FabSwingers.com forum: Fun after a funural?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well...I would suppose it would depend on how close you were to the deceased person and how traumatised you were by it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well...I would suppose it would depend on how close you were to the deceased person and how traumatised you were by it

A fair point. I'm going to a close friends dads funural this afternoon and I know there will be a few old flames there. What do you think I should do?

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

I WOULD WAIT UNTIL YOU GOT TO THE WAKE OUT OF RESPECT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well...I would suppose it would depend on how close you were to the deceased person and how traumatised you were by it

A fair point. I'm going to a close friends dads funural this afternoon and I know there will be a few old flames there. What do you think I should do?"

I think you should be there for your friend or don't bother going at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of fun?

Laughing at all the silly things the deceased used to do?

Or scaring their spouse by dressing in the deceased persons clothes n pretending they had come back from the dead?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Just drop a couple of 'well there's more than one stiff here that's about to get planted in a hole, if you know what I mean

' comments and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just drop a couple of 'well there's more than one stiff here that's about to get planted in a hole, if you know what I mean

' comments and see where it goes. "

This made me chuckle!!

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

It's actually a natural reaction the human psyche reacts to death by wanting to reproduce.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's actually a natural reaction the human psyche reacts to death by wanting to reproduce.

I don't want to reproduce! Just have some fun!

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

yes but the psyche cant tell the difference between safe sex and bareback so go for it lol

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?"

You could start with a nice consoling hug......

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Necrophilia isn't my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?"

I know where you're coming from mate.If its on a plate take it

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Necrophilia isn't my thing."

* Chuckles *

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Totally inappropriate.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Necrophilia isn't my thing."

Nah me neither, but my wife and I have an agreement that if either of us pop our cloggs half way though, the other can at least finish up.

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By *exycouple30Couple
over a year ago

bristol

in my opinion I think this is totally wrong, it shows no respect for the person or people that's past away

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Necrophilia isn't my thing.

Nah me neither, but my wife and I have an agreement that if either of us pop our cloggs half way though, the other can at least finish up."

Reasonable compromise

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, why are you actually going? Is it to support your friend or try to hook up with people who might be genuinely upset or genuinely there to support the family?

My advise is grow up and support your friend, or stay away.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally think this is totally insensitive. This is the last thing I would want after a funeral, more so if was a family member. If one of my "friends" was to make such an attempt then it would be the end of that friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, why are you actually going? Is it to support your friend or try to hook up with people who might be genuinely upset or genuinely there to support the family?

My advise is grow up and support your friend, or stay away.

MrB"

^^ what he said ^^

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over a year ago

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

Op do u think the deceased wud approve lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to sound judgemental, but no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?"

Totally wrong, what kind of friend are you? And how arrogant you are to think your old flames will drop their knickers or underpants for you after a funeral x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well...I would suppose it would depend on how close you were to the deceased person and how traumatised you were by it

A fair point. I'm going to a close friends dads funural this afternoon and I know there will be a few old flames there. What do you think I should do?"

Omg hate to think how you treat an acquaintance or someone who is just a normal friend if you are thinking about if ur gonna get ur end away at a close friends dads funeral while she is hurting....my close friends dad died a few years back and I didn't leave his side the whole day and I was devastated for him...can't even believe someone would even be thinking about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's acceptable to ask the old flames for their number but seeing your friends father's funeral as an opportunity to cop off isn't respectful.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Took my clothes off at end of Mother in laws wake did start drinking at eight in the morning in my defence. Wasn't the only one to do it and knew when to stop lightened the atmosphere

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Let's face it, funerals are the worse place to be. To be honest i would prefer it to be my own rather then have to go to another one. (And btw I am not having a funeral.)

I am sure that there are other people there who would be grateful for a bit of light relief - ease the tension.

But of course you have to be respectful, not crude or lewd.

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By *lwayshorny2009Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We had a meet organised once, but I did go to a funeral first

At least it gave me something to think about whilst I was sat there ooopppsss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Let's face it, funerals are the worse place to be. To be honest i would prefer it to be my own rather then have to go to another one. (And btw I am not having a funeral.)

I am sure that there are other people there who would be grateful for a bit of light relief - ease the tension.

But of course you have to be respectful, not crude or lewd."

The widow and any other children would hardly be thrilled to see someone using their loved one's funeral as an opportunity for sex.

How long do funerals last? An hour maybe two even the most hardened among us can last that long without sex.

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Let's face it, funerals are the worse place to be. To be honest i would prefer it to be my own rather then have to go to another one. (And btw I am not having a funeral.)

I am sure that there are other people there who would be grateful for a bit of light relief - ease the tension.

But of course you have to be respectful, not crude or lewd.

The widow and any other children would hardly be thrilled to see someone using their loved one's funeral as an opportunity for sex.

