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Can you have too many meets ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As long as you meet the amount of times that you're happy with why worry about how many times someone else is meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as you meet the amount of times that you're happy with why worry about how many times someone else is meeting?"

Good point, just wanted to hear people's take on it. Like I said, for me I would find it hard to remember all the meets, and the memory of an erotic encounter counts for a big part in it all for me personally x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as you meet the amount of times that you're happy with why worry about how many times someone else is meeting?

Good point, just wanted to hear people's take on it. Like I said, for me I would find it hard to remember all the meets, and the memory of an erotic encounter counts for a big part in it all for me personally x"

That's great. Other people see it differently. That's what's so great about this site, there's room for everyone and none of us need to meet those we're not compatible with.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

why would you need to remember the sex you had with NSA randoms? i can't remember most of the fucks i've had off here.

think maybe your friend just enjoys sex and having sex, rather than reminiscing over it.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Romance is dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't remember much from the first year I was here. Faces pop into my mind occasionally, and sometimes a name. I haven't even had 100 meets. I remember some that went really well and the men I've been seeing regularly, for a long time.

There is no such thing as too many.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Romance is dead! "

Romance was always an illusion...

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

every one is different and looking for different level of connection on here I think. personally- the meets I don't have a connection with tens to get blured and are basically scratching an itch. the meets with more of a connection are giving me something else and I remember them very clearly indeed

just depends what you are after...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

For my slice of the Fab lifestyle; yes, someone can have too many meets

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I don't do this very often (although that is not necessarily thought want of trying!) but I'd have thought that it's reasonable to hope that anyone meeting me would be as excited as I was about the prospect of meeting them.

So, the maximum number of meets would be the last number before one started to feel as if it was routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 96 a day is probably too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it depends on what someone is looking for on here. I tend to gravitate towards people I have a connection with. A lot are still friends to this day. I haven't had a bucket full amount of meets, given what my preference is. But If someone is looking for a lot of one off meets, the number is sure to rise exponentially. As long as they are having fun, however, who am I to say if someone has too many meets or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives. "

I think I know which member you mean, there's been a thread about her before. I don't do many meets these days as I,m time limited and more selective. I can remember most of my past meets. To be honest I would not meet a man who had the number of verifications you speak of. Am not judging though, just too risky and impersonal XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no. I don't care how many people you have or haven't met. If you are doing bareback though I wouldn't touch them with a 60ft barge pole.

We've had a lot of meets after being on and off this site a few times.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives. "

Hmm i see where your coming from for me i try meet Quality over quantity but its hard to do that on hear and if people are meeting alot of people then good on them ... if it puts you of then say and move on

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

No not bothered about how many meets, we are not wham bam thank you mam but we do enjoy being in group situations.

It's up to you what you want to do

Have fun everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter how many meets someone else has.no one is forcing you to meet them,it's their business who they meet,not yours or anyone rlses

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Suits me not remembering half of the men who visit..

I don't consider any of my meets significant..more a physical release..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every one is different and looking for different level of connection on here I think. personally- the meets I don't have a connection with tens to get blured and are basically scratching an itch. the meets with more of a connection are giving me something else and I remember them very clearly indeed

just depends what you are after..."

Very much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you can never know how many meets someone has had...all you see are how many have verified them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Romance is dead!

Romance was always an illusion..."

HAHA, don't say that .. give us some hope! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also you can never know how many meets someone has had...all you see are how many have verified them."

True , and having seen your pics , you'll definitely won't be having a shortage of people wanting to meet you

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I (miss)would never be attracted to enough people to have endless meets lol

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also you can never know how many meets someone has had...all you see are how many have verified them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 96 a day is probably too many "

I'm averaging 111 a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (miss)would never be attracted to enough people to have endless meets lol

Miss"

HAHA, same. Maybe I'm just too picky lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I (miss)would never be attracted to enough people to have endless meets lol

Miss

HAHA, same. Maybe I'm just too picky lol "

Nothing wrong in that at all lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (miss)would never be attracted to enough people to have endless meets lol

Miss

HAHA, same. Maybe I'm just too picky lol

Nothing wrong in that at all lol"

Phew! Thank goodness, lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More than 96 a day is probably too many

I'm averaging 111 a day. "

HAHAHA, loving your sense of humour .. especially on your profile. Can't take all this too seriously can you ? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a nice lady tell me the only thing putting her off me was the number of verifications I have, pointed out a lot were socials.

