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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Views?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Nothing wrong with that I guess.

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

the health of the baby is obviously paramount. Adults may make their own choices.

Personally love pregnant ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good

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By *rGuyMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Nothing wrong with it as long as everyone is comfortable

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be my choice but it's up to the people involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends ~ social side of swinging is fine, having sex with random strangers is not something I would entertain if I was pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex)."

Safer, not totally safe with non-monogamy.

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By *rGuyMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex)."

Can't please everyone unfortunately. Personally it is something that I would love to try. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you feel really. I'm pregnant currently and we went to a club where i got several dirty and judgemental looks And comments and people refusing to talk to me because of my pregnancy. Funny thing was this was in the social areas and I didn't play at all.

Other people are turned on by pregnancy however.

Good luck with your pregnancy and enjoy whatever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex)."

If I was your baby, I wouldn't want other men to top me up...just my opinion

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

If I was your baby, I wouldn't want other men to top me up...just my opinion "

Define 'topping it up'. I'm not familiar with that expression x

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Depends on how you feel really. I'm pregnant currently and we went to a club where i got several dirty and judgemental looks And comments and people refusing to talk to me because of my pregnancy. Funny thing was this was in the social areas and I didn't play at all.

Other people are turned on by pregnancy however.

Good luck with your pregnancy and enjoy whatever you choose."

Oh bless you. I've always found swingers to be the most unjudgemental of people but I guess pregnancy is a very emotive subject.

I hope your pregnancy is going well too lovely xxx

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

Safer, not totally safe with non-monogamy."

But neither is eating running eggs or ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

Safer, not totally safe with non-monogamy.

But neither is eating running eggs or ice cream "

Agreed, but it's not correct to assume that condoms make sex risk-free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

If I was your baby, I wouldn't want other men to top me up...just my opinion

Define 'topping it up'. I'm not familiar with that expression x"

Sex

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

Safer, not totally safe with non-monogamy.

But neither is eating running eggs or ice cream

Agreed, but it's not correct to assume that condoms make sex risk-free."

No of course not, just being light hearted x

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex).

If I was your baby, I wouldn't want other men to top me up...just my opinion

Define 'topping it up'. I'm not familiar with that expression x

Sex"

Oh ok, you're not on your own with that opinion x

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I have very strong, negative opinions of swinging while pregnant. I hold similar opinions on things like drinking and smoking while pregnant too.

I won't share my views and opinions here as it may offend you

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Be careful someone might already be pregnant and you would not know as meeting in a club is likely to be with a stranger.

I heard you can get your cock bitten so I don't shag anyone now as you don't want to take chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations OP.

Maybe if you have regular friends? But too be honest, I don't see what the problem is. Your body, your baby. You don't appear to be stupid so I'm sure you know what it is you're doing.

Plus I wouldn't care for people's negative opinion. Some people just like to feel that they're on moral high ground x

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I have very strong, negative opinions of swinging while pregnant. I hold similar opinions on things like drinking and smoking while pregnant too.

I won't share my views and opinions here as it may offend you"

I appreciate you not sharing your views, that's very kind.

As I previously said, it's a very emotive subject and i expected some negative responses. But I really do appreciate you not wanting to offend me xx

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By *londenewcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We're pregnant but haven't played. We've been sorely tempted, especially now we're in our second trimester. Maybe we should throw a party for pregnant couples who'll respect the situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to frown at anything these days, as long as it's all good and taking precautions, then there's no problem. Plus it's very sexy and erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best I've had lately. Was messaged by a 23 yr old last Sept. she was 18 weeks pregnant and horny as hell. We had a couple of great weekends.

Having scratched her "itch" she then left the site and disappeared int vanillahood

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"We're pregnant but haven't played. We've been sorely tempted, especially now we're in our second trimester. Maybe we should throw a party for pregnant couples who'll respect the situation!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy.

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time"

Completely agree, but also a very emotional time too so I sometimes find myself wanting to suck five dicks at the same time and then the next minute I'm sobbing into my brew (decaff of course) because I've received a nasty message!!

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy. "

Thank-you. Xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

As long as you're not doing sexual acrobatics that might put your baby at risk, I don't see why you shouldn't. I've seen a few pregnant women in clubs who have had negative comments, it's uncalled for and unnecessary.

I think pregnant women look beautiful and if all parties are happy then they should go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy. "

And to be fair looking at your photos I'd love to play I'm sure the OH would agree

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy.

