FabSwingers.com forum: A FAB experiment!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay here's a little experiment, followed by a question

Imagine a couple decide to try out some bondage. They buy ropes, handcuffs and a ball gag. That evening there's a lot of restraining, some spanking, hair-pulling and obedience training.

Now the question... in your mind just then... who was the submissive?

The male or the female?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Okay here's a little experiment, followed by a question

Imagine a couple decide to try out some bondage. They buy ropes, handcuffs and a ball gag. That evening there's a lot of restraining, some spanking, hair-pulling and obedience training.

Now the question... in your mind just then... who was the submissive?

The male or the female?

Post your answer below please

Taking turns is the fairest approach!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Is it a MF couple or MM, FF?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"Okay here's a little experiment, followed by a question

Imagine a couple decide to try out some bondage. They buy ropes, handcuffs and a ball gag. That evening there's a lot of restraining, some spanking, hair-pulling and obedience training.

Now the question... in your mind just then... who was the submissive?

The male or the female?

Post your answer below please

I've just looked at your profile, there are no pictures of the bloke, so it's impossible to judge whether or not he has any hair to be pulled

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

It would depend on a lot of variables.

considering most people start off with light bondage it could go either way, she could surprise him by taking the lead or vice versa... it also depends on each others personal dymanics in the bedroom.

in most of my past relationships I have been the Dominant one, yet in my last one it was a surprising roll reversal..... or both could be switch and go with the flow

in general though I find the woman tends to be quite submissive but then how much of that is down to social "programming"? and that alone opens a whole new door for discussion :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The female they asked to join them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The female they asked to join them..."

Good answer

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Probably the lady but I'll try being a submissive it'll make a nice change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither it's just kinky sex and role play, it takes time to develop and settle in to Sub Dom role

Unless there naturally Dom/me Sub which they would probably have developed that relationship by then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Submissive was probably whichever one of them was strongest....

I honestly can't assign a gender in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thoughts from this question/scenario.

I think it depends on just how dom, the dom is, some are quite open to allowing the sub a bit of dom time and when the role is reversed it can be as much a turn on for the dom as the sub.Really depends on those involved. Some like to be extreme in their dom role and wont allow any role reversal.. And like previously mentioned a lot of the time in a MF scenario it is the F who is sub

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Neither of them, they are just experimenting.

A D/S relationship is more than just kinky sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man XXX

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Neither both are to busy watching youtube to figgre out wtf you do with 50ft of rope, when trying to tie someone the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither both are to busy watching youtube to figgre out wtf you do with 50ft of rope, when trying to tie someone the first time

Hope they didn't use a slip knot

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Neither of them, they are just experimenting.

A D/S relationship is more than just kinky sex."

Indeed there is all the trying to fit a different girl with the same colar each week, working out exactly how many items to hang on a belt (to show your dom status) and trying to get the lass to look like she actually meen what they say.

Ahh the tough life of the Dinky Dom.

Not to mention practicing the stern face requirements of haveing to say "your doing that wrong" while unwantedly touching and then preaching how " swingers are terrible, they never know when to not touch!)

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

"Okay here's a little experiment, followed by a question

Imagine a couple decide to try out some bondage. They buy ropes, handcuffs and a ball gag. That evening there's a lot of restraining, some spanking, hair-pulling and obedience training.

Now the question... in your mind just then... who was the submissive?

The male or the female?

Post your answer below please

I think because you mentioned hair pulling I was imagining it was the female

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