FabSwingers.com forum: Break from fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I need a break from fab I feel that people do not find me attractive just gem. I feel myself getting pissed off and upset over messages aimed at her not me. I personally feel no one finds me attractive. Do you think feeling this way it's not a good thing to stay on fab at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be the overwhelming single men population on her mate I wouldn't take it personally

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

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Ok, in truth it's predominantly about the women in swinging - always is.....

This is also shown by you having more pics of your good lady than yourself.

But if you aren't comfortable with it then back off is probably best het

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, in truth it's predominantly about the women in swinging - always is....."

is it ?? swinging is all about couples first single's after ... to the op stick to your guns and what you both want and don't let anyone change that .. unless of course you as a couple are not agreeing then maybe time for a break from here and sit down and talk..... one thing i will agree tho is you as a man will never ever get the same attention as your mrs or any women on here but thats life as there are probly 100 men to every woman on here or it feels that way anyway lol...ive alway said swinging aint for the faint hearted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think a break is probably best thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you both look great, it's not nice that mail messaged are aimed at just one person hunnni xxx

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

I understand how the op feels as its the same here however the good soldier I was plod on regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I need a break from fab I feel that people do not find me attractive just gem. I feel myself getting pissed off and upset over messages aimed at her not me. I personally feel no one finds me attractive. Do you think feeling this way it's not a good thing to stay on fab at the moment?"

Very sorry to hear. Personally, I think you just need to alter some beliefs in order to feel better. I read a book on CBT, the knowledge of that subject helps.

The other day, chatting to a couple via message, they just wanted to meet the Mrs and would I be as good to go and ask her. I didn't take it personally, they want to meet a female so I simply said that we are bailing out here and good luck in your search.

If you only play as a couple, stick to that. Part and parcel that the vast majority want the fanny.

Just set most filters to on and only allow females and couples contact you who are site sponsors, have photos and are verified etc..

Chin up, good luck.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Dont be daft. Firstly as a straight straight male and not fab straight i can say your a decent looking chap. As people have said above the woman in a couple is going to be the primary focus due to the nature of the site and specifically the ratio of men to women. Take a small break if you must then come back fighting. Good luck.

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