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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can anyone tell if you're ugly or not from a couple of poor quality cock photo's?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"How can anyone tell if you're ugly or not from a couple of poor quality cock photo's?"

Nice tits though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

I don't like your profile picture, it's likely other females won't too. It's the first thing most people look at upon receiving a message

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"How can anyone tell if you're ugly or not from a couple of poor quality cock photo's?

Nice tits though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "
i think this site is hard on single men due to their being to many of them

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By *hickone48 and christinaMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

You have no face pic I think your a fake account wanting people to respond a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a face pic which I attach to messages and think what you like

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I reckon most people would be more interested in meeting the owner of that fine, fine rack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK point taken it is a bit crap now you mention it to be fair. I attach a face pic to all messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is rubbish for goodness sake put some effort in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"OK point taken it is a bit crap now you mention it to be fair. I attach a face pic to all messages"

Well, you've kind of answered your own question there. It would have to be an extraordinary message, plus attached pics, for it to grab my eye if the sender's profile was 'a bit crap'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone tell if you're ugly or not from a couple of poor quality cock photo's?"
m

This.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

Sorry we can't help.

We have no recollection why but you're on our block list.

There is more than likely something wrong with your technique here.

Unless we were having a particularly picky day ?????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretty sure I haven't tried to message you so I don't know either but that's fine

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is rubbish for goodness sake put some effort in "
only just set the profile up will have to write a bit of an essay I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like)"

face pic in sent messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reckon most people would be more interested in meeting the owner of that fine, fine rack. "
I'll tell her to get up a profile

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages "

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message "

as stated previously face pic sent with any message love

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

How would we know ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Your profile is rubbish for goodness sake put some effort in only just set the profile up will have to write a bit of an essay I suppose "

no.... but effort equals reward and how much effort truely went into those 10 whole words you used........

okay.... so lets be blunt.... of all the hundreds of profiles.. would you answer yours?

if the answer is yes.... then leave it as it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

Absolutely. Loads of people are interested in single guys, especially us. Happily for couples and ladies there are so many single guys the choice is infinite. Sadly for single guys, there are simply too many to go round, such that many will miss out.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I totally understand wasn't really moaning in the original post more of a giggle but thank you for responding respectfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message as stated previously face pic sent with any message love"

Responding to posts in a thread, is not an invitation to receive mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message as stated previously face pic sent with any message love

Responding to posts in a thread, is not an invitation to receive mail "

Jesus (hint face pic in sent messages has the penny dropped yet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether face pic is sent or not. If the recipient of your message reads your profile first, they're likely to delete it based on seeing nothing of note.

You want to attract women? Give them something to be attracted to.

This site isn't rocket science to work out, even if many make it so.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Obviously his not interested in the advice given as his still not changed his profile!! Hopeless case !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my advice is not really to have pics of someone else in the image when you haven't been meet verified yet.People will probably ask if she consented to it being on this or any other site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He asked for help then acts like people are mugging him off, he is not winning anyone over on this post lol

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Whether face pic is sent or not. If the recipient of your message reads your profile first, they're likely to delete it based on seeing nothing of note.

You want to attract women? Give them something to be attracted to.

This site isn't rocket science to work out, even if many make it so."

Spot on - write a decent profile and use correct punctuation and spelling. Make it interesting and have some decent pictures of yourself (not all cock or action shots). You can show your body off without your face if you want to keep that for a private message.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message "

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a man your 37 looking for sex with a cock picture, that's all!

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan ! "

This is rather funny

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan ! "

Can see why some people get fed up with single guys though.

It isn't hard to read a profile and write a decent message refering to said profile? (As opposed to staring at the pics!)

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him "

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles "

What constitutes a cockwomble

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No idea if you're ugly but going by your profile there's nothing of interest.

I don't meet women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles

What constitutes a cockwomble "

someone who sends unsolicited dick pics or in this case msgs if ppl post on his thread

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles

What constitutes a cockwomble

someone who sends unsolicited dick pics or in this case msgs if ppl post on his thread "

Ah thank you for clearing that up for me

So jist to be clear though - If I message people who post on his thread - do I become a cockwomble by association??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles

What constitutes a cockwomble

someone who sends unsolicited dick pics or in this case msgs if ppl post on his thread

Ah thank you for clearing that up for me

So jist to be clear though - If I message people who post on his thread - do I become a cockwomble by association??"

I suspect she means men who contribute to the thread but send the message privately instead of sharing it with the forum. I don't like that either. I don't think she's referring to messages that are unrelated to the thread.

