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"Why would you want to meet a lady who doesn't fit what you want? " Hmmm that's a good statement but even when they say... Tall No bald men No hair or cock pics You see 12 veris from guys with bald heads 9 cock pics and hairier than Chewbacca Soooooo..... | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where " There are so many men on here so can be easier for women to find their perfect. Look for someone who fits your style and interests. You may get a better response then it becomes easy. | |||
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"The ratio of men to women on here allows them to be. And why not? It's entirely thier choice who the decide to entertain. It's. it like they are spoiled for choice " I totally agree its there choice just it is over the smallest of things | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" Go to Clubs. | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where There are so many men on here so can be easier for women to find their perfect. Look for someone who fits your style and interests. You may get a better response then it becomes easy. " Yeah trying to but alot of single woman on hear don't give a lot away | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking? I would if I could I don't drive so not easy been to 3 clubs though Go to Clubs. " | |||
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"Single Women on HERE are picky Because they can be.." That's it there. Don't say anymore. Thread closed. | |||
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"Why would you want to meet a lady who doesn't fit what you want? Hmmm that's a good statement but even when they say... Tall No bald men No hair or cock pics You see 12 veris from guys with bald heads 9 cock pics and hairier than Chewbacca Soooooo....." Peaches top tip... Avoid profiles that state want they are not looking for. Often those profiles don't really know what they want. Profiles that are clear with their interests/wants and needs and also fit yours will give you greater successes. | |||
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"Women are picky but so are men. I would like to think I soend most of my time with the men who are picky. I wouldn't want to see a man often who isn't picky and men should feel the same " Hey sexy yeah good point I don't just go with anyone but I have little lee way over the smallest of things | |||
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"Women are picky but so are men. I would like to think I soend most of my time with the men who are picky. I wouldn't want to see a man often who isn't picky and men should feel the same Hey sexy yeah good point I don't just go with anyone but I have little lee way over the smallest of things " Are these "smallest of things" explicitly stated in replies to your messages as reasons why you personally aren't what the lady is looking for? Or are you assuming that's the reason? | |||
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"I'm picky here. I'm picky in the real world. I always have been. I know what I'm looking for and I know that I have to wait a bloody long time to find it. I'm happy to stroll through the drought until I find an oasis without feeling the need to dive head first into a puddle. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I respect and actually quite like that. " Wow you're right to be picky top photos , | |||
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"I'm picky here. I'm picky in the real world. I always have been. I know what I'm looking for and I know that I have to wait a bloody long time to find it. I'm happy to stroll through the drought until I find an oasis without feeling the need to dive head first into a puddle. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I respect and actually quite like that. " Nice diving analogy.. | |||
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"I love getting turned down by a 20 stone granny " Is a 20 stone granny what you're looking for? | |||
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"I love getting turned down by a 20 stone granny " Surely to be turned down you have to have asked in the first place? And 20 stone grannies are allowed to be picky too you know | |||
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"I love getting turned down by a 20 stone granny Surely to be turned down you have to have asked in the first place? And 20 stone grannies are allowed to be picky too you know " Epic answer! Lol | |||
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"I've looked at your profile. You're tall, able to accommodate, your blurb is ok.....it must be the messages you send. Maybe arrange a social sooner rather than messaging. As you know even the slightest thing can make us run to the hills. I was chatting to a guy, was just about to ask if he wanted a social then he asked what I was wearing for example. That's a massive turn off for me so that was the end of that." Aww thanks yeah i try meet people for socials then get told im to pushy lol can't win | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where " What was it you were saying yesterday OP? About learning and respect? You dont seem to be too keen on respecting other people's preferences or wishes. Strikes me, its all about you, and your needs | |||
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"Because they can. I agree, I do well chatting to them they like my body (strangely), then I show my face then gone. Not even a sorry not my type. I often wonder if I am to ugly for FAB lol" maybe they realise they know you after they have seen a face pic | |||
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"Why would you want to meet a lady who doesn't fit what you want? Hmmm that's a good statement but even when they say... Tall No bald men No hair or cock pics You see 12 veris from guys with bald heads 9 cock pics and hairier than Chewbacca Soooooo..... Peaches top tip... Avoid profiles that state want they are not looking for. Often those profiles don't really know what they want. Profiles that are clear with their interests/wants and needs and also fit yours will give you greater successes. " The lady speaks the truth don't you know. A thing that is said a lot to single guys when they ask for profile feedback is to avoid negativity. An excessive lists of dont's and not into's cones under this category and i find it off putting. | |||
