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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Comtemplating leaving the site once and for all as it seems I have come to a dry spell as not met anyone for ages off here.

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

10th June ages? try March! We're still here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here over 5 months and was on here previously as well for over a year. you 2 look nice wouldn't mind meeting you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not ddone a meet since march

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last bought something off ebay in january, I still have my account there.

I think it was last year since I used amazon, again still have an account.

Difference is theres no forum to get folks attention on those sites though

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Sadly not, we attended a party in may but didnt play though as there was nobody for us.

We've had probably 6-7 meets (not all play) in going on for 2 years mate so your time on here isnt that bad at all!

Chin up and press on, its notably harder for single guys as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly not, we attended a party in may but didnt play though as there was nobody for us.

We've had probably 6-7 meets (not all play) in going on for 2 years mate so your time on here isnt that bad at all!

Chin up and press on, its notably harder for single guys as it is"

you are telling me its hard for us guys!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Title reminds me of that song by The Clash......

Anyway back to the question...only you can decide if you stay or go!

Nearly everyone has quiet periods at one point or another, case of keeping your chin up and keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its not working for you right now just take a break from here, no need to delete your account tho, perhaps try another site

I wouldnt consider leaving, am to busy inter_iewing for a new fb, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wish I had a fuck buddy I could call upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a massage parlour if things are that bad

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

Sod keeping your chin up, keep your pecker up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sod keeping your chin up, keep your pecker up."

ha ha certainly would with you Chloe as your gorgeous

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .

as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .

as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here. "

Ha ha thanks for your advice.

I'm not trying to get noticed and I'm not that stupid to think people will be upset if I leave I'm mearly thinking out loud and as this is a forum then why not open my thoughts to the floor but thank you anyway.

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

well as its your profile and only you can decide if you are getting from the site what you want, nothing people can say but up to you !

of course anyone can post what they wish on forum .you see it as "thinking out loud " to some others its in less favourable light on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well as its your profile and only you can decide if you are getting from the site what you want, nothing people can say but up to you !

of course anyone can post what they wish on forum .you see it as "thinking out loud " to some others its in less favourable light on you "

As with any forum you take the rough with the smooth

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

Mmmm rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm rough."

stop teasin the poor guy

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you are telling me its hard for us guys!!!"

Not just guys, try a 10 months dry spell

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"you are telling me its hard for us guys!!!

Not just guys, try a 10 months dry spell"

Hmm I'm at 3 months without!!

But then again I am a fussy biatch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .

as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here. "

Sorry OP: when I read your post all the above sprang to mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh please stay.You're wonderful please stay. It wont be the same without you here.

You'll get plenty of meets, it's a bump in the road, plenty more fish in the sea, pebbles on the beach and all that.

Stay...with...me (doo doo doo do)

Stay-ay-hayaaah with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Comtemplating leaving the site once and for all as it seems I have come to a dry spell as not met anyone for ages off here."

Only you can decide, the name of this game is fun (in whichever form that comes), if I grow impatient and it is no longer fun then I would very possibly try to find some sort of fun elsewhere.

to me, fun isn't just the bite but the chase, the laughs on the forum, the messages with friends/friendly people through the forum, etc etc.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Same advice as always,dont ask for advice from strangers off the interweb when it comes to making a decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same advice as always,dont ask for advice from strangers off the interweb when it comes to making a decision."

Good advice, but I'm not sure I should take it, lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Same advice as always,dont ask for advice from strangers off the interweb when it comes to making a decision.

Good advice, but I'm not sure I should take it, lol"

Only on a thursday when there is an r in the month

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Comtemplating leaving the site once and for all as it seems I have come to a dry spell as not met anyone for ages off here."

Go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have not had a meet since last year, when we were on here before, we all live in hope…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets "

What's your secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

What's your secret"

I've been lucky I guess, but I don't worry if I get turned down.