How long do funerals last? An hour maybe two even the most hardened among us can last that long without sex. "

I am sure that the OP was intending to use the funeral as a pick up place, not to hump someone up against the back of the crypt.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Funerals are to be respected and a good toast d*unk to the departed. Window shopping is allowed but not to be acted on until another day

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Let's face it, funerals are the worse place to be. To be honest i would prefer it to be my own rather then have to go to another one. (And btw I am not having a funeral.)

I am sure that there are other people there who would be grateful for a bit of light relief - ease the tension.

But of course you have to be respectful, not crude or lewd.

The widow and any other children would hardly be thrilled to see someone using their loved one's funeral as an opportunity for sex.

How long do funerals last? An hour maybe two even the most hardened among us can last that long without sex. "

yes it's not quite the occasion for pulling.

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

Let's face it I'm sure the op didn't mean he was chasing a family member of the deceased I hav personally had fun wit people attending funerals at the afters a few beers a great lav and great sex oh I was in male mode

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Let's face it, funerals are the worse place to be. To be honest i would prefer it to be my own rather then have to go to another one. (And btw I am not having a funeral.)

I am sure that there are other people there who would be grateful for a bit of light relief - ease the tension.

But of course you have to be respectful, not crude or lewd.

The widow and any other children would hardly be thrilled to see someone using their loved one's funeral as an opportunity for sex.

How long do funerals last? An hour maybe two even the most hardened among us can last that long without sex.

I am sure that the OP was intending to use the funeral as a pick up place, not to hump someone up against the back of the crypt."

I'll be honest when the time comes for me to attend my father's funeral I doubt I'll be paying much attention to what the other people are doing. But if any friend of mine used it as a "pick up place" (not that I think they would) they wouldn't be my friend any more.

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Let's face it I'm sure the op didn't mean he was chasing a family member of the deceased I hav personally had fun wit people attending funerals at the afters a few beers a great lav and great sex oh I was in male mode"

all i can think of is all the women in sexy black outfits

black stockings and tights

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Sounds like the guy from wedding crashers! MOM WHERE'S MY MEATLOAF - FUCK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?"

brilliant question.

Scottish funerals are usually good fun,everyone gets on, gets d*unk and its cool but weddings are crap,everyone gets d*unk and theres lots of lots of fights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?

brilliant question.

Scottish funerals are usually good fun,everyone gets on, gets d*unk and its cool but weddings are crap,everyone gets d*unk and theres lots of lots of fights"

or is it the other way round?

cant remember always too d*unk

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Think it's probably illegal in most countries. Or at the very least frowned upon...

What?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Grief is natures most powerful aphrodisiac ..look it up

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Very inappropriate OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grief is natures most powerful aphrodisiac ..look it up "

hence the phrase "good grief"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun,,get d*unk,fuck,,be crazy,,celebrate,,why be miserable?

its a life,,there where lots of smiles and laughter,,CELEBRATE! why dwell on misery????????????????????

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think you should be there for your friend or don't bother going at all"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?

brilliant question.

Scottish funerals are usually good fun,everyone gets on, gets d*unk and its cool but weddings are crap,everyone gets d*unk and theres lots of lots of fights"

What about weddings stimulates fights??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this? Wrong or a good way to lighten the mood?

brilliant question.

Scottish funerals are usually good fun,everyone gets on, gets d*unk and its cool but weddings are crap,everyone gets d*unk and theres lots of lots of fights

What about weddings stimulates fights?? "

EH?????????????

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By *mokeyslutWoman
over a year ago

penzance

i once dated a girl that skiped her best freinds dads funeral for a meet...

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

When one of us croaks the other one is going to bring a date to the funeral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually a natural reaction the human psyche reacts to death by wanting to reproduce.

I don't want to reproduce! Just have some fun!

yes but the psyche cant tell the difference between safe sex and bareback so go for it lol "

legend!

I think it all depends on *how close* is the close friend. Funerals bring people together, that's one of their most important function. Once the funeral is over, those further away from the grief can go off and do what they like. But the closer you are to those affected the more you should be focusing on their need.

Losing a parent is devastating... If you are distracted by how to arrange getting off with your old flames, how will you be able to support your friend? If your friend does not expect support from you other than you showing up, paying your respect, then leaving, then sure go ahead. But if they really are a close friend, I'd leave hours after the funeral to hang with them instead.

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"i once dated a girl that skiped her best freinds dads funeral for a meet... "
was it a great meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well...I would suppose it would depend on how close you were to the deceased person and how traumatised you were by it

A fair point. I'm going to a close friends dads funural this afternoon and I know there will be a few old flames there. What do you think I should do?

I think you should be there for your friend or don't bother going at all"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's personal choice. I have a funeral on Friday. Playing will be the last thing on my mind, personally.

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