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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Be a bugger if none of the 11 felt the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, you do you. There's no point meeting people you don't want to now is there?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I am extremely picky ... Some would say I'm too picky but I don't care - that's me

Be the swinger you want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

That many...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nope it's not too picky, no such thing. So you've met one, have you contacted the other 10?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never be to picky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually find that those who complain that others are too picky are the people who find themselves excluded by such pickiness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! It's refreshing - especially here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too picky doesn't exist. Being picky is a good thing. You then meet the people you really want to and it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

It's not picky at all, I think it's the nature of the site to be honest, there's plenty of people that by their profile, we wouldn't consider meeting at all, but face to face at a club is a different story.

Pretty much why we generally only meet people at the club and don't bother arranging meets on here.

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By *punkymonkey40Man
over a year ago

derby

I think we are all picky in some way. Every woman I have messaged I do not tick their boxes. And the one guy asking me if I am honey for the past few months is not for me lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I don't think you can be too picky as long as you aren't getting too frustrated over it.

But really only 11?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim "

Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!

It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"
awwwww why not 13 then unlucky for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim

Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!

It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? "

If he says Janine Lindemulder, I'm gonna cut him!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim

Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!

It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ??

If he says Janine Lindemulder, I'm gonna cut him! "

Sharings caring haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim

Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!

It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? "
he loves tribbers

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim

Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!

It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? he loves tribbers "

Haha touché

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at."

Tbf OP I rarely see someone I really fancy and prefer to actually meet someone in a club as for me it can be many things that make me want to get naughty with someone ... and those things can't always be seen at the end of a camera or keyboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at."

Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

Tbf OP I rarely see someone I really fancy and prefer to actually meet someone in a club as for me it can be many things that make me want to get naughty with someone ... and those things can't always be seen at the end of a camera or keyboard "
so true I love fibbers to ......I mean tribbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy "

Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not 10 or 12 but exactly 11 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

That's about 10 more than me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not 10 or 12 but exactly 11 ? "

What can I say, I have a basic grasp of numeracy.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Not 10 or 12 but exactly 11 ? "

So it appears lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky."

I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you messaged the said 11?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not 10 or 12 but exactly 11 ?

So it appears lol "
he should name them give us a clue what the pickyness is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky.

I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer' "

I would discount someone also on their user name, #pussypounder etc nahhhhh pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you messaged the said 11?"

I've met 3, I chat with 5 of them, perve at 2 and 1 I don't want to blow it with so I'm choosing my time wisely to follow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you messaged the said 11?

I've met 3, I chat with 5 of them, perve at 2 and 1 I don't want to blow it with so I'm choosing my time wisely to follow up."

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With 26000 users...... what would make you think your overly picky!!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

100% picky here.

If you're not what we like then why would we??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Be a bugger if none of the 11 felt the same "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think anyone can be too picky. We all want to meet people we like. Its when your expectations are unrealistic that theres a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With 26000 users...... what would make you think your overly picky!! "

There's nowhere near 11 on here I would meet sexually.

Picky and proud!

I also like a guy who has high standards and wouldn't shag just anyone just because he was horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good way to be OP. Don't change for anyone....change for the right one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be to picky ....but just because you chat with someone here doesn't mean your going to fuck them ....picky for sex yes ...but for friendship and a giggle not so picky unless they prove to be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy

Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?"

Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults

Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them

Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"100% picky here.

If you're not what we like then why would we??"

Picky isn't just about looks either.

A message can say a lot about the person sending it along with what they have in their Veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% picky here.

If you're not what we like then why would we??

Picky isn't just about looks either.

A message can say a lot about the person sending it along with what they have in their Veri's."

Looks can often be deceiving... put it lower on the list I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??

I don't handle rejection too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??

I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??

I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??

I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky.

I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer'

I would discount someone also on their user name, #pussypounder etc nahhhhh pass thanks "

I'm so glad I didn't go with my first choice name of StormageddonAnalDepthChargeMcThruster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy

Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?

Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults

Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them

Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal "

Ok...shush now, grown ups are talking.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No.

Who people choose to meet, or not as the case maybe, is up to them.

Why meet people, that you're not really interested/attracted too, just for the sake of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is some people on here are not picky at all. Who wants to shag somoeone that's been with everyone! I set high standards and expect any lady I'm with to have high standards. I may not get Many meets but I can assure you they are quality meets

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky."

This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky is not meeting someone because they don't like coffee. Not finding someone attactive isn't being picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky.

This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off"

Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks- does it bother you?

I only have 2 people I'd meet off here. Any little thing puts me off. People would call me frigid no doubt and I couldn't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can still be picky if they meet 30 people a month. Where's the limit? Maybe they turned down 1,000 and only found 30 they liked. Picky.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky.

