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How do I get a big party for couples and singles in my big house?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for help to arrange a party @ my place and it's not about money I just want everyone to have fun and obviously myself... practicing for when I have my own club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awkward in your own home with a lot of strangers, that's why I hold gang bangs in a hotel, I couldn't relax with a dozen people being here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's enough rooms where I could keep it to say one or two floors and under control, I'd just kick out any wrongins

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

oohh big party in a big house means big dreams.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Looking for help to arrange a party @ my place and it's not about money I just want everyone to have fun and obviously myself... practicing for when I have my own club"

Being honest we doubt it will be very easy.

However big your house might be, it still would not make us interested in going to a party arranged by a single man.

Good luck though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you have to be careful OP, letting a lot of strangers in your home. They may steal things, cause damage or something. XXX

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Try putting a meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's enough rooms where I could keep it to say one or two floors and under control, I'd just kick out any wrongins "

Easier said than done probably x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not rent a hall locally ? not everyone here are as they may appear so I,d be wary of inviting too many to your home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

understood and yes I'd lock up valuables and bring own alcohol too hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's enough rooms where I could keep it to say one or two floors and under control, I'd just kick out any wrongins

Easier said than done probably x"

you couldn't relax yourself with a dozen people given free rein around your place, it wouldn't be easy just to "kick one out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As my house is better for party's and I'd not have to pay the likes of townhouse to rent!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op if you're going to have your own club, then you shouldn't really be needing advice on how to hold a party.

But good luck and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hear you but what can go wrong? If anyone steps out of line I'd have heavys around bouncing them off the path and on there way.... you have huge boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's why I've wanted to have a party or two here see how it goes.. I'm looking at different ways to invest and have fun at the same time x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Try being part of a couple, lots of women especially me find it less threatening.

Oh get a hot tub too.

Host all bi girl nights, couples with bi ladies...works for friends of ours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would I've got heavys to back up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I've got hot tub lovely and yes you make sense completely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm no dreamer nor a show off buddy but let's just say I'm living the dream

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Yes I've got hot tub lovely and yes you make sense completely x"

Try reply and quote then we know who your replying too.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I'm no dreamer nor a show off buddy but let's just say I'm living the dream "

You beat us to it!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm no dreamer nor a show off buddy but let's just say I'm living the dream "
Use the reply+quote button or it doesnt make sense.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Try being part of a couple, lots of women especially me find it less threatening.

Oh get a hot tub too.

Host all bi girl nights, couples with bi ladies...works for friends of ours."

These are all good suggestions. Otherwise it will just like a ruse for a single guy to get meets.

Bun loves the all girl nights, they are a big hit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other thing - have a professional masseur like me on site.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Try being part of a couple, lots of women especially me find it less threatening.

Oh get a hot tub too.

Host all bi girl nights, couples with bi ladies...works for friends of ours.

These are all good suggestions. Otherwise it will just like a ruse for a single guy to get meets.

Bun loves the all girl nights, they are a big hit "

We went to a friends hot tub party recently and it was all couples with bi females bar one single male who honestly didn't get a look in. The ladies were having too much fun without the men.

As always a few drinks then hottub then fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would I've got heavys to back up"

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


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These are all good suggestions. Otherwise it will just like a ruse for a single guy to get meets.

Bun loves the all girl nights, they are a big hit

We went to a friends hot tub party recently and it was all couples with bi females bar one single male who honestly didn't get a look in. The ladies were having too much fun without the men.

As always a few drinks then hottub then fun "

When there is group of truly bi girls, not just fab-bi, it's *lots* of fun. The guys can come in handy later

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It would I've got heavys to back up

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere "

That's right, it needs to be safe feeling, its not an inner city dodgy nightclub. But this shows the experience needed in so many aspects of parties.

OP, you also need to be way more verified to get experience yourself to do this and to give people confidence in you and the event.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Planning parties / organised events is no easy task

It's hard at an established club let alone in a house by someone that's not particularly well known in the scene

One of the biggest concerns people seem to express with house parties is the worry of being video recorded

As much as we all hate to think that could happen unfortunately it does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here before and had loads of verifications and started seeing someone so deleted page! I soon found out single life was more fun and made new page x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x"

lol I'm not saying you are at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True words x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x"

You can say that, but how do party goers get the confidence to know that?

If you've been to clubs or parties, the organisers of good ones aren't doing much playing.

