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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Who knows, i havnt met all the young guys on the site

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I think it depends, some guys will screw a cracked plate! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is an number

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?..."

a vagina is a vagina, albeit some more internal than external.

takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be they think an old girl would be glad of the attention?

May be they heard too many stories of "Grab a Granny" nights down the local disco?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm youth over experience which would I prefer.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends, some guys will screw a cracked plate! Z"

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I've got one - an age that is

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

reason for asking, a male friend asked a couple for a meet and they checked him out and said to him, can u only get a 53 year old large lady...so wanted peoples opinions...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"reason for asking, a male friend asked a couple for a meet and they checked him out and said to him, can u only get a 53 year old large lady...so wanted peoples opinions..."

anyone who would say 'can you only get a 53 year old large lady' I would body serve instantly.....

and have a wank instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?..."

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if i had been your friend i wouldnt have returned the pm and i certainly wouldnt have mentioned it to you. Age, looks, size does it really MATTER if someone likes you they like you Full stop

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

he didnt tell me, the stupid person sent the message to me by mistake...all he put was can u only get a 53 year old big woman?...then he sent me another message saying sorry, message was meant for someone else lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he didnt tell me, the stupid person sent the message to me by mistake...all he put was can u only get a 53 year old big woman?...then he sent me another message saying sorry, message was meant for someone else lol..."

Not very bright then: how did they manage that?

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

he asked them for a meet so they must of checked him and sent wrong message to me which was intended for him...

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"age is an number"

no its a word

Mistress x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

"

Shameless

Mistress x

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

P Here:

Recently been with 36, 31 and 49 year olds

(I'm 44)

They all had one thing in common. They were great fun, on all counts.

Age is a factor, but it's not the biggest one.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It grates on my tits all this age stuff. If two people are attracted to each other great what does it matter what everyone else thinks and why do people need to seek reassurance. My boyfriend is 23 years older and most of my playmates are a bit younger than me, so what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age is an number

no its a word

Mistress x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

"

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird.

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

i dont have a problem playing with younger guys, obviously the message i got was from some one who was bothered about the age thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've always been drawn to a woman a little older than me.. not too sure why.. maybe is just what i am attracted too.

its not about desperation, or that i cant pull woman my own age.. (as i can... well occasionally anyway). just a preference of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird. "

Hi

lol what I ment was I have more luck with girls 18 to 28ish I dont tend to meet older women ( maybe the places I go, or the fact I have a baby face lol) I dont keep anyone a secret, I dont care what people think........... and for the record when I say older women I mean 30s 40s not granies! lol if I wanted that I would go bingo lol

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

lots of guys prefer an older woman so i cant understand why some people think a guy going after an older overweight one is doing so because he cant get one younger or around his own age..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn't really matter to me. I have met ladies on here as young as 20 and as old as 45. It depends whether i fancy them/they fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird.

Hi

lol what I ment was I have more luck with girls 18 to 28ish I dont tend to meet older women ( maybe the places I go, or the fact I have a baby face lol) I dont keep anyone a secret, I dont care what people think........... and for the record when I say older women I mean 30s 40s not granies! lol if I wanted that I would go bingo lol "

Thanks for clearing that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I best go get ready going oit with YOUNG lady tnight lol

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

hate bingo, rather have me younger guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I best go get ready going oit with YOUNG lady tnight lol "

out rather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It grates on my tits all this age stuff. If two people are attracted to each other great what does it matter what everyone else thinks and why do people need to seek reassurance. My boyfriend is 23 years older and most of my playmates are a bit younger than me, so what."

Thing is pet, age is just one of the factors people seek reassurance on on these forums.

You only have to look at the: do men like bbws, do women like black/vvvvvvvwe/big girth/thin cocks, do women like beards/clean shaven etc type threads to see that!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

People are attracted to each other for all different reasons, impossible to pin point or say right from wrong. That being said some guys will just shag anyone on offer, whether they are attracted to them or not. Personally think that it shows a lack of self respect and lack of respect to the woman concerned but she is free to make her own decisions also. Age, body type, looks, race... these are not the reasons to reride someones choices but we are all human and I guess make our own assumptions and judgements on someone we are considering meeting. I have had messages from guys who have been less than complimentary about a lady they have met who they considered below league. Not classy. Not pleasant and not for me.

