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By *ertsguy2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

hertford

So when you consider meets or far is too far for you?

After a lack of local success I've been thinking surely the odds of me finding someone I find attractive and suitable increase the further afield I look.

So with that in mind, how far do you consider is too far? And if the other party is willing to travel to you, would their distance from you be an issue?

HG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour each way tends to be my max unless they are irresistible but then I would make a weekend away of it x

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

For the right person I would def travel - my last FWB lived in Istanbul, then he moved to Serbia, then Tunisia and finally he's moved to Brazil - i would go there but it's the expense and length of the flight puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelled 6 hours on Saturday and 6 hours home Sunday

For the right meet .... id go anywhere xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within an hour's drive is ideal, although exceptions can be made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Travelled 6 hours on Saturday and 6 hours home Sunday

For the right meet .... id go anywhere xx"

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Travelled 6 hours on Saturday and 6 hours home Sunday

For the right meet .... id go anywhere xx"

my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour, unless Im staying over or they are cooking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually expect to drive an hour for a meet, party or club. If we're lucky it'll be more local. But there are relatively few guys who are genuinely interested in Hotwifing couples, so we would be prepared to go a bit further a field if necessary. Sadly, we had a couple of guys who were all very keen until they experienced the 3 hour round journey to the backside of nowhere. So it's a personal thing as to whether it's worth it or not.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour, unless Im staying over or they are cooking.."

How do you like your eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet half way and travel up to 30 mins. I won't meet people further than that. If they say they'll travel to me I just think they're desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple travel from Essex to meet us and then we went to them for a weekend so all depends really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drive alot for work, so distance isn't a real issue for me, but normally I would limit it to 100miles if I was doing a search.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So when you consider meets or far is too far for you?

"

Most certainly Canada is too far... unless I happen to be passing... which hasn't happened yet.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to travel a long distance one needs to be sure. I don't think anybody wants to travel for a long time on the off-chance that there might be a connection or attraction.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet half way and travel up to 30 mins. I won't meet people further than that. If they say they'll travel to me I just think they're desperate. "

How about Penistone??? (Hint, hint)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 11/2 hours each way as roads round here are crap

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The next postcode is too far for us.

Serious answer...Around an hour travel time, is our max limit. We need to be close enough to get home quickly, if needed.

Not keen on others travelling too far for us, now either. They often assume (in our experience) that we have to put out, just because they've put themselves out by travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was 2 hours...try to be within an hour now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One hour.... But ideally under 45mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour.... But ideally under 45mins. "

This

However OP I might make an exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour.... But ideally under 45mins.

This

However OP I might make an exception "

Who's that then ?

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

For a first/social meet, ideally half an hour, maybe an hour.

If meeting subsequently, quite a bit further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour.... But ideally under 45mins.

This

However OP I might make an exception "

For me? Joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour.... But ideally under 45mins.

This

However OP I might make an exception

Who's that then ? "

The gentleman who started the thread

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I once travelled three hours each way on a Friday after work for a meet. But it was a very good meet.

Generally I prefer to spend less time, however. I meet one FWB in a hotel close to home, and a regular partner about an hour away, 80 minutes if I miss a train connection.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For the right person, if they were prepared to meet halfway, and other circumstances allowing, then 2 or 3 hours drive each way wouldn't be an issue.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

More than five less than forty unless it's a special or club meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled and had some awesome meets.

I've travelled and had some terrible meets aswell. It's a Long lonely drive back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have travelled about 6 miles each way if you can stay the night it is worth it,lady I met on another site some years ago we stayed friends so if I get a meeting in Hampshire I stay with her and if she gets one near me she will stay and we have fun, so it gives us a better meeting range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally 30-45 mins max unless I can combine work with pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet half way and travel up to 30 mins. I won't meet people further than that. If they say they'll travel to me I just think they're desperate.

How about Penistone??? (Hint, hint) "

Where?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends how well you get on.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I have travelled 2 hours to meet after a while chatting. I have had a couple people visit travelling 3 hours. I have even flown to Manchester to meet and then off to a club. I do travel for the right people.I prefer to meet people not from my local area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour, unless Im staying over or they are cooking..

How do you like your eggs "

Scrambled, with a tiny bit of smoked salmon and between two thighs..

Too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have travelled 2 hours to meet after a while chatting. I have had a couple people visit travelling 3 hours. I have even flown to Manchester to meet and then off to a club. I do travel for the right people.I prefer to meet people not from my local area."

I'd travel a few hours , guessing that's about how far away you are

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We don't play local so try and incorporate a meeting with a night away in a nice spa hotel. We have travelled to corfu for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you consider meets or far is too far for you?

After a lack of local success I've been thinking surely the odds of me finding someone I find attractive and suitable increase the further afield I look.

So with that in mind, how far do you consider is too far? And if the other party is willing to travel to you, would their distance from you be an issue?

HG

"

Off to north Yorkshire from Essex next week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id travel to the top of Everest for the right person

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By *ertsguy2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

hertford

So it seems most are happy to travel at least an hour or so, and considerably more if the felt it was worth the extra effort.

I think I agree with this, although I would probably stretch to a 2hr drive as a standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a certain women on here I would travel any distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As im right on south coast my choices are limited. Wish I was bang in the middle of the country as more chance of meeting.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

20 miles.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We preferto meet people not on our local area so we always travel our futherest is 3 hours away so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next door would be ideal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 11/2 hours each way as roads round here are crap "

11 divided by 2 = 5.5 hours... That's good of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id travel to the top of Everest for the right person "

I've been there. You'll be far too knackered to do anything......!

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels


"Id travel to the top of Everest for the right person "

Perhaps one day you will

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We'd happily travel for a couple of hours or even a tad longer for the right meet...That equates to about 150 miles north of us and about 50 miles if going south as the roads/tracks down this way are woeful

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Anything over 30 mins drive is too far for me, maybe 45 for a hottie

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Anything over 30 mins drive is too far for me, maybe 45 for a hottie "

And how far for a lukewarmie?

*gets out maps, charts and a compass*

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By *eterbeebeeMan
over a year ago

Derby

Whatever the distance, they could stay and I would do the cooking or entertain out between bouts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled the length and width for the right people.

I'll continue to do so too! Road trips are half the fun

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By *iSubSlutWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

An hour or so seems fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have traveled all around london before, but now I dont got so much time, so someone 10min away would be ideal lol.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"An hour each way tends to be my max unless they are irresistible but then I would make a weekend away of it x"

would i be worth the distance??? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour each way tends to be my max unless they are irresistible but then I would make a weekend away of it x

would i be worth the distance??? x"

Yeah! Not much further than an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like the travelling which adds to the excitement especially when there has been good rapport built up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'm a right git and won't spend over a tenner for petrol money...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 50-100 miles for the right person and if they were a regularly swinging partner. If its a first meet, I would prefer local .. within 20miles

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