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By *it of fun cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We have noticed the phrase Age/Looks not important on a lot of profiles recently. Would it put you off? it does us as it seems like a plea of desperation and shag anything. Your thoughts??

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I think a lot of people look into things a bit more than they should. Maybe worded a bit better. Personality is more important than your age and looks for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it doesn't put me off. I have no specific type I'm attracted to, they possibly mean that. I'm not on here looking for Mr Perfect, I'm looking for people in find attractive and that could be anyone.

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Its all about lust....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put me off, which on reflection is probably a tad judgemental of me, but it just looks a bit 'any hole's a goal' which isn't terribly attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read it as then not having any particular preferences and it being more about personality, but then I'm not a fan of people putting their preferences or likes/dislikes down anyway

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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with the rest of the profile i suppose more context could be added.

like if a person was looking for personality then it wouldn't look desperate.

i'm sure everyone who puts that also has physical limits to what they find attractive anyway and would turn some people down based on their looks.

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By *it of fun cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull


"I think a lot of people look into things a bit more than they should. Maybe worded a bit better. Personality is more important than your age and looks for example."

never thought of it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see 18 to 99 . I think.really ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesnt, it is just a shag

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

I have that on my profile but it doesnt mean that i will fuck anyone, i have it there because if i have a connection with someone, when chatting with them, the other things dont matter as much.

I tend to meet in club and prefer to socialise first so have plenty of time to figure it out, i suppose if i was just trying to meet and get down to it asap then it may matter more

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it means that they have a broad range of people they find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it to mean the person isn't fussy about who they shag - rightly or wrongly - so it's an instant turn-off

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I take it to mean the person isn't fussy about who they shag - rightly or wrongly - so it's an instant turn-off "

My thought.

Why would anyone want to go with someone who isnt fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have noticed the phrase Age/Looks not important on a lot of profiles recently. Would it put you off? it does us as it seems like a plea of desperation and shag anything. Your thoughts??"

I view it the same as you. Screams desparate to me

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nah, come across as any hole is a goal, you'll get no interaction with me

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Nope I don't think about it too much. Most of the time I suspect people just write what they think others want to hear. I make my decisions on talking to the person and finding out who they are really.

Plus I'm old so if age doesn't matter I'm

In with a chance.

Giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be interested just like those people who tick every option on looking for.

Get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agewise- means if they find you attractive they will consider fucking you...

lookswise- they are not looking for you to be perfect like a superstar etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it shows that they are not shallow and prefer someone's personality to their looks.

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

Of course there is an element of looks that plays a part but i am genuinely not bothered by age.

I meet in the club mostly so i always talk and get to know people, when i connect with them, i am less bothered by the other things, that doesnt mean i will fuck anyone, nor do i want to.

Ultimately i am here to experience new things, have my eyes opened further to new things and if i start saying you must look like this and be this old, i am already limiting myself.

I dont see why my ability to look past a non perfect body or someones age makes me desperate or just out to fuck anything and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is an element of looks that plays a part but i am genuinely not bothered by age.

I meet in the club mostly so i always talk and get to know people, when i connect with them, i am less bothered by the other things, that doesnt mean i will fuck anyone, nor do i want to.

Ultimately i am here to experience new things, have my eyes opened further to new things and if i start saying you must look like this and be this old, i am already limiting myself.

I dont see why my ability to look past a non perfect body or someones age makes me desperate or just out to fuck anything and everything"

I've met alot of different types of people...ages,weights etc..of course and looks, I've only ever had a couple of women ask why I met someone 'like that'- its a case of ignore the question, or if its really horrid...block. I dont analyse who they play with, they shouldnt analyse my playmates either.

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