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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get that all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you'll meet them that way of course haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer. I'm a bincurious guy who is happy to play straight. So am equally interested in couples with straight and bi guys. But then you get a good amount of couples

That won't meet either straight guys or bi guys, so putting one or the other can affect your target audience. And let's be honest, single guys have to cast their net fairly wide...

I've gone for the bi curious option but that rules out some.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

no such thing as a straight man on fab. you should know this by now. Women on here just need to realise that it's only bi men on here then the "straight" guys will be honest and put bi on their profiles. The only don't do it because most women on here don't meet bi men so I'm told.

I don't give a shit if people don't wish to meet because I'm honest as plenty more fish or sausage hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine they are playing the odds to get the result they want.

The amount of so called straight guys I get distinctly un-straight messages from. I seem to be like catnip to them, but not to ladies or couples worst luck lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are playing the odds

If they put bi

Half the couples wont meet them

So they put straight and PM bi

Also how many of them then turn out to be bi

Some claim it to get the meet then try and avoid the practical side

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

The majority of guys who message me looking for a meet are supposedly 'straight'. When you tell them you're not looking for straight guys many of them are able to rattle off a list of their bi experiences.

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By *hebagsCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

It's not just single guys,we get couples message us!! It says straight on there profiles,and Thay tell us there there both bi!!! Not just the women!! It leaves there options open!!! Some people say it puts people off!!! We say it as it is!! We're both bi!!! Take it or leave it!!!! X

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Because there are so many on fab who are stanchly anti bi males and very few who are really anti straight. Therefore they perceive this as optimising their chances overall.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"The majority of guys who message me looking for a meet are supposedly 'straight'. When you tell them you're not looking for straight guys many of them are able to rattle off a list of their bi experiences. "

This.....they are the notorious fab "straight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi? "

Because we are greedy and want it all.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Lol...just had a message from a straight guy who just wants to meet men and/or TV's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from a straight guy. If the woman was hot enough id let the guy suck my dick with her lol so that make me bi?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi? "

Cheeky sods!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Speaking from a straight guy. If the woman was hot enough id let the guy suck my dick with her lol so that make me bi? "
nah just normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi? "

Same old Answer .. They Lie to try and get what they want and then cry when they don't get it.

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By *eachlife49Man
over a year ago

ocean

Here in the USA most couples only want to meet couples or FFM. I am str8 but had bi fun with couples in the past. Looking to meet those open minded couples. Can any one help me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough lesbians on here who secretly wanna meet straight men in my book.

I'm gutted

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"[Removed by poster at 17/07/17 20:12:23]"
. Filthy beast!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I meet mostly 'straight' men, but once your alone with them it's surprising what they'll get up to. Not many of them will admit to being bi - even when your tongue or cock is buried in their arse. I don't mind what they want to call themselves as long as we enjoy ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here in the USA most couples only want to meet couples or FFM. I am str8 but had bi fun with couples in the past. Looking to meet those open minded couples. Can any one help me?"

Shave your dam pubes would be a good start

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Here in the USA most couples only want to meet couples or FFM. I am str8 but had bi fun with couples in the past. Looking to meet those open minded couples. Can any one help me?

Shave your dam pubes would be a good start "

Nothing wrong with a bit of bush and sometimes even forests can be a turn on. Love the musky smell of manly pubes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bi-curious on my profile bad I want to try new things and then I'll decide which way to go. I think using word curious and also explaining my inexperience is not helping me discover these new adventures as others especially couples distrust these statements thinking I'm just using it as an excuse to get to the lady. And who knows there could be lots of people out there doing this.

I think this is a reason some people who want to try bi elements put straight on their profile. For me though prefer to be upfront and if something happens then it will be the right something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight, won't meet bi guys 1-1, just not interested and the throughly does absolutely nothing for me.

I have however played in a couples situation. Was ok and happy to do again in that situation.

If I use the Bi-Curious tab then I'm inundated (relatively) offers looking to 'swallow my load n go' and the like - which drives me up the fucking wall frankly.

For me sod all to do with widening any net or having better odds.