And to be fair looking at your photos I'd love to play I'm sure the OH would agree"

thanks!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time

Completely agree, but also a very emotional time too so I sometimes find myself wanting to suck five dicks at the same time and then the next minute I'm sobbing into my brew (decaff of course) because I've received a nasty message!! "

I have to wonder why you've put up this thread then tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy. "

Answers are always perceived to be judgemental when they go against what the person is hoping to hear.

If you ask an open ended question then you have to embrace the responses, good & bad.

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time

Completely agree, but also a very emotional time too so I sometimes find myself wanting to suck five dicks at the same time and then the next minute I'm sobbing into my brew (decaff of course) because I've received a nasty message!!

I have to wonder why you've put up this thread then tbh."

As I previously said, wanted to see what peoples views are. Up until recently I haven't really cared what people have thought but now I'm much more mindful.

The thread was purely gauge peoples views but I've been very pleasantly surprised at some private messages from those that have either been through this situation or are going through something similar.

The quote above was to merely highlight the emotions I'm going through with my pregnancy. This isn't an attention seeking post.

Xx

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I find that this subject can bring the worst out in judgmental people. It's your choice as long as you feel safe and are happy to play with others then have fun.

Good luck with the pregnancy.

Answers are always perceived to be judgemental when they go against what the person is hoping to hear.

If you ask an open ended question then you have to embrace the responses, good & bad."

Completely agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time

Completely agree, but also a very emotional time too so I sometimes find myself wanting to suck five dicks at the same time and then the next minute I'm sobbing into my brew (decaff of course) because I've received a nasty message!!

I have to wonder why you've put up this thread then tbh.

As I previously said, wanted to see what peoples views are. Up until recently I haven't really cared what people have thought but now I'm much more mindful.

The thread was purely gauge peoples views but I've been very pleasantly surprised at some private messages from those that have either been through this situation or are going through something similar.

The quote above was to merely highlight the emotions I'm going through with my pregnancy. This isn't an attention seeking post.

Xx"

I didn't suggest it was an attention-seeking post. If negative opinions are likely to upset you, then surely it's counter-productive to seek them out, conversely if you need support for your choices, it suggests you aren't entirely at ease with them yourself. No matter what you do, there will be someone to find issue with it. Personally, I'm of the view that "her body, her choice" either applies or it doesn't.

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Its totally up to the pregnant woman, its a very horny time

Completely agree, but also a very emotional time too so I sometimes find myself wanting to suck five dicks at the same time and then the next minute I'm sobbing into my brew (decaff of course) because I've received a nasty message!!

I have to wonder why you've put up this thread then tbh.

As I previously said, wanted to see what peoples views are. Up until recently I haven't really cared what people have thought but now I'm much more mindful.

The thread was purely gauge peoples views but I've been very pleasantly surprised at some private messages from those that have either been through this situation or are going through something similar.

The quote above was to merely highlight the emotions I'm going through with my pregnancy. This isn't an attention seeking post.

Xx

I didn't suggest it was an attention-seeking post. If negative opinions are likely to upset you, then surely it's counter-productive to seek them out, conversely if you need support for your choices, it suggests you aren't entirely at ease with them yourself. No matter what you do, there will be someone to find issue with it. Personally, I'm of the view that "her body, her choice" either applies or it doesn't."

Of course, I can completely understand why you'd think it's counter-productive but I was curious as to what other pregnant women have or are doing.

Unfortunately this is the kind of post I could put on NetMums and none of our friends know about this side of our life so it was simply to see opinions.

But you're right, this is the first time that I've actually felt uneasy about it xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

No sex is safe but some forms/practices far more risky than others. Drug resistant STIs are on the increase and pose a real threat not only to the participants, but in the case of a pregnant woman, the baby. Yes adults are free to make their own choices but for us, pregnancy and swinging don't mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's safe and you enjoy it, why not? I have meet a pregnant lady before off site and she was very VERY horny so haha if you want to go right ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're pregnant but haven't played. We've been sorely tempted, especially now we're in our second trimester. Maybe we should throw a party for pregnant couples who'll respect the situation!"

Now this is a party I would love to be involved in!! I Find pregnant woman to be the most glorious examples of womanhood and sexy as hell!!

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Whilst Sex during pregnancy is perfectly safe (after the morning sickness has worn off !!) and should be actively encouraged as usually ladies get super horny (but emotional) and the idea of being desired is very important whilst changes take place there needs to a be a caveat.

Firstly – you need to fully trust the other involved as needs are different and later on in the pregnancy much more care needs to be taken.

