had so many o's so that's 1 less think to worry about its more me it's bothering its not that big of a deal as it's not like I can't cum but nothing beats exploding deep in her if you know what I mean

I sometimes get this, I find that I’m most sensitive during the initial period of play. I don’t repeat so always make sure I don’t go off too soon.

As play is extended I find that it actually gets harder and harder to cum.

Often I find that I just can’t cum. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a psychologist recently who said this is a growing phenomenon among men (of all ages, possibly due to the quicker availability of porn) who watch a lot of porn and who wank a lot. They've become so used to fantasy that they're desensitised to reality. Try laying of wanking for a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in a similar situation myself.

Go 30 days with no hand Shandy's and no porn. It'll sort you out, if not, 60 days etc

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