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Married 17 years, is it possible to fall for someone else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being raised in a very racist family the thought of finding a black cock to fuck was a real turn on, after joining fab I took the plunge to meet my first black man. Now we bonded totally geled with each other and he can satisfy me in ways nobody else ever has. I have since met him several other times and our friendship gets stronger and stronger. Every time we've met I've had the time of my life and no other man makes me feel how I do with him. I'm now finding myself trying to resist meeting him again as I'm afraid of what could happen. If there's only one person that I should be with sexually it's him. Is this to wrong or should I just go for it and see where it leads.

Thanks in advance for any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does he want ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does he want ? "

He wants to get serious with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It feels so wrong because I'm married with children but we're made for each other

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By *riztangMan
over a year ago

dungannon all over uk

U just need to find the right white cock x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I really want is to leave and be with him but I can't because of my family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your husband will read this thread and take the hint eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I really want is to leave and be with him but I can't because of my family"

and there is your answer i guess - nobody can make the choice but yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What I really want is to leave and be with him but I can't because of my family

and there is your answer i guess - nobody can make the choice but yourself"

I just can't help myself I've totally fallen for him. Hubby is aware of how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what does Husband say about it?

Was your husband who first asked you to try black cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really appreciate the comments so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking someone else is like a holiday it's wonderful and exciting but moving there and living there will be very different xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you planning to move in together and be a couple. Is it just lust? I think you should take a step back and some timeout to think about it. If you go off with him where does this leave your kids? Your heading for a fall whichever way you go... xxx

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should have married a black guy in the first place? We've never got the couples both white that chase around for black guys only like a trophy, why didn't they marry a black guy in the first place? Maybe it's because they truelly saw black men as an underclass but we guess a racist upbringing doesn't help eh? Maybe at last you've realised that black men are not just there to service your sexual needs as a sexual slave, but are people just like everyone else, so at least you've learnt something....

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


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Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why."

Should have said loads of other "men"

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

This thread could get interesting.....I will keep checking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U only get one life. If ur marriage is worth giving up for this man then do it. Only u know how you really feel.

It is always a risk when sleeping with people that u will meet someone else. Seen it happen so many times over the yrs. People rarely want to discuss it but u dont have to go far to find a couple who have split because one person fell for someone they swung with.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

This...is all that needs to be said!!

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By *exysurferMan
over a year ago

Bromley


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

Couldn't have put it better myself

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So your husband supports you , and is happy that every time you meet this guy you want your husband less ?

Unless you are developing a very strong cuck relationship , this can't and won't work . Is your husband seriously supporting a relationship which will ultimately end up with you leaving him for this other guy? Or is he just getting off on how much you enjoy the sex with the other guy ?

Will the guy be happy raising your kids , providing the support you'll need etc...... or will your husband simply say it's ok for you to go off into the sunset with your lover , and he'll raise the family while you live your life with the guy that you think you should be with ?

I firmly believe we should all live our lives the best way we can in order to be happy . If that means for you to do so you need to spend it with the other guy , then go for it . But it won't be an easy ride , and much of what makes it so exciting will soon fade when reality sets in .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

100% from every angle. Spot on

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"So your husband supports you , and is happy that every time you meet this guy you want your husband less ?

Unless you are developing a very strong cuck relationship , this can't and won't work . Is your husband seriously supporting a relationship which will ultimately end up with you leaving him for this other guy? Or is he just getting off on how much you enjoy the sex with the other guy ?

Will the guy be happy raising your kids , providing the support you'll need etc...... or will your husband simply say it's ok for you to go off into the sunset with your lover , and he'll raise the family while you live your life with the guy that you think you should be with ?

I firmly believe we should all live our lives the best way we can in order to be happy . If that means for you to do so you need to spend it with the other guy , then go for it . But it won't be an easy ride , and much of what makes it so exciting will soon fade when reality sets in .

"

And another this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his "

Does he really understand how you feel about this guy though, that you're contemplating leaving the family for him?

I get that some men get off on their wives having a BBC, being in a cuck scenario of humiliation , does he think it's an extension of that?

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Going on a singers site for marriage advice. ??? What could possibly ly go wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

Does he really understand how you feel about this guy though, that you're contemplating leaving the family for him?

He's not interested in cuck one bit. We're going to take it slow and see what happens. You only live once

I get that some men get off on their wives having a BBC, being in a cuck scenario of humiliation , does he think it's an extension of that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you're in a very lucky situation but want someone else to make your decision for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going on a singers site for marriage advice. ??? What could possibly ly go wrong "

Maybe she has no one else to ask, they might judge her...

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Fucking someone else is like a holiday it's wonderful and exciting but moving there and living there will be very different xx"

This is very true

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

Does he really understand how you feel about this guy though, that you're contemplating leaving the family for him?

He's not interested in cuck one bit. We're going to take it slow and see what happens. You only live once

I get that some men get off on their wives having a BBC, being in a cuck scenario of humiliation , does he think it's an extension of that?"

So let me get this right .

Your husband isn't a cuck , he's not at all that way inclined .

You want him less and less the more you see the black guy .

