FabSwingers.com forum: mff threesome..help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I wouldn't say I am new but I am fairly inexperienced in swinging have had a couple of meets met some fantastic people and hope to carry on doing so.swinging has open up a lot of things for me sexually am more open minded and willing to try most things.

lately I have been fantasising about having a threesome with two sexy females ,being a single male its bit tricky to arrange so I was hoping for some advice or tips on how I can fulfil this fantasy that's constantly giving me a hard on all the time.any help much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with that one!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

To be honest, getting what you want on a swingers site is highly unlikely. Couples that already have one female find it difficult enough to find another, let alone a single male trying to find 2 bi sexual females. I'm not saying its impossible, some men do manage it.

But you'd be better maybe finding yourself someone regular to play with, and then trying to find a second female to join you.

Or else just go to a nightclub, find the lipstick lesbians that do it to get free drinks, get them completely wasted, then hope they follow through.

I'd personally go or the slightly longer way round of doing it, more likely to be fulfilling!!

Oh and remember that fantasies in your head, rarely turn out that way in reality. Just ask my ex fiance!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you've already met ladies from here then try asking them if they would be interested. Just make sure the two ladies like each other and are happy to do a mff and don't ever badger anyone into it because it will be a disaster. I learnt that lesson the hard way ages when I joined a mf couple and quickly realised the lady wasn't really up for it. Made a sharp exit!! Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or else just go to a nightclub, find the lipstick lesbians that do it to get free drinks, get them completely wasted, then hope they follow through."

Encouraging men to ply ladies with drink in order to get sex is neither amusing nor responsible

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

There is a reason bi single fems looking to play are called unicorns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or else just go to a nightclub, find the lipstick lesbians that do it to get free drinks, get them completely wasted, then hope they follow through.

Encouraging men to ply ladies with drink in order to get sex is neither amusing nor responsible

yeah i thought that a odd suggestion too, even more so coming from a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find yourself a partner or fuck buddy and meet another couple.

You can then experience MFF or MMF or you can all just romp together.

You don't have to play with the other guy and your lady doesn't have to play with the other woman, not unless your that way inclined.

Don't restrict your options, just widen your field of view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the tips I do know it is a bit of a mountain to climb when it comes to 3somes.that's a great idea I will try approach the ladies from my previous meets and I know there are no guarantees they will agree.if I were to find a willing females the choice of who and when would be theirs that way everybody involved is willing and interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a local girl friend she is fab and we are going to meet together .... for mff and other things go clubing too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hadn't thought of that because going through some couple profiles I gathered most people are sceptic of fuck buddy couples and seems there's reduced luck of getting meets?or is it just my single guy narrow minded way of thought

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"There is a reason bi single fems looking to play are called unicorns!

Yet I still struggle to meet people. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By your profile and verifications it seems that myth that single bi fems are unicorns is not so true

. leads me to think that maybe its about location location

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"By your profile and verifications it seems that myth that single bi fems are unicorns is not so true

. leads me to think that maybe its about location location"

No, its more about the difference between what people say they want, and what they actually want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But knowing most people the majority don't know what they really want or a frightened at the prospect of admitting what they want.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"But knowing most people the majority don't know what they really want or a frightened at the prospect of admitting what they want."

Thats fine, and I would never dictate to any person whatsoever regarding their preferences on here. But when I browse profiles of couples and men who want a bi fem and message them, half the time I am ignored or turned down, and the majority of the rest of the time nothing gets arranged.

I have more luck in clubs with couples. It's a shame, but thats the way it goes on here for me.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"By your profile and verifications it seems that myth that single bi fems are unicorns is not so true

. leads me to think that maybe its about location location"

Erm...if you read my profile you would have seen i am married.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"But knowing most people the majority don't know what they really want or a frightened at the prospect of admitting what they want.

I have more luck in clubs with couples. It's a shame, but thats the way it goes on here for me."

You have never messaged us!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"But knowing most people the majority don't know what they really want or a frightened at the prospect of admitting what they want.

I have more luck in clubs with couples. It's a shame, but thats the way it goes on here for me.