Secondly the risk of Sti’s which is ever present get more complicated in pregnancy. As people can carry Sti’s with no symptoms you are always risking caching a dose of the clap whenever you play with new people – (occupational hazard) – usually pop to GUM clinic – take some pills abstain for a bit all fine.

Problem when pregnant is that i am unsure if the treatments can be given when pregnant and if untreated i think some nasty Sti’s can affect the baby.

So i would suggest you stick to a close group of friends – make them get STI screened (which is always a good idea ) then have some fun !!

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By *apis_lazuliMan
over a year ago

newcaslte


"Depends on how you feel really. I'm pregnant currently and we went to a club where i got several dirty and judgemental looks And comments and people refusing to talk to me because of my pregnancy. Funny thing was this was in the social areas and I didn't play at all.

Other people are turned on by pregnancy however.

Good luck with your pregnancy and enjoy whatever you choose."

I find pregnancy a massive turn on, but it's horses for courses I guess. I don't think some of my turn-ons would be deemed conventional anyway

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If it is okay to have sex when pregnant, and I'm yet to see any medical advice that says it isn't, then it is okay to have sex in a swinging context as well.

Obviously common sense is required to ensure you don't engage in anything that'll put your precious cargo at risk.

If the above holds, the only objection anyone will have to swinging whilst pregnant, is a moral one.

In which case it is laughable because if your morals don't kick in when you actively seek strangers for casual sex then your morals should go jump off a cliff if you choose to judge a pregnant woman who chooses to do the same thing without endangering her baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did until I started looking very pregnant and then definitely not. I didn't feel comfortable with it mentally. However I didn't have a noticeable bump until I was 6 Months pregnant. I didn't ever tell anyone I was pregnant however

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Need pics of your swelling belly!!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"If it is okay to have sex when pregnant, and I'm yet to see any medical advice that says it isn't, then it is okay to have sex in a swinging context as well.

Obviously common sense is required to ensure you don't engage in anything that'll put your precious cargo at risk.

If the above holds, the only objection anyone will have to swinging whilst pregnant, is a moral one.

In which case it is laughable because if your morals don't kick in when you actively seek strangers for casual sex then your morals should go jump off a cliff if you choose to judge a pregnant woman who chooses to do the same thing without endangering her baby."

I think the main issue people have is that there is no such thing a 100% safe sex, only safer sex. Despite taking precautions there is still a small risk of catching sexually transmitted infections. Many of these infections could cause serious harm to an unborn baby, the consequences of which could be tragic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex)."

pregnant ladys deserve sex to, does not matter if swinging as long as you enjoy and don't jump around to much,have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with it, and personally find the pregnant female form extremely attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Views? "

Very hot.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd say no. You can still catch chlamidia or gonorrhoea for example with unprotected oral. Not nice at the best of times, but especially when pregnant and for baby.

I don't think it's worth the risks.

MrB

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"If it is okay to have sex when pregnant, and I'm yet to see any medical advice that says it isn't, then it is okay to have sex in a swinging context as well.

Obviously common sense is required to ensure you don't engage in anything that'll put your precious cargo at risk.

If the above holds, the only objection anyone will have to swinging whilst pregnant, is a moral one.

In which case it is laughable because if your morals don't kick in when you actively seek strangers for casual sex then your morals should go jump off a cliff if you choose to judge a pregnant woman who chooses to do the same thing without endangering her baby."

The best response by far!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously the health of the foetus is a big factor. On a personal note I find a pregnant women to be divine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Views?

Very hot."

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

It's obviously a personal call and as long as you're not risking the child's health there is no problem really,

Pregnant women are very hot, even if they don't always feel it

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Some will be ok with it,

Some will not be ok with it,

Some will not care about the subject.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not good.

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By *aturisteve69Man
over a year ago

Frodsham


"Views? "

Not got a problem with it...

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By *exy24uCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I think it's perfectly natural to feel sexual towards a pregant woman. We have had friends who are pregnant and even though we never had sex being so close it was great to cuddle up and be intimate something you could never do with normal friends. To this day we are very close friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have very strong, negative opinions of swinging while pregnant. I hold similar opinions on things like drinking and smoking while pregnant too.

I won't share my views and opinions here as it may offend you"

Same. ..

Ever thought the persons you swap with could have herpes. ..?

Yes the cock is covered .. the surrounding areas aren't ... did you know an outbreak of herpes would affect your delivery ? Ie you have to disclose it and may not be able to have natural birth if you have it during birth period

I just think ..you are pregnant for 40 weeks ..surely you can nurture your bump ..enjoy sex with your partner for 40 weeks and not have other men for that short period of time ...

