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The struggle is real

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys just wanted to say is it worth pursuing anything on here as I've been here for a long while and have had nothing

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age will put a lot of couples off. Many people have children your age. The unshaved image isn't many people's first choice either in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are always are good way of meeting people to progress into playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal view is that this site does not work for everyone, and that the swing scene does not work for everyone. I don't see the point in pursuing something that doesn't work. With regards to single men, the ratios are such that there are not enough women and couples to go round, therefore some guys will always miss out. Guys as young as yourself do tend to struggle on swingers site. But the good news is that you won't stay young forever, and you are also young enough to get sex from other avenues.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fellas that have met might say yes - the ones struggling might say no - ask yourself how much does it matter to you but dont be in a mad rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your young.....good looking and fun. I would stick to going to pubs and clubs with your mates than on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick at it, dude. It'll come. I joined these kinda sites at around 18 too and even if I didn't meet, I learnt so much about this world. Don't be disheartened, just get yourself involved.

I don't know your approach but it's better to message unique messages to fewer people than to copy and paste the same message to many!

The social aspect is also really important. I've previously played and become friends with people who didn't reply when I messaged them! It's easier to get yourself across when you aren't yet another message in an overflowing inbox.

Advanced search is also handy, you can set it to only show profiles that are open to meeting someone your age. There are many young people on here, as well as others who are looking to meet younger people.

Your profile text is good IMO (though you don't need the 'an' in your headline). Maybe ease up on the dick pics though

Good luck bro!

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