You've fallen head over heels for the black guy .

You feel that you only live once , and want to be with the black guy for good .

And your husband supports all this ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his "

The black cock

I understand the physical attraction you feel, however your choice of words are confusing. I'd never refer to anyone I loved and respected as this.

That said, if your feelings are real then do the decent thing by your husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't add up does it ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If u could see us together u would understand. Never been in this situation before so no it doesn't add up to me either. I want to take things slow and see what happens.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

And everything could backfire and you end up with nothing.

Some people will spend a lifetime looking for a relationship like you have with your husband. Be careful before you throw it all away. I'm 52 and still hoping to find what you have.

Think very hard before you make your next move.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

The black cock

I understand the physical attraction you feel, however your choice of words are confusing. I'd never refer to anyone I loved and respected as this.

That said, if your feelings are real then do the decent thing by your husband. "

I thought this. I understand not wanting to refer to someone by name but 'the black cock' sounds like you are simply talking about a sex toy!?

It reads like a fantasy to me in truth

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I hope OP if this is real that you will take in some of the comments made here.

The buzz you get from great sex with someone isn't the same as love. Think long and hard before you upset your family and children for what could just be a good sex life.....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

The black cock

I understand the physical attraction you feel, however your choice of words are confusing. I'd never refer to anyone I loved and respected as this.

That said, if your feelings are real then do the decent thing by your husband. "

Indeed.

This strikes me as a bloke with a cuck fantasy posting. I mean would someone really post this kind of thing from a couples profile which presumably their partner has access to.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I hope OP if this is real that you will take in some of the comments made here.

The buzz you get from great sex with someone isn't the same as love. Think long and hard before you upset your family and children for what could just be a good sex life....."

It's LUST not love - there is a difference.

The grass is usually not as greener over the fence OP....

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"So your husband supports you , and is happy that every time you meet this guy you want your husband less ?

Unless you are developing a very strong cuck relationship , this can't and won't work . Is your husband seriously supporting a relationship which will ultimately end up with you leaving him for this other guy? Or is he just getting off on how much you enjoy the sex with the other guy ?

Will the guy be happy raising your kids , providing the support you'll need etc...... or will your husband simply say it's ok for you to go off into the sunset with your lover , and he'll raise the family while you live your life with the guy that you think you should be with ?

I firmly believe we should all live our lives the best way we can in order to be happy . If that means for you to do so you need to spend it with the other guy , then go for it . But it won't be an easy ride , and much of what makes it so exciting will soon fade when reality sets in .

"

Well said

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

What a load of bollox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hubby is happy to share me to begin with and see how it goes. I wouldn't dream of going the whole hog until at least the kids (who are teenagers) have flown the nest. The person in question is on here and will read this soon enough and he knows how I feel and I know what he feels. Thanks for the advice and I will update this and let u know what happens

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm wondering what hubby is thinking right now,is he scared his life may be about to be turned upside down,does he care! Is he happy to wait for you to decide what you're doing?!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Hubby's great about it at the moment but if I give him all my time he may find that hard.for time being he just loves the fact I'm getting fully satisfied.The more time I go get the black cock the less interested I am in his

The black cock

I understand the physical attraction you feel, however your choice of words are confusing. I'd never refer to anyone I loved and respected as this.

That said, if your feelings are real then do the decent thing by your husband.

Indeed.

This strikes me as a bloke with a cuck fantasy posting. I mean would someone really post this kind of thing from a couples profile which presumably their partner has access to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor husband.

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

Sounds more like your wanting something your not getting at home an I for one, don't believe for a second it's purely down to black cock. Try looking closer to home in what your missing, to me you've gone from swinging to cheating, as in your cheating your husband every time you meet said black cock. If he's at a stage of "trying" to share you it seems obvious that your husband doesn't want to loose you an is clutching at straws, yet you still wonder as it's only yourself your thinking of. That, to be is a sad place to be when in a relationship, let alone fully on marriage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's nothing to do with black cock, are relationship has grown over time and I want to see what it would be like to be with him. The 3 of us are good friends and we're all happy. I won't be running away from home just seeing more of each other.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I get the fantasy, but the grass is not always greener on the other side.

You say that over time you want your husband less and at the moment he is happy with that.

Are you prepared, that if your feelings continue to develop in this way, the decision might be taken away from you when your husband decides that he has had enough and ends the marriage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

This seems the best advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever thought of going on jeremy Kyle's show.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're not happy in a relationship it's possible to fall for someone else at any point.

The reality of living with someone, paying the bills, enduring their annoying habits etc is very different to the fantasy though.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Maybe you should have married a black guy in the first place? We've never got the couples both white that chase around for black guys only like a trophy, why didn't they marry a black guy in the first place? Maybe it's because they truelly saw black men as an underclass but we guess a racist upbringing doesn't help eh? Maybe at last you've realised that black men are not just there to service your sexual needs as a sexual slave, but are people just like everyone else, so at least you've learnt something...."

although referring to a guy she says she has fallen for as "the black cock" maybe she hasn't learnt a thing

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By *lkmazabukaMan
over a year ago

bristol

it's a hoax people, too many alarm bells....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with black cock, are relationship has grown over time and I want to see what it would be like to be with him. The 3 of us are good friends and we're all happy. I won't be running away from home just seeing more of each other. "

So in a poly relationship kind of way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering what hubby is thinking right now,is he scared his life may be about to be turned upside down,does he care! Is he happy to wait for you to decide what you're doing?!"