I just couldn't and wouldn't ..let's face it ..other men want to get their end away..are they really as concerned for your babies welfare as the paternal dad ?

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Me personally I think it's wrong

I understand everyone opinion on and it is your body and ul do what you feel best..I just feel that your putting your child at risk of possible STD.

And as a Mother and Parent you should put your child's needs before anything else...maybe I'm wrong in my views

But as a mother myself I would never expose my unborn or born child to any danger

People smoke and drink witch I find wrong..as a Responsible adult your child safety should always come first...but your a adult so ul do what you believe right

Just hope if you carry on Swinging everything goes ok for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it is okay to have sex when pregnant, and I'm yet to see any medical advice that says it isn't, then it is okay to have sex in a swinging context as well.

Obviously common sense is required to ensure you don't engage in anything that'll put your precious cargo at risk.

If the above holds, the only objection anyone will have to swinging whilst pregnant, is a moral one.

In which case it is laughable because if your morals don't kick in when you actively seek strangers for casual sex then your morals should go jump off a cliff if you choose to judge a pregnant woman who chooses to do the same thing without endangering her baby."

Is it judging or is it people pointing out the fecking obvious?

Casual sex however careful comes with risks, you assess, you fuck, ooops catch STD so get treated, job done.

Being pregnant might lead to complications, is it really worth it or maybe just maybe casual sex could be off the agenda for the next 9 months to give baby the best start in life...

No judgements just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body your baby but when I was pregnant I was very protective over my bump even hated it when people wanted to touch it. Was single on my own both pregnancies nothing worse than a random hook up but that was me took time to trust guys but that was my issue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it is okay to have sex when pregnant, and I'm yet to see any medical advice that says it isn't, then it is okay to have sex in a swinging context as well.

Obviously common sense is required to ensure you don't engage in anything that'll put your precious cargo at risk.

If the above holds, the only objection anyone will have to swinging whilst pregnant, is a moral one.

In which case it is laughable because if your morals don't kick in when you actively seek strangers for casual sex then your morals should go jump off a cliff if you choose to judge a pregnant woman who chooses to do the same thing without endangering her baby.

Is it judging or is it people pointing out the fecking obvious?

Casual sex however careful comes with risks, you assess, you fuck, ooops catch STD so get treated, job done.

Being pregnant might lead to complications, is it really worth it or maybe just maybe casual sex could be off the agenda for the next 9 months to give baby the best start in life...

No judgements just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Views? "

This is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have very strong, negative opinions of swinging while pregnant. I hold similar opinions on things like drinking and smoking while pregnant too.

I won't share my views and opinions here as it may offend you

Same. ..

Ever thought the persons you swap with could have herpes. ..?

Yes the cock is covered .. the surrounding areas aren't ... did you know an outbreak of herpes would affect your delivery ? Ie you have to disclose it and may not be able to have natural birth if you have it during birth period

I just think ..you are pregnant for 40 weeks ..surely you can nurture your bump ..enjoy sex with your partner for 40 weeks and not have other men for that short period of time ...

I just couldn't and wouldn't ..let's face it ..other men want to get their end away..are they really as concerned for your babies welfare as the paternal dad ? "

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Call me old fashion.anyone swinging when pregnant is not fit to be motherhood. your unborn child is more paramount than swinging.if you can't abstained from swinging when pregnant.your sexual libido need medical attention. I won't change my stance on this issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashion.anyone swinging when pregnant is not fit to be motherhood. your unborn child is more paramount than swinging.if you can't abstained from swinging when pregnant.your sexual libido need medical attention. I won't change my stance on this issue."

Have to say I agree....

Yes you may be "hornier when pregnant" but keep it in check ... surely yoit unborn child is more important than seeing to your sexual needs

Ill never get it ...40 weeks of your life where you put your child before your own urges. ... not hard is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible judgments from sad people.

Personally I love it, you ladies look amazing pregnant.

Do what you like, f everyone else.

Good luck and enjoy.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long as you both are happy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I don't like it myself. it would never have been my choice to play while pregnant.

Others make their own minds up of course, but I also don't want to be involved in anyone swinging while pregnant or even after for a good while because of breastfeeding. I find the whole thing a real turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horrible judgments from sad people.

Personally I love it, you ladies look amazing pregnant.

Do what you like, f everyone else.

Good luck and enjoy.

X"

Horrible judgements or fact posting ?

As above in many posts..yes .. as singers we take risks ...but when single you take a risk..if worse comes to worse and you catch something..you get treated..isn't that simple whilst pregnant is it .... not everything can be treated whilst pregnant ..and some cause major complications to birth ...

