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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response."

Wouldn't we all

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well, that's just the height of pickiness. Someone who reads the profile? You'll be lucky.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

They're the other 'unicorns'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, that's just the height of pickiness. Someone who reads the profile? You'll be lucky."

It's a struggle isn't it.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Oi. ... some blokes do...

I came across one the other day...

Not in that way... god you women are filth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response."

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'd like people to stop using text speak when they message me.. the struggle is real

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you."

You miss the point, most of us do put our wants in our profiles but if they don't get read how will it help listing a bunch of questions?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you."

nothing in mine now coz i'm not interested in anyone off here but when i do meet i put what i want on my profile, so that compatible people can introduce themselves and just chat to see if we get on.

i don't wanna be asked a load of sexual questions, i'm not here for free wank chat.

and that is why men don't read profiles. they do not care what we want, they approach with the intent of getting what they want only.

i wouldn't even respond so such an ignorant git personally.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

nothing in mine now coz i'm not interested in anyone off here but when i do meet i put what i want on my profile, so that compatible people can introduce themselves and just chat to see if we get on.

i don't wanna be asked a load of sexual questions, i'm not here for free wank chat.

and that is why men don't read profiles. they do not care what we want, they approach with the intent of getting what they want only.

i wouldn't even respond so such an ignorant git personally."

To be fare... I can imagine this happens a lot... but it is a generalization. ..

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

nothing in mine now coz i'm not interested in anyone off here but when i do meet i put what i want on my profile, so that compatible people can introduce themselves and just chat to see if we get on.

i don't wanna be asked a load of sexual questions, i'm not here for free wank chat.

and that is why men don't read profiles. they do not care what we want, they approach with the intent of getting what they want only.

i wouldn't even respond so such an ignorant git personally.

To be fare... I can imagine this happens a lot... but it is a generalization. .. "

well yeah #notallmen obviously.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

nothing in mine now coz i'm not interested in anyone off here but when i do meet i put what i want on my profile, so that compatible people can introduce themselves and just chat to see if we get on.

i don't wanna be asked a load of sexual questions, i'm not here for free wank chat.

and that is why men don't read profiles. they do not care what we want, they approach with the intent of getting what they want only.

i wouldn't even respond so such an ignorant git personally.

To be fare... I can imagine this happens a lot... but it is a generalization. ..

well yeah #notallmen obviously. "

That's a shame.. gives me more competition..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want more sex.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"I want more sex."

Don't we all...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you."

What's the point of detailing anything in our profiles? As the OP is saying, no-one reads them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want more sex.

Don't we all... "

Not all. Some are only here for chat

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"I want more sex.

Don't we all...

Not all. Some are only here for chat "

I walked into that one didn't I..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read profiles I love to punch above my weight

Everyone loves a cheeky chancer just be flattered instead of grumpy xx

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

What's the point of detailing anything in our profiles? As the OP is saying, no-one reads them."

That's where I'm going wrong

I always read a profile and make sure I fit the criteria before I expend time and effort crafting a relevant message...

And then get ignored or not read.

Would be easier and probably more successful to just send random "fancy a fuck?" messages instead

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

What's the point of detailing anything in our profiles? As the OP is saying, no-one reads them.

That's where I'm going wrong

I always read a profile and make sure I fit the criteria before I expend time and effort crafting a relevant message...

And then get ignored or not read.

Would be easier and probably more successful to just send random "fancy a fuck?" messages instead "

I never thought of that.. I think we've both been going wrong... and we could copy and paste to make the whole process quicker... I reckon there are around 40k women on the site..

If we message 6 every minute.. it would take 4.6 days to go through he site. ..

Coffee then... and pro plus..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you."

Ok, our profile states that we only accept friend requests with those we've met. Would you say that was a piece of simple information?

So last night, a person sends a message and then a friend request.

We told this person that unfortunately we don't accept friend requests (please read our profile).

Woke up this morning to another message and yet another friend request. That earned them the block function.

So we've made it clear in the profile, we've told them by message. What do you suggest we can do so people don't have to guess and get the crystal ball out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you OP!

On my profile I say 'please get in touch, I always like to see that inbox icon light up!'.

But despite it being there in clear black and white, do people message me? Do they fuck.

The struggle is real OP, I can empathise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never read profiles I love to punch above my weight

Everyone loves a cheeky chancer just be flattered instead of grumpy xx"

In reality, some will think, "Not another numpt". We avoid those who don't read profiles or do and choose to ignore the other person's wants.

Simply earns them the block button and the bonus for us is that it reduces the number of people that appear in the search page to lower our chances of wasting our time in future searches.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

FAINT. FAINT. FAINT.

We received a message from a guy that was certainly more than one line long and, WAIT FOR IT, he read our profile!!!!!

What a refreshing change, someone switched on. He's one that's restoring our faith in our perception of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhh so that's what profile are for ? We have to read em ? Good to know i'll sleep smarter tonight

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"We would like to meet people who can read a profile to avoid asking stupid questions or sending friend requests.

It's an extremely simple task to do and if you fail at the first hurdle, we inject the same lack of effort in our response.

I have a suggestion; why don't you detail in your profile the type of questions you would like to be asked and they type you wouldn't like to be asked. Unfortunately, human beings aren't mind readers so this should makes things a lot easier for you and the poor misfortunates who decide to message you.

What's the point of detailing anything in our profiles? As the OP is saying, no-one reads them."

I read yours!

Seriously, I thought I'd take a look at what people who have posted, to this thread, have written on their profiles. Some were frankly hard going. If they were set as GCSE comprehension texts, then marks this year would fall.

I know it's frustrating when people get the obvious stuff wrong, but I reckon when we're writing profiles for ourselves, we have a duty to make it something that communicates what we want.

We're not a site of advertising copywriters, but huge blocks of text, lists and sub clauses that wouldn't look out of place in an insurance policy document?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always read profiles, our pet hate is one line messages

Sexy pics is the most common, how can you respond to that when we look at there's and says nothing about them,

I have a guy on my friends list who's got an amazing profile, it shows his character down to the ground,

how are you supposed to start a conversation with no help or anything to talk to them about?

I also find those will dry up or a meet will never actually happen

That said I won't carry on reading past the first line if I find the profile very arrogant and selfish and all about me me me,

I have winked a few couples then messaged just saying I loved reading there profile,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always read profiles, our pet hate is one line messages

Sexy pics is the most common, how can you respond to that when we look at there's and says nothing about them,

I have a guy on my friends list who's got an amazing profile, it shows his character down to the ground,

how are you supposed to start a conversation with no help or anything to talk to them about?

I also find those will dry up or a meet will never actually happen

That said I won't carry on reading past the first line if I find the profile very arrogant and selfish and all about me me me,

I have winked a few couples then messaged just saying I loved reading there profile,

"

One liners is my pet hate too, I just block the member as you need to know a little about them to ignite interest. XXX

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