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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a very down to earth laid back couple who are also very very naughty

We are looking for a woman who would like to join us both for a FFM threesome and fun...

Are there any women out there that would be interested first of all?

Secondly we haven't met anyone off here before so any advice?

H & T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX"

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Profile says you are both straight but only looking for women?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's"

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you "

Yep fair play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

"

Lol except think we all know what was meant lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile says you are both straight but only looking for women?"

Ahh we hadn't noticed we thought that was bi will do that now

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

Lol except think we all know what was meant lol "

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Realistically, without a verification you may find it hard to meet a woman for FFM. It takes a lot of bravery and confidence for a woman alone to meet a couple, and most won't take a risk on an unverified couple.

Some good advice would be to visit a club or a social together first, and get some verifications from people that way. Then you can at least allay a woman's fears that you may be a man posing as a couple, or a couple who may be fantasists with no intention of meeting, for example. You may even meet a woman that way too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Realistically, without a verification you may find it hard to meet a woman for FFM. It takes a lot of bravery and confidence for a woman alone to meet a couple, and most won't take a risk on an unverified couple.

Some good advice would be to visit a club or a social together first, and get some verifications from people that way. Then you can at least allay a woman's fears that you may be a man posing as a couple, or a couple who may be fantasists with no intention of meeting, for example. You may even meet a woman that way too."

We are more than happy to cam chat or face time with someone to try and out any fears to rest if anything will suggest it as it's in everyone's interests to know who they are speaking and meeting with. And we certainly will be meeting just need to find that right woman to join us.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

A lot of these threads cropping up at the moment, must be something in the water

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Realistically, without a verification you may find it hard to meet a woman for FFM. It takes a lot of bravery and confidence for a woman alone to meet a couple, and most won't take a risk on an unverified couple.

Some good advice would be to visit a club or a social together first, and get some verifications from people that way. Then you can at least allay a woman's fears that you may be a man posing as a couple, or a couple who may be fantasists with no intention of meeting, for example. You may even meet a woman that way too.

We are more than happy to cam chat or face time with someone to try and out any fears to rest if anything will suggest it as it's in everyone's interests to know who they are speaking and meeting with. And we certainly will be meeting just need to find that right woman to join us. "

Sure, but you will find it far easier to get to the stage of cam chats with interested women if you are verified in person. Although many won't want to cam anyway, of course, for reasons of security.

Good luck though, keep looking and eventually you will find someone.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe add it to your profile or create a meet and see what replies you get.

Single ladies may be wary of meeting.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

On your profile you are H and T. I don't know which is the male and which the female.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On your profile you are H and T. I don't know which is the male and which the female.

Sally"

H is female and is bi why we hope to find that elusive naughty bi woman to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you "

lol x

OP you are gonna struggle, play with a couple instead and enjoy FFM MMF & MFMF all in one meet, perfect...

PS most single girls avoid couples just looking for single ladies for a number of reasons...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

lol x

OP you are gonna struggle, play with a couple instead and enjoy FFM MMF & MFMF all in one meet, perfect...

PS most single girls avoid couples just looking for single ladies for a number of reasons..."

That sounds disappointing we don't really want to add another guy to things as it stands right now

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, it's pointless advice. If you are looking for an FFM, why would you meet a couple?

There are plenty of single women on Fab who enjoy meeting couples, despite all the negativity you will read in here.

Be clear about what you are offering and what you want, have a good think about how you might feel about meeting a couple if you were in their position, be prepared to be patient until you meet someone who is right for you when you are right for them, and it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, it's pointless advice. If you are looking for an FFM, why would you meet a couple?

There are plenty of single women on Fab who enjoy meeting couples, despite all the negativity you will read in here.

Be clear about what you are offering and what you want, have a good think about how you might feel about meeting a couple if you were in their position, be prepared to be patient until you meet someone who is right for you when you are right for them, and it will happen. "

thank you

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Pretty much every couple on her would love a single female to join them, our experience would say it's not an easy meet to arrange. We've managed one in 7 years of swinging, expect to waste a lot of time and find the odd man pretending to be a female. Good luck hope you find one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty much every couple on her would love a single female to join them, our experience would say it's not an easy meet to arrange. We've managed one in 7 years of swinging, expect to waste a lot of time and find the odd man pretending to be a female. Good luck hope you find one"

Thank you guys.... we will hope what's the best way of finding out if we are being catfished? Anyone we get talking to we will want to face time or can chat before a meet to ensure we see they are who they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X"

You are correct we put in less effort than single guys as we also chat to couples that are less effort, most of our meets happen with a quick chat, swap pics, arrange meet, generally within 48 hours with couples, with single ladies due to the amount of messages they get once there attention has gone elsewhere we give up, it's how it is for us, for us it's a 3 way thing on equal terms so that's how we see the conversation too, single guys don't move on once they get a reply they are like a dog with a bone! Saying all that, our modus operandi has not done us any harm, just checked our veri summary, 41 single lady veris in 38 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X

You are correct we put in less effort than single guys as we also chat to couples that are less effort, most of our meets happen with a quick chat, swap pics, arrange meet, generally within 48 hours with couples, with single ladies due to the amount of messages they get once there attention has gone elsewhere we give up, it's how it is for us, for us it's a 3 way thing on equal terms so that's how we see the conversation too, single guys don't move on once they get a reply they are like a dog with a bone! Saying all that, our modus operandi has not done us any harm, just checked our veri summary, 41 single lady veris in 38 months "

Did you actually read my post or just pick out certain words and act on them?

