FabSwingers.com forum: Why, why....oh why

By *ure fucking naughty OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Where has all the decency gone?

After speaking to a local woman on here and agreeing a social, I messaged the day before to confirm all was still going ahead.....rather than replying to say yes or no, she just blocked me.

I just find that so rude and unnecessary.

What really winds you up on here fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is rude and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing winds me up but I have to laugh at the way men and women are treated differently on here.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It may have been a man !

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ranty or whingy status updates annoy me,i block the repeat offenders lol.

Miss

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Nothing really winds me up on here anymore because I don't let it, but the lack of what I class as common decency and basic manners just staggers me.

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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Nothing really winds me up on here anymore because I don't let it, but the lack of what I class as common decency and basic manners just staggers me."

Agreed...but, I can't help thinking the Fab rule of 'no reply=not interested'

is at the core of the lack of manners.

I know women get too many messages and I know you never reply to spam or junk mail (see I do read these threads) but,fundamentally, being rude is the way fab works and seems to be endorsed by the management.

Right..I'm back off to the 1950's when things were simpler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found over the years here people are not always who they say they are . Now did you chat on the phone.? To see if it was a woman .? Men play games here too saying they are woman .. We had this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It may have been a man !"

Yes op that was your first mistake assuming it was a women

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Nothing really winds me up on here anymore because I don't let it, but the lack of what I class as common decency and basic manners just staggers me.

Agreed...but, I can't help thinking the Fab rule of 'no reply=not interested'

is at the core of the lack of manners.

Right..I'm back off to the 1950's when things were simpler.

The thing about no reply=not interested is not a problem for me. That's just how the site works, and understandably so. It's just the lack of basic manners that some people use when they message you. I don't understand why some might think that because this site revolves around sex that that somehow means it's ok to be disrespectful towards me or use vulgar language right off the bat. Just talk to me like you would anyone in your everyday life.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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did you keep in contact regularly until the meet was arranged and then go quiet and then only message her the day before to confirm you'd still be meeting?

if so, i think i know why she blocked.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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and nothing winds me up on here, i am not emotionally invested in anyone who isn't worth investing in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It may have been a man !"

Quite possibly.

Or an ugly woman with fake photos so she never had the intention to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also goes the other way...you arrange to meet a man...and they never show....happens both ways...think a lot of people here aren't genuine into the scene only dream of it...why we only meet at clubs now..then if they don't show is chances will be someone else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It also goes the other way...you arrange to meet a man...and they never show....happens both ways...think a lot of people here aren't genuine into the scene only dream of it...why we only meet at clubs now..then if they don't show is chances will be someone else.."

Arrange to meet me and you will not be dissapointed.

I find that most members are genuine but as it's such a large crowd we tend to come across many who aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where has all the decency gone?

After speaking to a local woman on here and agreeing a social, I messaged the day before to confirm all was still going ahead.....rather than replying to say yes or no, she just blocked me.

I just find that so rude and unnecessary.

What really winds you up on here fabbers?"

several things. Either if I answer a message, I'm ignored because they realise that they're not talking to my wife, that's usually from single men but can be from couples. Couples who agree to meet you out then message you to get you to drive forty odd miles to them. Singles or couples who only want to meet my wife ignoring the fact we have a couples profile, which is very clear and assume and believe that I should pimp out my wife and be grateful.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Decency? I think you're on the wrong site OP, won't find any of that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D'ya know what? Nothing winds me up here. People take it waaaaaaaay too seriously for their own good. Real life manners vs Internet manners are completely different.

Many a time, you see people who start threads about the vile abuse they get for having the 'decency' to reject a someone. Why subject themselves to that potential when a block and delete serves as a 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men whos ambition far exceeds their ability , getting quite fed up of all the 11th hour cancellations

if ur not man enuf to actually meet a tgirl then don't bother us with false arrangements plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where has all the decency gone?

After speaking to a local woman on here and agreeing a social, I messaged the day before to confirm all was still going ahead.....rather than replying to say yes or no, she just blocked me.

I just find that so rude and unnecessary.

What really winds you up on here fabbers?"
had it happen to me so many times and also if they dont block then they just ignore messagges nearer to the time of the agreed meet.think some people are on here purely for attention and have no problem what so ever messing others around,timewasting and being rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decency? I think you're on the wrong site OP, won't find any of that here."

Exactly. ...I'm here to be indecent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where has all the decency gone?

After speaking to a local woman on here and agreeing a social, I messaged the day before to confirm all was still going ahead.....rather than replying to say yes or no, she just blocked me.

I just find that so rude and unnecessary.

What really winds you up on here fabbers?had it happen to me so many times and also if they dont block then they just ignore messagges nearer to the time of the agreed meet.think some people are on here purely for attention and have no problem what so ever messing others around,timewasting and being rude"
some people get their kicks from the prospect of meeting for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing really winds me up on here anymore because I don't let it, but the lack of what I class as common decency and basic manners just staggers me."

^ Agreed ^

I have never been too annoyed or upset, but at times did get a tad frustrated... well only a tiny bit

I stay away from negativity/drama side of things. Just ignore the repeat offenders.

Keep on having fun regardless because there are plenty of good genuine people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pain. I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing really winds me up on here anymore because I don't let it, but the lack of what I class as common decency and basic manners just staggers me."

Same!

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