I think you need to re-think if that is your plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On call 5 mins away!! Not walking round my house hahahaha x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"True words x"
use reply+quote, or it makes no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's enough rooms where I could keep it to say one or two floors and under control, I'd just kick out any wrongins "
they may be bigger than you and size counts ya know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hear what your saying but gotta disagree... not going to throw a party and not get involved am I x ps your are stunning by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're stunning by the way.... the finest body I've seen for a while x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then I'd get on the blower and have them evicted to put it nicely ha????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"True words xuse reply+quote, or it makes no sense"

True words..... sorry everyone I've been replying wrongly grrrrr

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hear what your saying but gotta disagree... not going to throw a party and not get involved am I x ps your are stunning by the way x"

Thanks mate, but I'm straight. Plus the Mrs is way sexier than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so the scenario is, you have a load of couples at your place all partying, a couple slip off to do a line or 2, another couple take exception to them doing that and it all kicks off ?? your heavys are 5 minutes away, and your lolling around with your pants round your ankles sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so the scenario is, you have a load of couples at your place all partying, a couple slip off to do a line or 2, another couple take exception to them doing that and it all kicks off ?? your heavys are 5 minutes away, and your lolling around with your pants round your ankles sounds great "

A line? Drugs???? I'd not be bothered about my heavys seeing me in my underwear ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely get a female partner to help host

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

These are all good suggestions. Otherwise it will just like a ruse for a single guy to get meets.

Bun loves the all girl nights, they are a big hit

We went to a friends hot tub party recently and it was all couples with bi females bar one single male who honestly didn't get a look in. The ladies were having too much fun without the men.

As always a few drinks then hottub then fun

When there is group of truly bi girls, not just fab-bi, it's *lots* of fun. The guys can come in handy later "
yes true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the scenario is, you have a load of couples at your place all partying, a couple slip off to do a line or 2, another couple take exception to them doing that and it all kicks off ?? your heavys are 5 minutes away, and your lolling around with your pants round your ankles sounds great

A line? Drugs???? I'd not be bothered about my heavys seeing me in my underwear ????"

yes drugs !! very prevalent at some parties you do know that don't you ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try being part of a couple, lots of women especially me find it less threatening.

Oh get a hot tub too.

Host all bi girl nights, couples with bi ladies...works for friends of ours.

These are all good suggestions. Otherwise it will just like a ruse for a single guy to get meets.

Bun loves the all girl nights, they are a big hit

We went to a friends hot tub party recently and it was all couples with bi females bar one single male who honestly didn't get a look in. The ladies were having too much fun without the men.

As always a few drinks then hottub then fun "

Just hung males hahahaha and I'm taking in everything people are saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One other thing - have a professional masseur like me on site. "
good idea mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no dreamer nor a show off buddy but let's just say I'm living the dream

You beat us to it!

"

X

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what was the title of the SUPERTRAMP song ??????????????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for help to arrange a party @ my place and it's not about money I just want everyone to have fun and obviously myself... practicing for when I have my own club

Being honest we doubt it will be very easy.

However big your house might be, it still would not make us interested in going to a party arranged by a single man.

Good luck though!"
Why is it very hard for single men to arrange a party at there place just wondering

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP please take this the right way, I'm going to be cruel to be kind.

Most of your answers in the thread show that you dont have the experience or knowledge to put on an event like that. People have highlighted their concerns and potential attendees will probably feel the same.

It's a nice, fun idea, but you'd be better off just attending parties or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP please take this the right way, I'm going to be cruel to be kind.

Most of your answers in the thread show that you dont have the experience or knowledge to put on an event like that. People have highlighted their concerns and potential attendees will probably feel the same.

It's a nice, fun idea, but you'd be better off just attending parties or clubs."

You have a right to your opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound very inexperienced if I'm honest

Your whole outlook and attitude towards parties "your heavys " etc

I would suggest attending socials ..getting your name known within circles .. building up trust .. veries. .doing your research..by attending clubs ..and loads more before even thinking about "buying this club" of yours

I have held numerous parties .. and upto now haven't had to rely on "heavys" due to selection process .. veries..people known in the scene .. that doesn't guaranted good behaviour though I realise .. but you come across as very inexperienced

What clubs have you been to ??

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"OP please take this the right way, I'm going to be cruel to be kind.

Most of your answers in the thread show that you dont have the experience or knowledge to put on an event like that. People have highlighted their concerns and potential attendees will probably feel the same.

It's a nice, fun idea, but you'd be better off just attending parties or clubs."