You can't really win, some won't touch you unless you are verified and others won't touch you if you have too many. You can't please everyone all the time so why worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe someone got the 'meaning of life' on Fab and decided to get themselves into the Guiness Book of Records.

Or they are just plain nuts and have no sense (or the opposite!) of 'danger'.

Definitely not my thing but I remember that my mother used to say 'live and let live' - and that's the best way of being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 96 a day is probably too many

I'm averaging 111 a day.

HAHAHA, loving your sense of humour .. especially on your profile. Can't take all this too seriously can you ? lol x"

Thank you. x

It's worrying how many people don't get the joke though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More than 96 a day is probably too many

I'm averaging 111 a day.

HAHAHA, loving your sense of humour .. especially on your profile. Can't take all this too seriously can you ? lol x

Thank you. x

It's worrying how many people don't get the joke though. "

HAHAHA, I would love to give people more credit, but somehow I think it's probably going over quite a few bewildered heads , lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just had a nice lady tell me the only thing putting her off me was the number of verifications I have, pointed out a lot were socials.

You can't really win, some won't touch you unless you are verified and others won't touch you if you have too many. You can't please everyone all the time so why worry."

You can't please all the people all the time. Some people won't meet anyone who hasn't met …

The person I'm talking of has around 5 guys a day verifying that she had a great pussy and arse to spunk into, so she must be having fun I suppose

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why be 'friends' with someone who's philosophy of meets and tastes is so different to yours? I'd just delete them off friends and concentrate finding compatible people.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

In the past 10 years we've probably averaged sex every other day, pretty much all of them bareback, so that would be about 1,800 'meets', and we've occassionally met others, none of them bareback! Just because people don't put veri's up doesn't mean they're not having sex - it could just mean they are not putting veri's up! This is a swinging site & each to there own, we all have different interests none (legal) should be of any concern to others - as far as I recall this is not M*msnet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like my kind of lady

got her number?

;)

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"For my slice of the Fab lifestyle; yes, someone can have too many meets "
so how many is too many?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I just had a nice lady tell me the only thing putting her off me was the number of verifications I have, pointed out a lot were socials.

You can't really win, some won't touch you unless you are verified and others won't touch you if you have too many. You can't please everyone all the time so why worry."
and people don't read through the veris I have some cam some social and a few sexual, people don't seem to get past the summary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well its up to over 450 bareback meets in 6 months. I'm thinking this could be a record

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just had a nice lady tell me the only thing putting her off me was the number of verifications I have, pointed out a lot were socials.

You can't really win, some won't touch you unless you are verified and others won't touch you if you have too many. You can't please everyone all the time so why worry.and people don't read through the veris I have some cam some social and a few sexual, people don't seem to get past the summary"

Very true, but this lady has had over 500 meets for bareback sex so far in 6 -7 months , so i'm thinking this is a little more than your average lady, or guy for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true, but this lady has had over 500 meets for bareback sex so far in 6 -7 months , so i'm thinking this is a little more than your average lady, or guy for that matter "

Why do you care what others do?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Good on her if she enjoys it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you do too often is going to get dull.

Whether it's sex with new people or eating ice cream.

I love sex but I'm at the point now where I'd rather have a FWB than a new meet every weekend!

It's getting boring!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives. "

And she's played with all if them. No socials or chatted at a party etc?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives. "

Not sure why OP has to judge someone for the number of his/her meets, whether bareback or not? If it's not for you, no need to interact with that person. Simple as that.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I feel sorry for these bears, there's always someone jumping on their backs

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives.

Not sure why OP has to judge someone for the number of his/her meets, whether bareback or not? If it's not for you, no need to interact with that person. Simple as that. "

If only it was that simple!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives.

Not sure why OP has to judge someone for the number of his/her meets, whether bareback or not? If it's not for you, no need to interact with that person. Simple as that.

If only it was that simple!"