So that's my 'excuse'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no such thing as a straight man on fab. you should know this by now. Women on here just need to realise that it's only bi men on here then the "straight" guys will be honest and put bi on their profiles. The only don't do it because most women on here don't meet bi men so I'm told.

I don't give a shit if people don't wish to meet because I'm honest as plenty more fish or sausage hahaha"

I put straight on my profile because it's what I am. I make it clear. If a woman or couple want a bi man then I tell them to look elsewhere. In six years, on this and my previous profile, I have only had one guy make any attempt at trying it on, despite it being made clear before hand. He exited my door on his arse with his boxers riubd his ankles and his clothes thrown out in a heap later.

It's annoying when people generalise about "all men" on fab. Equally annoying the desperate guys who will say anything for a remote chance of a shag!

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Not enough lesbians on here who secretly wanna meet straight men in my book.

I'm gutted "

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

If you're a 'straight' guy who has met men your profile should be changed by the website to gay.

If you're a 'straight' guy who also has a fabguys account, profile should be changed to gay.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a 'straight' guy who has met men your profile should be changed by the website to gay.

If you're a 'straight' guy who also has a fabguys account, profile should be changed to gay.

Thoughts?"

Shite.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If you're a 'straight' guy who has met men your profile should be changed by the website to gay.

If you're a 'straight' guy who also has a fabguys account, profile should be changed to gay.

Thoughts?"

Ridiculous idea!

What about those that have verifications from meeting other men at parties/clubs/socials.

A verification, doesn't always equal sex.

If they have met other men sexually, why should it be changed to gay? Gay is a different kettle of fish to being bi.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Sexuality is fluid. And some people fib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 'Wiggy's' defence I do agree that if you're a straight guy in here who actively seeks out lay-by/ truckstop etc encounters with men (I get A LOT of them) as your main goal from the site, then you should definitely be on Fabguys or changing your orientation to Bi Curious at the least.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"no such thing as a straight man on fab. you should know this by now. Women on here just need to realise that it's only bi men on here then the "straight" guys will be honest and put bi on their profiles. The only don't do it because most women on here don't meet bi men so I'm told.

I don't give a shit if people don't wish to meet because I'm honest as plenty more fish or sausage hahaha"

Thats either a very tongue in cheek, or a load of pish.

I'm a man, i'm on fab and i'm straight so jog on.

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

Just my perspective, but just because a guy is curious doesn't mean he is bi or will decide to be bi/gay. I think its possible to be turned on by bi play and not fancy guys at all. There seems to be double standards on fab, a lady can be choosey, but if a guy says he is curious but turns people down he must be making it up?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"If you're a 'straight' guy who has met men your profile should be changed by the website to gay.

If you're a 'straight' guy who also has a fabguys account, profile should be changed to gay.

Thoughts?

Shite."

I didn't say had a verification from. I said met.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"In 'Wiggy's' defence I do agree that if you're a straight guy in here who actively seeks out lay-by/ truckstop etc encounters with men (I get A LOT of them) as your main goal from the site, then you should definitely be on Fabguys or changing your orientation to Bi Curious at the least."

Is that not men seeking gay sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In 'Wiggy's' defence I do agree that if you're a straight guy in here who actively seeks out lay-by/ truckstop etc encounters with men (I get A LOT of them) as your main goal from the site, then you should definitely be on Fabguys or changing your orientation to Bi Curious at the least.

Is that not men seeking gay sex? "

Is that not what I just said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a 'straight' guy who has met men your profile should be changed by the website to gay.

If you're a 'straight' guy who also has a fabguys account, profile should be changed to gay.

Thoughts?

Shite.

I didn't say had a verification from. I said met.

"

And I never said anything about verifications. Someone else did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were basically looking for couples..... but thats alot more tricky. We want to try bi single men or bi single women as well for the benefit of both of us. For the bi men, we were looking for just bi oral men ( no anal)...... on our profile we are curious and up for trying it all.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just that if it says straight we are assuming you will not be even curious..... so to us a bi curious male would love to try oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read this thread with interest and I have changed my profile accordingly. I am now showing as bi-curious but I have blocked single men from messageing me. Let me explain why:

I have played with men as part of a couple and in the "heat of the moment"; whilst I enjoyed those times and I am happy to do a similar, I am not attracted to men and have no desire to meet single guys.

