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By *ure fucking naughty OP   Man
over a year ago

St Albans

So, well over a week ago now I had my first meet having recently returned to fab.

Met a single woman and all went well short of her not really being able to take my cock, (apparently it was too big) but aside from that we chatted after and all was fine. Kiss goodbye etc etc.

She did say she would write a verification but time has passed and she hasn't responded to any messages since.

Should I be annoyed? I still have to prove I am real to all you lovely fabbers lol.

Maybe I'm just being silly, happy to hear your thoughts

J

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

Too big huh?

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By *ure fucking naughty OP   Man
over a year ago

St Albans


"Too big huh?"

Apparently. It's not happened before. I do ok but I'm no monster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you how you feel. She could have written a verification saying you met and you're the man in the profile. If she's ignoring you I would forget about her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you both use your phones when you met as that sometimes stops people from verifying each other?

Was she verified as unverified people can’t verify unverified people

She forgot

Ask her

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By *ure fucking naughty OP   Man
over a year ago

St Albans


"Did you both use your phones when you met as that sometimes stops people from verifying each other?

Was she verified as unverified people can’t verify unverified people

She forgot

Ask her

"

We did speak the next day and she said that she would, and yes she was already verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be a bit annoyed, especially if I'd written a nice one for them. It doesn't take much effort. We always verify people we meet even if things don't go to plan. If the people we met were polite and friendly, why not?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If she hasn't responded it's unlikely she'll write the veri. Or maybe she will surprise you at some point. Don't put too much weight on it. I had to wait a good few weeks for a comparatively rubbish veri.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I assume when someone won't return a verification (or in your case, won't verify) it means they don't want to meet again.

I know its annoying and you're back to square one, but spend your effort on finding a more empathic person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few more important things than fab - we recently had a lovely verification about 2 months after the meet - patience is a virtue - especially on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She should at least leave you a veri

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes , you should be annoyed .

But on the bright side you've got a thread on the go where you have managed to say you were too big for her !

So it's all good really

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are a few more important things than fab - we recently had a lovely verification about 2 months after the meet - patience is a virtue - especially on here "

Some people seem to only feel validated on Fab. First world problems, wondering if you should be upset because a stranger you fucked hasn't memoralised the epic event in a verification.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

OP: Welcome to FAB... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We forgot to leave someone a veri. Two days later they asked us if we could leave them one. Of course we then did. If you have chatted since the meet and a number of days have passed, just ask.

D

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By *inxandmaybeCouple
over a year ago

Wells


"So, well over a week ago now I had my first meet having recently returned to fab.

Met a single woman and all went well short of her not really being able to take my cock, (apparently it was too big) but aside from that we chatted after and all was fine. Kiss goodbye etc etc.

She did say she would write a verification but time has passed and she hasn't responded to any messages since.

Should I be annoyed? I still have to prove I am real to all you lovely fabbers lol.

Maybe I'm just being silly, happy to hear your thoughts

J "

Do you think her perception might be different and she isn't too happy about something? I would forget the veri idea and just let it go. Just let it go and find someone else who can do you a good genuine veri

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There are a few more important things than fab - we recently had a lovely verification about 2 months after the meet - patience is a virtue - especially on here

Some people seem to only feel validated on Fab. First world problems, wondering if you should be upset because a stranger you fucked hasn't memoralised the epic event in a verification. "

I agree with this. OP maybe you should leave her alone, she may not have been happy with the meet, she may not want to verify you. Live with it and move on, it's not really that important in the bigger scheme of things.

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