He's speaking to a solicitor if he has any sense.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck

Couldn't have put it better myself "

Same here exactly

You have your cake and eating it so

Why why why

I asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you're trolling, but if not, the reality is that you can fall for anyone if you don't put in the time and effort to nurture your primary relationship. That's why people say marriage is work, a good long-term relationship doesn't just happen.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"it's a hoax people, too many alarm bells...."

Indeed. It's a bloke with a fantasy currently having a good wank.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"it's a hoax people, too many alarm bells....

Indeed. It's a bloke with a fantasy currently having a good wank. "

A bloke who likes black cocky lol....

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"it's a hoax people, too many alarm bells....

Indeed. It's a bloke with a fantasy currently having a good wank.

A bloke who likes black cocky lol....

"

Really

But why

Plenty other things to wank on apart from wasting much time writing and making up the whole thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The solution is simple. Go cold turkey and stop seeing "the black cock". The agreement was never for you to fall in love and run off with someone. You were allowed to play away and that was all. It's a shame you met "the love of your life" in this situation. But you now need to let him go and move on. At least you had a little taste of him. At least you have an amazing partner who let you taste that. As you go cold turkey you may feel pissed off with your partner for getting in your way. In reality the gift of playing away is an amazing gift... and not being able to play away is just normal. So it's not that your partner is getting in your way... but that he actually was amazing enough to allow it to happen in the first place. You are returning to a period of normality until you can get back to a place where you don't abuse the amazing gift your partner is willing to give you

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think (assuming this is all real and not someone's wet dream) you're both the luckiest and the STUPIDEST woman on Earth.

Luckiest for having a husband who enjoys you having loads of sex with other women without getting jealous. Loads of men claim they'd "love" their wives/GFs be a promiscuous slut then get jealous in the end when their manhood gets threatened, lord knows why.

Stupidest because you're willing to throw it all away. You have a husband, you have kids and you have sex with other men at your whims. What more can a woman want.

The greatest asset a loving husband has is the knowledge that his slutty wife will come back to HIS bed at the end. From what you've described, your black lover is an amazing lover and the sex is amazing. Ask yourself what's after that. After a night or three of sex, who helps clean the house, do the laundry, take out the rubbish, raise the kids etc. Who cuddles you up when you have a bade day at work. Then decide if you want to screw it up.

Sorry, I sound harsh and made largely because I'd LOVE to have what you have (minus the stupidity) and I'm still searching for that loving Mr. Right

Good luck "

Motherfucking profound! Everything the OP needs to know is here. OP get your fucking mind right.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Going on a singers site for marriage advice. ??? What could possibly ly go wrong "

You end up in an unhappy threesome with Jedward

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"It feels so wrong because I'm married with children but we're made for each other "
what does Steve say? This is the danger of swinging, its what we all worry about

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Going on a singers site for marriage advice. ??? What could possibly ly go wrong

You end up in an unhappy threesome with Jedward"

This is harsh

We not all that bad on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty you sound a little selfish - I want I need etc . Is your husband truly happy with the arrangement or saying yes so he doesn't loose you . Does your husband realise the only reason you aren't jumping ship completely is due to the kids as it sounds to me your planning to leave as soon as you can .

You're also not judging this on reality . Your meeting up with this other guy and having hot sex but no responsibilities

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Anyone else think of Carry On Don't Lose Your Head and Sir Rodney Effing - The Black Fingernail every time you read 'The Black Cock'!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As somebody else said this sounds like a Poly relationship?

If both men were happy would you ideally want both of them? Spending your time equally between them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone that left my wonderful husband for another man I met in the swinging world all I can say is don't do it. Step back from swinging and get some marriage counciling. If you leave your husband then I can assure you that you will be making the biggest mistake of your life.

I was happily married, but one of our meets was lavishing me with attention, something my husband wasn't due to his work situation. I loved my husband but I forgot about that the more attention that I was getting from the one meet. It started that I was seeing the meet regularly and staying over with my husbands knowledge. Then I started seeing him without my husband knowing. I stopped having sex with my husband and fell in love with the meet.

My husband eventually fell out and I left him for the meet.

The new guy and I got a place together. And that's when I realised what he was really like- wanted full access to my phone. I couldn't have make friends. Wasn't allowed to wear low cut dresses and his mood swings were incredible. We are over now but I am stuck in this house With him Until the contract ends, I am also struggling financially.

I have never been so unhappy in all my life and I had a idyllic life really with my husband so please don't make the same mistake as me x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It feels so wrong because I'm married with children but we're made for each other what does Steve say? This is the danger of swinging, its what we all worry about "

Who is Steve? The husband? Or the black cock?

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