You have never messaged us!

LOL

The OP has a point re location though. I can't accommodate and can only travel to certain parts due to relying on public transport. Going north of York by train is a nightmare as Transpennine Express doesn't like the North East much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we tried 4 ages to have mff with a sexy girl but finding a female 2 join us proves hard if not impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its a shame because I can't see why I wudnt message and arrange a meet with sexy bi fem like yourself

but seems like clubs are the most certified and more convenient way of meeting similar minded people for fun

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"But knowing most people the majority don't know what they really want or a frightened at the prospect of admitting what they want.

I have more luck in clubs with couples. It's a shame, but thats the way it goes on here for me.

You have never messaged us!

LOL

Fair point, but then when it is quite easy to find bi women in clubs why travel if you dont need to?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Fair point, but then when it is quite easy to find bi women in clubs why travel if you dont need to?"

I'll be putting it into practice at Isis on the 12th, so fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Prudhoe sorry misleading comment I meant yorks profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose for a change of scenery away from the clubs may provide a different feel to the meet compared to when in a club.

Fingers crossed york would love to hear how it went

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I suppose for a change of scenery away from the clubs may provide a different feel to the meet compared to when in a club.

Fingers crossed york would love to hear how it went"

I had a good MFF earlier this year. I had met the guy on another site, then he met another women off that site. She was bi-curious, I was bi, so he asked us both if we could be interested. he had somewhere to go, and picked me up (I don't have a car), then we met her and went back to his. Couple of drinks, then up the stairs we went. He looked like he'd died and gone to heaven.

So the suggestion above about gettikng a female interested first then another one is prob the bext way to go about it, but it takes perserverence!

And thanks.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Couples message you you don't fancy either of them.

Couples message you you don't fancy one of them.

Couples message you and one of them doesn't fancy you.

A male from a couple messages you his wife knows nothing about it yet.

Most of the couples with 'bi' females are really straight females who just do it to ring the changes or please the husband.

On that note. There's no lesbian FAB. Wonder why ?

Speaking to a lovely single male ......they suddenly drop in the convo that they have a 'friend' who is bi....would you like to play with them.

Someone you've played with before gets back in touch ........ hi ive found another bi female make a threesome with us ?

On that note....... I've been offered sessions with teenage girls or girls in their twenties that look like ex cons or virgins...... offered by men by the way .......NO THANKS

Worst of all for me .....

It's double the fun for the bloke ......

I'd prefer a mmf thanks very much and have fem on fem to myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am doubtless that he did that's is what most males dream about me included lol sandwiched between two sexy females who wouldn't want to be in that position *sighs* how we all dream.seems I will just have to persevere hopefully come true if not I just have to drive down to york lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Wise words from Granny.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Couples message you you don't fancy either of them.

Couples message you you don't fancy one of them.

Couples message you and one of them doesn't fancy you.

A male from a couple messages you his wife knows nothing about it yet.

Most of the couples with 'bi' females are really straight females who just do it to ring the changes or please the husband.

On that note. There's no lesbian FAB. Wonder why ?

Speaking to a lovely single male ......they suddenly drop in the convo that they have a 'friend' who is bi....would you like to play with them.

Someone you've played with before gets back in touch ........ hi ive found another bi female make a threesome with us ?

On that note....... I've been offered sessions with teenage girls or girls in their twenties that look like ex cons or virgins...... offered by men by the way .......NO THANKS

Worst of all for me .....

It's double the fun for the bloke ......

I'd prefer a mmf thanks very much and have fem on fem to myself. "

Think you are mistaking personal preference with advice, which was what the OP was asking for..