It is though. People choose to complicate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't meet someone with shitloads of meets, but whatever floats your boat ini.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I personally wouldn't meet someone with shitloads of meets, but whatever floats your boat ini."

Why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally wouldn't meet someone with shitloads of meets, but whatever floats your boat ini.

Why not ?"

Because I don't fancy having sex with someone who will have sex with anyone. No fun in that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally wouldn't meet someone with shitloads of meets, but whatever floats your boat ini.

Why not ?

Because I don't fancy having sex with someone who will have sex with anyone. No fun in that"

I can identify with that statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should have exactly when you joined fab

E.g. Currently say over a year and a person could have 40 meets some social some playing

Or if it was changed to when you exactly joined could 5 yrs like myself and have 40 meets some social some fun

Which gives a better gut feeling about that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality over quantity for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a nice lady tell me the only thing putting her off me was the number of verifications I have, pointed out a lot were socials.

You can't really win, some won't touch you unless you are verified and others won't touch you if you have too many. You can't please everyone all the time so why worry.and people don't read through the veris I have some cam some social and a few sexual, people don't seem to get past the summary

Very true, but this lady has had over 500 meets for bareback sex so far in 6 -7 months , so i'm thinking this is a little more than your average lady, or guy for that matter "

Oh this old chestnut again..

The person you are taking about in my opinion is not a genuine person...

Have you chatted to anyone who has actually met this person ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also you can never know how many meets someone has had...all you see are how many have verified them."

This is true, you only see what they want you to see......some people may ask not to be verified by someone they meet......makes them look more of an angel?

Also what does it matter if she's met 300 guys once or one guy 300 times......the only real risk would be the fact that she's having bareback sex so meeting 300 guys would significantly increase the risk of catching an std or worse! If she was "safe sex only" would anyone then care? Who knows.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it should have exactly when you joined fab

E.g. Currently say over a year and a person could have 40 meets some social some playing

Or if it was changed to when you exactly joined could 5 yrs like myself and have 40 meets some social some fun

Which gives a better gut feeling about that person "

Seriously?

People have sex off this site. Why on earth anyone ever reads anything into verifications astounds me. They could have 3 veris on Fab yet have fucked 20,000.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also you can never know how many meets someone has had...all you see are how many have verified them.

This is true, you only see what they want you to see......some people may ask not to be verified by someone they meet......makes them look more of an angel?

Also what does it matter if she's met 300 guys once or one guy 300 times......the only real risk would be the fact that she's having bareback sex so meeting 300 guys would significantly increase the risk of catching an std or worse! If she was "safe sex only" would anyone then care? Who knows......."

It only takes one meet to have an std!

I'd love to know if the people bitching about 'too many veris' ever get tested. Because of course they are 'safe' and not affected.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Dear men...are you well jell that a woman is having a good time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love just one meet, then id be a happy camper, just one

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Id love just one meet, then id be a happy camper, just one "

God bless you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when I've had too much sex when my vagina feels raw and even slathering it in raw coconut butter doesn't help cool it down!!... Then and only then do I rest for a few days until I can no longer feel the heat coming offa it... lol.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives. "

RANK

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"One of the ' friends ' on here who I haven't met, posts a new meet up every day and meets multiple guys keen to engage in bareback fun with her . Over 300 verifications in the past few months. I'm not judging her but I wonder how much you can remember from these encounters if you meet this often? It would all be a blur to me I admit, but then I'd rather have a few select quality meets . Guess we're all different and with differing sex drives.

RANK"

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love just one meet, then id be a happy camper, just one "

I'd meet you if you we're up for it and you lived closer, you sound lovely!, I like your verifications x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may go along just to watch as a lot of her meets are very local to me, if I see it with my own eyes then I'll believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear men...are you well jell that a woman is having a good time ?"

Snorting with laughter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people obsessed by this woman?

Leave her alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dear men...are you well jell that a woman is having a good time ?

Snorting with laughter.."

HAHAH I reckon most guys wold be happy enough with one or two great meets a month

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Dear men...are you well jell that a woman is having a good time ?

Snorting with laughter..

HAHAH I reckon most guys wold be happy enough with one or two great meets a month "

Exactly ha ha

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