FabSwingers.com forum: Are we freaks??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing happens to us but with couples

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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lol, was not expecting that.

but yeah most men on here are not single.

try out diff times for wanting meets, such as times when genuinely single men and married men would be available to test out that. dinnertime meets gonna get loads of attached guys nipping out for a quickie, same for on their way home from work. any other time and you'll struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

mostly they are all just pish and wind...

and probably attached so as you say, they cant meet on a Saturday night as they are taking the wife to bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep happens to us too, in fact we kinda put them up for a laugh now, don't think we've ever had a meet from putting up a meet, people sh@t themselves that if they message they might actually commit themselves to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of guys that claim can meet anytime but as soon as we suggest a weekend evening they normally claim a friend's party is on or similar but say they are free Tuesday between 2 and 4pm

Luckily we have found one that can meet at weekends who is not married but it has taken a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as a single guy who has a son and a full time job, the only times I cant meet is when they come 1st. They will always be 1st.

I have had similar issues with couples who say they want to meet and have been blocked mid conversation.

I think its down to who the person/couple are. Ive got abit of a knack for spotting the timewasters, however I much prefer to meet at clubs now and cant remember the last time I arranged a meet anywhere else.

It is a shame that some people mess this site up for others, maybe a majority but its not just single men, its a Fab problem in general. I started "A few bad apples" thread about the same issue. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve only ever had one meet from putting up a meet. I don't think people use the meet bit all that much. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well as a single guy who has a son and a full time job, the only times I cant meet is when they come 1st. They will always be 1st.

I have had similar issues with couples who say they want to meet and have been blocked mid conversation.

We can only play due to Kids too. Mainly meeting in clubs ourselves.

But being greedy works best at home for us.

Just saying it's a lot harder to arrange than you'd first imagine.

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By *rsannemacCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

exactly the same for us, everyone is dying to meet you falling all over themselves, then you post a meet site becomes a bloody ghost town.

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By *rsannemacCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

and op your profile is fkn smoking hot xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met single guys for MFM, MFMMMM. Not struggled at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

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I'm totally free but ive got a meet in Lancaster Saturday

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

Same here. It's been over a year since we've found guys by putting up meet invites.

So now we do our own searching and don't rely on guys making first contact.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Yep happens to us too, in fact we kinda put them up for a laugh now, don't think we've ever had a meet from putting up a meet, people sh@t themselves that if they message they might actually commit themselves to meet

xx"

chams for us

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we only meet in clubs now, had a good couple of years meeting business guys in hotels but became too much hard work to sort out. We have, however, arranged a social tomorrow with a guy we're keen to meet, but having given him a venue/contact number he's gone bloody quiet, so time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have almost given up finding guys on here , many say they are interested then wimp out when we agree to meet them, had one guy, sent him a time and day he said he couldn't meet then due to work when he had earlier said he would be free, we tried to message him back and he had blocked us,

we find guys at clubs as we can check them out before we make him an offer and he is already there for instant fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

Lots of people meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have almost given up finding guys on here , many say they are interested then wimp out when we agree to meet them, had one guy, sent him a time and day he said he couldn't meet then due to work when he had earlier said he would be free, we tried to message him back and he had blocked us,

we find guys at clubs as we can check them out before we make him an offer and he is already there for instant fun"

That's crazy we've never struggled, all the guys always turn up.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

As a genuinely single male. If I lived in your area, I would meet you guys up, genuinely.

Just like ladies and couples though, single blokes also have a life outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I read about all the single guys whinging that they get no action on here.

Yet as soon as we put up a meet, all the messages dry up.

So are we the oddballs on here because we actually meet??

I personally think too many of the 'single' guys on here are far from single and can only meet at times that they can get away with. Saturday nights are obviously a dead zone.

Bang on with that statement

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"we only meet in clubs now, had a good couple of years meeting business guys in hotels but became too much hard work to sort out. We have, however, arranged a social tomorrow with a guy we're keen to meet, but having given him a venue/contact number he's gone bloody quiet, so time will tell"

Update on this one, guy mailed at 5am to say how keen he was to meet, tried to solicit some sex pics, and hey we sat in pub carpark for 30mins waiting for a no-show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another perspective from a single guy going to a meet, and thus is no way of justifying the dickheads who waste time. However I was very apprehensive the 1st few times I went over to meet someone, in case it was a house full of guys ready to rob me or sexually assaulted/beat me up. I know I was very nervous about this. Neither ever happened but I know its something I think about.

I usually only play in my Local club now (Amours). Had much better time and is safe and secure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just another perspective from a single guy going to a meet, and thus is no way of justifying the dickheads who waste time. However I was very apprehensive the 1st few times I went over to meet someone, in case it was a house full of guys ready to rob me or sexually assaulted/beat me up. I know I was very nervous about this. Neither ever happened but I know its something I think about.

I usually only play in my Local club now (Amours). Had much better time and is safe and secure"

I have to say I have often said to the missus that I don't think I could be the single guy. What you have just said would be a concern plus I would be a little worried about how her husband would react at the sight of me fucking her, reality might not be a turn on for some men and lastly the pressure to perform might get to me so hats off to the single guys that do turn up, I could imagine it can be quite nerve wracking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only play in my Local club now (Amours). Had much better time and is safe and secure"

I think similar to this as well, you never know what you're walking into, have had a meet yet, but plenty of talk beforehand and telling someone where i am going will most likely clam me down before going to the meet when it happens.

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm a single guy who has no problems meeting people. Checking out your profile you've excluded a whole group which includes me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd gladly meet but I guess I just dont meet anybodys requirements just yet and i'm a single guy...I mean, i'm a genuine single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single live alone 3 bedrooms pop in anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally honest about being attached but even after finding couples or ladies that are ok with that and my age I get blocked for asking where is best for them to meet so it not that I'm not willing to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when I read profile of those of who meeting in my area they not meet my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a single guy who has no problems meeting people. Checking out your profile you've excluded a whole group which includes me lmao"

Called preferences my friend.

Don't worry, we get our meets. It's just funny that putting a meet up has such a dramatic effect on the number of messages we receive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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