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"I'm just fed up with bloke messages for a quick jerk of when their wives aren't in the room that's why I stop messaging " So rather than message guys out of the blue when they aren't wanking, you wait until they're horny enough to message you when they are wanking...... Right....... | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" Because they are not guys who will poke anything | |||
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"Supply and demand. Why shouldn't they be picky? " Being picky (I prefer the word discerning) is one thing but requiring 100% perfection is another altogether,I feel. | |||
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"Top Tip let the lady run the pace of the conversation. Tell her what you would like to do with her once she has asked. Not before. I usually start things off chilled, with an offer of a coffee or a drink in a nice pub and maybe a bite to eat. Reassuring them that there will be no expectation whatsoever from me that a drink and a meal will entitle me to x,y and z. Worse case scenario is that I have a nice drink and a bite to eat in a nice setting and get to meet and converse with somebody new. If we go our separate ways afterwards so be it. Just being a gentleman really. Who knows the shoe might be on the other foot, it might be me who isn't seeing any chemist or attraction." Spoken like a true single male swinger. This is exactly how it should be done | |||
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"Top Tip let the lady run the pace of the conversation. Tell her what you would like to do with her once she has asked. Not before. I usually start things off chilled, with an offer of a coffee or a drink in a nice pub and maybe a bite to eat. Reassuring them that there will be no expectation whatsoever from me that a drink and a meal will entitle me to x,y and z. Worse case scenario is that I have a nice drink and a bite to eat in a nice setting and get to meet and converse with somebody new. If we go our separate ways afterwards so be it. Just being a gentleman really. Who knows the shoe might be on the other foot, it might be me who isn't seeing any chemist or attraction. Spoken like a true single male swinger. This is exactly how it should be done " Spoken like any true swinger. Not just the male variety. | |||
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"Im not looking for a easy fuck though im looking to meet new people make friends and hopefully so regular fwb " But you've met quite a number of women. Is that not enough to be getting on with? Mrs | |||
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"Im not looking for a easy fuck though im looking to meet new people make friends and hopefully so regular fwb But you've met quite a number of women. Is that not enough to be getting on with? Mrs" Its nice yes but why can't I message and chat with others | |||
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"Personally, I find it hard to find someone who I'm both mentally and physically attracted to, both on fab and off fab, that I want to be intimate with, and I won't consider meeting someone I'm not attracted to. If that makes me picky then I'm picky." Couldn't have put it better myself! | |||
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"Supply and demand. Why shouldn't they be picky? Being picky (I prefer the word discerning) is one thing but requiring 100% perfection is another altogether,I feel." Here in lies my issue with socials I don't wish to date you I wish to have sexual chemistry and sex not much more | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where There are so many men on here so can be easier for women to find their perfect. Look for someone who fits your style and interests. You may get a better response then it becomes easy. Yeah trying to but alot of single woman on hear don't give a lot away " On hear? | |||
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"I'm a man and you could say I'm picky. " so if it was offered on a plate to you? you would be mmm hang on let me think about it as i am picky? | |||
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"Single Women on HERE are picky Because they can be.. That's it there. Don't say anymore. Thread closed." | |||
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"Why would you want to meet a lady who doesn't fit what you want? Hmmm that's a good statement but even when they say... Tall No bald men No hair or cock pics You see 12 veris from guys with bald heads 9 cock pics and hairier than Chewbacca Soooooo....." Everyone has their *preferences* but sometimes you may meet a guy at a club and even though he may not be the type you are instantly physically attracted to, there may be an intense sexual chemistry there, and THAT is when preferences can slide a little, (or a lot) and you just have to play with each other! | |||
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"Sometimes, I think, it's because subconsciously all they really want is an ego boost or a boyfriend, and they either bottle or baulk at the prospect of nsa. " Or because they have just as little imagination as the men. Therefore people revert to stereotypes and cliched fantasties. In real terms not everyone is going to be the tanned blonde, blue eyed Scandinavian sensually caressing them on a sheepskin rug in front of roaring fire in a log cabin. Or, a gang of d up steroid induced black dudes anally 'destroying' them over a wheelie bin in an alley behind a pub. There could be people coming here looking for that fantasy, but assuming it will marry them is a long shot | |||
