FabSwingers.com forum: What's the best 1st msg

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening all

Can someone shed some light as to what the best 1st msg actually Is?

I definitely wouldn't write full on things to begin with but it seems the more laid back honest approach is no good, just thinking why?

Thanks

Phil

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Something funny that relates to your profile. That's the only thing guaranteed to get a reply from me

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we tell you, would you like us to shag them for you as well?

Sorry to be so harsh, but there really are some things in life that you need to work out for yourself.

And everyone is different. There is no generic first message that will apply right across the board - after all, isn't that the purpose of the wink system? - And look how well that works

How I might write a message to someone will be very different to how you would go about it - due to differences in our character and personality, what we're looking for and how we view the recipient.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we tell you, would you like us to shag them for you as well?

Sorry to be so harsh, but there really are some things in life that you need to work out for yourself.

And everyone is different. There is no generic first message that will apply right across the board - after all, isn't that the purpose of the wink system? - And look how well that works

How I might write a message to someone will be very different to how you would go about it - due to differences in our character and personality, what we're looking for and how we view the recipient.

Thanks sn I didn't take it harshly

This site baffles me sometimes hahaha