This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off"

think it just happens. you spend you time experimenting and then just don't really find what you actually want and start ruling people out for the most stupid of reasons, or your standards go too high coz i think deep down you know what you want isn't on here (this is what happened with me anyway).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a bugger if none of the 11 felt the same "

Pretentiousness for ya lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Picky, no.

What's the point in building a dynamic that's not right, 90% of thre fun, to me, is fancying the pants off someone, and the anticipation of what will happen, then playing with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play with the guys I connect with. I don't know if that's picky or not. That being said we only play with a few guys, but that's due to time constraints more than pickiness. There are probably plenty of guys on Fab I could have some fun with, but I'll never know because sadly we don't have time to find out.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really think looking on here and being picky, kinda defeats the object of swinging, we are a little picky for the first meet and then very picky for subsequent meets i.e. They look fun and nice let's play and if that's great let's play again, if the plays not great then thanks but not again, so our analysis comes after the first play not before, so OP open your mind, don't prejudge, meet some people, some of them may blow your mind......

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Be a bugger if none of the 11 felt the same "

Wouldn't it just?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"
no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn down more than I accept. It's my right to be picky (if that's what it is).

Stick to your guns.....don't compromise. It will make you feel dirty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.

Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy

Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?

Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults

Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them

Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal

Ok...shush now, grown ups are talking."

Pulls up a chair, reaches for the popcorn.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??

I don't handle rejection too well "

FFS I need to know, am I one of the chosen 11??

Got a feeling I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky?? no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends as for those who say they not picky they are not telling the truth "

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

*wonders how long it took to review every female profile to get that shortlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

Yep. I want a local woman to meet. If I was less picky and would settle for one offs with men in Scotland I'd be sorted.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.

Define picky.

I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?

We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!

Some people need to get over themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky is good... goes to show you have morals and standards

A lot on here seem to lack that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picky is good... goes to show you have morals and standards

A lot on here seem to lack that "
morning beautiful are you picky ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.

Define picky.

I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?

We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!

Some people need to get over themselves! "
trawling .......net out picking up anything that moves ha

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By *ammy-leeWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm very picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very picky "
are you have you been to dentist ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.

Define picky.

I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?

We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!

Some people need to get over themselves! "

That's where we slightly differ. I'm not "trawling"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky?? no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends"

That's not true. A lot of people don't have time to play very much, and in the time they do have for the lifestyle they already have enough friends. As I said in my earlier post, our limited amount of meets are due to time constraints not pickiness. But if all our friends on the swing scene disappeared we would start meeting new people again. And we would meet the ones that we liked best. But I would hardly say that meeting the ones we like best is picky. Surely everyone will go for their favourite?

Mrs

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

You have to be picky. Otherwise you'd get very unsatisfying experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really think looking on here and being picky, kinda defeats the object of swinging, we are a little picky for the first meet and then very picky for subsequent meets i.e. They look fun and nice let's play and if that's great let's play again, if the plays not great then thanks but not again, so our analysis comes after the first play not before, so OP open your mind, don't prejudge, meet some people, some of them may blow your mind...... "

I would agree with that. If the fun dries up from the chosen few, it might be worth giving someone else a chance. It's very hard to make a judgement on just from a Fab profile.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

old saying is you don't have to have to look at the mantel piece to poke the fire,

Of course you have the right to be picky what's the point in doing something if your not going to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picky is good... goes to show you have morals and standards

A lot on here seem to lack that morning beautiful are you picky ? "
I'm quite picky

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"old saying is you don't have to have to look at the mantel piece to poke the fire,

Of course you have the right to be picky what's the point in doing something if your not going to enjoy it "

Lots on here don't know what a mantel piece is LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??"

It's preference not picky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to be picky. Otherwise you'd get very unsatisfying experiences"

This I agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...

Is that being too picky??

It's not picky at all, I think it's the nature of the site to be honest, there's plenty of people that by their profile, we wouldn't consider meeting at all, but face to face at a club is a different story.

Pretty much why we generally only meet people at the club and don't bother arranging meets on here."

I have found that. Messaged some people and been ignored but when they met me they changed their minds. I even ended up dating one woman off her who ignored my message lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We prefer socials and clubs ,as it can be quite frustrating when there are no pics of both parties on many profiles.I wont even consider a profile with no pics of the Mr,so i feel sorry for Jack lol.Saying that he has my full permission to meet alone ,as its rare to find couples that we both fancy and click with.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picky is good... goes to show you have morals and standards

A lot on here seem to lack that "

How do you classify what morals and standards are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am picky and I'll be damned if I meet someone who does not push my buttons!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Picky, selective, particular, fussy..call it what you will OP and it's totally your decision, nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it more as preference/being selective. You should never have to compromise on that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To know what you seek is a good thing - and savouring it when it's secured is delicious - it's like gold panning ... enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick the ones I want to meet....that's being picky

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