When I first re-registered I was listed as bi-curious but categorically said I was not interested in meeting men, I got inundated with men wanting to meet - hence changing to straight.

So we'll see how this change goes.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Not enough lesbians on here who secretly wanna meet straight men in my book.

I'm gutted "

Other than the lesbian who got pregnant in a blindfolded bareback gangbang because she was curious about cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got interesting with a 'straight' couple when lying under them fucking doggy he kept slipping his cock in my mouth, got an awful lot more by the end too!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Got interesting with a 'straight' couple when lying under them fucking doggy he kept slipping his cock in my mouth, got an awful lot more by the end too!"

That old chestnut, been there, got the cum stained t-shirt

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Since time began, men and probably women have lied in various ways to get laid..

Why are so many people up in arms about it? What is the big deal?

As Mick n Keef says: "It's only rock n roll" .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Can I go back to being straight again please or is that it? Genies out of the bottle.....

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Can I go back to being straight again please or is that it? Genies out of the bottle....."

Just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha we are curious as hell........... need the right people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But the bi guy has to be trimmed, and clean, and ready for everything !!! Please form an orderly queue

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By *eachlife49Man
over a year ago

ocean

Thanks to all the bi men from England. If it wasnt for them looling at my profile. I would have mo views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think 90% of men on here are bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's an easy way to get a bit of action with the female of the partnership.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"we think 90% of men on here are bi! "

I think it's healthy for someone to express their sexuality as long as it's not harming anyone. The British have a reputation for being repressed; perhaps that's changing!

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings


"It's not just single guys,we get couples message us!! It says straight on there profiles,and Thay tell us there there both bi!!! Not just the women!! It leaves there options open!!! Some people say it puts people off!!! We say it as it is!! We're both bi!!! Take it or leave it!!!! X"

Exactly us too c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on here will say anything for a shag...

We have had it lots of times when the guy says they are bi, but at the last minute turns around and says something like:

"I don't think I can go through with it. Can I just fuck your wife whilst you watch?"

That's why we only meet guys who can prove they are bi either through photos or verifications.

They should accept their sexuality rather than keep telling lies to everyone else and themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omnisexual/pansexual is a better description.

Too many folk are hooked up on frigging labels....it's 2017 and sexuality should not be how someone is judged.

I like fish when I go out to eat, but should I be stoned by everyone because occasionally I fancy a bit of steak instead?

Peace out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men on here will say anything for a shag...

We have had it lots of times when the guy says they are bi, but at the last minute turns around and says something like:

"I don't think I can go through with it. Can I just fuck your wife whilst you watch?"

That's why we only meet guys who can prove they are bi either through photos or verifications.

They should accept their sexuality rather than keep telling lies to everyone else and themselves."

The issues that you have had are probably big reason why I can't break my cherry so to speak. I am up front that it will be my first time and I'm nervous and don't know how far I will but I do know that I want to try oral both giving and receiving at the very least. One of my fantasies is to be tied down while the male sucks me and the lady facesits me until the point I am fed my own seed but first I need to find that right couple to take a chance on me.

Oh well will have to keep my fingers crossed I can find those people

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"I have read this thread with interest and I have changed my profile accordingly. I am now showing as bi-curious but I have blocked single men from messageing me. Let me explain why:

I have played with men as part of a couple and in the "heat of the moment"; whilst I enjoyed those times and I am happy to do a similar, I am not attracted to men and have no desire to meet single guys.

When I first re-registered I was listed as bi-curious but categorically said I was not interested in meeting men, I got inundated with men wanting to meet - hence changing to straight.

So we'll see how this change goes. "

I know exactly where you are coming from. I'm more open-minded and bi-curious as opposed to being fully bi. I have no interest in having a 1 on 1 with guys and on my couples profile our main focus is with couples. With couples there is more potential for fun if the male is bi and when we do meet single males at clubs. If he's bi curious an MMF is much more fun. With a straight guy I'd just get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm it never occurred to me that couples/women might avoid our profile because I listed as bi-curious!