Some will, some won't, so what. That's my motto lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the name of God....go now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Joe Strummer had the same dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the Hollies sang "If you gotta go, go, you better go now, go now, go now"

But you'll be back, just like Arnie

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would stay because sods law would be the second you go... an asian single fem will be asking to meet...

whatever you decide, enjoy and be happy

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

J&K I think you mean the moody blues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not easy for everyone ,we not had too many meets,people are busy with their life, other things to do .just stick with it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would stay because sods law would be the second you go... an asian single fem will be asking to meet...

whatever you decide, enjoy and be happy"

Ha ha the elusive asian fem that will be day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be 6 weeks on Monday for me, since........!!

Where's that knife??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets "

No one likes a show off!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off! "

True. Even my mirror steams up.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

wait min has rom being going about him not meeting for to long know he should just move on

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I also believe this is a "look at me" post! Since when has "thinking aloud" involved sitting down at a PC, turning it on, signing into a web site and pressing the link for "Post a New Topic"?

5 Months and two meets? Know of guys on here who would be glad of that record! This is not your PPS! (personal pussy stash) everyone has the right to meet who they want and not just meet you because you are after the sympathy vote!

WE both think that you are a chancer and as such, you should go! Try the pub/club on a saturday night, you should have much more luck...

(Harsh but fair! IMHO)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe stating the obvious, but im sure coming backs as easy peezy as going, dont get the big decision style of this.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"As the Hollies sang "If you gotta go, go, you better go now, go now, go now"

But you'll be back, just like Arnie "

Moody Blues.....

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"As the Hollies sang "If you gotta go, go, you better go now, go now, go now"

But you'll be back, just like Arnie

Moody Blues....."

yeah, way on down.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"As the Hollies sang "If you gotta go, go, you better go now, go now, go now"

But you'll be back, just like Arnie

Moody Blues.....

yeah, way on down. "
down down way on down

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

I think, "Way On Down" was Elvis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off! "

Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna stay - stay

If you wanna go - go

It's all up to you, either way, we're staying - meets or no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off!

Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs "

I know: hence the smiley's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe stating the obvious, but im sure coming backs as easy peezy as going, dont get the big decision style of this. "

Absolutely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GO! less competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe stating the obvious, but im sure coming backs as easy peezy as going, dont get the big decision style of this.

Absolutely.."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wasted 2 minutes of my life reading this crap!

OP don't let the door hit your arse on the way out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I'll stay a bit longer

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

why am i not surprised lol! oh i know why the simalar threads youve posted regularly before ....

look forward to the next time you think out loud ...lol!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"why am i not surprised lol! oh i know why the simalar threads youve posted regularly before ....

look forward to the next time you think out loud ...lol!"

Yeah, went away for a week and came back, saw this and got deja vu!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off!

Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs

I know: hence the smiley's "

Thick Yorkshireman here

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off!

Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs

I know: hence the smiley's

Thick Yorkshireman here "

thick huh mmmm!! you boasting again hun?? wink ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .

as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here.

Ha ha thanks for your advice.

I'm not trying to get noticed and I'm not that stupid to think people will be upset if I leave I'm mearly thinking out loud and as this is a forum then why not open my thoughts to the floor but thank you anyway.

"
1

PMSL!!!

Something's just been chucked out of yer pram... oh sorry, here...is this your dummy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wasted 2 minutes of my life reading this crap!

OP don't let the door hit your arse on the way out!"

*Giggles* Now, now *Giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I'll stay a bit longer"

We can breathe again. Phew thank God you stepped back from the edge.

You had me worried for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets

No one likes a show off!

Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs

I know: hence the smiley's

Thick Yorkshireman here

thick huh mmmm!! you boasting again hun?? wink ! x"

Haha err no, I'm thick as in stupid although you'd have to see the other to judge for yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.

stick with it change your profile a little

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I haven't had a meet since the 4some yesterday but I'm going to stick it out. I don't give up too easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had a meet since the 4some yesterday but I'm going to stick it out. I don't give up too easy. "

lol i like the spirit thats me all over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.

stick with it change your profile a little"

How do you suggest I change my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.

stick with it change your profile a little

How do you suggest I change my profile"

change wording a little. try doing updates. ask naughty questions in the forum getting us women interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ask naughty questions in the forum getting us women interested"

Do you take it up the trumper??

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