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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. " We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... See what I did there......  | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there...... " | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there...... "Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse Sx | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. " What Bhubaysi said... Thanks for stating that because as a Single Male on Fab, I'd of been ambushed and slated for making such a comment. Lol  | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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"It's just I see what the female as to offer but isn't important to see what the male as to offer I'm not saying all couples profiles but a lot We do send our pictures in pm "I think that's the point that's being made. If you keep photos private and only send them in PM then it's likely others do the same... | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
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Grovelling is required 'Stevie'......."knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction "Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!! | |||
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"Where are the pictures of the male partners on most couples profiles?" thats because most are fake | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction
Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!! "I'm a foot guy, I'll be down there a long time, gotta look after the knees.... | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. " I sign mine off with Mrs if I'm posting Roxy just comments. Also most pics on our profile are of the male. Mrs | |||
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"Because pussy sells lol" yes thats true except in wales where sheep command more look at dolly for an example | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction
Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!!
I'm a foot guy, I'll be down there a long time, gotta look after the knees...."Well last thing you want is a knee replacement operation!!! You would be highly encouraged to worship my feet, time is not an issue as I could check emails/read a book ha ha ha. | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction
Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!!
I'm a foot guy, I'll be down there a long time, gotta look after the knees....
Well last thing you want is a knee replacement operation!!! You would be highly encouraged to worship my feet, time is not an issue as I could check emails/read a book ha ha ha. "I hear crime and punishment is so good it needs read twice.... | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction
Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!!
I'm a foot guy, I'll be down there a long time, gotta look after the knees....
Well last thing you want is a knee replacement operation!!! You would be highly encouraged to worship my feet, time is not an issue as I could check emails/read a book ha ha ha.
I hear crime and punishment is so good it needs read twice...."War and Peace.....!!! | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. We're really bad for not specifying who's commenting..... Yes and it's fine I just assume it's the male then psychologically I think they are single if you get my drift. Communication is important! See what I did there......
Believe me you're preaching to the choir, I was just being deliberately obtuse
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Yes 'Stevie' I am well aware of that!!!
Sorry
Grovelling is required 'Stevie'.......knee pads are in place, the position as been assumed, awaiting further instruction
Knee pads? Lol shoe worship!!!!
I'm a foot guy, I'll be down there a long time, gotta look after the knees....
Well last thing you want is a knee replacement operation!!! You would be highly encouraged to worship my feet, time is not an issue as I could check emails/read a book ha ha ha.
I hear crime and punishment is so good it needs read twice....
War and Peace.....!!!"why not both, back to back, twice | |||
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"Where are the pictures of the male partners on most couples profiles?" hey its the age old question with couples profiles but then one of the tell tale signs that it isnt a couple is that most if not all the pics are of a guy | |||
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"Where are the pictures of the male partners on most couples profiles?" private | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. " 
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzz"fuzz is the woman ok thanks | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks "See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl. | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl. "Does it matter in the forums? | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums? "I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought. | |||
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"It's because the boys are mostly shy and retiring types. Obviously! "I thought so lol..... | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting. " In the forums it's LB that posts but P does read them. When we message it's usually both of us but it's easy to tell who's typing as P's messages are in Geordie. | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums?
I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought. "Possibly. I think that the differing quality, tone and content of answers given to different genders in the forum would change if we weren't aware of the gender of the person we were replying to. Mind you it would make some threads recundant | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums?
I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought. "Could be either of us and doesn't matter, many here hide the profile, it's generally anonymous to a point and does help to allow free thinking, unrestrained posts, next people will complain that they don't want to communicate on here unless a full frontal nude pic and 20 verifications are displayed on the profile x | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums?
I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought.
Could be either of us and doesn't matter, many here hide the profile, it's generally anonymous to a point and does help to allow free thinking, unrestrained posts, next people will complain that they don't want to communicate on here unless a full frontal nude pic and 20 verifications are displayed on the profile x"Okay, as my previous quote. If my gender was not shown would you wonder male or female? I think you would. I think communication is key. | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums?