Many women on here list as bi-curious/bi and I doubt that puts anyone off, so why should it for men

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hmm it never occurred to me that couples/women might avoid our profile because I listed as bi-curious!

Many women on here list as bi-curious/bi and I doubt that puts anyone off, so why should it for men "

It probably goes back to the last century and the hysteria around hiv and aids and its link with gay/bi men.

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By *ary for funMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Because your never please all of the people,all of the time!! Straight on my profile,quite

Simply because if you put "bi" on there,loads of females/Couples won't meet you !! And whereas I'm not virginal re oral on a decent cock,a horny,fuckable pussy is my main goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I could do better without saying I'm bi on my profile. Maybe. I don't know. Only meet I've had was with a straight couple who contacted me out of the blue. It was a lovely meet. I'll keep my bi status even though I've not touched a man for many years.

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

It is a strange one as so many profiles say that they do not in any circumstances want a bi or bi curious male, its as if the guy won't be able to help himself pouncing on the male half of the couple! However I don't generally see a not interested in bi or bi curious female! I love to watch Jon suck a rock hard cock but I have no desire to see him kiss or fuck another man it's just very horny seeing him with cock in his mouth. Jon feels the same he has no attraction to men, does not want to kiss them or fuck them but he sees a cock as a sexual object and loves to suck or wank however most of our meets he has played completely straight and has not felt the need to pounce! Ha!

I think it's still unfortunately a taboo subject when it comes to bi or bi curious males but females it's game on!

Just my opinion by the way!

Jayne xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a strange one as so many profiles say that they do not in any circumstances want a bi or bi curious male, its as if the guy won't be able to help himself pouncing on the male half of the couple! However I don't generally see a not interested in bi or bi curious female! I love to watch Jon suck a rock hard cock but I have no desire to see him kiss or fuck another man it's just very horny seeing him with cock in his mouth. Jon feels the same he has no attraction to men, does not want to kiss them or fuck them but he sees a cock as a sexual object and loves to suck or wank however most of our meets he has played completely straight and has not felt the need to pounce! Ha!

I think it's still unfortunately a taboo subject when it comes to bi or bi curious males but females it's game on!

Just my opinion by the way!

Jayne xx"

Exactly my take on cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday I get winks or messages from guys who are straight on their profiles. I'm glad of the attention!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi? "

It's because men want to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have to be a vegetarian to eat vegetables?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a strange one as so many profiles say that they do not in any circumstances want a bi or bi curious male, its as if the guy won't be able to help himself pouncing on the male half of the couple! However I don't generally see a not interested in bi or bi curious female! I love to watch Jon suck a rock hard cock but I have no desire to see him kiss or fuck another man it's just very horny seeing him with cock in his mouth. Jon feels the same he has no attraction to men, does not want to kiss them or fuck them but he sees a cock as a sexual object and loves to suck or wank however most of our meets he has played completely straight and has not felt the need to pounce! Ha!

I think it's still unfortunately a taboo subject when it comes to bi or bi curious males but females it's game on!

Just my opinion by the way!

Jayne xx"

John sounds a bit like me - I don't fancy men at all but the idea of trying oral with them is a real turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're attracted to them, and it's true, does it matter?

I bet it wouldn't bother many people if I told them I was bi, if they fancied me.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We are finding just the opposite. We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-nights but although everyone attending is reminded that it is a Bi event we find that a lot of the guys when push comes to shove suddenly "become" straight.

If you are Bi you are Bi If you are straight you are straight. There is no middle ground. We fully appreciate that attraction pays the most part but the basics remain the same.

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi? "

People keep asking this, if you advertise as BI then you get loads of desperate married guys wanting to meet on their own. I am happy to have a guy as part of a couple, simples....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are finding just the opposite. We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-nights but although everyone attending is reminded that it is a Bi event we find that a lot of the guys when push comes to shove suddenly "become" straight.

If you are Bi you are Bi If you are straight you are straight. There is no middle ground. We fully appreciate that attraction pays the most part but the basics remain the same.

