FabSwingers.com forum: Can you relate?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if we're alone in this. We went to a swinging club the other day and found people friendly and nice but just not sexy. The atmosphere wasn't really even sexy enough for either of us to get turned on enough to play with each other. The following day, however, we bumped into a very sexy vanilla couple in a vanilla bar and the flirtation was off the hook. We left all exited and turned on, scheming about how to lure them into bed with us.

Is it weird that we're getting more turned on by vanilla connections than by swinging connections?

Maybe it's just a fad but we thought it might stir an interesting debate. Your thoughts on the back of a postage stamp please

By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Maybe it was the thrill of trying to bring them over to the dark side?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I get it totally!

Just because we're all 'sex people' doesn't mean we're all sexy!

In fact the more 'blatant' the sex is, often the less desirable it becomes.

I remember going to a sex show in Amsterdam on a Stag weekend. It was probably the most uninspiring and least arousing 'sex' experience I've ever had!

By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

We were very similar. I (fem) was very keen to go to a club and partner not too sure. We went for it... Had a lovely night but nothing major turned us on, almost not enough going on but also a little staged.... one lady receiving oral in hot tub and she looked utterly bored and we were stalked by a stunning lady whose partner was just not for us... all very strange... a man making a lady squirt in hot tub whilst telling us about his job. Hence private meets tend to suit us but guess we should try another club for comparison

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Can relate to it too

We have been in clubs and just gone to a room to play ourselves and we have also arranged to meet couples we already know,to play.

Just because its a swingers club,doesnt mean you will find the people in it attractive.

Miss