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"No,a thing is a noun. That sounds more like a withdrawal." You know what I mean.... | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." I've come across women who have this 'rule'! Personally I find it odd - but there are many on this site who think they can dictate who others should/shouldn't meet! I think they forget it's a swinging site! Personally I only get naffed off if a guy has clearly had a long meet the day before meeting me - and is so knackered he can barely perform at all - let alone give it his best shot! | |||
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"Yes it happens, I've had similar messages from men " From men too?! Crikey. | |||
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"Well to be honest there was this one guy that I'd arranged to meet on the Sunday,all day Saturday we'd been messaging back and forth pretty intensely. All of a sudden he said I'm on my way,slightly confused I said I thought we were meeting tomorrow. Yes he said we are,but I'm on my way in a taxi to meet this other woman at her's,she'd messaged asking if he wanted to go around. I was a bit put out,yes I know I shouldn't be but I was. Anyways told him to enjoy himself. An hour later he messaged me again saying he'd binned her after going around there,how true that was I'll never know and started talking about our meet the following day. Kinda went off the idea " I would have wanted all the sordid details. | |||
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"Well to be honest there was this one guy that I'd arranged to meet on the Sunday,all day Saturday we'd been messaging back and forth pretty intensely. All of a sudden he said I'm on my way,slightly confused I said I thought we were meeting tomorrow. Yes he said we are,but I'm on my way in a taxi to meet this other woman at her's,she'd messaged asking if he wanted to go around. I was a bit put out,yes I know I shouldn't be but I was. Anyways told him to enjoy himself. An hour later he messaged me again saying he'd binned her after going around there,how true that was I'll never know and started talking about our meet the following day. Kinda went off the idea I would have wanted all the sordid details. " Nar not me,I wanted to make my own sordid details. | |||
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"You don't need people like that in your life. Good riddance. " Indeed | |||
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"Yes it happens, I've had similar messages from men From men too?! Crikey." I can imagine some men being reeallly weird about it all. | |||
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"I believe we are all entitled to our own individual boundaries. You just happen to have found someone else's. " This... and there's plenty more people to meet if that person's boundaries don't match yours. | |||
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"Then there was this one time someone travelled a distance to meet me,however...he wasn't just making the journey for me I found out later. I was a mere pit stop on his way back . I didn't feel great about that either That was a few year's ago now though,I learned to care a little less...or did I probably not?! Hence why my profile is hidden a lot trying to find my forever man,preferably bisexual so we can lot's of Bi mmf's " * sticks hand in the air* hi... | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." so you are quoting from a private message? as far as I am aware that's not allowed on here | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. so you are quoting from a private message? as far as I am aware that's not allowed on here " I am paraphrasing. | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." Depends on when you were both planning to meet. If I'd arranged to meet a guy tomorrow and he displayed a veri from a play meet today, ours would be off. Everyone on here has different standards and rules of engagement, it doesn't make it 'wrong'. | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. I've come across women who have this 'rule'! Personally I find it odd - but there are many on this site who think they can dictate who others should/shouldn't meet! I think they forget it's a swinging site! Personally I only get naffed off if a guy has clearly had a long meet the day before meeting me - and is so knackered he can barely perform at all - let alone give it his best shot! " Yes, I like my men fresh and gagging for it lol!! I have had trouble in the past with jealous women expecting fwb's to stop meeting me once they fixed a date! | |||
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"I got blocked by someone I'd been intending to meet for a long time after I displayed a veri from someone else. " This literally happened to me last week after displaying a veri. Like the op, I an paraphrasing a little. "not sure I like the idea that you do the same things with someone else that I wanted, I'd prefer to meet someone that has my interests at heart. Hope you both gave fun"... Then I was blocked | |||
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"no problem with it in fact even better when she's been filled up before meeting me don't see what the fuss is about." Yeah totally confused by the negativity. Far better to meet someone that a trusted friend has road tested. | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." It's jealousy mostly, the downside of the verification system. I met a man for coffee whilst arranging a meet with another man, the one I,m arranging to meet hasn't mentioned the verification though. XXX | |||
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"no problem with it in fact even better when she's been filled up before meeting me don't see what the fuss is about. Yeah totally confused by the negativity. Far better to meet someone that a trusted friend has road tested. " Oh totally. We're far more likely to meet people if friends have met them too. Mrs | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. = LOL... we're on a funking swingers site?!... People are hilarious on this site " They certainly fucking are !!! Hiding again sexy minx ? Anna x | |||
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"no problem with it in fact even better when she's been filled up before meeting me don't see what the fuss is about. Yeah totally confused by the negativity. Far better to meet someone that a trusted friend has road tested. Oh totally. We're far more likely to meet people if friends have met them too. Mrs" It's like the swingers version of try before you buy | |||
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"No,a thing is a noun. That sounds more like a withdrawal. You know what I mean.... " she either took a liking to you and you have hurt her now, but I'd like to know how did she know you met someone else? Did you tell her or something | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." I would rather have this problem you got here mate than mine!! I can't even get a meet to get turned down lmfao ?? | |||
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"The only way I would have an issue is where we had arranged to meet, then it was postponed or cancelled because the other party decided to meet someone else instead at the same time. Its usually accompanied by a lie " Yes this would annoy us if someone moved a pre-arranged meet then got a veri on the same day it was arranged. Did have one guy who bumped us for a 30 year old female model profile? We found out through veris - 'she' had watched him on webcam and verified. Guy came back to us as the profile was a fake. He then wanted to meet us again - sweet | |||
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"I got kicked off at, abused and threatened with social services because I was 'online' too much... He'd only know cos he was always online He was a shit meet anyway. Nearly broke my bits doing his 'dom' thing. Idiot made me bleed *I leave it logged in cos cbfa typing in passwords" Sounds a right charmer... | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. I've come across women who have this 'rule'! Personally I find it odd - but there are many on this site who think they can dictate who others should/shouldn't meet! I think they forget it's a swinging site! Personally I only get naffed off if a guy has clearly had a long meet the day before meeting me - and is so knackered he can barely perform at all - let alone give it his best shot! " As long as he doesn't get it in your eyes or hair?? Fuzz | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. = LOL... we're on a funking swingers site?!... People are hilarious on this site " | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way." "I got cold feet, but I don't want to apologise for it. So I'm going to make it your fault instead." | |||
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"I have had trouble in the past with jealous women expecting fwb's to stop meeting me once they fixed a date! " I have had similar situations happen to me in the past a few times, but not "trouble" just meant all communication ended. I hate deception, lies, childish games/tricksters. I refuse to be controlled even if it means not getting in with the crowd. Nor can I give second chances no matter how good or popular they are. | |||
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"'Sorry, I'm reconsidering meeting you, as you've met someone else whilst we were planning our meet'. Paraphrased, by the way. = LOL... we're on a funking swingers site?!... People are hilarious on this site They certainly fucking are !!! Hiding again sexy minx ? Anna x" ... Hey Anna x | |||
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"Yes it happens, I've had similar messages from men From men too?! Crikey." Men can be extremely territorial. Once had a regular meet screaming at me, because he wanted to be exclusive and I wanted to carry on meeting others. | |||
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