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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So someone posts a meet , but for single men to attend they have to pay a "contribution"

So surely that's against the rules of this site and if it's not or different can people please explain !

It's basically paying for sex but worded different surely ???

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Can be a contribution towards hotel or venue hire , refreshments and so on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is against rules so just report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a lot do it.

We've booked a room for a gangbang and we want to meet lots of men. Contribution required to cover the room cost.

Now sharing the cost equally sounds reasonable doesn't it? But when the aggregate contribution far exceeds the room cost then it kinda becomes commercial.

If that's the case report to admin and let them investigate!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's an organised event, with a contribution towards exceptional costs then it could be reasonable to share costs.

Otherwise I'd report to admin and follow your instincts on whether it's a money making scam against site rules.

Sharing accommodation, buffet, drinks costs is reasonable and your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's an organised event, with a contribution towards exceptional costs then it could be reasonable to share costs.

Otherwise I'd report to admin and follow your instincts on whether it's a money making scam against site rules.

Sharing accommodation, buffet, drinks costs is reasonable and your choice."

exactly.

If it's a Travelodge and there's 6 fellas there paying £60 each for the room and a few cheesy wotsits and lemonade, they're definitely making money.

£10 or £20 each though might be reasonable ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get the whole events thing etc etc

Been here long enough

But today I actually thought hang on is this what this sites anout or become ????

Or is it just me lol

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


" there's 6 fellas there paying £60 each for the room and a few cheesy wotsits "

Presumeably if there are six fellas there will be 6 cheesy wotsits?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" there's 6 fellas there paying £60 each for the room and a few cheesy wotsits

Presumeably if there are six fellas there will be 6 cheesy wotsits? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a group on here that ask for an extortionate amount of money from single guys but because a lot are desperate they pay the money. If they thought about it and didn't subsidies these so called parties they wouldn't exist, sadly others will follow suit to make money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is wrong. But reporting it don't always help.

I've reported someone twice for selling sex tapes and asking for cash. They are still there.

Made no difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" there's 6 fellas there paying £60 each for the room and a few cheesy wotsits

Presumeably if there are six fellas there will be 6 cheesy wotsits? "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So someone posts a meet , but for single men to attend they have to pay a "contribution"

So surely that's against the rules of this site and if it's not or different can people please explain !

It's basically paying for sex but worded different surely ??? "
if youre contributing to hotel room dont see a problem but somebody asked for £80 and I thought that was OTT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is wrong. But reporting it don't always help.

I've reported someone twice for selling sex tapes and asking for cash. They are still there.

Made no difference. "

Well everyone's making money including this site for allowing them on here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple don't go lol no one is forcing you to go to these meets and pay.

We have never asked a guy to contribute to the hotel cost even though they have offered but we have said get the next one which seems fair.

I have seen profiles that state single men must pay for the hotel and not a travel lodge but something classy. Single men are not second class citizens so don't let them treat you like you are, have some self respect and tell them to bugger off.

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