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Just turned 41 and the blocks have started

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.

Maybe, that's just the single male one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL!!! Thanks hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.

Maybe, that's just the single male one.

"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till you hit 45!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.

Maybe, that's just the single male one.

"

If they replied - the filters don't apply! If they didn't - they do!

Without being mean - it's one very good reason not to send a 'no thank you!' Response - as it renders any filters/future filters useless! Xx

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I like guys 40 and over

V xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like guys 40 and over

V xx "

looks like i fall into your category then xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wait till you hit 45!"

Does it really get that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till you hit 45!

Does it really get that bad? "

Uh huh, unless you're a women & then it's semi-bad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.

Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.

Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation!"

Winks get blocked too if age limits have been set. Oh well! Shit happens to the best of us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

so someone has specifically blocked you because you turned 41? sounds a bit odd

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

From another thread, thought it was 51, where things started going down hill

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.

Maybe, that's just the single male one.

"

I thought that too, I get messages from people I spoke to before I put an age limit on !!

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

From now on it's an exponentially declining number of potential meets!!!Best get used to it

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'd ride you til you're 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

so someone has specifically blocked you because you turned 41? sounds a bit odd"

Yes that's what it sounds like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

are you sure you don't mean filters?

obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.

Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation!

Winks get blocked too if age limits have been set. Oh well! Shit happens to the best of us lol"

Oh fuck - well there's no hope then!

Their loss anyway if they don't want us anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had the same issue at 45.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

are you sure you don't mean filters?

obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so

"

Filters!!! Thats the thing i was looking for. Yes sorry for the confusion. Being blocked is one thing and being filtered out is another. Same result at the end of the day though lol.

Ive definitely been filtered out from profiles i have contacted before. Im certain of it otherwise this post has been pointless and made me look like a proper dick LOL!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Wait til you're nearly 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

are you sure you don't mean filters?

obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so

Filters!!! Thats the thing i was looking for. Yes sorry for the confusion. Being blocked is one thing and being filtered out is another. Same result at the end of the day though lol.

Ive definitely been filtered out from profiles i have contacted before. Im certain of it otherwise this post has been pointless and made me look like a proper dick LOL!"

I change my filters all the time (just to confuse people ) but I can assure you that people who contacted me and I responded to can still contact me now, even though my age filter states 50-51...

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By *arlingCoupleCouple
over a year ago

fareham

Very hot body for a forty one year old, I'm sure you'll do just fine xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

That's how I've started on here, most of the ladies I like stop at age 45 and I'm 46.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.

Maybe, that's just the single male one.

If they replied - the filters don't apply! If they didn't - they do!

Without being mean - it's one very good reason not to send a 'no thank you!' Response - as it renders any filters/future filters useless! Xx"

If I get a reply "no thanks" I block so as not to waste both our time in future. If I get no reply, I am not sure where I stand. Instant delete also equals instant block. Age filters are irritating now and again but I guess serve a useful purpose

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wait till you hit 45!"

Wait til you hit 50!

Anyway, why message people you've messaged before if they haven't replied. they're not likely to change their minds after a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till you hit 45!"

45? Bah!!

Wait until your 48!!!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

No difference for me. I'm getting to know some pretty hot guys in the 45+ age bracket. I like people my own age or thereabouts and there seems to be plenty here. And as long as they aren't all seeking younger women it's good for me

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52 and getting nothing but blocked and meets as far away now as they have ever been. Life begins at 40, fun stops at 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx"

well said! x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx"

I wouldn't worry about it.

We were already over 40 when we started swinging and have had no problems

There's plenty looking for those that are not so young any more.

Nita

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Very hot body for a forty one year old, I'm sure you'll do just fine xxx"

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Wait till you turn 50 ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.

I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.

Kinda sucks

Pete xx

Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx"

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