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"I would instantly be put off by someone telling me what they want to do to me.... even if I did like it. But why are we picky...... I'm no more picky here than I am in real life. I am picky because I can be and I choose to be. I'm picky because I don't need to fuck people I don't want to just to get a fuck. V x " so agree ?? | |||
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"Learning to spell and string a grammatical sentence together would be a start. Most women, let alone the "picky" ones, don't like uneducated thickos" The part of the comment that states grammar then straight onto uneducated thickos I don't think is fair, there are many intelligent people who just struggle to spell doesn't mean they are thick. And for the post it's just like anything else in life if it doesn't catch your eye your not gonna pay attention to it simple really | |||
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"Why am I careful with who I choose to have sex with? Because I don't want to hate myself afterwards. " be as choosy or as picky as you want | |||
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"I love getting turned down by a 20 stone granny Surely to be turned down you have to have asked in the first place? And 20 stone grannies are allowed to be picky too you know " Absolutely ,everyone has a different attraction I like older lady's who's husbands no longer want sex and can't get pregnant . | |||
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"Single Women on HERE are picky Because they can be.." Exactly Also saying you like kissing down a kneck sounds like sexting talk and many don't like it | |||
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"The ratio of men to women on here allows them to be. And why not? It's entirely thier choice who the decide to entertain. It's. it like they are spoiled for choice I totally agree its there choice just it is over the smallest of things " They may not be small things to the women OP | |||
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"Supply and demand. Why shouldn't they be picky? Being picky (I prefer the word discerning) is one thing but requiring 100% perfection is another altogether,I feel. Here in lies my issue with socials I don't wish to date you I wish to have sexual chemistry and sex not much more" I don't recall offering. | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" Because we aren't free whores and aren't desperate either x | |||
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"Given the chance, men would be just as demanding if the numbers were in their favour.............. Must be tall shaven long hair not too much make up wear stockings/suspenders/heels must want to please love giving oral must love swallowing Oh yes you would " Lol so true ! | |||
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"Because they can. I agree, I do well chatting to them they like my body (strangely), then I show my face then gone. Not even a sorry not my type. I often wonder if I am to ugly for FAB lol" You haven't shown me your face yet! | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where There are so many men on here so can be easier for women to find their perfect. Look for someone who fits your style and interests. You may get a better response then it becomes easy. Yeah trying to but alot of single woman on hear don't give a lot away " We're a secretive bunch that's for sure! | |||
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"Its not all about me at all i kust love to getbto know a woman and what she likes so i can give her the best time as possible and yeah i ask questions bit i not wanking as i ask lol its cos im intrigued " What is that ? If you send messages put together like that you are pissing in the wind. | |||
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"Its not all about me at all i kust love to getbto know a woman and what she likes so i can give her the best time as possible and yeah i ask questions bit i not wanking as i ask lol its cos im intrigued What is that ? If you send messages put together like that you are pissing in the wind. " Solid burn, Branch | |||
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"Its not all about me at all i kust love to getbto know a woman and what she likes so i can give her the best time as possible and yeah i ask questions bit i not wanking as i ask lol its cos im intrigued What is that ? If you send messages put together like that you are pissing in the wind. Solid burn, Branch " Everyone makes a wee slop up. But if it's constantly poor decent women won't want to put his penis in their mouths. The only guys passing their lips will be Ben and Jerry. You need to be on the ball. | |||
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"i think its because they must have had bad experience's or they must of seen alot of fake users and alot of nobheads!!! " | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" There are about 30 men for every single woman on here. Most of the single men will blow smoke up there arse to get a shag. It's not the womans fault she gets an inflated ego and picky. | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking? There are about 30 men for every single woman on here. Most of the single men will blow smoke up there arse to get a shag. It's not the womans fault she gets an inflated ego and picky. " Well, if shagging you is not being picky, what does that say about you? | |||
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"I love getting turned down by a 20 stone granny " Why would you using your words message a 20 stone granny? If you think of the woman you are messaging as an old fat woman why message her? Is it because you think she will be desperate? When she turns you down do you feel insulted and then have to call her a fat granny to ease your pain? | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" Id rather meet someone i fancied and met my type range | |||