G&A "

Actually there is lots of middle ground, sexuality is an infinite spectrum. Just because that is now what interests you does not make it so.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It is a strange one as so many profiles say that they do not in any circumstances want a bi or bi curious male, its as if the guy won't be able to help himself pouncing on the male half of the couple! However I don't generally see a not interested in bi or bi curious female! I love to watch Jon suck a rock hard cock but I have no desire to see him kiss or fuck another man it's just very horny seeing him with cock in his mouth. Jon feels the same he has no attraction to men, does not want to kiss them or fuck them but he sees a cock as a sexual object and loves to suck or wank however most of our meets he has played completely straight and has not felt the need to pounce! Ha!

I think it's still unfortunately a taboo subject when it comes to bi or bi curious males but females it's game on!

Just my opinion by the way!

Jayne xx

John sounds a bit like me - I don't fancy men at all but the idea of trying oral with them is a real turn on."

I know quite a few guys who don't fancy men but love cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say straight on thier profile, but then when you say that you want a bi man, they are suddenly bi?

Same old Answer .. They Lie to try and get what they want and then cry when they don't get it. "

As above, its like non-smokers, smokers. Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are so many hung up on labels. It dont matter what there persuasion says on profile. You chat to people and find there likes. There are hundreds of TVs and cds on here that say straight but want single men. Work that out. But as said have a chat with people rather than ignore or block

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many hung up on labels. It dont matter what there persuasion says on profile. You chat to people and find there likes. There are hundreds of TVs and cds on here that say straight but want single men. Work that out. But as said have a chat with people rather than ignore or block "
whats the point in having a profile at all then?

straight but looking for men..lol

you can't just make words mean what you want them to mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never mentioned looking for men. Some "straight " guys will get involved with guys in a 3or more sum. Others like to go with TVs cds and ts. Which is not exactly vanilla men. The erotism of a fem guy in lingerie etc does it for them

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By *ooleboiMan
over a year ago

poole

I find the staight guy dont care who suck's there dick as long as they get to cum in a mouth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am getting bloody sick of it. Just this week I was chatting to a guy who said he was straight and then I had a conversation with another guy who told me that him and the previous guy had got together just the two of them a few times.

When I questioned the first guy he said oh yeah I am fully bi. Well I want to make the decision if I have sex with men who’ve had sex with other men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter.. if you think about it all.. its human flesh on human flesh... we are all only animals that talk... get down and have some fun and stop inventing issues tha5 actually don't really matter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men- lying bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have your profile set to bi, single women avoid as its a negative label which is annoying as most of us play safe. I for one never take risks. Im very choosy and dont throw it about so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say most on here are bi. Lol these woman that only play with so called straight guys....well let me tell you. You have been played !

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"They are playing the odds

If they put bi

Half the couples wont meet them

So they put straight and PM bi

Also how many of them then turn out to be bi

Some claim it to get the meet then try and avoid the practical side

"

The practical side?! When I woke up this morning I never would have thought 3 words would make me laugh so much.

The practical side.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I find the staight guy dont care who suck's there dick as long as they get to cum in a mouth x"

Worrrd?!

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"We are finding just the opposite. We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-nights but although everyone attending is reminded that it is a Bi event we find that a lot of the guys when push comes to shove suddenly "become" straight.

If you are Bi you are Bi If you are straight you are straight. There is no middle ground. We fully appreciate that attraction pays the most part but the basics remain the same.

G&A "

Is it that straight?! Sorry, couldn't resist.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"They are playing the odds

If they put bi

Half the couples wont meet them

So they put straight and PM bi

Also how many of them then turn out to be bi

Some claim it to get the meet then try and avoid the practical side

"

That was me, due to the fact i Kept pulling couples who said they where straight males, who just kinda decided to suck my dick while i was doing things to their wives....

Just last year I decided enough was enough, like me for who I am or dont like me at all!

so now have bi on my profile

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Probably because they want the best of both, the bi sex and the women only into straight men.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Does it really matter as long as they are polite and are what you are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a spectrum. Those who identify as straight on here, are going to be more open minded than, say those in a LTR monogamous relationship.

There is still a stigma. I’ve known women say that they are more likely to catch an sti from a bi guy. One particular woman then went on to admit mostly playing bareback and had never been tested!

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