Isn't it funny how it's always single males in full agreement ? The single males that would be quick to "cum and go" but wouldn't be there if problems arose with birth ... wonder iglf you'd be so willing to share a woman carrying your baby huh?

Anyway..each to their own ..I mean no offence to op.. just posting honest answers to an open question.

Please think about it all carefully.. wishing you a healthy pregnancy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashion.anyone swinging when pregnant is not fit to be motherhood. your unborn child is more paramount than swinging.if you can't abstained from swinging when pregnant.your sexual libido need medical attention. I won't change my stance on this issue.

Have to say I agree....

Yes you may be "hornier when pregnant" but keep it in check ... surely yoit unborn child is more important than seeing to your sexual needs

Ill never get it ...40 weeks of your life where you put your child before your own urges. ... not hard is it"

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By *uffin-Man-Man
over a year ago

muffin lane


"Views? "

A huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashion.anyone swinging when pregnant is not fit to be motherhood. your unborn child is more paramount than swinging.if you can't abstained from swinging when pregnant.your sexual libido need medical attention. I won't change my stance on this issue.

Have to say I agree....

Yes you may be "hornier when pregnant" but keep it in check ... surely yoit unborn child is more important than seeing to your sexual needs

Ill never get it ...40 weeks of your life where you put your child before your own urges. ... not hard is it

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horrible judgments from sad people.

Personally I love it, you ladies look amazing pregnant.

Do what you like, f everyone else.

Good luck and enjoy.

X"

Another reason why I wouldn't swing when pregnant, the thought of some random getting off on it, making it part of a fetish play.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem with it, and personally find the pregnant female form extremely attractive "

Agreed!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Having been in hospital with a lady who unknowingly passed herpes onto her baby, who was in turn having seizures and suffered multiple organ failure (I think she also ended up blind) , I wasn't having ANY other fucker other than Bradley near me during pregnancy.

I do not judge others. I just hope they are making an informed decision.

It certainly scared the BeJebus out of me though.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been in hospital with a lady who unknowingly passed herpes onto her baby, who was in turn having seizures and suffered multiple organ failure (I think she also ended up blind) , I wasn't having ANY other fucker other than Bradley near me during pregnancy.

I do not judge others. I just hope they are making an informed decision.

It certainly scared the BeJebus out of me though.

- Amy. x"

This ^^

A condom would not stop herpes that surround genoral areas and are contagious during the tingly stage that cannot be seen

My close friend lost her baby due to unknowingly having chlamydia ..

No meet is ever worth the risk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been in hospital with a lady who unknowingly passed herpes onto her baby, who was in turn having seizures and suffered multiple organ failure (I think she also ended up blind) , I wasn't having ANY other fucker other than Bradley near me during pregnancy.

I do not judge others. I just hope they are making an informed decision.

It certainly scared the BeJebus out of me though.

- Amy. x"

Yeah but it's sexy though. Fucking strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find the body of a pregnant woman very attractive but not sexy if that makes any sense.

I don't want to in any way come across as judgemental because each to there own and all that but for me personally during my own pregnancies I've felt very vulnerable my body is not my own for 40 short weeks of my life it's doing a job it's growing and giving life to another human being which comes 1st and formost to me before any craving feeling or desire that I may feel.

I could never or would never even contemplate giving myself to any man that wasn't the father of that life because aswell as the risk of Sti will that man take care and consideration for the life inside you that's not his same way a man that gave you that and loves cares for cherishes and will watch that baby grow and live and breath? I think not and even though sex is said not to be overly dangerous in pregnancie if said man got carried away went to hard or rough or whatever and it was to cause any kind of complaication he will never feel the pain or stress or pure relief of knowing that it's all good or sadly not.

A pregnant woman's body is a body to be respected and worshipped and a lot of women don't have the opportunity to do or feel these things so if you do and can appreciate and love it.

It's a life made between two people and for as long as I personally am growing that life any sexual need is irrelevant to me unless it's out of love with the person that loves that life and will take and consideration as I do.

But again not judging anyone everyone thinks and feels differently.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Sex is sex, why does it matter who it is with, aslong as you take reasonable precautions to protect your health then it's no one else's business.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

What does your midwife and GP think .... I would think their advice would be best .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"What does your midwife and GP think .... I would think their advice would be best ."