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"Being picky and selective is a good thing. I'm far more prudent with who I message now than when I first joined. Then When you do get a meet, you know it's because you both genuinely find each other attractive, whether it's physically or mentally " fully agree | |||
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"I'm picky in real life too, not just on fab. I have my preferences and will not compromise on that, just because I'm on a swinging site " i am the same x | |||
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"It's there prerogative to be particular and goes for everyone else. The single guys far out weigh the females and couples. They get to pick and choose and many in my humble opinion punch well above there weight " I totally do and know it...but the guys I play with are no different to the ones I would play with in normal life. I like all kinds of men...but I can't be attracted to all of them! | |||
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"I'm picky here. I'm picky in the real world. I always have been. I know what I'm looking for and I know that I have to wait a bloody long time to find it. I'm happy to stroll through the drought until I find an oasis without feeling the need to dive head first into a puddle. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I respect and actually quite like that. " Love the 'happy to stroll through the drought' line. My sentiments exactly! I'm here for a bit of what I fancy and if it's not what I fancy then I move on.. Hearing what people want to do to me isn't really a turn on for me - spontaneity and anticipation however - is. | |||
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"It makes me laugh that people dont get this and the word preferences. yes i am on a swinging site but for me to want to fuck them i must have a connection or fancy them" I agree | |||
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"You have to be bland but interesting. Know when to be boring and conventional (do you like kissing down the neck? Sometimes but it depends) and when it's safe to say something interesting (do you like ice cream? Not pink stuff as it has blah blah blah that's bad for you). Some of the guys on the forums have got this bland but interesting act down to a fine art " Loool Loving some of the replies in this thread | |||
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"Yes i so know this ... and why I want meet a woman who isnt in to what I want? Well if its small things like ot kissing kneck then i can deal with that but yeah its like you have be bloody perfect or get no where " What is a 'kneck'? | |||
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"Meh. Let them be. They have every right to be. Lopsided gender ratios are not really exclusive to fab anyway. It's exactly the same on tinder/pof. Women are not obligated to shag men just because they're not partaking in patriarchal ideas of feminine sexual expression. AT THE SAME TIME though. If you're a woman and think attention on a swinging site is a sign of your desirability then you're stupid and will learn the hard way. Overinflated egos are abound here but I enjoy fucking them off tbh. If you're a guy and you feel people here are "picky" you may need to ask yourself whether you're standards are not high enough." | |||
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"Meh. Let them be. They have every right to be. Lopsided gender ratios are not really exclusive to fab anyway. It's exactly the same on tinder/pof. Women are not obligated to shag men just because they're not partaking in patriarchal ideas of feminine sexual expression. AT THE SAME TIME though. If you're a woman and think attention on a swinging site is a sign of your desirability then you're stupid and will learn the hard way. Overinflated egos are abound here but I enjoy fucking them off tbh. If you're a guy and you feel people here are "picky" you may need to ask yourself whether you're standards are not high enough." I don't know why women and couples get overinflated egos. We personallly don't find much of the attention I get particularly flattering. And when we find a man whom we connect with we certainly don't take him granted, especially as we know he will have choice. Mrs | |||
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"Meh. Let them be. They have every right to be. Lopsided gender ratios are not really exclusive to fab anyway. It's exactly the same on tinder/pof. Women are not obligated to shag men just because they're not partaking in patriarchal ideas of feminine sexual expression. AT THE SAME TIME though. If you're a woman and think attention on a swinging site is a sign of your desirability then you're stupid and will learn the hard way. Overinflated egos are abound here but I enjoy fucking them off tbh. If you're a guy and you feel people here are "picky" you may need to ask yourself whether you're standards are not high enough. I don't know why women and couples get overinflated egos. We personallly don't find much of the attention I get particularly flattering. And when we find a man whom we connect with we certainly don't take him granted, especially as we know he will have choice. Mrs" Over value of female sexuality (or gynocentricism according to some permeates throughout the culture. So I can hardly blame it on fabbers. Whenever I read articles about either sexuality or polyamory/swinging there is a strange halo effect placed upon female participants. | |||
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"It's a numbers game .. All lades on here no matter what size or what they look like get attention because desperate guys think there offering sex . Where most are just getting attention they maybe wouldn't get in everyday life! I say good luck to them xx" I bet most ladies on fab just want some hot kinky sex and couldn't give a monkeys arse about the wasters giving them attention | |||