Mistess x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Hmmm I wonder .. maybe they think we are desperate.. they often assume we are experienced ..Personally I do like younger men to look at not got any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reason for asking, a male friend asked a couple for a meet and they checked him out and said to him, can u only get a 53 year old large lady...so wanted peoples opinions..."

sounds to me like the lady in question has a bit of a confidance issue

i bet she looked at his profile saw he was young and thought, why the hell is he mailing me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I am trying to remember the tellybox programme which had the following line....

"He's a young lad. He'll hump a bedside lamp if it has breasts and winks at him"

It did make me chuckle.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"reason for asking, a male friend asked a couple for a meet and they checked him out and said to him, can u only get a 53 year old large lady...so wanted peoples opinions...

sounds to me like the lady in question has a bit of a confidance issue

i bet she looked at his profile saw he was young and thought, why the hell is he mailing me

"

Op says 'he said' not 'she said' so unlikely.

Mistress x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I am trying to remember the tellybox programme which had the following line....

"He's a young lad. He'll hump a bedside lamp if it has breasts and winks at him"

It did make me chuckle."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reason for asking, a male friend asked a couple for a meet and they checked him out and said to him, can u only get a 53 year old large lady...so wanted peoples opinions...

sounds to me like the lady in question has a bit of a confidance issue

i bet she looked at his profile saw he was young and thought, why the hell is he mailing me

Op says 'he said' not 'she said' so unlikely.

Mistress x"

it says..... and she said to him can you only get 53 year old large women....

which to me sounds like the responce of someone lacking on confidance

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird.

Hi

lol what I ment was I have more luck with girls 18 to 28ish I dont tend to meet older women ( maybe the places I go, or the fact I have a baby face lol) I dont keep anyone a secret, I dont care what people think........... and for the record when I say older women I mean 30s 40s not granies! lol if I wanted that I would go bingo lol "

I've never been to the bingo. What's it like ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird.

Hi

lol what I ment was I have more luck with girls 18 to 28ish I dont tend to meet older women ( maybe the places I go, or the fact I have a baby face lol) I dont keep anyone a secret, I dont care what people think........... and for the record when I say older women I mean 30s 40s not granies! lol if I wanted that I would go bingo lol

I've never been to the bingo. What's it like ? "

its full of baby faced lads granny chasing on the quiet

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?...

lol Think in some cases that is true, but not allways, I pull girls my own age in pubs bars ect quite easily, but I do like a older woman also, and dont tend to pull them out and about, so this site is quite good for that

Question why do you only pull birds your own age when your out and not older ladies instead why keep them secret. Same as not being seen out with a fat bird.

Hi

lol what I ment was I have more luck with girls 18 to 28ish I dont tend to meet older women ( maybe the places I go, or the fact I have a baby face lol) I dont keep anyone a secret, I dont care what people think........... and for the record when I say older women I mean 30s 40s not granies! lol if I wanted that I would go bingo lol

I've never been to the bingo. What's it like ?

its full of baby faced lads granny chasing on the quiet "

I think you're right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?..."

I have a general range between 10 yrs older to 20 yrs younger, though there had been the odd exception. Top limit depends on how active they are. If all they can do is lie there then I might as well buy a doll. At the younger end of the scale I get uneasy when they're a similar age to my daughter.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"he didnt tell me, the stupid person sent the message to me by mistake...all he put was can u only get a 53 year old big woman?...then he sent me another message saying sorry, message was meant for someone else lol..."

Ok being pedantic but this clearly says that HE put... then HE sent her another message. I had to check as I thought I may have been seeing things again and need to go back on the tablets....

Mistress x

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

yes i got two messages from the same person, one saying about him only being able to get a 53 year old large woman then the next message saying sorry was sent to wrong person, when i went to reply found he had blocked me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i got two messages from the same person, one saying about him only being able to get a 53 year old large woman then the next message saying sorry was sent to wrong person, when i went to reply found he had blocked me..."
Really would you wish to meet a person like that ..... sounds a real Wa-ker .. I meet younger men and have a fab time . Age really have nothing to do with it .. if you get on and you click that all its about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each person is diff , i always liked older women and bigger girls ... dont meen that i dont like younger ladys and smaller!!... i think on her for some is a badge to try and win , " to go to work on mon and say they had a milf or gilf and smile " ... now dont take this the wrong way ladys but there are some on here who play to that and its not always good or honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men are attracted to women older than themselves because older women are deemed more confident and upfront about what they want.

Of course there are idiots in every walk of life.

