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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always good to see who you're chatting with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "

I get regular requests from females with no profile asking for a face pic or insisting in one in their profile. My reply to that is you're asking or insisting so you go first. If they refuse then it's always a polite no thanks and I move on. I often have moved on when I read that in anyone's profile anyway. It's a bit shallow in my mind... can have a beautiful face with little else to stimulate.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Are any of them face pics though?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "

If they're contacting you first it's common courtesy in our book to attach a face pic. It doesn't annoy us, we just ignore the message and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is annoying .im open yet i still get asked "is it realy you. Yet they av no pics just a short profile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep whoever messages to ask for facepics shows first - esp. with a profile like yours OP, you already have partial face pics on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone on here does ask so they can see if they want to talk or ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often get messages from people without any verifications or pictures on their profile asking us . We really should start blocking them I suppose

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have numerous photos but I'd still be concerned if someone I was chatting with didn't want to see my face pics. If there's no attraction there is no point. That's not to say its the only deciding factor but it certainly helps!

So I have no issue with anyone asking to see a face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get annoyed. As long as they are willing to reciprocate. Some like to be discreet on here. I respect that they may not want many pictures on public display .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age Ive started sending a face pic...it cuts outs a lot of fruitless banter...if people still want to chat then its a positive thing...especially if they say yes not bad !!...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ever trust internet with my face photos and never ask others to send theirs.

I've missed a fair number of meets because of this, but I know that when I become the PM, noone can bla.c.k.mail me.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

This.

We get annoyed by this too, we show almost all our faces publicly yet still get people asking for our face pics without providing any of themselves.

XX is a sarky bitch though and replies with 'seriously'

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It doesn't annoy me but if you're asking it's only polite to attach one I feel.

What bugs me more is when I get a message saying "got any pics?" from somebody with none. I usually reply "yes, ten more than you do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny when you read a profile and its says they wont be sending any face pics.

Then in the next sentence if you dont send a face pic you wont get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean seriously would you meet people on a date, if you hadn't seen their face picture. We are more than happy to show our face picture if contact is made and then go through the rigmorole of people making excuse like they can't because of their job and crap like that.

We have met people on occasion in our early days of doing this when we were much more naive and 9 times out of 10 it ended up being a complete disaster because we just don't fancy them so no piccy, no likey, simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its funny when you read a profile and its says they wont be sending any face pics.

Then in the next sentence if you dont send a face pic you wont get a reply "

Double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "

its usually me doing the asking TBH...

then if they say they have none I just block them...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have full body pics on public view, when some who have very little of themselves or nothing at all showing it is annoying when they ask to see more and face pics when they have not yet shown us anything of them selves,

other than a thigh or bum

we had a cple show us pics of her bodywise but wouldn't send a pic of him in anyway saying it didn't matter what he looked like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always say..happy to share pics with potential meets..so many pic collectors on here..!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If someone is not prepared to send me a face pic early on in the chat I lose I interest. I need to see a face pic to know whether I want to kiss it or not

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My face is on a few of our public pics but Dicks isn't due to work and we still get asked for face pics from people.

Can say it bothers us but it is nice to see who your talking too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"My face is on a few of our public pics but Dicks isn't due to work and we still get asked for face pics from people.

Can say it bothers us but it is nice to see who your talking too."

Can't not can

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Maybe you're reading it wrong, perhaps these people that just show their bums are asking for a faec pic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this?

If they're contacting you first it's common courtesy in our book to attach a face pic. It doesn't annoy us, we just ignore the message and delete."

Thank you. That's our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messaged back and blocked.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I have no issue with being refused a pic, however, as happened only moments ago I messaged someone politely, they replied, asked me for a pic which I duly sent, they didn't reply or comment and blocked me. I have no issue whatsoever if they have no interest in me but a simple message saying "

thanks for the pic, not for me I'm afraid but have a good evening or good luck" would be welcome and simple manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always good to see who you're chatting with "

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

If the profile has face pics, I'll usually attach mine to a first message.

For profiles that don't include a face, then I don't, though I'll typically say I have a face pic available should they be interested.

Those that demand and aren't prepared to reciprocate can go whistle

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "

Not annoyed as much but does raise my guard up when asked for face pic when they have little or nothing to show. Makes me question if they are genuine or just a pic collector

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We very, very rarely send face pics, especially now, as so many seem to use this site just to get their pics to page one of the hottest pics, or just come to have a wank on cam and go.

If a couple are serious about meeting then we will go on cam with them, so we can see them and speak to them in real time.

With so many fake profiles here we personally think it's the best way that suits us.

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "

No. If there's no attraction there's no point waffling on. If anyone is reluctant -block and move on.

I do send one back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....when we have a fair few public photos to see and they have only two that show nothing other than a bit of bum. They send a message to ask us to send them face pics. Does anyone else get annoyed at this? "
I dont get annoyed but see it as unfair I just always send a face pic with first message or first reply that way the need to ask shouldn't be required

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have no issue with being refused a pic, however, as happened only moments ago I messaged someone politely, they replied, asked me for a pic which I duly sent, they didn't reply or comment and blocked me. I have no issue whatsoever if they have no interest in me but a simple message saying "

thanks for the pic, not for me I'm afraid but have a good evening or good luck" would be welcome and simple manners "

Yes, I agree, once I've entered into conversation if a face pic doesn't appeal, I'll simply comment 'Thanks you're not for me, take care. x'

Only manners.

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