FabSwingers.com forum: Guys any help on lasting longer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So little bit embarrassing but when I'm super horny after giving oral or whatever, when it comes to it and I'm fucking I don't last long at alll I'm only 23 and can go multiple times but I just want to last longer.. any tips anything to help? Cheers guys

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Stop worrying about it and don't meet women who won't accept how your body works

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Just think of Theresa May; should do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't bother me at all especially if you are a repeater!

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

My first load goes quick after 5 mins but then when I'm hard after that I can go for ages

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By *ason.Man
over a year ago

west yorkshire

Mutual masterbstion or oral to climax before actual intercourse simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys, I've never met someone who's moaned about it but it's just for my self it annoys me, Theresa may ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub your tongue on the top of your mouth, it's meant to work....allegedly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull out hit it with a hammer and start agai.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look into exercising your pelvic floor muscles (kegels). It is a tedious routine but if you have the discipline for it you will see definite improvement.

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By *lbi niceMan
over a year ago

romsley

"Just think of Theresa May; should do the trick."

Mmmmm Theresa may ...thanks now you got me super power horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kegal exercise works but takes months to build up the ability to hold

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

My wife prefers a good 5 mins to a bad half hour . So take it how it goes keep changing cock finger tongue And concentrate on pleasing women first ??

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley

"So little bit embarrassing but when I'm super horny after giving oral or whatever, when it comes to it and I'm fucking I don't last long at alll I'm only 23 and can go multiple times but I just want to last longer.. any tips anything to help? Cheers guys "

Just slow down , foreplay then pull out kiss for a while and then start again . If your feeling that your going to climax slow the pace down . We all have to learn self control and it comes with age ... excuse the pun

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

I have the opposite 'problem'. I can go for ages and when finally I shoot, I'm totally emptied mentally and physically so I just get up and go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day

ahhhhhhhhhhh

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"My wife prefers a good 5 mins to a bad half hour ."

I definitely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just think of Theresa May; should do the trick."

Good tip. Think about something else. Something unpleasant. Your dick will still be hard, but you won't feel that your excitement is rising higher

Also, slow down, pull out and go for oral for a while.

When inside, don't go all the length and depth in every thrust, but move only half an inch. Your woman will still feel the pleasure,but when your dick is deep inside her, the head will be in enlarged area and less encroached, less friction and sensations.

And don't worry that something is wrong with you. All young men get a bit too excited and lose control easily. When you become 30 yo, you'll feel a lot more confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get a hard on put a wet flannel on the end of your cock an lift, once this becomes easy work your way up to bigger towels. The towels are weights . Lifting them will strengthen your muscles an make you go longer. Do 10 to 20 reps to start xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You said not to go all the way in, then you said move about an inch. That is all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You said not to go all the way in, then you said move about an inch. That is all the way

Oh, fuck!

I forgot that only I have 20" cock. The rest a 1 Inchers

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"Just think of Theresa May; should do the trick."

Bloody nora! He wants to last longer not make it pack up its balls and leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby struggles to last more than a minute or two! Not really found anything that helps him last any longer just yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dab of China brush lotion then wash off after 30 minutes.keep you going all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rub your tongue on the top of your mouth, it's meant to work....allegedly!!! "

That's to get rid of hiccups mate. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get a hard on put a wet flannel on the end of your cock an lift, once this becomes easy work your way up to bigger towels. The towels are weights . Lifting them will strengthen your muscles an make you go longer. Do 10 to 20 reps to start xx"

That actually work? Lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Think of Alan Sugar!!

That'll do the trick!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers guys, I've never met someone who's moaned about it but it's just for my self it annoys me, Theresa may ??????"

She's the Prime Minister

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cheers guys, I've never met someone who's moaned about it but it's just for my self it annoys me, Theresa may ??????

She's the Prime Minister "

Yeh I added laughing faces but it changed them to ???? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of me with my Norah battey stockings and my clogs on. This will give you loads of staying power lol

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

So you can go multiple times and last much longer 2nd time. When I was a teen ( long time ago lol ) I tried wanking just before fun. Works ??