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By *ew2878Man
over a year ago

Warminster

Op I feel your pain 98% of my messages are of guys. So am a hit with the fellas lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I don't know if you're ugly.

Yes we do like single guys that can read and comprehend

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles

What constitutes a cockwomble

someone who sends unsolicited dick pics or in this case msgs if ppl post on his thread

Ah thank you for clearing that up for me

So jist to be clear though - If I message people who post on his thread - do I become a cockwomble by association??

I suspect she means men who contribute to the thread but send the message privately instead of sharing it with the forum. I don't like that either. I don't think she's referring to messages that are unrelated to the thread. "

Phew that's guid to here - was worried I may have become a cockwomble without knowing it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Op I feel your pain 98% of my messages are of guys. So am a hit with the fellas lol"

But you don't have to put up with that. You can put filters in place to stop men messaging you.

There are lots of successful guys on here. Check out the guys profiles that have veris then try figure out your own maybe.

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By *ew2878Man
over a year ago

Warminster


"Op I feel your pain 98% of my messages are of guys. So am a hit with the fellas lol

But you don't have to put up with that. You can put filters in place to stop men messaging you.

There are lots of successful guys on here. Check out the guys profiles that have veris then try figure out your own maybe. "

The majority of men just say something along the line of can you fuck my arse. But then I even get a couple of guys that now I talk to on a regular just as friends. I don't want to block them. I just delete the others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously his not interested in the advice given as his still not changed his profile!! Hopeless case !!"
or maybe just don't spend all day every day on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo read my counts not really moaning thought people on here might have a sense of humour

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan ! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan !

This is rather funny "

it was supposed to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP there are plenty of people on here interested in meeting single men. Perhaps there is a reason why they don't seem interested in you.

(Hint: it's not because of your looks, without clear face and body pics it is impossible to see what you look like) face pic in sent messages

Message deleted without reading.

My comment on your post was not an invitation to send me a message

Bet you wouldn't have said that if you'd have fancied him

I frequently turn down guys I fancy because they are cockwombles "

I could well be a cockwomble not quite sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to break it to ya mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, face and body pic is important. Equally, they must have a brain. When someone asks a question via message that's covered in our profile, or a one liner such as "How's you", waste of time springs to mind.

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By *ew2878Man
over a year ago

Warminster


"Can see why some people get fed up with single guys though.

It isn't hard to read a profile and write a decent message refering to said profile? (As opposed to staring at the pics!)"

What there is more to a profile than pictures?? Are you sure

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Can see why some people get fed up with single guys though.

It isn't hard to read a profile and write a decent message refering to said profile? (As opposed to staring at the pics!)

What there is more to a profile than pictures?? Are you sure"

Haha I believe so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is rubbish for goodness sake put some effort in "
some guys on here at first think they're not getting any messages but you just try and try and try you don't pester the same person but you sort of think to yourself that you write a decent profile you put a lot of pictures on your profile and then boom Bob's your uncle

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By *aya_69Woman
over a year ago

Stoke/Cheshire

I think your confused, you say your straight, only been here a week and have male and TV friends, I don't have a problem with bi men or TVs but do with men that say they are straight, when profile shows signs they aren't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your confused, you say your straight, only been here a week and have male and TV friends, I don't have a problem with bi men or TVs but do with men that say they are straight, when profile shows signs they aren't "
because they have messaged me and we have chatted not planned to meet but don't mind chatting to anyone who is nice to me

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "
we are a cpl who only meet with single guys When looking at thier profiles. If they havent got a face pic then we wont follow up We just ignore thier profile. We dont want to send a message just to find out what thier face pic looks like. That is wasting time N then if you dont like the pic we seemed to be drawn in a conversation. Like. Is my pic ok. Or you could reply to me We dont need that. Saves alot of time knowing what the other guy looks like. Just our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol

Yes we politely decline you. Because you obviously didn't read our profile.

We meet Age 40+

No cock shots as first photo

Iirc you were bald/ shaven headed too.

Etc etc

So what do you expect?

At least you received a polite reply and now you moan ! "

quite impressive getting turned down by someone who I never propositioned, think you've got me confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This was a tongue in cheek comment hence the seems a few others are far more upset about my predicament than I Am. P.s the constructive criticism offered by polite people was much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many on here actually interested in single guys or am I just ugly lol "

must be the latter as you can only get a pic of someone else's tits on your avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a single male, but your profile picture shows more of a lady than it does of you.

This will instantly put many people off.

As I've seen in many forum comments over the years that I've been here, most people don't want to see pictures of others on a single profile.

They'll want to know about you, not who you've been with

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