This

OP get a little experience , network and make friends then your party will organise itself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you idea and I like your dream wish I had the cash to set something like that up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about it our friends who host quite often don't play themselves at all. I honestly think you won't get out of it what you want, especially if you think it's preparation for running a club as it looks like bloody hard work and nothing like a party

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Thinking about it our friends who host quite often don't play themselves at all. I honestly think you won't get out of it what you want, especially if you think it's preparation for running a club as it looks like bloody hard work and nothing like a party "

I rarely do at my events either because I'm more concerned that I'm looking after and socialising with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every club I,ve been to the hosts haven't played, they tend to be running around tidying up etc and keeping an eye generally on everyone, there is always going to be someone who drinks too much or trys to bring in a party substance, its not a straightforward thing to arrange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You're stunning by the way.... the finest body I've seen for a while x"
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very uncommon and probably not good practice for the hosts to play on party / club nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP please take this the right way, I'm going to be cruel to be kind.

Most of your answers in the thread show that you dont have the experience or knowledge to put on an event like that. People have highlighted their concerns and potential attendees will probably feel the same.

It's a nice, fun idea, but you'd be better off just attending parties or clubs.

This

OP get a little experience , network and make friends then your party will organise itself x "
he needs somebody into nibblers like you or was it tiddlers

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"every club I,ve been to the hosts haven't played, they tend to be running around tidying up etc and keeping an eye generally on everyone, there is always going to be someone who drinks too much or trys to bring in a party substance, its not a straightforward thing to arrange."

Exactly ... I will wait until after it's over and if I'm log too knackered can have my own little party lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived abroad I use to arrange a party at my place without trouble where people had lots of fun even use my big swimming pool to swim in to get so sober up. So I wish you all the best in getting your party up and running some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x"

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound very inexperienced if I'm honest

Your whole outlook and attitude towards parties "your heavys " etc

I would suggest attending socials ..getting your name known within circles .. building up trust .. veries. .doing your research..by attending clubs ..and loads more before even thinking about "buying this club" of yours

I have held numerous parties .. and upto now haven't had to rely on "heavys" due to selection process .. veries..people known in the scene .. that doesn't guaranted good behaviour though I realise .. but you come across as very inexperienced

What clubs have you been to ??"

Many from the townhouse to place in holland some bad and some very good... I went down more than well.... not saying I'm experienced at all it's my first ... I've got help from a couple now who's just pm me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home"

Won't run out of nothing, 7 bedroom house with 5 bathrooms, next door either way are about 100 yards away haha, so none of that's a problem xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I lived abroad I use to arrange a party at my place without trouble where people had lots of fun even use my big swimming pool to swim in to get so sober up. So I wish you all the best in getting your party up and running some time. "
thank buddy it means a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"every club I,ve been to the hosts haven't played, they tend to be running around tidying up etc and keeping an eye generally on everyone, there is always going to be someone who drinks too much or trys to bring in a party substance, its not a straightforward thing to arrange.

Exactly ... I will wait until after it's over and if I'm log too knackered can have my own little party lmfao "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What club have you been to that has heavys ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You're stunning by the way.... the finest body I've seen for a while xthanks "
not you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What club have you been to that has heavys ?"
mine

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over a year ago

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"What club have you been to that has heavys ? mine"

You've not got a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What club have you been to that has heavys ? mine"

Have you really been to a club ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What club have you been to that has heavys ? mine

Have you really been to a club ?"

Obviously!! Why would I say I've been to many including townhouse one of the best in the country . In wales and Amsterdam x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What club have you been to that has heavys ? mine

You've not got a club "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to OP "fakes and timewasters" should be hung as they piss him off.

And he wants to organise a party at his house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck "

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely get a female partner to help host"

You?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What club have you been to that has heavys ? mine

Have you really been to a club ?

Obviously!! Why would I say I've been to many including townhouse one of the best in the country . In wales and Amsterdam x"

It just seems you don't have any real understanding of what it takes to host a party or club night and if you had been I would of thought you would of had some understanding. You seem very vague in your answers like your bluffing your way through.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking "

Don't forget modest

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking "

Seems odd you haven't had loads of meets and veris. That's confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill keep the "heavies" entertained

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking

Don't forget modest "

Good looking????

We have seen face pics.....

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over a year ago

Yes have to agree with the comment that it's a very risky thing to do inviting a load of strangers to your house. Anecdotally A few years ago we went to a party at a private house over in Derbyshire.