I would imagine that would be an interesting conversation

I can't imagine a positive reaction from health professionals ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck "

So if you catch something how will you explain that to your child?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck "

This must be the ultimate in cheating. Pray your husband doesn't find out, I can't see that ending well

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By *unning_StuntsMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck "

Drop me a message M333 ... I'm very interested and local I cant seem to message you as you have blocked all guys

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Sex is sex, why does it matter who it is with, aslong as you take reasonable precautions to protect your health then it's no one else's business."

It's the business of the unborn baby. Did you read some of the posts above describing experiences of the potential consequences?

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"What does your midwife and GP think .... I would think their advice would be best ."

Midwife actually said that there is a risk, of course, but if you take precautions then you minimise the risk. Your cervix actually creates a thick muscus to prevent infection whilst pregnant. As a health professional she advises against anything that involves risk, but she has too, that is her job.

She also advises me not to eat ice cream, runny eggs, rare steak, seafood (list is endless). To not wear heels, not be around those with chicken pox, measles, stomach infections again the list is ended. Also to reduce my cardio to not eat sugar

Personally, there is a risk with everything. But I believe my issue is morally. Hence posting in the first instance.

Xx

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Having been in hospital with a lady who unknowingly passed herpes onto her baby, who was in turn having seizures and suffered multiple organ failure (I think she also ended up blind) , I wasn't having ANY other fucker other than Bradley near me during pregnancy.

I do not judge others. I just hope they are making an informed decision.

It certainly scared the BeJebus out of me though.

- Amy. x"

Wow, that's an eye opener. Thanks for sharing. I appreciate the factual information such as that over those that are just making a judgement on me. Poor little thing xx

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Horrible judgments from sad people.

Personally I love it, you ladies look amazing pregnant.

Do what you like, f everyone else.

Good luck and enjoy.

Thank-you sweetheart xx

X

Horrible judgements or fact posting ?

As above in many posts..yes .. as singers we take risks ...but when single you take a risk..if worse comes to worse and you catch something..you get treated..isn't that simple whilst pregnant is it .... not everything can be treated whilst pregnant ..and some cause major complications to birth ...

Isn't it funny how it's always single males in full agreement ? The single males that would be quick to "cum and go" but wouldn't be there if problems arose with birth ... wonder iglf you'd be so willing to share a woman carrying your baby huh?

Anyway..each to their own ..I mean no offence to op.. just posting honest answers to an open question.

Please think about it all carefully.. wishing you a healthy pregnancy x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck

So if you catch something how will you explain that to your child? "

Or your husband ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find the body of a pregnant woman very attractive but not sexy if that makes any sense.

I don't want to in any way come across as judgemental because each to there own and all that but for me personally during my own pregnancies I've felt very vulnerable my body is not my own for 40 short weeks of my life it's doing a job it's growing and giving life to another human being which comes 1st and formost to me before any craving feeling or desire that I may feel.

I could never or would never even contemplate giving myself to any man that wasn't the father of that life because aswell as the risk of Sti will that man take care and consideration for the life inside you that's not his same way a man that gave you that and loves cares for cherishes and will watch that baby grow and live and breath? I think not and even though sex is said not to be overly dangerous in pregnancie if said man got carried away went to hard or rough or whatever and it was to cause any kind of complaication he will never feel the pain or stress or pure relief of knowing that it's all good or sadly not.

A pregnant woman's body is a body to be respected and worshipped and a lot of women don't have the opportunity to do or feel these things so if you do and can appreciate and love it.

It's a life made between two people and for as long as I personally am growing that life any sexual need is irrelevant to me unless it's out of love with the person that loves that life and will take and consideration as I do.

But again not judging anyone everyone thinks and feels differently. "

What are the reasonable precautons to protect unborn baby then? Against let's say herpes?

God there are some selfish ppl ..putting labido before baby's health to me is the ultimate selfish act ... isn't motherhood about being selfless? Always putting child first ?

Enjoy your meets ladies .. I can only hope you have healthy pregnancies ..births and babies .....and if you don't ..I hope the meet's were "the best sex ever" and made it all worthwhile :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind pregnancy or not if I was meeting a girl on here or anywhere else I would not have sex with them unless I was 100% clean and if I was unlucky and cought something of someone I would not arrange a meet until I was clean,if we all done this and controlled things we all could have lots more fun and the pregnant ladys could, we could even put in place a name and shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal opinion if it was my wife is no as the safety of the baby is the biggest concern, example protection splitting and that could endanger the child. I do find pregnant woman very sexy though so it's a hard one lol

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

not my cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal opinion if it was my wife is no as the safety of the baby is the biggest concern, example protection splitting and that could endanger the child. I do find pregnant woman very sexy though so it's a hard one lol"
that is not very nice for all the pregnant ladys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does your midwife and GP think .... I would think their advice would be best .