Some men will say negative comments about other women they have met to a potential new playmate, this needs to be taken with a pinch of salt really, their cock is driving them and they will ply the prospective playmate with every compliment going in order to get that shag. After the meet the women are yesterdays news and they will continue their bollox to the next victim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are attracted to women older than themselves because older women are deemed more confident and upfront about what they want.

Of course there are idiots in every walk of life.

Some men will say negative comments about other women they have met to a potential new playmate, this needs to be taken with a pinch of salt really, their cock is driving them and they will ply the prospective playmate with every compliment going in order to get that shag. After the meet the women are yesterdays news and they will continue their bollox to the next victim.

"
some end up my friends. lol but alot is true what you say here. x x

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

i agree but what i am saying is that i had met the younger guy and i was his only verification, then he got in touch with a young couple and they looked on his profile and saw my veri and come out with that comment about him only being able to get a 53 year old big woman..only problem was the couple sent the comment to me in error instead of the young guy then had the cheek to say sorry to me because they had sent it to me instead of the young guy

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Although we cant afford to be fussy, we dont mind whether the said couple are young or old. As long as they are game for a good laugh and are good to talk to it doesnt matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if i had been your friend i wouldnt have returned the pm and i certainly wouldnt have mentioned it to you. Age, looks, size does it really MATTER if someone likes you they like you Full stop"

good speech, totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree but what i am saying is that i had met the younger guy and i was his only verification, then he got in touch with a young couple and they looked on his profile and saw my veri and come out with that comment about him only being able to get a 53 year old big woman..only problem was the couple sent the comment to me in error instead of the young guy then had the cheek to say sorry to me because they had sent it to me instead of the young guy"
well maybe that couple was looking for a way out of saying no to him . Some people are strange its hard to work some out ..... you just have fun theres loads i am sure who would love to meet you ..... some are not worth worrying over xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to believe the younger gents I played with so far played with me because they liked me, and not because they could not get someone closer to their own age.

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

yes i like to think that also and i like to think that because they come back for seconds etc that they are doing so because they liked it and not because they cudnt fill in a spare evening with someone younger

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I think the point is... you never really know what a young guy is thinking even if you think you do. They are an interesting and fun bunch but can also be flaky and tell you what they think you want to hear (they dont always get that right lol). Some stay a while and get close, others flit on and off. Its the nature of the beast. They are here for nsa sex after all. I guess what I mean is, if it works for you then dont examine it too closely or you may sometimes not like what you find. Cant be vunerable on here. It will not end well.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It grates on my tits all this age stuff. If two people are attracted to each other great what does it matter what everyone else thinks and why do people need to seek reassurance. My boyfriend is 23 years older and most of my playmates are a bit younger than me, so what.

Thing is pet, age is just one of the factors people seek reassurance on on these forums.

You only have to look at the: do men like bbws, do women like black/vvvvvvvwe/big girth/thin cocks, do women like beards/clean shaven etc type threads to see that!"

What I find amusing is that all of the above plus other factors don't guarantee a great meet. For me, the type of person is more important than the physical and age factors

Hmm that gives me an idea for a thread! lol

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By *--Cinders--- OP   Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

thanks for all ur comments...i am quite happy doing what i am doing and as u say its nsa fun and i am loving it...just cant understand why others have to be so nasty towards someone enjoying themselves and have to be so negative about me to others, especially when they have never met me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all ur comments...i am quite happy doing what i am doing and as u say its nsa fun and i am loving it...just cant understand why others have to be so nasty towards someone enjoying themselves and have to be so negative about me to others, especially when they have never met me..."
just be yourself to hell with people like that xxxx we are here only one time so i am making the most of it myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want peoples opinions...do young guys go with older ladies because they cant get people their own age?..."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all ur comments...i am quite happy doing what i am doing and as u say its nsa fun and i am loving it...just cant understand why others have to be so nasty towards someone enjoying themselves and have to be so negative about me to others, especially when they have never met me..."

If people are negative about you, make sure you report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone likes different some like older some younger, but as every women on this site will know we are never short of offers i get 50+ messages most days so yeah i can pick and choose who i meet so to me its more a question of do i like them enough to meet rather than the other way round

if your female and you get a message from someone your not happy about, dont question it just delete it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If people are negative about you, make sure you report them"

.

One should learn to take negative criticisms gracefully IMHO.

However, if one is being abusive, then I would report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age is an number"

more like a method of checking how young you look for your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the question is much to "general" to answer.

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