The house was like something out of home and garden magazine. We thought. , this is a bit weird. It turned out the young couple doing it were having a party while their parents were away. Their parents owned the Blue John caverns so were extremely rich and wow what a venue.

However, they spent the whole night mopping up tipped over wine glasses and other liquids , ahmmmmmm, It was surprising how little respect the party goers had for the house. I've never been to anything like it before or since. They were actually rather lucky to get away with it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer posters here back to the well known Supertramp song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you test the water first by keeping it small to start off with. Maybe a couple of couples a single guy and 2/3 single females. Then if that goes ok then maybe gradually start to invite a few more people. Word and mouth is your best advertising I would say if you've hosted a first good party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do "

Nobody said I had experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home

Won't run out of nothing, 7 bedroom house with 5 bathrooms, next door either way are about 100 yards away haha, so none of that's a problem xx"

i bow to your greater knowledge and experience...we are clearly rank amateurs in comparison...look forward to hearing all about the roaring success it'll be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you test the water first by keeping it small to start off with. Maybe a couple of couples a single guy and 2/3 single females. Then if that goes ok then maybe gradually start to invite a few more people. Word and mouth is your best advertising I would say if you've hosted a first good party "
I will do thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home

Won't run out of nothing, 7 bedroom house with 5 bathrooms, next door either way are about 100 yards away haha, so none of that's a problem xx

i bow to your greater knowledge and experience...we are clearly rank amateurs in comparison...look forward to hearing all about the roaring success it'll be..."
lololololol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

Nobody said I had experience x"

Er, you did. You said you had experience of clubs..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes have to agree with the comment that it's a very risky thing to do inviting a load of strangers to your house. Anecdotally A few years ago we went to a party at a private house over in Derbyshire.

The house was like something out of home and garden magazine. We thought. , this is a bit weird. It turned out the young couple doing it were having a party while their parents were away. Their parents owned the Blue John caverns so were extremely rich and wow what a venue.

However, they spent the whole night mopping up tipped over wine glasses and other liquids , ahmmmmmm, It was surprising how little respect the party goers had for the house. I've never been to anything like it before or since. They were actually rather lucky to get away with it to be honest."
thank you but it's mine and I can do what I want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking

Don't forget modest

Good looking????

We have seen face pics.....

"

im not sure that's entirely necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes have to agree with the comment that it's a very risky thing to do inviting a load of strangers to your house. Anecdotally A few years ago we went to a party at a private house over in Derbyshire.

The house was like something out of home and garden magazine. We thought. , this is a bit weird. It turned out the young couple doing it were having a party while their parents were away. Their parents owned the Blue John caverns so were extremely rich and wow what a venue.

However, they spent the whole night mopping up tipped over wine glasses and other liquids , ahmmmmmm, It was surprising how little respect the party goers had for the house. I've never been to anything like it before or since. They were actually rather lucky to get away with it to be honest. thank you but it's mine and I can do what I want x"

Why not start small one man wank party just clean up after yourself

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking

Don't forget modest

Good looking????

We have seen face pics.....

im not sure that's entirely necessary"

Nor was the abuse he gave us in private to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely get a female partner to help host

You?"

Erm no sorry but not ever, you have not come across well on here and whilst wishing you the best of luck we wouldn't attend you party and honestly don't think you will get out of what you want maybe take a step back and reassess what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's very uncommon and probably not good practice for the hosts to play on party / club nights "

We used to, sometimes when hosting we'd play, but we had staff around to support us, hosting a party at your house will be hard work with little reward for you.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's very uncommon and probably not good practice for the hosts to play on party / club nights

We used to, sometimes when hosting we'd play, but we had staff around to support us, hosting a party at your house will be hard work with little reward for you....."

I'd have some nice girls working serving food and drinks.. may cost me a few quid but hey ho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fab when are the invites being sent out ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely get a female partner to help host

You?

Erm no sorry but not ever, you have not come across well on here and whilst wishing you the best of luck we wouldn't attend you party and honestly don't think you will get out of what you want maybe take a step back and reassess what to do "

One across well? Because I'm not a professional at party's?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking

Don't forget modest

Good looking????

We have seen face pics.....

im not sure that's entirely necessary

Nor was the abuse he gave us in private to be honest."

Always one jealous person on here tut tut see you never! Go away please freaks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes have to agree with the comment that it's a very risky thing to do inviting a load of strangers to your house. Anecdotally A few years ago we went to a party at a private house over in Derbyshire.