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

If your a repeater I would say bash one out before meeting a women about an hour beforehand , I used to do this as a lad. I used to call it prepping.

Not needed for me now lol

Mr k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thicker condoms -"extra safe"

Numbing condoms

A few co-codamol tablets 30 mins before

Or citalopam, on average studies found it increased duration of people with severe premature ejaculation by 700%

Side effects suck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdly i find i fun faster with slow sex.

Hard pounding cant really feel all the sensation slow long strokes and you can feel every thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try having a wank before you play

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

-Keep yourself fit

-In sex, adopt comfortable postures

-Control your breathing

-Practice Kegels

-DO NOT QUICK WANKS AT HOME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's true. You would have to practice an get back to me though. On if it works, as I have no cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop watching porn. It isn't real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe no one has mentioned cock rings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe no one has mentioned cock rings x"

Was literally about to post that.

Clever minds

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

Do the 17 times table in your head...should make you last hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm honest asking for tips is probably gonna play on your mind. Putting more pressure on trying to perform longer.

Don't worry and enjoy the moment. Once you've cum, have a drink chill for 5 mins then go again. Don't put pressure on yourself bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe no one has mentioned cock rings x"

Just don't confuse them with vibrating rings.

You'll last 3seconds

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Shag ugly women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other complaint I get from the wife is that I last too long. Early in intercourse I take it easy and pause and pull out and tease with it. This helps me to go past any thoughts of quick ejaculation and then I seem to go on too long at times.

Will have to practice more

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Drink loads of tea & dunk lots of custard creams - works for me

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

When you find a hot woman, just let us know, we'll do the first hour for you, you can pop in and do the last 5 minutes. We always like to help

Ps dont worry about it, relax, experience and time will help.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you find a hot woman, just let us know, we'll do the first hour for you, you can pop in and do the last 5 minutes. We always like to help

Ps dont worry about it, relax, experience and time will help.

MrB"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do my multiplication tables in my mind starting at the 2s and working upwards but one time when I was up to the 15s she asked if it always took me this long to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day

naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day

ahhhhhhhhhhh"

I was going to post the exact same mantra Austin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slip a mention of the time into your pre sex convo and then if possible reset your clock during or discreetly straight after to a later time and exclaim 'phew we were at that ages '

Obviously involves some element of multitasking so maybe a bit much to ask as you are a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like In Your Soul has said...

Muscle tone in the pelvic area is important... kegels really work. You can incorporate it into play.

Most important I think is, breathing. You can control your orgasm indefinitely by breathing and relaxing.

Orgasm is the spasming of the pelvic muscles in particular the perineum. Learn to let go of those muscles and relax them.

Do you know about the 4 phases of orgasm?

1 is when you're hard.

2 is growing arousal.

3 is the first sensation that an orgasm is approaching.

4 is orgasm itself.

Practise taking deep breaths as soon as you're in phase 2.

Discover which positions keep you hard and which will take you into orgasm.

Changes in rhythm, depth and angle will take you either closer or further. Experiment to find what works for you. Also, changing up from mouth to pussy can provide a variety of stimulation, and give you other things to focus on.

Every time you feel yourself heading into phase 3, slow down a little, take a deep breath, and focus on your sensations.

Don't try to avoid cumming... just focus on how much you enjoy the fucking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for all the help, I'm gonna get on with some of these and see how I get on

thank you

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What you think is not long enough might be exactly what the lady enjoys.

It is all a matter of perspective.

Because you are a repeater you have more chances to make sure you are both fully satisfied.

I prefer the foreplay to the actual penetration personally, so long as you have that going on then I wouldn't worry too much about how long it is before you cum during penetration.

Some men can take a really long time to cum and that is not necessarily a good thing either, as one or both might get frustrated or sore.

I wouldn't worry too much about your body, just learn how it works the best you can and enjoy it.

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