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"It's a numbers game .. All lades on here no matter what size or what they look like get attention because desperate guys think there offering sex . Where most are just getting attention they maybe wouldn't get in everyday life! I say good luck to them xx I bet most ladies on fab just want some hot kinky sex and couldn't give a monkeys arse about the wasters giving them attention " I beg to differ .. many don't meet. Ut just post pics to be fabbed or flash there tits on cam .. alot use it as social media not actually meeting.. Look through profiles ? Alot are verified by cam or photo verified.. Alot meet too though i grant u that | |||
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"It's a numbers game .. All lades on here no matter what size or what they look like get attention because desperate guys think there offering sex . Where most are just getting attention they maybe wouldn't get in everyday life! I say good luck to them xx I bet most ladies on fab just want some hot kinky sex and couldn't give a monkeys arse about the wasters giving them attention I beg to differ .. many don't meet. Ut just post pics to be fabbed or flash there tits on cam .. alot use it as social media not actually meeting.. Look through profiles ? Alot are verified by cam or photo verified.. Alot meet too though i grant u that " And that's ok! Those ladies are using fab how they want to use it. If you want to meet then pass those profiles by. Look for someone who fits your needs/interests. | |||
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"It's a numbers game .. All lades on here no matter what size or what they look like get attention because desperate guys think there offering sex . Where most are just getting attention they maybe wouldn't get in everyday life! I say good luck to them xx I bet most ladies on fab just want some hot kinky sex and couldn't give a monkeys arse about the wasters giving them attention I beg to differ .. many don't meet. Ut just post pics to be fabbed or flash there tits on cam .. alot use it as social media not actually meeting.. Look through profiles ? Alot are verified by cam or photo verified.. Alot meet too though i grant u that And that's ok! Those ladies are using fab how they want to use it. If you want to meet then pass those profiles by. Look for someone who fits your needs/interests. " Absolutely correct i do .. | |||
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"i think its because they must have had bad experience's or they must of seen alot of fake users and alot of nobheads!!! " Nail on head.. | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking? Go to Clubs. " And again nail on head | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious " Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs" Thanks Classy you are right, guys really suprise me with the way they think, some guys really think that because a lady rejects them that the lady is not enjoying herself or missing out , this is very false. The few verifications you see on the profiles of the ladies is not the true picture, a female friend showed me her verifications and it was hundreds and she only displayed three, I asked her why ? And she said displaying a few keeps the guys eager. Guys should just accept that ladies are really enjoying themselves here, this is the honest truth, the ladies can have ten guys in a day if they choose to, the supply of guys is endless. | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs Thanks Classy you are right, guys really suprise me with the way they think, some guys really think that because a lady rejects them that the lady is not enjoying herself or missing out , this is very false. The few verifications you see on the profiles of the ladies is not the true picture, a female friend showed me her verifications and it was hundreds and she only displayed three, I asked her why ? And she said displaying a few keeps the guys eager. Guys should just accept that ladies are really enjoying themselves here, this is the honest truth, the ladies can have ten guys in a day if they choose to, the supply of guys is endless." But a lot of guys will say that women are missing out on 'nice guys'. That seems to be assuming that the guys women choose to play with are not 'nice'. I dislike the way so-called 'nice guys' big themselves up against other guys on Fab, and use the 'nice' attribute as their only selling point. To me 'nice' goes without saying. But it is useless without other attributes. Mrs | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs Thanks Classy you are right, guys really suprise me with the way they think, some guys really think that because a lady rejects them that the lady is not enjoying herself or missing out , this is very false. The few verifications you see on the profiles of the ladies is not the true picture, a female friend showed me her verifications and it was hundreds and she only displayed three, I asked her why ? And she said displaying a few keeps the guys eager. Guys should just accept that ladies are really enjoying themselves here, this is the honest truth, the ladies can have ten guys in a day if they choose to, the supply of guys is endless. But a lot of guys will say that women are missing out on 'nice guys'. That seems to be assuming that the guys women choose to play with are not 'nice'. I dislike the way so-called 'nice guys' big themselves up against other guys on Fab, and use the 'nice' attribute as their only selling point. To me 'nice' goes without saying. But it is useless without other attributes. Mrs" I quite agree. | |||
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"On the flip side there is an endless supply of ladies for guys who know how to play the game, plus guys keep saying the ladies are picky , I don't think the ladies are as picky as the guys are making them out to be. I don't deal with any lady I cannot see or talk to face to face because I want to read the lady and her body language, I also want to check if I like her plus I want to see where she stands compared to other ladies in the room. Therefore, the clubs and parties cannot be avoided for me. " Yes agree, the guys who understand the swing scene are in short supply. I've noticed there are a few men who have the monopoly and can take their pick. | |||