The house was like something out of home and garden magazine. We thought. , this is a bit weird. It turned out the young couple doing it were having a party while their parents were away. Their parents owned the Blue John caverns so were extremely rich and wow what a venue.

However, they spent the whole night mopping up tipped over wine glasses and other liquids , ahmmmmmm, It was surprising how little respect the party goers had for the house. I've never been to anything like it before or since. They were actually rather lucky to get away with it to be honest. thank you but it's mine and I can do what I want x

Why not start small one man wank party just clean up after yourself "

Why don't you keep your nastiness to yourself

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Definitely get a female partner to help host

You?

Erm no sorry but not ever, you have not come across well on here and whilst wishing you the best of luck we wouldn't attend you party and honestly don't think you will get out of what you want maybe take a step back and reassess what to do

One across well? Because I'm not a professional at party's? "

That's not what they are saying.

If you were generally experienced in swinging and attending clubs and attending parties, your replies would be very different.

You appear not to be, and that's why they are advising that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

Nobody said I had experience x

Er, you did. You said you had experience of clubs.."

Or running one love! I've been to clubs but not ran none.. sorry you've misunderstood or misread x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home

Won't run out of nothing, 7 bedroom house with 5 bathrooms, next door either way are about 100 yards away haha, so none of that's a problem xx

i bow to your greater knowledge and experience...we are clearly rank amateurs in comparison...look forward to hearing all about the roaring success it'll be... lololololol "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not interested in video recording haha, I'm more into getting stuck in the fun than wanking over films of any sort... don't do nothing for me x

who is going to host your party and make sure all of your guests needs are taken care of if youre getting "stuck in"? what if you run out of mixers? what if the toilet gets blocked? what if your neighbours are hammering on the foor to keep the noise down? im not trying to be negative and i like your optimism but when we hold parties, we take it in turns to play if we play at all, so that one of us is always on hand to look after everything else that throwing a party entails...and we only invite people we know well and trust in our home

Won't run out of nothing, 7 bedroom house with 5 bathrooms, next door either way are about 100 yards away haha, so none of that's a problem xx

i bow to your greater knowledge and experience...we are clearly rank amateurs in comparison...look forward to hearing all about the roaring success it'll be... lololololol "

Thanks dude

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

Nobody said I had experience x

Er, you did. You said you had experience of clubs..

Or running one love! I've been to clubs but not ran none.. sorry you've misunderstood or misread x"

Ok. Don't call me 'love' please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if your aware of what's needed to set up a club you don't need advice on how to attract people to a party? Just a thought. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if your aware of what's needed to set up a club you don't need advice on how to attract people to a party? Just a thought. Good luck! "

What you going on about?

I've been to swinging clubs YES!

I've had amazing none swinging parties YES!

But I've never hosted one myself NO!

I've not had a club of my own NO!

Ffs when did I say I've got experience???

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If you're serious about this you need to get your face noticed at swinging clubs/socials etc, No one is going to attend a private party at a single Mans home if they don't know him or at least know a few people who have met you,

Or you could try and arrange some meets at your place with couples then slowly build the amount of people you invite around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

Nobody said I had experience x

Er, you did. You said you had experience of clubs..

Or running one love! I've been to clubs but not ran none.. sorry you've misunderstood or misread x

Ok. Don't call me 'love' please."

Do what I want and call you want I want thanks don't tell me what to do... I've asked for input and advice not a lecture thanks love

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"As I said before put a party in the meets section or invite ppl to your house for a party.

You'll need to invite a lot more than you think as ppl don't show up.

Just because your the host doesn't mean your going to get a fuck

But I'm young hung like a horse and good looking "

That means fuck all.

I'll give you 10/10 for confidence or is it arrogance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely get a female partner to help host

You?

Erm no sorry but not ever, you have not come across well on here and whilst wishing you the best of luck we wouldn't attend you party and honestly don't think you will get out of what you want maybe take a step back and reassess what to do

One across well? Because I'm not a professional at party's?

That's not what they are saying.

If you were generally experienced in swinging and attending clubs and attending parties, your replies would be very different.

You appear not to be, and that's why they are advising that."
well it's up to you to have an opinion like that but your very wrong x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Have you got any experience of parties or clubs because it doesn't sound like you do

Nobody said I had experience x

Er, you did. You said you had experience of clubs..

Or running one love! I've been to clubs but not ran none.. sorry you've misunderstood or misread x

Ok. Don't call me 'love' please.

