FabSwingers.com forum: Our openship x

By *ade_of_Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitburn

We are open not poly. That said, we strongly believe that if you are intimate with someone, you form a relationship with them even if just in that moment. We are realistic in knowing that you quite honestly cannot say "it should only be sex" because people are people first and foremost; we (especially I) connect with people on that level first.

He is my only Daddy, my only boyfriend and my only Dom. I am his only babygirl, his only girlfriend and his only submissive. Yes I will still call you Sir or Miss or anything other than Daddy/Mummy.

We go condom free with one another only and until I've taken his fucked-a-girl-in-the-ass virginity (and his fucked-by-a-girl-in-the-ass...) that is reserved for us too.

We don't do sleepovers with play partners unless we are both there.

We discuss everything afterwards. In detail. We get dat compersion. The better time each other and our partner(s) have had the more delighted we are. We take things on board that have or haven't worked well and discuss them for ourselves. I also let Daddy know in advance when I plan to be with someone else, he doesn't need to but typically will out of consideration for me.

With a few reasonable exceptions (clubs/parties) we both speak to the other person/s and get to know them.

As above, we don't play with people cheating, because we believe in the consent of all involved and like it or not your unaware partner is involved.

On that note of consent, there is a veto power. This does not, as one very rude person once accused, mean our relationship isn't open. People don't often end up on the veto list unless they are disrespectful towards the other one of us or to our relationship dynamics.

The above is very much geared towards us playing without one another, we do also have a lot of interest in threesomes and moresomes! We would tend to negotiate these together.

There are many things I do with him that I wouldn't with anyone else, not due to a limit but purely because of that trust and bond we have. Things like heavy play, CNC, playing with me in little-space and limit-pushing.

Everything is in constant evolution. We are fairly certain on the above.