I've always replied and I've always attempted to make conversation, I'm not meeting anyone, female, male or indeed a couple without some sort of conversation.

I'm happy you've had so many meets..whatever your doing is obviously working for you but that wasn't the point I was making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X

You are correct we put in less effort than single guys as we also chat to couples that are less effort, most of our meets happen with a quick chat, swap pics, arrange meet, generally within 48 hours with couples, with single ladies due to the amount of messages they get once there attention has gone elsewhere we give up, it's how it is for us, for us it's a 3 way thing on equal terms so that's how we see the conversation too, single guys don't move on once they get a reply they are like a dog with a bone! Saying all that, our modus operandi has not done us any harm, just checked our veri summary, 41 single lady veris in 38 months

Did you actually read my post or just pick out certain words and act on them?

I've always replied and I've always attempted to make conversation, I'm not meeting anyone, female, male or indeed a couple without some sort of conversation.

I'm happy you've had so many meets..whatever your doing is obviously working for you but that wasn't the point I was making. "

Yes we read your post and replied, also giving our take on it, as per an open forum, in no way did we cast aspersions on you x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X

You are correct we put in less effort than single guys as we also chat to couples that are less effort, most of our meets happen with a quick chat, swap pics, arrange meet, generally within 48 hours with couples, with single ladies due to the amount of messages they get once there attention has gone elsewhere we give up, it's how it is for us, for us it's a 3 way thing on equal terms so that's how we see the conversation too, single guys don't move on once they get a reply they are like a dog with a bone! Saying all that, our modus operandi has not done us any harm, just checked our veri summary, 41 single lady veris in 38 months "

Do you mean when you write long replies to their "Thanks x", "yea x", "hmmm x", "love to" until you reach the point of pfffft whatever

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd say you need to get meet verified as a first priority. Without that your chances are extrmely low.

It can be so difficult for a single girl to know things are going to work with a couple. When you are brand new, no veris, no experience of swapping, those concerns are magnified. Go to a club maybe, get verified and some experience of gentle play around others.

God luck, have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been approached by several couples since I joined, whilst I am happy to meet a couple I have found that the ones I've spoken to and I'm not casting aspersions on anyone here, put in less effort than the single guys by way of conversation etc...

I'm fussy for a reason as I'm sure we all are , I have responded to some who've messaged, I'm always polite (to a point) but I do feel a bit like they feel their doing me a favour...

I'm not making a sweeping generalisation I'm just saying how I've felt..

I'm sure it's difficult for couples to sometimes find the right connection for both parties as I've played as part of a couple myself and understand the dynamics aren't always right for everyone.

Right just gonna take my soap box and make a brew. X

You are correct we put in less effort than single guys as we also chat to couples that are less effort, most of our meets happen with a quick chat, swap pics, arrange meet, generally within 48 hours with couples, with single ladies due to the amount of messages they get once there attention has gone elsewhere we give up, it's how it is for us, for us it's a 3 way thing on equal terms so that's how we see the conversation too, single guys don't move on once they get a reply they are like a dog with a bone! Saying all that, our modus operandi has not done us any harm, just checked our veri summary, 41 single lady veris in 38 months

Do you mean when you write long replies to their "Thanks x", "yea x", "hmmm x", "love to" until you reach the point of pfffft whatever "

Yes exactly xx

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

lol x

OP you are gonna struggle, play with a couple instead and enjoy FFM MMF & MFMF all in one meet, perfect...

PS most single girls avoid couples just looking for single ladies for a number of reasons...

That sounds disappointing we don't really want to add another guy to things as it stands right now "

Utterly baffled at what you think you will get with what you have on offer.

When would a single girl want to meet a couple? If she.likes girls, she will meet a girl. If she is single she might want a relationship. Not an add on

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Maybe add a bit to your profile about what sexual activities you would like to do with the female. Whether she can play with male and have cock, what you would like to do to her and her to you. XXX

We're thinking of this but didn't want to have a profile that went on and on lol up for everything and anything really accept the three p's

It's really cool to find a couple that accept the three p's ...... fair play you

lol x

OP you are gonna struggle, play with a couple instead and enjoy FFM MMF & MFMF all in one meet, perfect...

PS most single girls avoid couples just looking for single ladies for a number of reasons...

That sounds disappointing we don't really want to add another guy to things as it stands right now

Utterly baffled at what you think you will get with what you have on offer.

When would a single girl want to meet a couple? If she.likes girls, she will meet a girl. If she is single she might want a relationship. Not an add on"

Possibly for the same reason all single girls who meet couples want to - she's bi and she likes having sex with a couple, or she's straight and she likes having sex with a couple.

It's really that simple!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd say you need to get meet verified as a first priority. Without that your chances are extrmely low.

It can be so difficult for a single girl to know things are going to work with a couple. When you are brand new, no veris, no experience of swapping, those concerns are magnified. Go to a club maybe, get verified and some experience of gentle play around others.

God luck, have fun x"
very good advice here

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