Do what I want and call you want I want thanks don't tell me what to do... I've asked for input and advice not a lecture thanks love"

You've asked for advice and seem to be struggling to take any.

You struggle understanding peoples answers.

You dont have the experience or people skills to do it.

But good luck trying Sweetheart.

Ps I'm the male half, that's another skill to try to learn..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if your aware of what's needed to set up a club you don't need advice on how to attract people to a party? Just a thought. Good luck!

What you going on about?

I've been to swinging clubs YES!

I've had amazing none swinging parties YES!

But I've never hosted one myself NO!

I've not had a club of my own NO!

Ffs when did I say I've got experience??? "

I never said you had experience? I said if you are aware- if your setting up your own club in the future as you say then you must be aware of what it takes to set up? If not, I wish you very good luck.

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa


"When I lived abroad I use to arrange a party at my place without trouble where people had lots of fun even use my big swimming pool to swim in to get so sober up. So I wish you all the best in getting your party up and running some time. "

why don't you go and help him then? you might get lucky and break your 21 years with no meets drought

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"what was the title of the SUPERTRAMP song ?????????????????????????? "

Dreamer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)"

what he said

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)"

Your partner has big tits and a great bod

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

what he said "

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me "

Ok, we'll step in. Gorgeous pics, very sexy xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

Ok, we'll step in. Gorgeous pics, very sexy xx"

Aww thank you x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

Ok, we'll step in. Gorgeous pics, very sexy xx

Aww thank you x "

No probs, we'll see you at op's party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would I've got heavys to back up

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere "

How intimidating would it be having a load of 'heavies' there

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me "

Haha

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

Ok, we'll step in. Gorgeous pics, very sexy xx

Aww thank you x

No probs, we'll see you at op's party "

Damn right...

I think the invites lost in the post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

Haha "

Thank you both x

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Throwing a party is hard fucking work. All the promotion and prep, then hosting the event and keeping everyone happy and making sure everyone is sticking to the rules. And I do it in a venue designed for swinging parties with a team supporting me.

One bit of advice for you is... get waterproof sheets for your mattresses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Try organising a social in your area! Open it up to all and get to know people (network) before trying to organise parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

Your partner has big tits and a great bod

"

Yeah... I know pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walter Mitty is alive and well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would I've got heavys to back up

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere

How intimidating would it be having a load of 'heavies' there"

As a single woman I'd feel safer if there were some kind of security, the same as I do in a club or bar. After reading some of the experiences on here a security team sounds great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I lived abroad I use to arrange a party at my place without trouble where people had lots of fun even use my big swimming pool to swim in to get so sober up. So I wish you all the best in getting your party up and running some time. thank buddy it means a lot "
you're are most welcome at less you get some good nice respond on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the scenario is, you have a load of couples at your place all partying, a couple slip off to do a line or 2, another couple take exception to them doing that and it all kicks off ?? your heavys are 5 minutes away, and your lolling around with your pants round your ankles sounds great

A line? Drugs???? I'd not be bothered about my heavys seeing me in my underwear ????

yes drugs !! very prevalent at some parties you do know that don't you ??"

Are these the kinds of parties you go to? I'd have a strictly no drugs policy of I had a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the scenario is, you have a load of couples at your place all partying, a couple slip off to do a line or 2, another couple take exception to them doing that and it all kicks off ?? your heavys are 5 minutes away, and your lolling around with your pants round your ankles sounds great

A line? Drugs???? I'd not be bothered about my heavys seeing me in my underwear ????

I've been to a few parties and clubs in my time and very few clubs have needed major security. Drugs I've seen what I think are a few people on drugs but nothing major to be perfectly honest.

I have seen women the worst for drink more than men in all honesty

yes drugs !! very prevalent at some parties you do know that don't you ??

Are these the kinds of parties you go to? I'd have a strictly no drugs policy of I had a party."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you are serious then go to clubs and socials, get known and invite people you meet and who will feel safe in your company and who you wil trust in your house.

But as many others have said, the desire to get stuck in suggests you have no real idea of what goes on at larger parties. And the presence of heavies (something about that word suggests something a world away from licenced security staff) and your assumption that the guests will want to play with you creates an image most people would actively avoid.

Oh and it doesn;t matter how big your house is, that isn't what people are looking for from a host

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

This is a windup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if you are serious then go to clubs and socials, get known and invite people you meet and who will feel safe in your company and who you wil trust in your house.

