I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apology for being so long winded too. |