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"Ladies well done for being particular whom you meet, this works both ways as you don't know who their previous playmate was! So being picky generally is a positive attribute. " Fully agree with you here. There can be some inconsistencies when I see the very same person meet n play with casual club visitors. This is what I don't understand. So some guys have much better chance if they go to a club. The woman's filters can often be down. | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs Thanks Classy you are right, guys really suprise me with the way they think, some guys really think that because a lady rejects them that the lady is not enjoying herself or missing out , this is very false. The few verifications you see on the profiles of the ladies is not the true picture, a female friend showed me her verifications and it was hundreds and she only displayed three, I asked her why ? And she said displaying a few keeps the guys eager. Guys should just accept that ladies are really enjoying themselves here, this is the honest truth, the ladies can have ten guys in a day if they choose to, the supply of guys is endless. But a lot of guys will say that women are missing out on 'nice guys'. That seems to be assuming that the guys women choose to play with are not 'nice'. I dislike the way so-called 'nice guys' big themselves up against other guys on Fab, and use the 'nice' attribute as their only selling point. To me 'nice' goes without saying. But it is useless without other attributes. Mrs" It sounds like your response is because you've taken this as personal where in reality nice is subjective rather than objective. There will be some that are seen as nice to some and not to others. What I see as nice for me may not be seen as the same by others. That in no ways says the ones I see are not actually nice because others don't see them as nice...they're just nice for me. And it's about what I'm looking for and not others. If you start to concern yourself how others view whom you're meeting then you need to take a step back and adjust that thinking or else it may spiral into negativity and you'll end up becoming too self conscious about your meets. | |||
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"Hey guys and girls I know it sounds like a easy answer but had so many chats with single women and all going well then as soon as not 100% match with you never hear agin ... i mean like i say i like kissing down a women's kneck.. they be like mmm i not fan of that then thats it lol help! What you thinking?" Single Women get hundreds of guy's offering their services. If you had women throwing themselves at your feet you would choose the the most appealing one. Wouldn't you? | |||
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"Because they can be. It's a bit of a shame because they miss out on some really nice guys on here. However men don't help the situation by being rude and obnoxious Rubbish. Just because women turn down men they don't fancy or connect with, does not mean they necessarily miss out on really nice guys at all. The men that they do fancy and connect with , and therefore meet, are equally as likely to be 'really nice guys'. And rude obnoxious men don't influence the frequency that women meet. Mrs Thanks Classy you are right, guys really suprise me with the way they think, some guys really think that because a lady rejects them that the lady is not enjoying herself or missing out , this is very false. The few verifications you see on the profiles of the ladies is not the true picture, a female friend showed me her verifications and it was hundreds and she only displayed three, I asked her why ? And she said displaying a few keeps the guys eager. Guys should just accept that ladies are really enjoying themselves here, this is the honest truth, the ladies can have ten guys in a day if they choose to, the supply of guys is endless. But a lot of guys will say that women are missing out on 'nice guys'. That seems to be assuming that the guys women choose to play with are not 'nice'. I dislike the way so-called 'nice guys' big themselves up against other guys on Fab, and use the 'nice' attribute as their only selling point. To me 'nice' goes without saying. But it is useless without other attributes. Mrs It sounds like your response is because you've taken this as personal where in reality nice is subjective rather than objective. There will be some that are seen as nice to some and not to others. What I see as nice for me may not be seen as the same by others. That in no ways says the ones I see are not actually nice because others don't see them as nice...they're just nice for me. And it's about what I'm looking for and not others. If you start to concern yourself how others view whom you're meeting then you need to take a step back and adjust that thinking or else it may spiral into negativity and you'll end up becoming too self conscious about your meets." In actual fact I completely agree with you. 'Nice' is indeed subjective, and that's why I have made my comment in response to the poster who feels women are missing out on 'nice' guys. I haven't taken it personally because it wasn't said about me, but rightly or wrongly I find it a bit distasteful the way some guys big themselves up against other guys. With regards to concerning myself with what others think, I don't i reality. But I enjoy a forum debate, and it interested me to comment on this particular issue. If everybody on the forums ceased to take an interest in other people's thoughts, there would be no forum. Either way, we've been swinging for years and I've certainly never felt self conscious on a meet or experienced a spiralling negativity. Mrs | |||
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"I'll fuck who I want to fuck. Any little thing puts me off. Too many men cry wanking. " nothing wrong with cry wankers though. | |||
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