But as many others have said, the desire to get stuck in suggests you have no real idea of what goes on at larger parties. And the presence of heavies (something about that word suggests something a world away from licenced security staff) and your assumption that the guests will want to play with you creates an image most people would actively avoid.

Oh and it doesn;t matter how big your house is, that isn't what people are looking for from a host"
You can be serious even if you go to clubs or socials your not guarantee anything fun because if your face does not fit no one will talk to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if you are serious then go to clubs and socials, get known and invite people you meet and who will feel safe in your company and who you wil trust in your house.

But as many others have said, the desire to get stuck in suggests you have no real idea of what goes on at larger parties. And the presence of heavies (something about that word suggests something a world away from licenced security staff) and your assumption that the guests will want to play with you creates an image most people would actively avoid.

Oh and it doesn;t matter how big your house is, that isn't what people are looking for from a host

You can be serious even if you go to clubs or socials your not guarantee anything fun because if your face does not fit no one will talk to you"

I think you are missing my point or taking that sentence out of contect. But to be blunt if the OP is the sort pf person that is ignored at clubs (and nothing he;s said suggests that) then they are probably not going to be great party hosts

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By *.spot77Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I have tried to hold a party at my place and trust me I got lots of people who were coming but on the night no one turned out so I suggest you take the time to meet genuine people who are verified and have pic's to see and do your home work and never give your home house number just the post code and ask them to send a message to say that they are outside also go to a few clubs and put the word about it and see what happens all the best for you and say what types are welcome and keep it to a minimum for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say good luck, I would love the chance to start a club. We really need one by us!

Hope goes well.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I have tried to hold a party at my place and trust me I got lots of people who were coming but on the night no one turned out so I suggest you take the time to meet genuine people who are verified and have pic's to see and do your home work and never give your home house number just the post code and ask them to send a message to say that they are outside also go to a few clubs and put the word about it and see what happens all the best for you and say what types are welcome and keep it to a minimum for the first time "

We would never ever attend a party organised by a single man, and we guess you found out most other people won't either.

We honestly don't think that will change and single men will find it very hard to get people to turn up to a party they arrange.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

This was fun to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeeeah

I think a few people would be up for this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I say good luck, I would love the chance to start a club. We really need one by us!

Hope goes well."
thank you bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, if you are serious then go to clubs and socials, get known and invite people you meet and who will feel safe in your company and who you wil trust in your house.

But as many others have said, the desire to get stuck in suggests you have no real idea of what goes on at larger parties. And the presence of heavies (something about that word suggests something a world away from licenced security staff) and your assumption that the guests will want to play with you creates an image most people would actively avoid.

Oh and it doesn;t matter how big your house is, that isn't what people are looking for from a host

You can be serious even if you go to clubs or socials your not guarantee anything fun because if your face does not fit no one will talk to you

I think you are missing my point or taking that sentence out of contect. But to be blunt if the OP is the sort pf person that is ignored at clubs (and nothing he;s said suggests that) then they are probably not going to be great party hosts"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, if you are serious then go to clubs and socials, get known and invite people you meet and who will feel safe in your company and who you wil trust in your house.

But as many others have said, the desire to get stuck in suggests you have no real idea of what goes on at larger parties. And the presence of heavies (something about that word suggests something a world away from licenced security staff) and your assumption that the guests will want to play with you creates an image most people would actively avoid.

Oh and it doesn;t matter how big your house is, that isn't what people are looking for from a host

You can be serious even if you go to clubs or socials your not guarantee anything fun because if your face does not fit no one will talk to you

I think you are missing my point or taking that sentence out of contect. But to be blunt if the OP is the sort pf person that is ignored at clubs (and nothing he;s said suggests that) then they are probably not going to be great party hosts"
joking aren't you? I got so much attention as I wasn't part of the following sex case type of males !! I was patient and got lots of fun every time! Thanks for your concern though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would I've got heavys to back up

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere

How intimidating would it be having a load of 'heavies' there

As a single woman I'd feel safer if there were some kind of security, the same as I do in a club or bar. After reading some of the experiences on here a security team sounds great.

"

Safety is paramount

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite "

No freak males invited... I've got a biggie myself enough to go around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Throwing a party is hard fucking work. All the promotion and prep, then hosting the event and keeping everyone happy and making sure everyone is sticking to the rules. And I do it in a venue designed for swinging parties with a team supporting me.