Midwife actually said that there is a risk, of course, but if you take precautions then you minimise the risk. Your cervix actually creates a thick muscus to prevent infection whilst pregnant. As a health professional she advises against anything that involves risk, but she has too, that is her job.

She also advises me not to eat ice cream, runny eggs, rare steak, seafood (list is endless). To not wear heels, not be around those with chicken pox, measles, stomach infections again the list is ended. Also to reduce my cardio to not eat sugar

Personally, there is a risk with everything. But I believe my issue is morally. Hence posting in the first instance.

Xx"

Why do you feel your issue is morally based? Do you think it's wrong, does it make you feel uncomfortable?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I haven't read the whole thread but for me I wouldn't of met anyone while pregnant. Looking and feeling like a heffer was not my best look and I think 'some' guys see pregnant women as a bit of a fetish. I wouldn't entertain that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me as I think pregnancy is a very special and unique time that should be kept special between a couple.

But that's just my point of view and I appreciate everyone is different.

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By *lg1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"What does your midwife and GP think .... I would think their advice would be best .

Midwife actually said that there is a risk, of course, but if you take precautions then you minimise the risk. Your cervix actually creates a thick muscus to prevent infection whilst pregnant. As a health professional she advises against anything that involves risk, but she has too, that is her job.

She also advises me not to eat ice cream, runny eggs, rare steak, seafood (list is endless). To not wear heels, not be around those with chicken pox, measles, stomach infections again the list is ended. Also to reduce my cardio to not eat sugar

Personally, there is a risk with everything. But I believe my issue is morally. Hence posting in the first instance.

Xx

Why do you feel your issue is morally based? Do you think it's wrong, does it make you feel uncomfortable?

"

I guess the bigger I get the more aware I am off being pregnant (if you understand what I mean).

It's much more apparent and obvious and I'm now starting to feel that it's wrong to do? I'm not going to lie, reading the posts from here have certainly encouraged that feeling too, especially the lady that had first hand experience in hospital with a baby affected by an STI. And also having people question you're motives certainly makes you think.

I think the fact that I posed the question would indicate that I was maybe on the fence with it anyway xx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Not for me as I think pregnancy is a very special and unique time that should be kept special between a couple.

But that's just my point of view and I appreciate everyone is different."

Definitely this .....

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By *enuine and hornyMan
over a year ago

gwynedd


"I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and have been swapping still but get a mixed reaction from people.

Of course, safety first but sex whilst pregnant is normal and safe (obviously safe sex)."

nothing more sexy than a gorgeous pregnant woman x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Having been in hospital with a lady who unknowingly passed herpes onto her baby, who was in turn having seizures and suffered multiple organ failure (I think she also ended up blind) , I wasn't having ANY other fucker other than Bradley near me during pregnancy.

I do not judge others. I just hope they are making an informed decision.

It certainly scared the BeJebus out of me though.

- Amy. x

Wow, that's an eye opener. Thanks for sharing. I appreciate the factual information such as that over those that are just making a judgement on me. Poor little thing xx"

The sad thing is, it was her husband who was the culprit. She had all the checks earlier on and he played around and passed said STI to her some time while she was pregnant.

Had it've been caught, they would've done a c-section and it hopefully would've prevented the baby coming into contact with the virus.

As it was, she went into labour and gave birth before she could get to hospital. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I'm pregnant and while I don't go to clubs, I have met a few men off here. Just be careful and get yourself checked for stds regularly. It's definitely been the best sex of my life. Good luck "

Just remember that it's all very well getting checked regularly, but treatment is not so simple when you're pregnant.

And if you catch a long-term condition, that usually leaves a c-section as the only option. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having sex with pregnant ladies, find it a total turn on. Sarah and I had sex constantly when she was pregnant(four kids too! maybe thats why???)

However that said I would only ever use protection and would be extremely gentle with the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be against it, never tried it mind you.

Their decision to do so and I'm not one to judge

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By *ovepieceMan
over a year ago

Borth

I find pregnant women GLORIOUSLY sexy! You are at 'peak female' and the desire for sex isn't driven by a desire to get pregnant, but by a desire for the pleasure alone...and that makes it all the sexier for me; plus, there's no risk of pregnancy during play! But in response to your request for views, mine is that how we seek our sexual pleasures is up to the individual. If it were me in your situation (quite a leap of imagination), I'd just be wanting to play ultra safely to protect the health of the baby.

Congratulations by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your body, your choice.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

In an earlier post I said moral judgements could be the only objection to pregnant women swinging. Having read a few other posts, I'll concede I had been too general.

