A good friend of mine on here was talking of stamina so I sent her something along these lines:
In my experience, while women can take "anything" even if they have to grit their teeth and take it, men on the other hand go on 1) interest 2) stock levels 3) energy levels 4) natural clock 5) mental state.
Interest means they have to absolutely like/ love what is infront of them or they can't get it up/ keep it up. There is no room for pretence. A man cannot fake orgasm. A man may attend a meet coz he's not had any in a while or out of curiosity or even greed( not wanting to pass the opportunity by) etc. Curious to try a bbw, size 0, a Chinese woman, a mixed race, a black woman,bit tits, small tits, a tv, etc but ar the point it matters most, his true inner self pops out and if he truly does not have an intrinsic interest in what is before him, he will struggle to perform.
Stock level here just means fluid levels. If a guy has had one too many wanks or orgasms, he will struggle no matter what / who is infront of him.
Closely linked to fluid level is energy level which I believe is self explanatory. The law of diminishing returns kicks in.
Number 4 is the natural clock. In simple terms, a 64 year old cannot fuck like a 24 year old.
Sex is as much psychological as it is physical. If the bloke is thinking of wife, kids, petrol, mortgage, girlfriend, a hidden camera, or feels intimidated, etc, performance suffers.
Women go through all the above, I hear you screaming!!!! True!
The only difference is that if and when a woman is struggling, and if she wants to, she CAN GRIT HER TEETH and keep taking it. And the guy will keep hammering away as expected universally.
No amount of teeth gritting on the man's part can keep a distracted dick UP AND ERECT.
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