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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition

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By *eadowMan
over a year ago

Swansea

So your not looking hard enough, we are out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had more couple meetings so they do meet, it's hard has you all have to have a connection but loads of couples do play.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Lots of couples with agendas we think.

Have found this on a couple of occasions.

The guy can't perform so the fem is on a man hunt.

Sorry that's not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im sure you are but you guy's are a long way from us maybe we need to start moving around more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found all groups (couples, females and males) fall at the last hurdle. When it comes to the crunch.....the meet.....silence.

Just noticed last night, the guy arranged for 17th July, his account now deleted.

Many are bizzare.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Were real and we meet. Had more let downs than meets thou.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Swinging is a broad spectrum of things and wide sharing is swinging

It's not just restricted to couple swap. I have been through all the scenarios as a single and with partners

You are right tho that it's hard to find good meets on here but that's mainly down to so many fakes , talkers and wasters and people that really don't know what the hell they want

Definition of swinging ...

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Does anyone really care what anyone else thinks swinging is or isn't?

It's a vehicle for people to enjoy themselves, in our opinion. Feel free to disregard as you see fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.

I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.

Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition"

I've met couples. There are loads of them. The more tighter your wants, the less people there are who meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're fake !

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Also a different dynamic with two couples - you need to be well matched and compatible and happy to see your partner while they see you with someone else without having to take one for the team.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also a different dynamic with two couples - you need to be well matched and compatible and happy to see your partner while they see you with someone else without having to take one for the team.

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That's about it.

It's very difficult to find a couple where the mutual attraction exists. Its fairly obvious when one of the other couple is indifferent and if either one of us isn't sure we wouldn't insult anyone by going ahead. It must be even more difficult if all four are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem finding people we are both attracted to and vice versa, a bit of patience and effort goes a long way, as a couple if you are motivated to meet & play you shouldn't have a problem....

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

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So far we never had a problem with meeting couples both privately and at clubs.. but we do prefer club visits as obviously there's more of a choice and there's no pressure to play if none takes your fancy x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Does anyone really care what anyone else thinks swinging is or isn't?

It's a vehicle for people to enjoy themselves, in our opinion. Feel free to disregard as you see fit! "

Well put!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.

I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.

Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy"

Exact same experience here.

The site on the forum should have a thread where you're allowed to name and shame such people. Until then, we shall continue to suffer.

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By *omox077Couple
over a year ago

grays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a great fan of the concept of a partner swap. As swingers we enjoy sexual friendships with others, but prefer to have the freedom to choose who we have sex with as opposed to be confined to a particular couple.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is a broad spectrum of things and wide sharing is swinging

It's not just restricted to couple swap. I have been through all the scenarios as a single and with partners

You are right tho that it's hard to find good meets on here but that's mainly down to so many fakes , talkers and wasters and people that really don't know what the hell they want

Definition of swinging ...

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of couples with agendas we think.

Have found this on a couple of occasions.

The guy can't perform so the fem is on a man hunt.

Sorry that's not swinging."

Swinging is whatever people want it to be!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We end up meeting more guys than couples because we find it so difficult to meet couples. Having a wife with no bi-curiosity limits the couples who want to play and the pool of couples is quite small anyway.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition"

Seems to be ok for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're real and we meet a lot of other couples

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always get the impression that couples on here are all shagging with other couples.

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I always get the impression that couples on here are all shagging with other couples. "

We aren't exclusively shagging other couples , single males ( bi or straight ) , single bi females , CDs , TVs , tg , mm couples , ff couples are equally as much fun

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs. "

We may even try that

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London


"We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs.

We may even try that "

I think it's already been done! Big blindfold fight! Very messy!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and


"Lots of couples with agendas we think.

Have found this on a couple of occasions.

The guy can't perform so the fem is on a man hunt.

Sorry that's not swinging."

Oooh yes weve had this a lot of times too, i get the right hump when shes fucking my man and im left with a limp cock it almost put us off swining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found all groups (couples, females and males) fall at the last hurdle. When it comes to the crunch.....the meet.....silence.

Just noticed last night, the guy arranged for 17th July, his account now deleted.

Many are bizzare."

Shame.. How about 17th Aug, I am free...

Just to warn you I will be deleting my profile tomorrow..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People sometimes forget that most couples profiles here are either single men or women disguised as couple... They may have been couple 6 years ago but now they are single....wasting everyone's time.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Just hit 200 veries, so I think we can confidently say we are swingers lol!

We play mostly after organised socials, or at parties or clubs, as we find there is less chance of being let down.

Often it is very hard to match diaries with genuine people, and life (family, jobs, accidents/incidents) can throw a spanner in the works.

At least at a social/party/club you can sort out something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.

I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.

Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy

Exact same experience here.

The site on the forum should have a thread where you're allowed to name and shame such people. Until then, we shall continue to suffer."

Never had a problem meeting couples and never had a no show apart from you!.......

See that's how easy it is to name & shame! If you get no shows look at how you arrange meets, your technique, your pics and profile, take responsibility......

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