Some have expressed a zero tolerance when it comes to the risk that the baby can be exposed to through swinging. And as risk can never be eliminated during swinging, regardless of how safe you play, I'll admit it's a fair point.

That being said, sex is a very complex thing and there are couples whose sexual pleasure is largely fulfilled through swinging. Also, the sexual impulse, to put it no higher is a fundamental one. And for some people, starvation of it could be as demoralising as physical hunger.

So wondering why pregnant women can't just refrain from swinging for the 40 weeks they're pregnant for isn't as straightforward as it may sound. After all, a sexually unsatisfied, cranky, stressed pregnant woman can't be a good vessel for the baby either.

Besides, apart from swinging there are a number of other things that people do, without thinking about it, that expose the baby to risk as well, and some I'll argue pose a far higher risk than safe swinging.

Risk of infection from using any toilet outside your home; Risk of infection from salmonella or coliform bacteria from eating under cooked meat or poultry; Risk of uterine contractions that affect the baby's development by using essential oils like rosemary, clary sage, clove, etc; Risk of being infected by Toxoplasma, a bacterial infection that can cause blindness in the baby and is commonly caught from changing cat litter if your cat catches the parasite from eating an infected rodent; Risk of birth defects from taking vitamin A, etc etc etc

Personally, pregnant women do nothing for me because I simply can't get past the bump and thinking there's a baby there staring at me sticking it into their mum!

But for women who choose to swing sensibly whilst pregnant, I'll say there are far worse things they could do that'll harm their baby that they're probably doing without even thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a moral perspective I don't see the problem myself, we are all swingers here..... From a health of the baby perspective I see it as a no go. .... From a horny blokes perspective..... pregnant sex is the best you will ever experience and you will never go down on a sweeter tasting pussy.....

So whilst I say don't do it's not worth it......... If there are any pregnant women out there who want some.... Bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In an earlier post I said moral judgements could be the only objection to pregnant women swinging. Having read a few other posts, I'll concede I had been too general.

Some have expressed a zero tolerance when it comes to the risk that the baby can be exposed to through swinging. And as risk can never be eliminated during swinging, regardless of how safe you play, I'll admit it's a fair point.

That being said, sex is a very complex thing and there are couples whose sexual pleasure is largely fulfilled through swinging. Also, the sexual impulse, to put it no higher is a fundamental one. And for some people, starvation of it could be as demoralising as physical hunger.

So wondering why pregnant women can't just refrain from swinging for the 40 weeks they're pregnant for isn't as straightforward as it may sound. After all, a sexually unsatisfied, cranky, stressed pregnant woman can't be a good vessel for the baby either.

Besides, apart from swinging there are a number of other things that people do, without thinking about it, that expose the baby to risk as well, and some I'll argue pose a far higher risk than safe swinging.

Risk of infection from using any toilet outside your home; Risk of infection from salmonella or coliform bacteria from eating under cooked meat or poultry; Risk of uterine contractions that affect the baby's development by using essential oils like rosemary, clary sage, clove, etc; Risk of being infected by Toxoplasma, a bacterial infection that can cause blindness in the baby and is commonly caught from changing cat litter if your cat catches the parasite from eating an infected rodent; Risk of birth defects from taking vitamin A, etc etc etc

Personally, pregnant women do nothing for me because I simply can't get past the bump and thinking there's a baby there staring at me sticking it into their mum!

But for women who choose to swing sensibly whilst pregnant, I'll say there are far worse things they could do that'll harm their baby that they're probably doing without even thinking about it."

You are skirting around the issues though.....

Define "swinging sensibly" for me please with regards to keeping baby safe from stds. ...

And yup ...you have listed some dangers .. that as pregnant women you avoid .. for eg whilst pregnant you avoid emptying cat litter..... if you have no one else you use gloves.. don't breathe it In. .etc

You avoid the risky foods

You don't smoke (well if you gave two hoots about your unborn baby )

So yeah you highlighted risks .. that I ..and no doubt most mothers avoided ... there i's no risk free swinging is there let's be honest ..we take risks even with condoms ..... by oral etc.... once again though. ..any come back from those risks only affect us ... this isn't the case whilst pregnant though is it....

Your body isn't your own for 40 weeks..you are sharing it with a previous baby ...

Doesn't matter how you dress it up .. putting a baby at any risk..by any means ...for any form of pleasure be it smoking..foods. .swinging .... is selfish.

If you can't be selfless during pregnancy how on earth could one put a child first for 18 years ?

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