I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought.
Could be either of us and doesn't matter, many here hide the profile, it's generally anonymous to a point and does help to allow free thinking, unrestrained posts, next people will complain that they don't want to communicate on here unless a full frontal nude pic and 20 verifications are displayed on the profile x
Okay, as my previous quote. If my gender was not shown would you wonder male or female? I think you would. I think communication is key. "I think I've been posting long enough that you should know I'm the female of the couple. If Dick posts he puts Dick at the end. We have male pics on ours admittedly not as many as myself. More of him in private. | |||
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"There are pics of both of us on ours, possibly more of Mr L, but then he's much nicer to look at. " I'd like to discuss this with you at length over a drink or two  | |||
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"We just don't contact couples profiles without pictures of the man or respond if they contract us. We do respect their right to run their profile as they wish though." This 
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums? "yes it does in some threads I think | |||
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"Also with couples I get confused when they comment in the forums which gender is commenting. I wish they would say so cos I see a profile pic of a female and wonder who is actually commenting.
Fuzzfuzz is the woman ok thanks
See we are expected to know who is who! Now where is that crystal ball pmsl.
Does it matter in the forums?
I just like to know, it's communication, if my gender was not displayed wouldn't you wonder? Just a thought.
Could be either of us and doesn't matter, many here hide the profile, it's generally anonymous to a point and does help to allow free thinking, unrestrained posts, next people will complain that they don't want to communicate on here unless a full frontal nude pic and 20 verifications are displayed on the profile x
Okay, as my previous quote. If my gender was not shown would you wonder male or female? I think you would. I think communication is key. "In forums we don't care, in fact it would put a stop to the white knighting if no one could see the gender... | |||
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Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.  | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging. "'The women have to fuck the other husband'? NO this surely can't be going on, it's the woman's choice who she has sex with. | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging. "That's one of the reasons we tend not to engage with profiles with no pictures of the man. It makes certain assumptions about me (f) that I'm not comfortable with. It's unlikely we'd be compatible. | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging. "Lol we would guess this is tongue in cheek | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
Lol we would guess this is tongue in cheek"Not necessarily , but as long as it's reciprocated now and again by the couple meeting another couple with a hot guy and a less attractive lady , it's all good | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging. " Really?!?
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
'The women have to fuck the other husband'? NO this surely can't be going on, it's the woman's choice who she has sex with. " it's all involved choices, surely?
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
That's one of the reasons we tend not to engage with profiles with no pictures of the man. It makes certain assumptions about me (f) that I'm not comfortable with. It's unlikely we'd be compatible." | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
Lol we would guess this is tongue in cheek
Not necessarily , but as long as it's reciprocated now and again by the couple meeting another couple with a hot guy and a less attractive lady , it's all good " | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
Lol we would guess this is tongue in cheek
Not necessarily , but as long as it's reciprocated now and again by the couple meeting another couple with a hot guy and a less attractive lady , it's all good
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging. "What a crock. Think you will find it's the other way around. We look at couples profiles and in most cases it's what's there that puts us off taking it any further. So us not having pics of hubby means he's ugly, dream on. | |||
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"its only ju who plays so no need for a's pics on here" Same for us | |||
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"There are pics of both of us on ours, possibly more of Mr L, but then he's much nicer to look at. I'd like to discuss this with you at length over a drink or two "She's lying R, she's bloody gorgeous!! JG x | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
What a crock.
Think you will find it's the other way around.
We look at couples profiles and in most cases it's what's there that puts us off taking it any further.
So us not having pics of hubby means he's ugly."Ok. | |||
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"They have to hide them or they'd never get meets.
Also many couples don't give a shit about the other woman they will be meeting. The women have to fuck the other husband no matter what he looks like. That's Swinging.
What a crock.
Think you will find it's the other way around.
We look at couples profiles and in most cases it's what's there that puts us off taking it any further.
So us not having pics of hubby means he's ugly.
Ok. "It's true that's why there's no pics of me (kev) on ours don't want ppl to have nightmares lol | |||
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