One bit of advice for you is... get waterproof sheets for your mattresses "

I've got help now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would I've got heavys to back up

Would never go to a party where heavys are needed not conducive to relaxed swinging party atmosphere

How intimidating would it be having a load of 'heavies' there"
wouldn't have you there anyway so you need not worry ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me

Ok, we'll step in. Gorgeous pics, very sexy xx

Aww thank you x

No probs, we'll see you at op's party "

Didn't invite you and wouldn't sorry too rude for my party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When organising parties it isn't the size of your house or the size of your cock that really matters.

It's far more important that you have great organisational skills, that you are genuine and friendly and that you are able to build a sense of trust in those who you invite.

Strong interpersonal skills are paramount.

But seeing how well you've done getting on with the couples in this thread this shouldn't be an issue!

Well done and good luck!

(And before you say that I've got big tits or a great bod or some such nonsense, were a couple and I'm the bloke)

what he said

Ha I'm the female and he's not said anything nice about me "

I have said your gorgeous x

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"This was fun to read "

It was like watching that old programme Jackanory!!

They told great stories.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite

No freak males invited... I've got a biggie myself enough to go around "

The sign of a good club host is one that keeps his clothes on and dosent make people feel obligated to play with him. Start small, maybe aim for six guests and see how it goes. Remember you are a single man, nobody knows or trusts you. Earn trust dont expect it. Expect to make a financial loss. Make it clear to "your heavies" that they also won't be playing. And remember if they have to get "heavy" with anyone they'll probably get charged with assault. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite

No freak males invited... I've got a biggie myself enough to go around "

But who will keep you company?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nope you said
"Yes I've got hot tub lovely and yes you make sense completely x"

No gorgeous in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite

No freak males invited... I've got a biggie myself enough to go around "
i see well that fine as i too ugly for Anyone here lol

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Risky!! GOOD LUCK!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Nope you saidYes I've got hot tub lovely and yes you make sense completely x

No gorgeous in there.

"

Eeewww I think I said it to some bloke by mistake, I said your stunning to a man instead! And the bloke said thank??

Anyway... you're gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you've scared diggler off... What a guy! Can't wait for the invite

No freak males invited... I've got a biggie myself enough to go around

The sign of a good club host is one that keeps his clothes on and dosent make people feel obligated to play with him. Start small, maybe aim for six guests and see how it goes. Remember you are a single man, nobody knows or trusts you. Earn trust dont expect it. Expect to make a financial loss. Make it clear to "your heavies" that they also won't be playing. And remember if they have to get "heavy" with anyone they'll probably get charged with assault. Enjoy. "

Well if they don't like my being naked and running a party then they can not come or leave! I'm me and I'll get this to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This was fun to read

It was like watching that old programme Jackanory!!

They told great stories."

Nobody cares what you think go away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have tried to hold a party at my place and trust me I got lots of people who were coming but on the night no one turned out so I suggest you take the time to meet genuine people who are verified and have pic's to see and do your home work and never give your home house number just the post code and ask them to send a message to say that they are outside also go to a few clubs and put the word about it and see what happens all the best for you and say what types are welcome and keep it to a minimum for the first time

We would never ever attend a party organised by a single man, and we guess you found out most other people won't either.

We honestly don't think that will change and single men will find it very hard to get people to turn up to a party they arrange."

You wasn't invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are actually serious about this, I would second the earlier suggestion that you pair up with someone, probably best to be a lady, who is experienced at hosting successful parties.

Getting the balance of attendees who will potentially get on with one another is your first battle. On the numbers game, however many say they will attend, until you're established and trusted, only 50% will turn up. There's a heck of a lot of prep work involved and, despite your assumptions to the contrary, as host you will absolutely spend your time at the event making sure all is well and dealing with unforeseen hiccups.

When/if you do find a joint host, could I also suggest that they handle the comms and marketing as it may not be your forte.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You wasn't invited "

Good start!

I would rather pay a club to take the strain to be honest. They have all the insurances, fire certificates etc etc (well, the reputable ones do). They do all the boring stuff like check the guest list, manage the booze and nibbles etc, and you can have the fun. No worries about family heirlooms being nicked or broken, or having to put all your stuff into storage, or furniture getting damaged.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If you're going to run a party like you ran this thread i don't think it's going to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a number of house parties. We ensure that we know the majority of guests, or we'll take referrals from friends we know and trust. We ensure the people we invite are likely to want to play with each other.

Mrs

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Well I'm glad I won't be getting an invite

Good luck OP, hope it goes well for you

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