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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single guy im having difficulty getting a meet is this cos so many single guys are timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy im having difficulty getting a meet is this cos so many single guys are timewasters "

Yeah it's always someone else's fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some effort into your messages if you don't already.

Usually one liners don't work as a rule. People like to converse rather than just a wham bham.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do put effort into messaging as im respectable and well mannered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be doing something wrong then. Be different but don't be over the top or weird.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's got nothing to do with the behaviour of others and everything to do with a number of other factors including the imbalance of men to women on the site (which is around 10:1) so as part of the majority you need to stand out from the crowd - you do that by having a decent, informative and enticing profile and set of pictures.

Once you have that it's down to sending appealing messages and getting yourself known (e.g. through the forums and chat rooms) and even then you're still swimming with the crowd.

Two months is no time at all for most, some take months and even longer to get a meet, or give up and go UNLOS - just because it's a site dedicated to swinging/NSA there's no guarantees.

Either way the only person responsible for success or failure is the owner of the profile

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There are a lot of people that won't meet smokers.

You've been on the site 2 months, that's only 8 weeks.

There are waaaaay more men than women. You need to sell yourself. Interesting clear pictures. What makes you different to the next guy wanting a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get rid of the cock pic and the pic with a cig in your mouth for a start, you need to put some effort into your profile, nice pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to work on your profile for a start mate. The pics you've got are grim. Especially the fag pic but also the unflattering pic of your bollocks.

Take some time to write a bit about yourself, where you're from, what you like, who you want to meet. A few paragraphs so people can get a feel for who you are and whether they think you'll click.

Good luck

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"There are a lot of people that won't meet smokers.

You've been on the site 2 months, that's only 8 weeks.

There are waaaaay more men than women. You need to sell yourself. Interesting clear pictures. What makes you different to the next guy wanting a fuck? "

Looks like the OP change his profile to say he is a non smoker. A waste of time when one of his pictures show him with a ciggie in his mouth

People who won't meet smokers are usually very anti smoking and can always smell it on you. Not worth telling lies about it because they will sniff it out and probably stop a meet.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I'd get rid of the cock pic and the pic with a cig in your mouth for a start, you need to put some effort into your profile, nice pics "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It will be because you're not appealing to whoever you are contacting; for whatever reason that may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there were thousands more women than me on here I would still get sex. Because I would make myself stand out from the beautiful people

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