My two penneth.. try what most people have said. Find yourself a regular FB, then together you will find it easier (by easier I still mean difficult, but not as much as a single guy trying to lure two bi fems) to find a third together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wise words from Granny."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems the general road to take and I will follow this train of thought so the search for a fb begins wish me luck and any other gems of advice are still appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always pay for a couple of hookers

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Or in my sweet and innocent days do as I did, and live with a lesbian...being a true dyke hag, I was the designated driver often when she went clubbing in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was lucky enough to get a mff last month. It started as two couples but the other guy got too excited then left, leaving me with two sexy women to take care of. It was a result for me, but I doubt I could of planned one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a stroke of luck for it to happen like that..seems as if its hard to plan one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be, go out there, have fun, and if it happens then enjoy. Don't get too caught up on one thing, there is so much other fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wise words I shall take on board there will be plenty of time to fulfil it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could always pay for a couple of hookers

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Woman who love sex do it for free ... lol ones who dont you pay ...its just a job.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Couples message you you don't fancy either of them.

Couples message you you don't fancy one of them.

Couples message you and one of them doesn't fancy you.

A male from a couple messages you his wife knows nothing about it yet.

Most of the couples with 'bi' females are really straight females who just do it to ring the changes or please the husband.

On that note. There's no lesbian FAB. Wonder why ?

Speaking to a lovely single male ......they suddenly drop in the convo that they have a 'friend' who is bi....would you like to play with them.

Someone you've played with before gets back in touch ........ hi ive found another bi female make a threesome with us ?

On that note....... I've been offered sessions with teenage girls or girls in their twenties that look like ex cons or virgins...... offered by men by the way .......NO THANKS

Worst of all for me .....

It's double the fun for the bloke ......

I'd prefer a mmf thanks very much and have fem on fem to myself.

Think you are mistaking personal preference with advice, which was what the OP was asking for..

I think your mistake is thinking that I was giving advice in a form that you would. Thanks for your advice on how to handle my replies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very true and for me to hire hookers would just taint the experience..it would feel sleazy rather than an enjoyable and memorable experience which is what I am after..so no hookers and om with the elusive search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey iaint this most blokes real fantasy. get to know people i guess for a while, and you may get what you want if your a nice enough guy, ask politley and you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a local girl friend she is fab and we are going to meet together .... for mff and other things go clubing too x"

Soooo wish I stayed in Norwich lol x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can someone help me to arrange a threesome with ray winstone and vinnie jones please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a local girl friend she is fab and we are going to meet together .... for mff and other things go clubing too x

Soooo wish I stayed in Norwich lol x"
ooo i wish you was in Norwich x us 3 could party xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a local girl friend she is fab and we are going to meet together .... for mff and other things go clubing too x

Soooo wish I stayed in Norwich lol x ooo i wish you was in Norwich x us 3 could party xx

Raawwrrr tottaly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone help me to arrange a threesome with ray winstone and vinnie jones please"

Oooh!! Get me a dry pair of nix please

Please can someone help me to arrange a MMF with Vin Diesel and Howward Webb. Drool............... Ms

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Can someone help me to arrange a threesome with ray winstone and vinnie jones please

Oooh!! Get me a dry pair of nix please

Please can someone help me to arrange a MMF with Vin Diesel and Howward Webb. Drool............... Ms"

well i did think this was a fantasy thread

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

many years ago on several football rugby club events with strippers have done the two girl thing on stage and very nearly happened happened at a meet but the other girl got cold feet one day

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Couples message you you don't fancy either of them.

Couples message you you don't fancy one of them.

Couples message you and one of them doesn't fancy you.

A male from a couple messages you his wife knows nothing about it yet.

Most of the couples with 'bi' females are really straight females who just do it to ring the changes or please the husband.

On that note. There's no lesbian FAB. Wonder why ?

Speaking to a lovely single male ......they suddenly drop in the convo that they have a 'friend' who is bi....would you like to play with them.

Someone you've played with before gets back in touch ........ hi ive found another bi female make a threesome with us ?

On that note....... I've been offered sessions with teenage girls or girls in their twenties that look like ex cons or virgins...... offered by men by the way .......NO THANKS

Worst of all for me .....

It's double the fun for the bloke ......

I'd prefer a mmf thanks very much and have fem on fem to myself.

Think you are mistaking personal preference with advice, which was what the OP was asking for..

I think your mistake is thinking that I was giving advice in a form that you would. Thanks for your advice on how to handle my replies. "

You're welcome.. can give you a hand with manners too if you like?

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